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Do you want to look young forever?

August 19th, 2023

While creating our body, God has put such medicine inside our body by using which we can remain healthy and young forever. To stay young, we must first fix our mind. We have to remove the burden of stress on our mind so that our mind can breathe freely. No matter how many creams you use, but when your mind is sitting inside with stress, then you will not be able to get the benefit of any medicine or recipe. Our digestive power also gets spoiled due to stress. When the digestive power gets spoiled, its effect comes on our face. Our hair starts falling and turns white.

We should maintain our best sitting posture. Breathing while sitting straight has a profound effect on our mind. Even while sleeping our spine should be straight. We should also keep our food habits right. Eat food at the right time. Today’s children do not keep proper time for eating and drinking due to excessive work. That’s why they fall sick more. According to Ayurveda, we should fix the time of sleeping and getting up exactly. If you have a quick and light dinner, then the body does not have to work hard to digest it. If your food is digested well then your face glows.

It is very important to have discipline in life. Those who do not follow discipline never move ahead. For example, many people sleep by setting an alarm on the clock. But the alarm keeps ringing. Then those people think that today I slept very late. Let’s get up from tomorrow. Anyway, I had read in my childhood that getting enough sleep is very important. All these thoughts come to mind at the same time. What does this show, how much we are slaves of our mind. Whenever our steps try to move towards success. Our laziness does not allow us to grow. Because we can’t even fulfill the promise we made to ourselves. We fail even in a small effort that we take in the morning. So how can we think that we will achieve great success in life. If we do not have discipline then our mind is illiterate.

You can see for yourself whether your heart is working or not. But your mind is not working, who will see this. Whenever your mind starts getting restless, do check your mind once. You will find that there is some upheaval going on inside you. Negative thoughts are forming. And the same thoughts are the cause of your mind’s unrest and sorrow. The one whose mind remains sad, his face also remains sad. If the mind blossoms, then the face also blossoms. If there is too much burden on the mind, then the face also shrinks due to fear. The whole game is of the mind.

You must have seen how beautiful some faces are in begging faces. But their beauty is surrounded by a layer of helplessness. Similarly, our beauty is also covered by our sorrows. We always ignore ourselves. That’s why if we want to always look young, then first of all we have to keep our mind happy. When the scale of happiness fills in the mind, it definitely comes on the face.
Are you the saddest person in the world?

August 19th, 2023

Everyone thinks that I am the most unhappy person in the world. I don’t have everything I want. I don’t have what other people have. No one loves me There are many sorrows to be sad, which can make us sad in minutes. When a man has nothing, he is sad, but even when he has everything, man remains sad. Because man’s desire never ends. When one desire is fulfilled, another takes birth. Man is the effigy of desires. Desires make a man dance at his behest.

We see so many people around us who are more unhappy than us, yet we keep cursing ourselves. No matter how much money a man collects, there are only two times to eat. Have often seen people fighting for wealth. Brothers become thirsty for each other’s blood. The relationship between brother and sister gets spoiled. The reason for all this has come to be seen as the longing for money. We cannot be happy even with the money we get after fighting and fighting.

There was a very poor husband and wife. He had a son. Often the child insists on his mother that today my friend is eating this, which I also want to eat. Today my friend wore very nice clothes which I do not have. Now my friends will go to study in a good school, I can never go. Mother tell me when will we get the money. When will we also have a very nice house, a car and all such comfortable things. Being unhappy with the child’s words everyday, the mother thought of a solution one day. He spoke to his son. Son, a very big saint has come to the nearby village. He solves everyone’s sorrows. You also go to him and come asking when our days of sorrow will end. Don’t tell them that you want wealth and property. Just asking how many more days we will see the suffering. There was a lot of curiosity in the minds of the children. He left the house early in the morning the very next day.

He was thinking in his mind that now the end of our sorrows is about to come. I will definitely bring some solution from the saint. He was walking thinking, the whole day passed, and now it was getting night. A little further he saw a huge palace. He went inside the palace in fear. Went inside and saw the mistress of the palace sitting in the verandah. He asked the mistress can I spend the night in the verandah outside your house. The mistress felt pity on the child. The owner was very good natured. He said yes you can definitely spend. Seeing the face of the child, the mistress felt that he was hungry and thirsty. He asked his servant to order food for the child. When the child had eaten the food, the mistress asked him where are you going? Then the child told the whole incident. Said I am going to the saint, my mother has sent me. The mistress said to him, son, will you do one thing for me? The child said yes, I will definitely do it. The mistress said, you ask the saint a question for me, ask that my daughter has not spoken since childhood, will she be able to speak or not. The child said, I will definitely ask and in the morning he left from there.

He went on and on. After a while he felt thirsty. He saw a saint sitting under a tree. He has water in a vessel. The children went and asked the saint, will you give me some water? The saint said why not children. The saint gave him some water from his own water. The saint asked, son, where are you going? The child told him all his troubles. Then the saint said, will you ask me a question? The children thought that I was so thirsty that they gave me water, now I will have to do their work. The saint said, ask the great saint to whom you are going that I have been doing penance for so many years but why am I not getting the result. The child said, I will definitely ask and he went ahead. Now the evening had come to fall and the child was very hungry. He was sitting in a field thinking with a sad heart, Oh God, what will I eat now. Just then saw that a farmer’s wife brought bread for her husband. The farmer had seen the child. He called the child and asked will you eat food? He was very hungry, he said yes. The farmer fed him. Then the farmer also asked him where are you going? The child then told everything to the farmer. The farmer spoke after listening to the children. Ask the saint one thing for me too. That I plant seeds in the fields with so much effort. But my crop is not good at all. There are big fruit trees in my farm which never bear fruit. Even after working so hard, I am not able to earn at all. The child said okay, I will ask him.

As soon as the child went a little further, he found that saint. The saint’s face was very sharp. He was smiling slowly. He asked the child, did you get the answer to your question? A child was a child after all. He had to ask what his mother had sent him to ask. So he asked the saint. Then the saint explained to him, son, all the happiness and sorrows that have come in this world are the fruits of their deeds. Till the time the books of bad deeds are not completed, we have to bear them. By the way, while coming on the way, you must have come to know that no one is happy in this world. If someone has everything then someone is troubling him. That’s why we should never consider our sorrow too big.

The child was very satisfied with the idea of the saint. He returned to his home as told by the saint. As the saint had said, keep doing your work, God will automatically give you the results. The child also worked hard. And his days changed.
how to overcome fear of failure?

August 19th, 2023

Every person in this world wants to be successful but the fear of failure does not let him move forward. Many times he also takes the decision that I will show off by doing this, then people scare him. The person who has a doubt in his mind whether he will be able to succeed in this work or not, if an unsuccessful person speaks even a little to that person, then he understands his own words. Such unsuccessful people themselves are unable to do anything in life, nor do they allow others to do it. If there is success in any work, then we have to be patient. But the person who is not firm in his determination, gets scared a little bit. Human nature is like this, when we see problems when our goal is not firm. Just like an archer shoots a target with one eye closed, because with one eye he can only see his target. In the same way, a man should also keep a vow in his mind.

Once upon a time there lived a very learned Buddhist monk in a village. Whenever the people of the village had any problem, he would come in front of them and find a solution to their problem. Once a young boy came to him. The boy started saying that I do not trust you, but if you solve one of my problems, I can trust you. The monk asked him, tell me what is the matter? Then the boy said that whenever I want to achieve any success, fear remains in my mind. Many types of questions arise that what will I do if I fail. All my family and friends forbid me that this will not be possible from you. Now you tell me what should I do?

The monk said to the boy, let us go for a walk in the forest, there you will find the solution to your problem. The monks took the boy with them to the forest. While roaming around the forest, a cave was seen there. The monks went inside the cave with the boy. It was completely dark in the cave. Both were moving forward. Suddenly the boy turned back and saw that the monk was not there. The monks came out of the cave leaving the boy there. And closed the door of the cave. Now the boy was completely scared. He turned to come back out. But there was no door to be seen anywhere. He didn’t understand what to do. He was thinking that today my life will be lost here. I did not come even after speaking to my family members. Those people must be looking for me. But even if they wanted to, they would not be able to trace me. This monk turned out to be a very wrong person. Till date I have never trusted such people. Don’t know what happened to me today why I trusted them. The boy also felt hungry and thirsty. His body became a lake of sweat. His hands and legs were trembling. He was making loud noises. But how would anyone listen inside this cave. His body was completely tired while trying. He felt that he would faint and fall. So he silently sat down on a stone. He was missing home a lot. He was remembering God while crying.

When he looked around, he saw light coming from one side of the cave. It was on the upper side of the cave. The boy grew bigger after seeing the light. But he could not understand how he would go up. Slowly he tried to climb. Every time he tried to climb, he would slip and come down. But he did not lose courage. Because he had no other option but to go out. He sat down tired for a while. After a while he got up and started climbing back. This time he breathed life into his feet. His mind thought that I will not fail this time. And while climbing the boy reached near that light. As soon as he reached the top, he saw someone’s hand. Once he got scared, but the next moment he held that hand. It was the hand of the same monk who pulled him out.

As soon as he came out, the boy started abusing the monk. The boy said, for the first time in my life I trusted a monk. you left me to die Have you not pity me at all? Then the monk said to the boy, child, I am not going to leave you, I was only testing you. The boy said what kind of test in which someone’s life is lost. You know how scared I was. My condition had worsened due to hunger and thirst. The monk gave water to the boy. And sat with him under a tree. The monk said that the question you had asked me that why doubts come in the way of your success, I had left you alone to explain the same thing.When you were inside the cave, you could not see anything. Because it was completely dark there. If there was full light there, you would have died of fear seeing the small animals there. Because it was dark in the cave, you could see even a little light. You had no other way out, so you climbed so hard trying to come out. If I had kept the door open, you would not have climbed in. The same thing happens in our life. When we find the easy way to success, we calmly decide it. And when the path to success is difficult, they lose their courage. like you were all alone in the cave
How to become the remote of your mind yourself?

August 19th, 2023

God has given us a very powerful and strong mind. But we do not recognize the power of our mind. We are the master of our mind. But foolishly, we have made others the master of our mind. Instead of keeping the remote control of our mind in our own hands, we have handed it over to others. Now our mind works as he presses the button. Like you do not like every channel that comes on TV. Similarly, your state of mind is not always in your favor with the buttons people push. That’s why we get filled with stress. Why don’t we keep the remote in our hands and replace people with the buttons we press? Even if people try to make you sad, you press such a button so that it cannot reach your mind.

When we go to the hospital to see a sick person. If that sick person even says a bad word to us, then we think that he is ill. His mind is not right, he does not know what he is saying. We ignore his words. Similarly in life, if someone starts dominating us, starts hurting our mind, says bad things to us, at that time also we should think that his state of mind is not right. If you improve this habit in yourself, then one day you will not feel bad about anything people say. But God keeps the account of those who have spoken wrong. All this is his karma.

To make your mind powerful, always call wrong wrong and right right. Don’t lick a man’s feet to impress him. Because if you do this then people start taking you very lightly. Your words have no weight. If you testify your yes on some false things, then your value also remains the same. That’s why don’t mix yes in everyone’s yes and no in no. By this habit of yours, people will understand that you have no power to take decisions. After that people will stop asking you. This will hurt your mind.

To recognize the power of your mind, sit in solitude and test yourself. do you like yourself Do you have all those qualities that you like in people? If someone likes you then why like him. If you lack all these things then don’t feel bad about yourself. Try to develop these qualities in yourself too. If someone is hurting your heart, then refuse him in strong words. At that time do not think that he will feel bad about your words. Rather, you should not let your mind feel bad. Your mind is very precious to you. Take care of him like a Kohinoor dimond.

Mistakes happen to all humans. If you commit any mistake, be aware of it. So that your mind is not saddened by the words of people. Save yourself from talking too much. People who speak too much cannot control their tongue. And they say anything to anyone. For this they have to listen bitter talk from others. Then their self-respect gets hurt. They feel that people do not understand whatever I say.

Our mind is a storehouse of very valuable things. Don’t make it dirty by filling any nonsense in it. Store good thoughts neatly. Never forget the nice things others have said for you. What is not in your interest, what hurts your mind, what you do not like to hear, do not allow it to enter the warehouse of your mind. Take your remote with you whenever you go to sleep. But don’t forget to close it. So that when you rest at night after working hard for the whole day, no one should show you the wrong channel.
Are we satisfied when we get what we want?

August 18th, 2023

Whatever we want in life, even if we get it, can we be happy after getting it? We have many desires, one gets fulfilled and the other comes in front. We can never be satisfied. When our desires are fulfilled then we start craving for more. We always consider the happiness of others more than our own. It is human nature to always compare oneself with others.

There was a king who was very fond of traveling. Whenever he felt like roaming, he used to ride his horse and go towards the forest. One day while roaming in the forest, he saw a monk. The one who was dancing engrossed in his tune on the banks of the river. He didn’t care about anyone. The king stayed there for some time and went back to his palace. The next day when the king went out for a walk, he felt like going back to see that monk. And he went and sat on the bank of the same river. Today he was seeing that the monk came to the bank of the river dancing. He was rolling a lot on the sand lying on the bank of the river. He was just singing hymns to God. The monk was so happy that the king was surprised to see him. The monk was saying, God, you did not give me food today, have you forgotten? It doesn’t matter when you remember me, give it. The king thought that he has never seen such a happy monk who is not worried about anything.

The king said to the monk, will you come to live in my palace? Here you don’t even get food everyday. The monk got ready in one go. The sage said, tell Rajan, where do you want to go? The king was surprised to see this action of the monk. The king thought that the monk would say that I am fine in this forest only, what about us, we roam around like this. They eat whatever they get. We sages don’t have any house. But the monk did not say all these things even once. Now the king’s mind started doubting about the monk. Is she a hypocrite, she didn’t refuse me even once. Will he harm us by going to the royal palace? But what if he dies, he was a king. If the monk had felt like going, then it would not have been in his interest. He quietly brought the monk with him to the palace. The respect that the king had for the monk had already ended.

The monk started living very happily after coming to the palace. There he used to get good food and good clothes. The bedroom was very comfortable to sleep in. But his habit did not improve even after coming here. He would have been in his fun as before. In the same way, he used to worship God and dance a lot. Along with him, all the people of the royal court danced happily. But the king began to grumble in his heart. The king thinks what is he worried about now. You get good food, you get good clothes. Why doesn’t it dance now? 8 months passed while doing this. The king could not tolerate the habits of a hermit at all. One day the king said to the monk. You have been living in the palace for so many days, do you feel the difference between you and me. Then the sage said that there is a lot of difference between you and me. The king asked what? Didn’t get married then, I will answer you at the same place where I used to live.

The king thought that it is good that I will leave him in the forest. Next morning, the king went to the forest with the monk. Both went and sat on the bank of the same river. Now the king asked, tell me what is the difference between you and me? Then the monk said, I will tell in the afternoon. It is afternoon, the king asked back. Then the monk said, I will tell in the evening. The king said that I should not go back to my house. My wife has children in the palace. My subjects are in the kingdom. I have to think a lot about all this. Then the monk said, this is the difference between you and me. There are no people in my life whom I can think of. I am not worried about food, if I get it, I will eat it. I have no respect. If people are happy with me then it is okay, if they are not happy then it is okay. I don’t care about anyone. Earlier also I was very happy on the banks of this river. It was your decision to take him to the Raj Mahal. When you asked me to walk and I got ready at once. I read the thoughts that arose in your mind at that time. Still I went with you. Why did you suffer for so many months with me? He would have told me this on the first day itself.

Now the king started realizing his mistake. The king said Maharaj, I made a big mistake. i misunderstood you Then the monk said no problem, this is the irony of our mind. We do not understand the value of that thing which we get easily. As soon as we get that thing it becomes insignificant in our eyes. Gets upset. That’s why before accepting everything that is affecting you more in life, ask your mind that how much do you need that thing.
What to do when someone doesn’t like you?

August 18th, 2023

everything. Similarly, not every man is happy even with man. If there is something like this in your life, someone is not liking you, then it doesn’t matter, it is not necessary to be liked by him. People like the person he is like. If someone is more sad, then he likes the other person sad because he sits and listens to him and tells his own. If someone is very funny, then he likes the person in front of him to be funny. If there is a person who speaks less, then he does not like the person who speaks more. We also choose the person according to our choice. When we make someone a good friend, it is only of our choice.

teaching his disciples. Then a person came and fell at the feet of the saint. The saint picked him up with love and asked, tell me what is the reason for your sorrow? The person said, I am a very sad person in this world. Some of my friends don’t like me at all. He doesn’t even talk to me nor does he go anywhere. Then the saint asked, your wife, children, your family members all like you, don’t they? The person said yes to him. Then the saint told that person to come with me. The saint took the man in front of a garden. After going there, the saint told him that there are many beautiful flowers in this garden. Look how beautiful flowers are in this garden. You do one thing for me, just go straight, pluck the flowers which you find more beautiful. While plucking flowers, keep one thing in mind, do not pluck the flowers at the back. You can break the one who is in front of you. The person said ok and he entered the garden.

Slowly that person was moving forward looking at the flower. And I kept thinking, I will go ahead and see nice flowers, I will take one of them for my saint. He reached the end of the garden in no time. Now all the withered flowers were visible. But he had no choice. He plucked one of those flowers. And came back to the saint. Then the saint said, being such a beautiful flower, why did you pluck this resident flower. Then the person started speaking, I thought if I go further, more beautiful flowers will be seen. That’s why I kept moving forward but in the end there was nothing. As per your command, I could not turn back. That’s why I had to bring you this flower.

Then the saint explained to him, our life is also like a flower. Flowers named relationships, friends, brothers and family have blossomed in it. Not all of these are to our liking. With some we talk very little, with some a lot, and with some we mingle a lot. While passing through the path of life, when people choose friends for themselves, sometimes they also make mistakes. Like you left good flowers and chose stale flowers. The rest of the flowers have not withered because of this behavior of yours. They haven’t stopped smelling, have they? Similarly, many times such things happen in our life, which keep distracting us inside. But we should ignore all these and become like flowers. If someone breaks them, they are useful to him. If not broken, then they are spreading fragrance in their place. You too be happy in your life. It is okay if someone befriends you, it is okay if they don’t.

The person had understood the words of the saint. He went back to his home after saluting the saint. He never felt sad after that day.
How to bring peace in your family?

August 17th, 2023

Our home family is like our temple. Just like a clean body is needed to enter the temple, similarly, while entering the house, if we leave outside worries outside, then perhaps we can change a lot for the peace of the house. Many times it happens that we like the talk of outsiders more than our family members. We find solutions to problems with family members outside. Then the outsiders get a chance to disturb the peace of our house.

Husband wife, their four children and their parents lived in a family. The wife used to serve her mother-in-law and father-in-law a lot. She takes care of mother-in-law and father-in-law as much as she takes care of her children. Days started passing slowly. Now the children had also grown up a bit. The wife started coming out and she had made many friends. When she used to see her friends that she did not do any household work. Her mother-in-law used to do all the household chores. Friends also taught her that why do you keep beating all day. At least care about your life too. Get up and sit and talk with us. Roam around with us. The words of friends encamped in the wife’s mind. For some days the wife’s mind was restless. Now he did not like working at home. Whenever her husband came from work, she used to complain about his mother to her husband. She used to say that my life has become completely useless by living here. Husband started getting worried after listening to her daily expenses. One day he decided that I will leave this house and go away. And he left the house in the dark night.

While going in the dark, he saw a cottage in which there was a little light. The night was already over, so he thought that this should be the rest today. He slowly went inside the hut, went inside and saw a saint doing penance there. There was complete peace in the cottage. He felt very good coming inside the cottage. When the saint opened his eyes, he found him sitting in front of him. The saint asked him the reason for coming. So he put his whole story in front of the saint. And told the saint that I also want to stay in your shelter. The saint said okay, I will teach you the method of meditation, by doing which your mind will become calm.

Now the saints started making him sit in meditation everyday. He used to sit with his eyes closed but he did not feel like it. Again and again he remembered his children, old parents and wife in front of his eyes. He missed the food made by his wife a lot. He was also remembering the love of his parents. One day he told the saint that what should I do, I do not understand. Whenever I sit with my eyes closed, my family comes in front of me.

Then the saint explained to him, there are many bondages in our life even if we don’t want to. Many of those bonds are such that it is difficult to forget them. The biggest bond is that of family. Some relationships are important in our life. Sometimes we think that we can live without them but we cannot. Leaving all the pleasures of the world and becoming a saint is not such an easy task. Only one can become a saint who breaks the bonds of all the illusions of this world. Where we have got life, small things will happen there. If there has ever been a thorn in our family, then we should try to remove it. Will we be able to walk if we let the thorn in the leg remain?

If you don’t solve your family’s problem by sitting on your own and go to the people with it, then people will get a chance, won’t they? Whenever there is such a problem in your family, you all should sit together at one place and solve your problem yourself. The outsiders will all give their own opinion. Those people in the family who have more differences should sit together and speak their mind. It is necessary that there should be one person in your family whose words are accepted by all. Because where there is a head, the house runs. Choose such a man as the head of your family who does not think only of himself but thinks of everyone. Family members should work together so that there is never any estrangement. Quarrels of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are seen in Akshar family. The mother-in-law should also understand that even if the daughter-in-law comes, she should cooperate in her work. The daughter-in-law should also not expect too much work considering the age of the mother-in-law.

Never take your family matters out of the house. Even if there is a small tip in your house, then keep it till your house. Do not stop talking in small matters. Because when you stop the dialogue itself, then how will the problem be solved. Not all people in a family are the same. Some are very hardworking and some are less. Some talk more and some talk less. Some are gossipers all the time, and some are unheard of after listening to things. That’s why elders say that if you want happiness and peace at home, then try to forget the things that happen.
Are you also troubled by sleep disorders?

August 16th, 2023

In this stressful life, there will be only a few people who are able to sleep peacefully. Do you know what is the reason for this? How many things are there in our daily life that cause our mental stress. All day we keep thinking something or the other. The thoughts which end with the origin of your mind, those thoughts do not remain in the subconscious mind. But the things you think all day capture our mind.

Just like when an animal snatches food from each other, then takes it in solitude and eats it, similarly our mind practices all the day’s accumulated things in private at night. How will he sleep today when the mind works at night?

All this problem is our own. In today’s era this problem has become very big. Big pharmaceutical companies are collecting a lot of money by making this medicine. Dr is charging his fees. These medicines are going into our body and causing new diseases. We see poor laborers in the world around us who work hard all day and sleep at night without bed. After working so hard, he does not have time to think anything else. They also feel very hungry. And sleep is also very loud.

Due to lack of sleep, a lot can happen in our life. Like worrying about your family, thinking about your financial condition, thinking about your beauty, thinking about your friendship, etc. But whatever you think you can’t get those things out of your mind.

Once upon a time, a husband and wife were going from one village to another. On the way he saw a woman very helpless. Both his hands were bent due to illness. But the woman was young and very beautiful. His dark thick hair was hanging till his feet. Suddenly the clip that was in his tied hair opened. Now the hair flew away and started coming till the mouth. The woman was pleading with everyone, someone should tie her hair. No one was paying attention to him. The wife told the husband that perhaps this woman is deliberately pretending. But the husband understood that it was not a drama. You put the clip on the woman’s hair. The wife was very angry. But after a few days everything was fine. After many years, the wife remembered that thing and taunted her husband. The husband had forgotten all this. But till today the wife was still angry with her husband’s actions inside. From time to time this thing used to come in his mind. Because wife I thought about that thing for a long time. And this thing deepened in her mind. Whenever the wife remembered this, she could not sleep.

This is the nature of our mind, we want to forget the thing, it sits more in our mind. If a man refuses to think of something, then even if you do not want to, then that thing keeps coming in your mind all day. Like in those husband and wife, the husband helped that woman, and forgot that thing. But the wife could not forget. Because while helping that woman, there was no misconduct in her husband’s mind. But the wife was misunderstanding this. So she could not get out of her thoughts.

We all must have heard that a clean bed, a full stomach, can give us good sleep. That’s not enough for good sleep. Just like we clean the bed before sleeping, in the same way, if we clean our mind, then we will definitely get good sleep. Always use one word in your life in your mind, that is, let it go man. If you learn to repeat this word, then no worries will seem big to you. No problem will be complicated for you.
how to respect yourself?

August 16th, 2023

People said I am very good, people said I am very bad. People said that I am selfish, people said that I am a very good person, I am useful to everyone. People said that earlier I was good, now I have become bad. People said that I was bad earlier, now I have become good. Why did people say because you gave people a chance to say. When people were speaking, you kept thinking yourself like that. You kept doing everything as people said. Even if you have worn some nice clothes, thinking what people will say? You are feeling like dressing up a lot today, yet you stopped yourself what people will say. Today you wanted to walk hand in hand with your life partner, then you stopped yourself thinking what people would say.

Those who care about people in everything, have they ever thought that people will keep on saying something. As long as you keep walking with people out of fear, then the decisions of your life will also be taken by people. People’s words have so much power that they can change the course of your life.

Someday you are very sad then why don’t you think what people will say? And why are the people who used to interrupt you on every matter, not asking you why you are so sad today? do you need anything can i be of any help to you?

We care so much for people that sometimes it happens that we are going to take a big decision of our life in our favor, even at that time we kill our happiness for the happiness of people. Because we think we have to live among these people, then why should we give them a chance to speak? But sometimes this thing can be very harmful for you. Yes, it is right that living in the society, we should never do bad to the people of the society. But not so much that all the time do bad things for yourself.

We must have read a story from childhood. Once Lord Shankar was going to visit Kailash with Mother Parvati. Lord Shankar made Kailash Parvati sit on Nandi. Shankar Bhole, you will not be able to walk so much, you will get tired. When people went a little distance, they started saying that being a woman, she herself is sitting on Nandi and is making her husband walk. After listening to the people, Shiva brought down Parvati and climbed up himself. People who went a little distance started saying that the poor wife is walking and this man is sitting on Nandi. After listening to the people of Shivani, Mother Parvati was also made to sit with them. Then both started walking ahead and someone said that look how this old Nandi will bear the weight of both of them. These people don’t even have that much sense to show some mercy to the old. Shankar and Parvati both got down from Nandi. Then Shiv Shankar started saying to Parvati, have you seen the world today?

Shiva says people will not leave you under any circumstances. The one who has the same culture, the one who has the intelligence, he will guess that much. And when we are living in this world, we get to hear everyone’s words. We should listen to everyone’s words, but listen to your heart first. If your mind testifies to do that thing, then only do it. Many times it is seen that those people who do not have the ability, they also drown themselves in debt due to the appearance of what people will think. Your friend got his son married with great fanfare, your friend throws a party in a nice hotel. Your friend wears very expensive clothes. Your mind gets distracted seeing all this. And you start making every effort to do all this. This is the biggest truth of today’s world. That’s why our new generation of today is going on the path of downfall. We don’t think even once that we are doing wrong or our friends are doing wrong for what we want to do by seeing others. We just have to see and see.

There are some people who live according to their principles. People also say many things to him but he does not pay attention to the words of the people. Such people do something in life. We must have seen many very rich wear such clothes which we cannot imagine. But they don’t care about anyone. He is always focused on his target. They don’t care how many entertainment activities are going on in the world. He does not do all these things because people consider him as an ideal man. Such is their nature.

So why don’t we try to respect ourselves. Why should we strangle our desires. Why should we weaken our position by showing support to people. Why don’t we adopt a simple life and give peace to our mind as well as to our family members.
What kind of happiness do you want in life?

August 15th, 2023

To gain something in life, you have to lose something. We think that whoever has a lot of money is happy. But not at all like that. Despite having everything, sometimes a man becomes completely alone. And sometimes his thinking does not allow him to enjoy his wealth.

A family of twelve people lived in a village. The family was going through a lot of poverty. There was a very beautiful girl in that family. Whose name was Sophia. When the girl grew up a little, the parents got her married to an old man. Sophia did not even know the meaning of marriage properly. His daughter will be happy. He will get all the happiness which he could not provide to his daughter. That old man was very rich. But he used to be ill all the time. At last one day the old man became dear to God. And now Sophia was all alone. There were many servants in the house but her world had changed.

The father thought that Sophia should be married again to another rich man. But this time Sophia flatly refused. Marriage had now become a meaningless bond for her. Because marriage had given her only sadness. Friends used to explain to her a lot that this time you should marry a young man. So she used to say, does the young never get old? Can he be immortal? Then who doesn’t have any answer.

Sophia used to be completely alone in her house. She used to be very sad. She did not talk to anyone. Now she started focusing on the cleanliness of her house to engage her mind. She started keeping an eye on the work of the servants. One day while massaging her feet, her maid said that your anklet is very beautiful, just put some ghungroos in it. Lo. Sofia thought she is right in saying how is Bina Ghungroo’s anklet? The very next day he sent his anklet to the goldsmith and got the anklets fitted.

Now when she used to walk, there would be a sound of Ghungroo. The servants would have been alert after hearing the sound. Once upon a time there was a doubt in her mind that the maid asked me to get anklets so that I could not catch her stealing. She opened the anklets of her anklets. Now if she walks then there is no sound. One day she caught her maid misbehaving with the servant. Then the next day she caught stealing household goods. She fired all the workers. And hired other servants. Everything went well for a few days. Then those new servants also started doing like old servants. He also fired those servants. She had to do all the household chores herself. She was completely alone even at home. Now he was getting more stressed than before. Couldn’t understand what to do. Either compromise with the situation or live your life like this.

One day a friend of hers came to her. Seeing him alone, he also started worrying a lot. We have to lose something to gain something, he explained to Sophia. You have nothing even though you have everything. You are left all alone in this big mansion. Then Sophia said what should I do? Should I tolerate the cheating of the servants? Or see theft happening in my house? Her friend explained that now you have no other option. That’s why you have to compromise with them. Saying this her friend went away. That night Sophia could not sleep the whole night. The very next day he put anklets in his anklets. And again hired new servants.

Man can never be satisfied. Even if his wishes are fulfilled and even if they are not fulfilled. If we want to enjoy the real life, we should be happy in ourselves. If we run our eyes everywhere, we can never be happy. Small things can give us happiness and small things can give us sorrow. Now it is our choice how to be happy.