Redefinewisdom

How are your relationships?

August 13th, 2023

Many people do not know the importance of the beauty of relationships in our lives. Today’s man does not give importance to relationships. This is the reason why he has become lonely in his own house. Money is the reason for the biggest quarrel. Today’s man does not think that money is immovable, it cannot stay with us forever. Love bought by giving wealth does not have the fragrance that real love has.

A very rich man lived in a village. He had two sons. He was living happily with his family. In the name of the family, he had only wife and two children. When both the sons grew up, they started quarreling with each other over money. Seeing the quarrel of the children, the father started laughing at them. So the children said father here we are fighting so much and you are laughing. Then the father said that you are fighting for such a small property, you do not know how much more property we have. Then the boys said where is your property, show us also.

The next day the father left for the village with his two sons. Because his ancestral property was in the village itself. When he reached the village, he saw that his mansion had turned into ruins. The jungle is becoming a jungle all around the haveli. Seeing this, the father started crying sitting there. So the boys asked father why are you crying? Then he told his children that I had fought a lot with my elder brother for this mansion. Defeated, my elder brother gave me this mansion and himself settled abroad. Till today after going abroad, he did not inquire about my health. He broke all relations with me. Now I have only you two and your mother in the name of family. You used to have an aunt. My sister said that we should not divide father’s property. Whoever wants to stay here should go and stay here for a few days. Because our childhood was spent in this mansion. We had happy moments with each other. Staying here, we had seen the story of my father from poverty to richness. Even after my sister explained so much, I did not agree. And got this mansion named after him. My sister also got angry with me because of this decision of mine. After this incident, he also never inquired about my well-being. I became all alone in this world.

When both of you were fighting, I was laughing because you are also fighting for such a small thing. I was remembering my past. I was laughing at my stupidity. But I don’t want you to do what I did. Just as I became familyless in this world, so you also become. We didn’t bring the property for which we are fighting, did we? That’s why always believe in your karma.

If you have passion, then no power in the world is such that it does not fall at your feet. But relationships will never fall at your feet. Relationships are very fragile, learn to handle them. Just like a knot in a thread, it is difficult to untie it; similarly, a knot in a relationship is also difficult to untie. And even if it is opened, the thread does not remain like before, it becomes crooked.

It is believed that after coming to this world, we get many friends and relatives. But blood relations are only of blood. There is that yearning in a blood relationship which is not there in a made relationship.

Once upon a time, two friends were sitting under a tree in a village. Both were talking to each other and while talking, there was an argument between them. One of them got so angry that he slapped the other. But the one who was slapped did not say anything. He simply wrote in the soil that today my best friend slapped me. After writing this, he started going towards home. The other friend who had slapped him was also following him. Now there was estrangement between the two. Both were not talking to each other. While he was on his way home, a bull came running and knocked down the friend who had been slapped. The one who slapped was walking behind. When I saw my friend fall in front of me, I could not help it. He raised her holding her hand. Cleaned the dust from his body. And started looking around to find some ointment to apply on the injury he had suffered. The friend who was hurt this time wrote on his purse with a pin that today my friend has restored his friendship by lifting me who had fallen. Then his friend asked him why do you keep writing like this again and again?

So the friend replied, when you slapped me, I wrote on the ground so that it would be erased by being crushed by the feet of passers-by. And I never remember And this time I scratched my purse with a pin so that it never gets erased. We should always remember this story. Whenever someone hurts you, try to forget it. And if the same person ever does any good to you, never forget him. Because the forgotten in the morning comes home in the evening, then it is not called forgotten. In the matter of relationships, let us all become children, who quarrel in one minute and befriend in another minute. The purpose of their quarrel is not to hurt anyone’s heart.
Prayer is big or medicine?

August 13th, 2023

The elders have rightly said that do not be proud. That we are feeding others. Who knows, we ourselves are eating from the fortune of others.

A restaurant was very famous. A huge crowd used to gather there early in the morning. Many people used to come there to eat. Taking advantage of this crowd, a man would come and quietly go away with the food. a man used to watch his foot always that it eats everyday and walks quietly. He started keeping an eye on her everyday. Then thought this is a betrayal. He should have spoken to the owner of the hotel. But he did not get a chance for a day or two. Then one day he spoke to the owner. That every day a man goes to your place and eats and does not give money. So the hotel owner said this thing is not new to me. Many people have said this to me. But you know the crowd in my hotel is also because of the same man.

How is that I asked. So the owner said, do you know that the man who goes without paying every day is a beggar and lives under the adjacent stand. You know, one day I reached that stand while following him. So saw that he was saying to God, that God you did very well today that there was so much crowd there. And no one saw me eating.

Then the owner said, when I opened the restaurant, there was no crowd in my restaurant for many years. And suddenly one day this beggar came. He ate the food and started leaving. I felt like stopping it and asking for money. Did the voice come from inside my mind or not? Only after 1 week, I saw that the crowd started increasing at my place. One day I followed it. So show me, I was asking God that there should be such a crowd that no one should see me eating.

This is probably the result of his prayer. Which is running most of my restaurant today. I had worked very hard to run like this. Did a lot of advertisements. Many times people were fed food for free. But today, due to his prayer, my fortune shone. So don’t consider anyone small in life. Prayer has more power than medicine.

There are many people in our real life who play an important part in our life, but sometimes it happens that we do not even know their name. Unknowingly some small people whom you help a little and they bless you for the whole life. That’s why if God has given you, then help everyone a little bit. Don’t know whose blessings have become medicine for you.
there is no one in the world

August 13th, 2023

There is no one of our own in the world, thousands of articles have been written on this. All religious books scholars have always said that no one is our own in the world. Everything means relationships. As long as you have what they mean, they are yours. If you have nothing then no one will be your own. The matter of the parents who gave birth is different. You must have seen your chameleon changing colour. But no one knows when humans change color. In earlier times, when there was an injury, people used to apply turmeric and lime. Today everything has changed, people tell in status what happened to him.

That’s why if you live in this world then live like a clever wolf. Because the wolf never trusts the keeper. Be nice to everyone on the outside. But be careful inside. May no one harm you, may no one ever do you any good. Then it may happen that you believe in him. But always keep your mind alert. Make your character like salt, which no one can use much, and without which no one can live.

Sanchita karma means a storehouse. Sanchit means accumulated. Because we have taken many births and the deeds we have done are accumulating. The body which is found at present is called Prarabdha Bhog from which the body was created. Two deeds, auspicious and inauspicious, have been mixed. The human body is formed by mixing both good and bad deeds. Had there been only sinful deeds, I would have had to go to hell. Had there been only good deeds, I would have gone to heaven. When both the deeds got mixed then we got human body and we came to the world of death.

No matter how people treat you, don’t hurt anyone with your behavior. Because when fate slaps, it does not hit the face but directly hits the soul. Don’t spoil your heart, mind and day for others. Who knows, the day you are getting most frustrated may be the best day of your life. Make yourself wise enough to see the real face of everyone. Never give a second chance to a cheater. Because if he had respect for you, he would never have cheated you. If the relationship is in the heart, then it does not break by breaking, if it is in the mind, then it does not join by connecting.

People do not discriminate with their own people, even with nature. The sun we look forward to in winter, we despise in summer. People just have to fulfill their purpose. Never let people do what they mean. Life is like a game of Kabaddi, as soon as you touch the line of success people start pulling you back.
Do people curse you?

August 12th, 2023

Knowingly or unknowingly, we do many things in such a way that people get a chance to curse us. Sometimes we make such a big mistake that it hurts people’s heart a lot. Sometimes we do this intentionally and sometimes it happens unintentionally. When it happens unknowingly, we do not pay attention to it. And when you do it intentionally, then you will have to face people’s abuses. The one whom we have hurt, only curse will come out for us. Never think that no one has seen you by doing wrong things. The vision of the above one is very sharp. The account of everyone’s deeds is in his hands. We have come into this world to settle the accounts of our deeds. And we cannot leave it until the account of our deeds is completed.

We get our wealth, poverty, sorrow, happiness, family, friends, children, culture etc. according to our deeds. All these things are not the fruits of one birth, but the fruits of many births continue to be received. Whatever we are enjoying in this life, it is the enjoyment of many births. That’s why we should not hurt anyone’s soul. Because when someone’s soul is hurt, then only longing for you comes out from inside that soul.

There was a very poor man in a village. He used to live his life with great difficulty. One day his wife threw him out of the house and said go earn something and bring it. He left towards the village. On the way he saw some robbers coming running. One of those robbers had a big bag in his hand. Surely the police were behind them, that’s why they were running fast. Suddenly the bag fell from the man’s hand. The robber was so scared that he did not even pick up the dropped bag. The man picked him up when he left. Later he opened the bag and saw that there were many ashrifis in it. He became very happy, he thought that now life will be spent comfortably. By the time this whole incident happened, it became night. Now he was scared to come back with so much money in hand. Because he had never seen so much money in his life. A thought came in his mind, why not visit a friend’s house on the way and rest there for the night. Thinking of this, he went to a friend’s house. Friend fed him food after asking about his latest news. Till then he had not mentioned any incident in front of the friend. After eating food, he started feeling sleepy. And he fell asleep pressing the bag of Ashrafis beside him. His friend was sleeping just a short distance away. At night when his hand would touch the bag, there would be a slight sound from inside it. The friend sleeping next to me was wondering what is in this bag. He got up at night and took out the bag from next to his friend. He was filled with happiness as soon as he opened the bag.

When his friend woke up in the morning, he saw that his bag was missing. When he asked his friend about the bag, the friend flatly refused. The man turned back sad. And came to his home with a sad heart. Here the friend who had stolen the bag increased his business with that money. Gradually his children also grew up. He had expanded his business by stealing the money of others. That’s why his children became worthless. He fell into bad company. Started destroying his father’s wealth. Gradually all his wealth was lost.

On the other hand, the friend whose money he had stolen was thrown out of the house by his wife. He was spending his life in the shelter of a saint by going to a forest. I always kept thinking in my mind that I took the money of thieves, that’s why it did not even reach me. I should not have taken Vardhan. If I had earned something by working hard in life, I would not have been lying like this in the forest today.

The friend who had stolen his money left him heavily in debt after losing all his wealth. Afraid of giving the money back to the people, he ran away from home. While wandering in the forest, he reached the same saint with whom his friend was staying. After the condition worsened, his face had completely changed. That friend of his did not recognize him. He started serving the saint. One night while sleeping, he was mumbling in his sleep. So many Ashrafias. His friend lying next to him was listening to everything. Now he started having doubts in his mind. That this is my friend from whom all that property has been stolen. For one day he mustered courage and asked his friend. Then his friend told the whole incident while crying. Friend said I had done very wrong thing. I am facing the consequences of that today.

Then his friend also lightened his mind with him. He said friend, it was not even my money. Some robber had left. Don’t know how many abuses he must have abused whose money he had stolen. How many sighs must have come out of his soul. She was full of all this wealth. The robber had earned a sin by stealing it. But leaving him, I also committed a sin. My life was wasted just like that. I felt someone’s sigh on him. Then you stole from me and took trouble on yourself. All this is the result of that. That’s why we should not eat the rights of others in life. No one else’s soul should be troubled.
What is yours in this world?

August 12th, 2023

I built a house, I set up a business, I did a job. It is full of me in the life of all of us. This is mine, that is his, our life is spent in this confusion. This is the cause of our greatest sorrow. What is not ours, yet we become entitled to it. Have we brought the things we call our own with us? And when things are our own then why don’t we take them with us?

There was a disciple who was a great devotee of the Guru. Without the darshan of his Guru, he did not even eat any day. He had thought that his life would change by going in the company of the Guru. Despite doing so much service to the Guru, he was not getting much benefit. After getting upset, one day he questioned the Guru. Guruji, there is no change in my life, what should I do? Now I am also getting old. The hair on my head is turning white. Still the change that should come in me is not coming. The Guru said that sometimes we get self-knowledge very soon. And sometimes it takes a long time. Now you do as I say. The Guru sent him some and told him to plant them on the day it rains. And yes, remember that it should rain continuously for three days. And you come back to me again after one year on this very day.

Now he waited impatiently to return to meet the Guru. At last the day has come when one year has been completed. He went to Guruji and tried to tell everything to Guruji, but Guru again refused. Guru said to him, I know the reason of your restlessness. Have you ever tried to know yourself who you are? Then he said no, I grew up a bit then people said this is your mother so I thought her mother. Then the Guru asked that you don’t remember anything, who are you, where did you come from, where did your family come from. Were your wife, children and family members with you when you were born? Then he replied No Guruji, I had nothing. Neither did I have any wealth, nor was I worried about the future. My mother used to take care of all my worries. I was completely unconcerned with life.

He came home with the seeds and waited for the rains. Many months passed but there was no sight of rain. Many times when it would rain, he would think that now is the time to plant my seeds, but then the rain would stop. Started feeling sad from inside. Then suddenly one day he saw that it started raining heavily. And it rained continuously for several days. This was the time, he thought, to plant the seed now. He planted the seeds and after two-three months trees also started growing in it. After a few months all the trees were full of flowers. Now his flowerbed had become completely green. Butterflies were buzzing all around. The flowers were so beautiful that people came from far and wide to see them. People used to praise him a lot and used to buy flowers too. People had never seen such beautiful flowers till date. The fragrance of those flowers was also completely different. The fragrance of flowers used to spread so far that it used to attract people towards itself.

He thought that the Guru should tell everything. How his flowerbed has become green with their seeds. But he remembered that the Guru had asked him to come only after one year. By selling flowers, he collected so much money that he started living happily. The one who has more money, people are more attracted towards him. He also had a large group of people. Now everyone had started giving him respect. After a few months the flowering season ended and the flowers in Phulwari ran out. Now the time had come to meet his Guru.

He went back to meet the Guru and wanted to tell everything to the Guru. So the Guru said, I know everything, now you take the seeds back and then plant the seeds when it rains for 3 days. Coming back home, he started waiting for the rain again. As soon as the imagination of many flowers comes in his mind, he becomes happy. Months passed by waiting for the rains. But it was not raining. Then suddenly one day it rained very heavily and it continued for 3 days. This time the soil of his field was washed away. But he worked very hard, cleaned the soil and sowed the seeds. After a few months the seeds sprouted and trees started to form. But this time there were small flowers in them. So he thought maybe this time Guruji has given me fruit trees. But surprisingly, after a few days those trees started growing chilly. Seeing the pepper, no one came, only the parrot came. The gathering of people used to see the flower was also not there. There was no fragrance in the farm that would attract anyone. Slowly the field was filled with chillies, and after a few months the chillies started drying up and falling. As soon as the windy season started, the seeds of chilli started flying and people’s eyes started burning, now people have stopped coming to him any more. Those who used to praise him now started saying what a foolish thing you did this time. If you had planted chillies then why didn’t you sell it when it bore fruit? What answer would he give on this because he himself was upset.

Then Guruji explained to him, that when someone else took care of you for so many years, someone else took care of you. So now why do you think who will take care of me? Similarly, the seeds you planted were not yours, were they? He had no answer to give.

Everyone should understand that he lives in a house hired by the Lord. All the things like food, clothes, comforts, God provides us. We get all these things according to our deeds. The more good deeds one has, the more he gets. But we humans are so insidious that we start considering other’s things as our own. We do not even thank God who has given us so much.
Want to catch a lie? But how?

August 11th, 2023

Till today we have been reading that a person should not keep any deceit inside himself. But a person should not be so straightforward that he allows others to dominate him. At least he should have so much cleverness that he can understand the cleverness of others. Even if you don’t do good to others, at least don’t let bad things happen to you.

There was a very big businessman in a state. In which countries and regions did his business exist? After a few years, suddenly his business was in danger. The reason for this was his nature. He was a very straightforward man. That’s why everyone used to make a fool of him. His close friends and friends were jealous of him seeing his flourishing business. All together implicated him in the conspiracy. And by giving new business ideas, ruined his business. Earlier he could not understand his friends and family. But now he could clearly understand who is who. He was very sad to see the misdeeds of all of them. He was betrayed by the very people whom he considered his own the most. There was a lot of guilt in his mind. He became very irritable about all these things. There was an atmosphere of quarrel all the time in his house too. Because he had a lot of debt on his head. And he was not in a position to pay. One day he thought about all these things that why not end his life. Thinking of this, he left the house in the dark night. While going on the way, he saw an ashram. Where there was a lot of peace. He made him enter the ashram. So saw a saint sitting surrounded by many people. Everyone is asking him the reason for his own problem. Seeing this, a ray of hope awakened in the man’s heart as well. He asked a man sitting there that this Mahatma is a true man? Then that man told that his charchas are up to the country and abroad. This saint is so knowledgeable that he knows people’s mind without speaking. Even if someone is lying, they catch him. After listening to that man, the merchant got curious that he should also ask him something. That’s why he went and sat at the back of the crowd. People were answering their questions in turn. Finally, when everyone left, it was the merchant’s turn. Then the saint asked the merchant, tell me child, what have you come to ask. The merchant told all the incidents that happened with him to the saint. After listening to the merchant, the saint said, Son, you are very innocent, but a man should not be so innocent that he does not think of his own interest.

The saint felt pity on the merchant. He said that today I will tell you all the secrets by which you can identify people. And I will also tell you how to spot a lie. But whatever secret I tell you, don’t use it for the evil of others. The saint said to the businessman, if a friend of yours talks too much about trusting you, do not trust him. Because only liars need to be clarified.

If you know someone who is a complete liar, never believe his words. Because the person who lies to everyone can also lie to you. A person who makes promises on every matter and takes oaths is always a liar. The person who used to behave badly with you and suddenly his behavior changes, then understand that it is a trick. The person who only talks sweetly in front of you and backbites you, then that person is absolutely deceitful. The person who always tries to attract everyone’s attention to himself, keeps on crying about his problems all the time. Gets ready to do anything to make you agree. A liar always thinks of getting himself praised. A liar and a cunning person will try to enter inside your mind and will try to know all your secrets. So that when the time comes, he can take advantage of it.

The businessman had understood the words of the saint. In the end, he said that happiness and sorrow keep coming in life, they should be faced wisely. God never forgives those who think of ending life by being afraid of small things. We will have to take births to repay the debt of our accumulated karma. That too with more problems. Then why not settle all our accounts in this life itself.
The truth about the lines of luck

August 11th, 2023

We have no control over the untoward incidents in our lives. Everyone’s death is determined. Everyone’s birth is determined. Which we cannot reverse. God has not given us any knowledge to know all these things. No one can tell when he will die. Nor is there any fixed time of birth. God’s secret behind this is also that we can live our life happily. If we come to know when we are going to die, then perhaps we will not be able to live in peace even for a moment. And no matter how much we participate, it is certain.

Now all the time in the mind of the Pandit, it started roaming that how hanging would be the cause of his death. The pundit was very learned. And the king of the state in which he lived also respected him a lot. He took his problem and went to the palace. After going there, he told his story in front of the ministers and the king. Then everyone thought that if the pundit is saying this, then it will not be a lie. But if this pundit does not go to another state then how will he die. Thinking of this, Rajani ordered Pandit to stay in Raj Mahal only. Pandit Raj started living in the palace and he did not come out anywhere. Slowly the time of his death was drawing near. On the day he was to die, he fell asleep very early. He was feeling that this night would pass no matter what. Pandit was not able to sleep. After staying awake till late night, Pandit fell into a deep sleep for a while. When the Pandit used to have a very deep sleep, he used to walk in his sleep, he did not know about it. Even at night he woke up and started walking in his sleep, while walking he came outside the village, he did not even know. While walking, he reached the Raj Mahal of another state. After reaching there, hurriedly entered a room and went to bed and fell asleep.

Once upon a time there lived a pundit in a small village, he was very knowledgeable. One day Pandit was going to meet his childhood friend who was dumb and handicapped. The village of Pandit’s friend was very far away. That’s why the Pandit left his village early in the morning. He walked alone for some distance, but a man went ahead and joined him. Pandit thought that we were going alone, it is better that someone is walking with me. The pundit made it a point to talk to the man. First of all the pundit asked his name. So that man told his name as Mahakal. His name seemed strange to the Pandit, yet the Pandit did not hang up and ask. After walking a little distance, Mahakal told the Pandit that I will stay in this village for a while, I have work here, you go ahead. The pundit was on his way when suddenly he got the news that a bull had killed a man in the village where Mahakal had stayed. Still the pundit kept moving forward and after a while Mahakal came again. Now both started moving forward, it was getting evening, still Pandit’s friend’s village was far away. While walking, the Pandit saw a temple and thought to rest here tonight because he was very tired. Mahakal said okay you take rest. I have some work in this village, I come back after completing my work. As soon as Mahakal left Pandit, there was a lot of smoke rising from the side of the village and in no time the whole village got burnt. The pundit came to know that there is definitely something in this man, wherever he goes, something or the other happens. Even when Mahakal returned, the priest did not discuss this with him. As soon as the morning broke, both of them again proceeded towards their destination.

This time the Pandit could not help it, so the Pandit asked him. Pandit asked, although I have a lot of doubt in my mind for you, but still I ask you one thing, who are you? After listening to Pandit, Mahakal said, you are so knowledgeable, you must have understood who I am. I am the messenger of Yamraj. As per the order of Yamraj, I have come to take the person whose days are over. Pandit got very nervous after listening to Mahakal. Pandit asked if you are Yamdoot then you tell whose death is next. Then Mahakal said that the next death is that of your friend whom you are going to meet and you will also be the reason for his death. Pandit was very sad to hear about Mahakal. The pundit started thinking that this Mahakal must be telling the truth. If I go to meet my friend and he dies, nothing will hurt me more than this. It is better that I do not go to meet him. After listening to Pandit, Mahakal said, look, your friend’s death is certain, it will happen, it doesn’t matter whether you go or not. Even then the Pandit’s mind did not agree and he started turning back towards his village. Not only this, he saw that his friend was walking towards him. The pundit was surprised to see his friend. His friend was quickly walking towards him. As soon as the friend reached him, he fell in front of the Pandit. And the birds flew away from his life. Pandit was looking towards Mahakal, Mahakal understood that Pandit has some question in his mind. Mahakal said, Pandit your friend was following you, he was unable to walk very fast due to Ganga and being lame. To meet you, he put all the force of his body. He was following you and could not even speak, that’s why he could not call you. He has suffered a heart attack because of walking so fast, so now tell me, are you the reason for this or not?

Pandit was very knowledgeable, he knew that one day everyone has to die. That’s why he didn’t think about Mahakal. But he started asking Mahakal that why were you walking with me when my friend was about to die. Then Mahakal said, I walk with everyone but people do not understand. Because people are so engrossed in their problems that they do not have time to understand all this. After listening to Mahakal, Pandit started asking, now tell me when will I die? After listening to Pandit, Mahakal said that you will die after 6 months due to hanging in some other state. And you will gladly accept his execution. Saying this, Mahakal went away.

In the morning, when her maid came to wake up the queen, she saw that the priest was sleeping on the queen’s bed. He woke up the queen and asked how he came. The queen herself did not know, so she also got into thinking. There was hue and cry in the Raj Mahal. By then the pundit had woken up. The soldiers surrounded him and he could not understand how he got here. When he was presented before Maharaj, the pundit said, Maharaj, I do not know at all how I reached here. I had not gone out of my king’s palace for 6 months. Because today I was to die. Then the king said how do you know that you were to die today. With this question of the king, the pundit told the whole story to the king. Still the king thought that he was fabricating the whole story to escape his death. The king asked the pundit for proof whether he was true or false. Then the pundit said, Maharaj, send the courtiers to find out about this in another state. Maharaj sent some men to find out about this. Then the men came and told that the words of Pandit are true. The king of another state also told that the pundit is absolutely innocent, it is not right to punish him. Then the king got confused whether to kill the Pandit or leave him. The king started discussing with his ministers, then the ministers said, put such a thin string around Maharaj Pandit’s neck, which will not kill him and the execution you have promised will also remain. In the Raj Darbar, a noose was made for the Pandit with a very thin thread. So that he doesn’t die. The pundit was also happy to see that I would not die because of this. And the pundit happily went to hang himself. When Pandit Pandit’s neck got cold, due to very thin thread, one of his veins got cut. As told by Mahakal, Pandit happily accepted the noose and due to cutting of the vein, he fell on the ground and died in agony. Everyone in the Raj Darbar started looking at the Pandit with surprise as to how he died with such a thin thread. But Pandit had to die today itself, so he died.

It is written in the Gita that God says that whatever has to happen, it will happen. No matter how much you try.
How to keep yourself happy in any situation?

August 11th, 2023

People who are behaving with you which you do not like. So what should you do? Should you make yourself unhappy with their behavior?

The door of your mind should be such that it opens only when you say it. No matter how much someone chatters in front of you, no matter how good or bad they say to you, your mind that is locked inside the door should not hear anything. How can you think that they have done wrong to you. Because this is their nature. This is their habit, their nature, their intelligence. Now everyone’s thinking cannot be the same.You cannot impose your thoughts, wisdom, culture on them. It is your choice how much you want to take from what they said. If you take it, then how much pain you have to cause to your heart. And till then keep thinking about it.

God has filled us with the strength to go through all these things. But we do not use our power at all. They keep thinking that he told me this, said that. When we do not use the power within us, it goes away. When someone hurts us, we think so much for them. Most of all, we start cursing ourselves that why did we do so much for them. Why did we expect so much from them. This is our biggest mistake. Because we We blame our own weakness on someone else. That we will feel sad because of them.

We want the person in front to apologize to us. And we become so sad that we feel that we cannot forget this for the rest of our life. In today’s run-of-the-mill life, this is one of the reasons for the breakdown of relationships. We pay a lot of attention to our heart but do not think at what time we are giving it. When you are sad, then by paying more attention to your heart, your heart becomes more sad. Because in your heart it told your mind that I am very sad and because of this I am sad. Then your brain also starts thinking the same, and when you are very happy, your heart and brain are indicating that I am very happy. Then your mind starts working on it. Our brain is also like a keyboard. Whatever we want to write is typed in the keyboard. Similarly, our mind also needs the words of the heart to weave the fabric.

If you have a sense of forgiveness in your heart, then surely you will be able to forgive everyone. For all these things you need to have religious knowledge. Some knowledge is such that it is not taught in the curriculum, incidents happening in our everyday life can become a great lesson for us. Broken relationships, untoward incidents, and heart touching incidents in the world happen only because of the weakness of patience. If you want someone to love you, respect you, respect you, then you have to do the same with him. Suppose if you borrow money from someone, and don’t give it back, will he lend you again? Just like that, if you misbehaved with someone once, then maybe the person in front will forgive you, but will not do it again and again.

Today I will tell you an anecdote. My husband is very irritable. I am very scared when he drives the car, because many times such incidents happen, due to which his anger increases a lot. As if someone suddenly came in front of the vehicle, as if someone bumped into the vehicle a little. One day we were going to a nearby village in a hired car. Only then a bicycle rider came out from the side, he took out the bicycle adjacent to the car. My husband got angry. But the drivers who were driving the car were absolutely calm. After going a little further, the car stopped at the red light. A bike rider came from behind and pushed him hard. And on the contrary, he asked the car driver why did you suddenly stop the car. At this my husband burst into tears. Yet the driver who was driving was completely calm. My husband asked the driver what clay are you made of? Your car is getting hit again and again, yet you are silent? Then the driver said to him, “Master, do you see that garbage car in front of you?” See how the garbage is falling in it because of too much. In the same way, those who get angry on every thing, their mind is also full of garbage. When we put something in a box more than necessary, it will fall out, will it not? We need that whatever capacity it has, it should be filled to that extent. Otherwise, like this, we will also put our blame on someone else.

After listening to that driver, from that day my husband changed completely. We should also throw away the thoughts like garbage from our mind, otherwise we don’t know where they will keep dropping. Your one smile forgiving attitude keeps you at ease. Seeing your spontaneity, even an angry person gets shocked. That’s why always keep yourself comfortable. Your smile is very precious, keep it decorated on your face.
union of heart and mind

August 11th, 2023

Our mind is a machine that never sleeps. Sometimes it happens, doesn’t it, that you see a dream and in the middle of the dream your eyes open. Even after many years, you still remember that dream. It is a power of our mind which tends to hold on to certain things.

Your mind has so much power that it can change your life. You just need to recognize it. There is a very deep relation between mind and heart. If you have a deep desire in your heart, then the brain tries its best to fulfill it. Like many people create doubts in the way of success. Then even the mind does not support them. And there are many people who always keep the mind connected with the heart. Whatever they decide, they do it. There is no doubt in his mind to decide the biggest step.

The positive things we think throughout the day have a direct effect on our mind. And whatever negative things we think, it also directly affects the mind. Its effect is visible when we are asleep. When we sleep, our brain becomes even more active. The good things and good plans that we have done throughout the day, our brain tries to fulfill in our sleeping state. And our mind starts working on the negative things even in our sleeping state. The result of this is that the more we think wrong, the more it turns out to be doubled. And the more we think of good things, it keeps on increasing.

There is a solution to all problems in our subconscious mind. But we do not know how to use it. Suppose there is a problem in your life, and instead of getting rid of it, you keep getting entangled in it. So you never get its solution. On the contrary, if you try to solve the problem with a calm mind, then your mind will definitely support you in this. You just need to convince your mind to work on what you want .Try your best for the things you want to get. As something is impressing you a lot, say a new phone has just arrived, and you want it, your mind will be craving to have it all the time. Similarly, if you want to achieve any big achievement in life, then keep thinking continuously for it. Until you get that thing.

It is a matter of a village that a person was very ill. His family members left no stone unturned to treat it. But no medicine works for that person, he always used to think that you have come closer to my day, I will not survive now. Seeing his condition, his family members were very worried. One day the man’s son was sitting under a tree. Only then a Buddhist monk passed from there. He also made him sit under the tree to rest for some time. The scorpion asked him to the boy, Son, you seem very upset to me. what’s the matter what’s your problem? Then the boy said what should I tell, my father is very ill. We left no stone unturned to get him treated. But he always keeps saying that I am fine, he does not sing. Now you tell me what should I do. Then the scorpion said son, I think your father has been taken over by negativity. You do one less, I will give you one small thing, take it and give it to your father. But you tell me one thing whether your father is an atheist or a theist? Then the boy said that my father is very much a believer. Only at that time they keep on taking the name of God. And they keep saying, God, call me to you. On this the beggar gave him a thick copy to the boy. And said tell your father that God has sent it, and tell him to write the name of God in all the pages it has, when it is full God will call you to him. Then the boy said, my father cannot even lift his hands and legs, how will he write this? Then the beggar said, it is okay if you go.

The boy obeyed the monk and took that copy to his father and said that I had gone to the temple to pray, so God gave me the copy and told him to give it to his father. And tell them that I will come to collect them when it is full. After listening to the boy, father did not say anything for once, he started thinking in his mind that how will I be able to do it. Brother kept thinking this for 2 days, then a little courage arose in his mind. They began to feel that I must be well. If I am not well then how will I go to God by writing in this copy. He put his heart and mind to the fact that I have to be cured. Medical medicines were being given to them. All that was needed was how he was thinking for himself. When he made up his mind, his health started improving every day. Slowly the fingers of his hands started moving. And for a day he started sitting. Now he slowly tried to hold the pen. And he started writing. By the time he wanted to fill that copy, he was completely fine.

That’s why we should not separate our heart from our brain. Because if the brain listens to the heart then only it will be able to work properly.
don’t treat your problem as a problem

August 11th, 2023

Several thousand years ago a saint was born in this world. He was very sensible and intelligent. Brijesh lived in the kingdom, even the king of the kingdom used to come to him to seek his advice. All the people of the state used to bow down to that saint. Any problem in anyone’s house, he used to reach straight to the saint. And the saint also had so much art that he definitely used to redress their sorrows.

Once a big businessman from another country came to that king’s kingdom. The merchant brought two flowers for the king. He told the king that one flower is fake and one is real, if you identify it, I will give you both these flowers. Along with this, I will also give half of my property to you. But if you are not able to identify the real flower, then you will also have to give me the same amount back. The king accepted the words of that merchant. The merchant presented both the flowers in front of the king. Both looked exactly alike. It was very difficult to identify the real and the fake. The king could not understand anything what to do. Because if he could not identify then he would have to give half of his property. The king was in a big dilemma. Suddenly he remembered the saint who used to live in his kingdom. He sent a call to the saint from his courtiers. The courtiers went and told the whole thing to the saint. And asked him to go with him.

Following the order of the king, the saint entered the king’s court. Flowers were presented to the saint. Seeing both the flowers, the saints also got confused. Now the saint told the merchant that I need some time. And that saint started walking in Raj Darbar. While walking, he opened the windows of the court. As soon as the windows were opened, a bee came inside. And she went and sat on the real flower. Seeing this, a smile appeared on the saint’s face. The saints were watching all this from a distance. Then he came near and told the merchant that the flower on the left hand is real and the one on the right hand is fake. The businessman was also surprised to hear the words of the saint because sometimes he himself used to forget which flower is real and which is fake

The merchant asked the saint how did you identify it? Then the saint replied, no matter how intelligent and clever we become, we are fools in front of nature. Our intellect can be deceived but nature never remains deceived. The flower on which the bee has gone and sat can never be fake.

All the problems God has given to man, he has also left the solution around him. But man gets nervous quickly and he is not able to put his intelligence in the right place. If a man wants, he can solve his every problem by himself. It needs some patience and discretion.

God has made man the most intelligent of all living beings in this world. But human beings have covered their intelligence with their behavior etc. Man thinks himself to be the most clever, that is why he gets cheated the most. God did not give deceit and greed to other living beings like human beings. That’s why his consciousness is absolutely transparent.

Life is a challenge, we should accept this challenge. Those who cannot accept this keep cursing it all their life. When God was born in this world, there was a lot of challenge before him. But he never gave up. Lord Rama spent 14 years in exile. Shri Krishna was expelled from his city as soon as he was born. We should learn from the character of God that no problem in a man’s life is so big that he cannot solve it. If you ever have any confusion in life, once you read the Gita, all your doubts will be removed. In the Gita, Shri Krishna says the same thing to Arjuna that a man should keep on doing his work and should not have any desire for the fruit. While doing work, give up the attachment of your mind. Otherwise, attachment will become an obstacle in the way of your action.

The person who tries to do good work gets good results. There is an anecdote in Mahabharata, both Arjuna and Duryodhana went to meet Shri Krishna before the war. At that time Krishna was resting. Duryodhana went and stood near his head. And Arjun sat in the service of his feet. When Shri Krishna woke up, he found Arjun sitting in front of him. Krishna asked, tell me friend, what do you want. Duryodhan got angry on this that I am elder, you should ask me first. Then Krishna said, come on, no problem, first you ask. So Duryodhan said, I need an army for the war. Duryodhan asked according to his wisdom. Arjun said Lord I only want you. On this Krishna said that I cannot take up arms because I have taken this vow. Then Arjun said, you just become my companion, I don’t want anything else. Arjuna won the battle under the leadership of Shri Krishna. Shri Krishna explained to Arjuna that whatever happens in this world, there is a reason behind it. The welfare of the people is also behind it. You forget everything and come to my shelter. And hand over your everything to me.

That’s why man should not be afraid of his problems. Leave everything to God. If there is faith in God, then God will do good.