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  • The truth about the lines of luck

    August 11th, 2023

    We have no control over the untoward incidents in our lives. Everyone’s death is determined. Everyone’s birth is determined. Which we cannot reverse. God has not given us any knowledge to know all these things. No one can tell when he will die. Nor is there any fixed time of birth. God’s secret behind this is also that we can live our life happily. If we come to know when we are going to die, then perhaps we will not be able to live in peace even for a moment. And no matter how much we participate, it is certain.

    Now all the time in the mind of the Pandit, it started roaming that how hanging would be the cause of his death. The pundit was very learned. And the king of the state in which he lived also respected him a lot. He took his problem and went to the palace. After going there, he told his story in front of the ministers and the king. Then everyone thought that if the pundit is saying this, then it will not be a lie. But if this pundit does not go to another state then how will he die. Thinking of this, Rajani ordered Pandit to stay in Raj Mahal only. Pandit Raj started living in the palace and he did not come out anywhere. Slowly the time of his death was drawing near. On the day he was to die, he fell asleep very early. He was feeling that this night would pass no matter what. Pandit was not able to sleep. After staying awake till late night, Pandit fell into a deep sleep for a while. When the Pandit used to have a very deep sleep, he used to walk in his sleep, he did not know about it. Even at night he woke up and started walking in his sleep, while walking he came outside the village, he did not even know. While walking, he reached the Raj Mahal of another state. After reaching there, hurriedly entered a room and went to bed and fell asleep.

    Once upon a time there lived a pundit in a small village, he was very knowledgeable. One day Pandit was going to meet his childhood friend who was dumb and handicapped. The village of Pandit’s friend was very far away. That’s why the Pandit left his village early in the morning. He walked alone for some distance, but a man went ahead and joined him. Pandit thought that we were going alone, it is better that someone is walking with me. The pundit made it a point to talk to the man. First of all the pundit asked his name. So that man told his name as Mahakal. His name seemed strange to the Pandit, yet the Pandit did not hang up and ask. After walking a little distance, Mahakal told the Pandit that I will stay in this village for a while, I have work here, you go ahead. The pundit was on his way when suddenly he got the news that a bull had killed a man in the village where Mahakal had stayed. Still the pundit kept moving forward and after a while Mahakal came again. Now both started moving forward, it was getting evening, still Pandit’s friend’s village was far away. While walking, the Pandit saw a temple and thought to rest here tonight because he was very tired. Mahakal said okay you take rest. I have some work in this village, I come back after completing my work. As soon as Mahakal left Pandit, there was a lot of smoke rising from the side of the village and in no time the whole village got burnt. The pundit came to know that there is definitely something in this man, wherever he goes, something or the other happens. Even when Mahakal returned, the priest did not discuss this with him. As soon as the morning broke, both of them again proceeded towards their destination.

    This time the Pandit could not help it, so the Pandit asked him. Pandit asked, although I have a lot of doubt in my mind for you, but still I ask you one thing, who are you? After listening to Pandit, Mahakal said, you are so knowledgeable, you must have understood who I am. I am the messenger of Yamraj. As per the order of Yamraj, I have come to take the person whose days are over. Pandit got very nervous after listening to Mahakal. Pandit asked if you are Yamdoot then you tell whose death is next. Then Mahakal said that the next death is that of your friend whom you are going to meet and you will also be the reason for his death. Pandit was very sad to hear about Mahakal. The pundit started thinking that this Mahakal must be telling the truth. If I go to meet my friend and he dies, nothing will hurt me more than this. It is better that I do not go to meet him. After listening to Pandit, Mahakal said, look, your friend’s death is certain, it will happen, it doesn’t matter whether you go or not. Even then the Pandit’s mind did not agree and he started turning back towards his village. Not only this, he saw that his friend was walking towards him. The pundit was surprised to see his friend. His friend was quickly walking towards him. As soon as the friend reached him, he fell in front of the Pandit. And the birds flew away from his life. Pandit was looking towards Mahakal, Mahakal understood that Pandit has some question in his mind. Mahakal said, Pandit your friend was following you, he was unable to walk very fast due to Ganga and being lame. To meet you, he put all the force of his body. He was following you and could not even speak, that’s why he could not call you. He has suffered a heart attack because of walking so fast, so now tell me, are you the reason for this or not?

    Pandit was very knowledgeable, he knew that one day everyone has to die. That’s why he didn’t think about Mahakal. But he started asking Mahakal that why were you walking with me when my friend was about to die. Then Mahakal said, I walk with everyone but people do not understand. Because people are so engrossed in their problems that they do not have time to understand all this. After listening to Mahakal, Pandit started asking, now tell me when will I die? After listening to Pandit, Mahakal said that you will die after 6 months due to hanging in some other state. And you will gladly accept his execution. Saying this, Mahakal went away.

    In the morning, when her maid came to wake up the queen, she saw that the priest was sleeping on the queen’s bed. He woke up the queen and asked how he came. The queen herself did not know, so she also got into thinking. There was hue and cry in the Raj Mahal. By then the pundit had woken up. The soldiers surrounded him and he could not understand how he got here. When he was presented before Maharaj, the pundit said, Maharaj, I do not know at all how I reached here. I had not gone out of my king’s palace for 6 months. Because today I was to die. Then the king said how do you know that you were to die today. With this question of the king, the pundit told the whole story to the king. Still the king thought that he was fabricating the whole story to escape his death. The king asked the pundit for proof whether he was true or false. Then the pundit said, Maharaj, send the courtiers to find out about this in another state. Maharaj sent some men to find out about this. Then the men came and told that the words of Pandit are true. The king of another state also told that the pundit is absolutely innocent, it is not right to punish him. Then the king got confused whether to kill the Pandit or leave him. The king started discussing with his ministers, then the ministers said, put such a thin string around Maharaj Pandit’s neck, which will not kill him and the execution you have promised will also remain. In the Raj Darbar, a noose was made for the Pandit with a very thin thread. So that he doesn’t die. The pundit was also happy to see that I would not die because of this. And the pundit happily went to hang himself. When Pandit Pandit’s neck got cold, due to very thin thread, one of his veins got cut. As told by Mahakal, Pandit happily accepted the noose and due to cutting of the vein, he fell on the ground and died in agony. Everyone in the Raj Darbar started looking at the Pandit with surprise as to how he died with such a thin thread. But Pandit had to die today itself, so he died.

    It is written in the Gita that God says that whatever has to happen, it will happen. No matter how much you try.

  • How to keep yourself happy in any situation?

    August 11th, 2023

    People who are behaving with you which you do not like. So what should you do? Should you make yourself unhappy with their behavior?

    The door of your mind should be such that it opens only when you say it. No matter how much someone chatters in front of you, no matter how good or bad they say to you, your mind that is locked inside the door should not hear anything. How can you think that they have done wrong to you. Because this is their nature. This is their habit, their nature, their intelligence. Now everyone’s thinking cannot be the same.You cannot impose your thoughts, wisdom, culture on them. It is your choice how much you want to take from what they said. If you take it, then how much pain you have to cause to your heart. And till then keep thinking about it.

    God has filled us with the strength to go through all these things. But we do not use our power at all. They keep thinking that he told me this, said that. When we do not use the power within us, it goes away. When someone hurts us, we think so much for them. Most of all, we start cursing ourselves that why did we do so much for them. Why did we expect so much from them. This is our biggest mistake. Because we We blame our own weakness on someone else. That we will feel sad because of them.

    We want the person in front to apologize to us. And we become so sad that we feel that we cannot forget this for the rest of our life. In today’s run-of-the-mill life, this is one of the reasons for the breakdown of relationships. We pay a lot of attention to our heart but do not think at what time we are giving it. When you are sad, then by paying more attention to your heart, your heart becomes more sad. Because in your heart it told your mind that I am very sad and because of this I am sad. Then your brain also starts thinking the same, and when you are very happy, your heart and brain are indicating that I am very happy. Then your mind starts working on it. Our brain is also like a keyboard. Whatever we want to write is typed in the keyboard. Similarly, our mind also needs the words of the heart to weave the fabric.

    If you have a sense of forgiveness in your heart, then surely you will be able to forgive everyone. For all these things you need to have religious knowledge. Some knowledge is such that it is not taught in the curriculum, incidents happening in our everyday life can become a great lesson for us. Broken relationships, untoward incidents, and heart touching incidents in the world happen only because of the weakness of patience. If you want someone to love you, respect you, respect you, then you have to do the same with him. Suppose if you borrow money from someone, and don’t give it back, will he lend you again? Just like that, if you misbehaved with someone once, then maybe the person in front will forgive you, but will not do it again and again.

    Today I will tell you an anecdote. My husband is very irritable. I am very scared when he drives the car, because many times such incidents happen, due to which his anger increases a lot. As if someone suddenly came in front of the vehicle, as if someone bumped into the vehicle a little. One day we were going to a nearby village in a hired car. Only then a bicycle rider came out from the side, he took out the bicycle adjacent to the car. My husband got angry. But the drivers who were driving the car were absolutely calm. After going a little further, the car stopped at the red light. A bike rider came from behind and pushed him hard. And on the contrary, he asked the car driver why did you suddenly stop the car. At this my husband burst into tears. Yet the driver who was driving was completely calm. My husband asked the driver what clay are you made of? Your car is getting hit again and again, yet you are silent? Then the driver said to him, “Master, do you see that garbage car in front of you?” See how the garbage is falling in it because of too much. In the same way, those who get angry on every thing, their mind is also full of garbage. When we put something in a box more than necessary, it will fall out, will it not? We need that whatever capacity it has, it should be filled to that extent. Otherwise, like this, we will also put our blame on someone else.

    After listening to that driver, from that day my husband changed completely. We should also throw away the thoughts like garbage from our mind, otherwise we don’t know where they will keep dropping. Your one smile forgiving attitude keeps you at ease. Seeing your spontaneity, even an angry person gets shocked. That’s why always keep yourself comfortable. Your smile is very precious, keep it decorated on your face.

  • union of heart and mind

    August 11th, 2023

    Our mind is a machine that never sleeps.  Sometimes it happens, doesn’t it, that you see a dream and in the middle of the dream your eyes open.  Even after many years, you still remember that dream.  It is a power of our mind which tends to hold on to certain things.

    Your mind has so much power that it can change your life. You just need to recognize it. There is a very deep relation between mind and heart. If you have a deep desire in your heart, then the brain tries its best to fulfill it. Like many people create doubts in the way of success. Then even the mind does not support them. And there are many people who always keep the mind connected with the heart. Whatever they decide, they do it. There is no doubt in his mind to decide the biggest step.

    The positive things we think throughout the day have a direct effect on our mind. And whatever negative things we think, it also directly affects the mind. Its effect is visible when we are asleep. When we sleep, our brain becomes even more active. The good things and good plans that we have done throughout the day, our brain tries to fulfill in our sleeping state. And our mind starts working on the negative things even in our sleeping state. The result of this is that the more we think wrong, the more it turns out to be doubled. And the more we think of good things, it keeps on increasing.

    There is a solution to all problems in our subconscious mind. But we do not know how to use it. Suppose there is a problem in your life, and instead of getting rid of it, you keep getting entangled in it. So you never get its solution. On the contrary, if you try to solve the problem with a calm mind, then your mind will definitely support you in this. You just need to convince your mind to work on what you want .Try your best for the things you want to get. As something is impressing you a lot, say a new phone has just arrived, and you want it, your mind will be craving to have it all the time. Similarly, if you want to achieve any big achievement in life, then keep thinking continuously for it. Until you get that thing.

    It is a matter of a village that a person was very ill. His family members left no stone unturned to treat it. But no medicine works for that person, he always used to think that you have come closer to my day, I will not survive now. Seeing his condition, his family members were very worried. One day the man’s son was sitting under a tree. Only then a Buddhist monk passed from there. He also made him sit under the tree to rest for some time. The scorpion asked him to the boy, Son, you seem very upset to me. what’s the matter what’s your problem? Then the boy said what should I tell, my father is very ill. We left no stone unturned to get him treated. But he always keeps saying that I am fine, he does not sing. Now you tell me what should I do. Then the scorpion said son, I think your father has been taken over by negativity. You do one less, I will give you one small thing, take it and give it to your father. But you tell me one thing whether your father is an atheist or a theist? Then the boy said that my father is very much a believer. Only at that time they keep on taking the name of God. And they keep saying, God, call me to you. On this the beggar gave him a thick copy to the boy. And said tell your father that God has sent it, and tell him to write the name of God in all the pages it has, when it is full God will call you to him. Then the boy said, my father cannot even lift his hands and legs, how will he write this? Then the beggar said, it is okay if you go.

    The boy obeyed the monk and took that copy to his father and said that I had gone to the temple to pray, so God gave me the copy and told him to give it to his father. And tell them that I will come to collect them when it is full. After listening to the boy, father did not say anything for once, he started thinking in his mind that how will I be able to do it. Brother kept thinking this for 2 days, then a little courage arose in his mind. They began to feel that I must be well. If I am not well then how will I go to God by writing in this copy. He put his heart and mind to the fact that I have to be cured. Medical medicines were being given to them. All that was needed was how he was thinking for himself. When he made up his mind, his health started improving every day. Slowly the fingers of his hands started moving. And for a day he started sitting. Now he slowly tried to hold the pen. And he started writing. By the time he wanted to fill that copy, he was completely fine.

    That’s why we should not separate our heart from our brain. Because if the brain listens to the heart then only it will be able to work properly.

  • don’t treat your problem as a problem

    August 11th, 2023

    Several thousand years ago a saint was born in this world.  He was very sensible and intelligent.  Brijesh lived in the kingdom, even the king of the kingdom used to come to him to seek his advice.  All the people of the state used to bow down to that saint.  Any problem in anyone’s house, he used to reach straight to the saint.  And the saint also had so much art that he definitely used to redress their sorrows.

    Once a big businessman from another country came to that king’s kingdom.  The merchant brought two flowers for the king.  He told the king that one flower is fake and one is real, if you identify it, I will give you both these flowers.  Along with this, I will also give half of my property to you.  But if you are not able to identify the real flower, then you will also have to give me the same amount back.  The king accepted the words of that merchant.  The merchant presented both the flowers in front of the king.  Both looked exactly alike.  It was very difficult to identify the real and the fake.  The king could not understand anything what to do.  Because if he could not identify then he would have to give half of his property.  The king was in a big dilemma.  Suddenly he remembered the saint who used to live in his kingdom.  He sent a call to the saint from his courtiers. The courtiers went and told the whole thing to the saint. And asked him to go with him.

    Following the order of the king, the saint entered the king’s court.  Flowers were presented to the saint.  Seeing both the flowers, the saints also got confused.  Now the saint told the merchant that I need some time.  And that saint started walking in Raj Darbar.  While walking, he opened the windows of the court.  As soon as the windows were opened, a bee came inside.  And she went and sat on the real flower.  Seeing this, a smile appeared on the saint’s face.  The saints were watching all this from a distance.  Then he came near and told the merchant that the flower on the left hand is real and the one on the right hand is fake.  The businessman was also surprised to hear the words of the saint because sometimes he himself used to forget which flower is real and which is fake

    The merchant asked the saint how did you identify it?  Then the saint replied, no matter how intelligent and clever we become, we are fools in front of nature.  Our intellect can be deceived but nature never remains deceived.  The flower on which the bee has gone and sat can never be fake.

    All the problems God has given to man, he has also left the solution around him.  But man gets nervous quickly and he is not able to put his intelligence in the right place. If a man wants, he can solve his every problem by himself. It needs some patience and discretion.

    God has made man the most intelligent of all living beings in this world.  But human beings have covered their intelligence with their behavior etc.  Man thinks himself to be the most clever, that is why he gets cheated the most.  God did not give deceit and greed to other living beings like human beings.  That’s why his consciousness is absolutely transparent.

    Life is a challenge, we should accept this challenge.  Those who cannot accept this keep cursing it all their life.  When God was born in this world, there was a lot of challenge before him.  But he never gave up.  Lord Rama spent 14 years in exile.  Shri Krishna was expelled from his city as soon as he was born.  We should learn from the character of God that no problem in a man’s life is so big that he cannot solve it.  If you ever have any confusion in life, once you read the Gita, all your doubts will be removed.  In the Gita, Shri Krishna says the same thing to Arjuna that a man should keep on doing his work and should not have any desire for the fruit.  While doing work, give up the attachment of your mind.  Otherwise, attachment will become an obstacle in the way of your action.

    The person who tries to do good work gets good results.  There is an anecdote in Mahabharata, both Arjuna and Duryodhana went to meet Shri Krishna before the war.  At that time Krishna was resting.  Duryodhana went and stood near his head.  And Arjun sat in the service of his feet.  When Shri Krishna woke up, he found Arjun sitting in front of him.  Krishna asked, tell me friend, what do you want.  Duryodhan got angry on this that I am elder, you should ask me first.  Then Krishna said, come on, no problem, first you ask.  So Duryodhan said, I need an army for the war.  Duryodhan asked according to his wisdom.  Arjun said Lord I only want you.  On this Krishna said that I cannot take up arms because I have taken this vow.  Then Arjun said, you just become my companion, I don’t want anything else.  Arjuna won the battle under the leadership of Shri Krishna.  Shri Krishna explained to Arjuna that whatever happens in this world, there is a reason behind it.  The welfare of the people is also behind it.  You forget everything and come to my shelter.  And hand over your everything to me.

    That’s why man should not be afraid of his problems. Leave everything to God. If there is faith in God, then God will do good.

  • Why are you afraid of working hard?

    August 10th, 2023

    We all know that there is no result without hard work. No matter how rich you are, without hard work, all your wealth will also end.

    A young boy lived in a small village. He didn’t do any work. Everyone in the village used to call him lazy. He would go to the field and sleep the whole day and keep on weaving good dreams of the future. Once upon a time a very knowledgeable saint came to his village. That saint stayed in the village for two-three days. When he went for a walk outside the village, he would see that boy lying there sleeping. The saint understood that this is a very lazy boy, the saint decided to cure him. The saint said to him, son, will you do one thing for me? The boy asked what to do? The saint said, go to the hill which is visible from here and bring me a feather. The boy said, I will not be able to work so hard. Then the saint said, oh son, this is not an ordinary feather. By keeping this path with you, you can fulfill every wish. Then greed arose in the boy’s mind. And he went out to get feathers for the saint.

    The way to the hill was very difficult. The boy was very tired yet he did not give up. The higher he climbed, the more the feeling of happiness was increasing in his mind. While walking he reached the top of the mountain. He felt as if he had won the battle. The view down from the hill was very beautiful. Now he had to find the feather on the hill. While searching hard somewhere, he saw a feather. Which was shining even in the dark. He picked up the feather and now he was worried about going back. Because the path to the hill was absolutely pebbly. He had reached here by falling down with great difficulty. Now the name of going back started troubling him. Once he thought what should I do? Then immediately he noticed that after working so hard I have come up, so now I have to go. He started walking back with very tired feet stumbling. At last he reached the saint. It seemed that he had conquered the world. He was feeling happy that today he conquered his laziness.

    Seeing his happiness, the saint said that children, today you have done what not everyone can do. The world is not born with laziness, but makes itself.

    After listening to the saint, the boy started thinking that I am lazy, but I have achieved such a big thing, so what is the work that I will not be able to do now. After that day the boy completely changed.

    The saint said that as long as we only think about our plans, we will not be able to achieve our goal. We have to work hard.

  • where there’s a will there’s a way

    August 10th, 2023

    Someone has said such a wonderful thing that the blacker the night, the brighter the stars.  Remember, the deeper the sorrows, the closer the Lord is.

    There was a temple on a high mountain.  Big people used to come from far and wide to see devotees.  A man used to see every day that there is such a crowd here that people come from far and wide for darshan.  But he never went to the temple, thinking that he would go when he had to go.

    One night in a dream he saw that someone was killing him.  Then a thought comes to his mind that despite the temple being so close to the village, I never went to that temple.  Thinking this, he gets up and walks straight towards the temple. It is then midnight.  But as soon as he walks a little distance, a thought comes to his mind.  That the temple is so far away.  I will not be able to complete the route.  And he just sits there.  Then they think that when morning comes, they will leave.

    Just then he sees that a man is leaving from there.  He is an elderly man and he has a stick in his hand.  He also has a small lamp in his hand.  By whose light he is leaving.  He asked the old man where are you going.  So he said that I am going to the temple.  So he said that I was also trying to go but I am not going because of darkness.  But why are you taking this small lamp?  Its light is not visible only after one step.  So the old man said, I go every day and come back after seeing God.  And anyway, in order to walk, the light of just one step is needed.

    After listening to the old man, the man got into thinking.  Being so old, he has so much courage.  And even though I am young, I am waiting for the morning.  You must have heard that God says in Gita that if you take one step, I will take another step.  If there is a desire to do something in life, then the power is found automatically.  And if there is doubt in your desire, it never gets fulfilled.

    Once upon a time, the Guru was preaching to the disciples in the Gurukul. The Guru said that whenever you meditate with a calm mind, you feel that there is an infinite store of knowledge in this universe. But we are not able to achieve even a fraction. Otherwise, who doesn’t want to be happy in this world. But there are some negative thoughts in our mind which do not allow us to achieve anything. For this, we should sit in some solitude and have a little talk with ourselves and give ourselves confidence.

    Only then a disciple asks the Guru that how do we have to eliminate the evil and negativity inside us? Then the Guru said that nothing is so impossible. We should walk all the time thinking that we are today and will be tomorrow or not. If someone tells you that you have only one day left, what will you do? Will you fulfill all your wishes or not? In the same way, consider every day as your last day. Give as much love as you want to give, do whatever is necessary. If you consider your day as the last day, then you will not get time to get angry with someone, cheat someone. And take any stress on your mind. This will change your perspective of living. As long as we look at the world from a negative perspective, everything seems bad to us.

    Looking from a positive perspective, we can achieve our position in this world. If you have a true desire to do something in your mind, then you will put your all in it. And you have to apply, only then success will be achieved. Even if you ever fail in any work, at least you will not regret that you did not do any work of your mind in your life. Our conscience always wants our good. That’s why always listen to your heart.

  • How does food shape your future?

    August 10th, 2023

    Once upon a time, Buddha’s disciples asked Buddha, why do you always speak to take food with love.  And why is it said to take food in a balanced quantity only.  If we do not take food with love, then will there be no food, if we take food in excess, will it act as poison?  Buddha said that our thoughts become according to the kind of food we take.  And not just food, too much of anything is never good.  Buddha started telling the story to his disciple.

    Once upon a time, a hermit used to live in a forest by building a hut.  If any person would have taken any problem in front of him, he would have solved it immediately.  While doing this, he became very famous and the people of nearby villages also started coming to him to solve their problems.  He had become very famous.  Hearing the discussions of the sage, one day the king of that city reached to the sage with his courtiers.  The king folded hands and said, Maharaj, I have heard that you solve everyone’s problems.  So why don’t you solve some problems of our state as well.  And you have to walk with us because there is no material means for you in this forest.  You are passing through great difficulties in this small cottage.  After listening to the king, the sage said, “No, sir, I am absolutely happy in my place.”  But the king did not mind, he forcefully took the monk with him.  The king gave all the comforts to the monk in his court.  Delicious dishes to eat, velvet bed to sleep.  After getting all these, the sadhu changed completely, there was a lot of change in his nature.  Even the sage could not understand why his nature changed like this after coming here.  Then one day, suddenly getting a chance, the monk runs away from the court.  And he takes a lot of valuable things with him.  When the king came to know, he put a soldier behind them.  The soldiers searched everywhere for the monk but could not find him.  On the other hand, the monk went towards the forest while running and sat down tired under a tree.  Sitting under the tree, he saw a fruit fell down from the tree.  The monk was very hungry that’s why he ate that fruit.  He had such a medicine in the fruit that upsets the stomach. Medicine is also something that cannot be eaten without illness.

    After eating that fruit, the monk became so ill that he did not even know how to heal from his place. He didn’t like anything, he happily became a structure. One day he thought in his mind that why did I run away from Raj Mahal with his valuables. Maybe that’s why God put me in this condition. There is a lot of remorse in his mind and he starts thinking of giving back all the money to the king. Then gathering courage in his mind, he goes towards the Raj Mahal and starts giving back all the money to the king. So the king asked him why did you run away with my money. And now you have come to give back, when you had to give, then why steal.

    Then the monk said to the king, Rajan, while I was at your place, I was taking food from your house, and my intelligence had also become like yours. That’s why I ran away with this money. Because this money is not your earned, you have also snatched it from someone. Don’t know how many poor and unhappy souls reside in this money. Ever since I ate that fruit, all the food I had eaten in your house went out of my stomach because of it. And as soon as your food came out, wisdom came back in my mind. That’s why I came to give it back.

    Buddha says the same thing to his disciple that whatever we eat, we should first observe where that thing came from. Is that food of someone else’s right? Even when we cook food, the emotions of our mind get absorbed in the food. The condition from which we cook food enters our food. As we are preparing food with a very happy heart, the person who eats the food prepared by us also remains happy. If we cook with sadness, then the person who eats it will also be sad. If we cook food with anger, everyone will get angry because of the food we eat. So this is the thing that only one thing means how much importance Bhajan has in our life. If we prepare and speak food with a happy heart, then our mind also remains happy. And when the mind and heart are happy, then we can achieve immense success in our life.

    Food prepared with a sad heart and the person who eats it becomes so sad that he does not see the highs and lows of life. And when the mind itself is not happy then what kind of success.

  • every work of a good thinker is good

    August 10th, 2023

    In today’s world, one hears everywhere that do a good deed and throw it in the river. But it is not so. our good deeds stay with us always. And if our deeds are good then we don’t need anyone’s blessings. No auspicious time can harm us. Good luck to us every time. Every month is auspicious. And even God is always there to

    Today I am giving an example of this. A friend of mine bought a new house. Everyone said that he had bought the house just like that, he would have shown it to someone with architecture. After listening to everyone’s words, my husband also started telling me. So I thought that I should get rid of the daily hassle. One day I called an Vastu Shastra person to my house. He called me that you should come to pick me up at the station. I went to pick them up. As soon as I took the car forward with them, a dog came under my car. I immediately pressed the brake. I got down from the car and handled the dog. His legs were hurt, I took him to the hospital. After dressing her, I fed her and left her in a corner. But saw that he was still looking at me. I felt pity again put her in the car and thought I would take her home. But immediately the thought crossed my mind that my husband doesn’t like dogs. Still I can’t leave it. I brought her with me.

    As I was pushing the cart inside the house, a beggar came, and he said that he had not eaten for many days. I turned the car back. And took some food from the nearby shop and gave it to him. As soon as I entered the house, the maidservant was standing in front of me. She said that her child is very sick and needs some help. I quickly took out the 2000 note and said that the child should not have any problem. All this was in my nature. I was not doing anything to show my architecture.

    my architecture was watching all this, and was smiling. We went to the house, I made him sit with respect. And arranged tea water. Then I asked you to see my house and tell me what is wrong with it. my architecture started laughing when I said this. He said to me, daughter, there cannot be any fault in your house. Because you are always ready to help others. You must have heard that God also helps those who help others. And God is always pleased with them. When God is happy then how can we feel guilty.

    That’s why don’t think good and bad in life. Take care of yourself and take care of others as well. If God has given you something, then help others. Before thinking bad about someone else always keep in mind that it will happen to you. So now it is your choice how you think for yourself.

    The Lord says in the Gita that you do what I want, then what you want will happen. A man should never give up these three things, sacrifice, charity and penance. Because these three things make a man pure. The good and bad deeds of a man continue till birth after birth. Because human beings keep on coming and going in this world.

  • Is it necessary to sacrifice attachment to be happy?

    August 9th, 2023

    Once Gautam Buddha was passing by the bank of a river with some of his companions. It was evening time. The setting sun was making the atmosphere attractive with its redness. The Buddha saw that some children were building small houses out of porcelain lying on the banks of the river. The children were so happy that they did not need anything anymore. He was completely engrossed in the work of building the house. And his disciples stood there watching the children’s play. Just after a while, one child’s foot came on the house built by another. And the shape of his house deteriorated. The other shouted what have you done. After today you are not my friend. What have you done to this, you know how hard I made it. After today you are not my friend. Your friendship with me is over. After this, that second child starts building his house.

    After a while, the mothers of those children who are washing clothes in the river come and say, come on children, it is evening now, so now let’s go home. As soon as they heard this, all the children started breaking the mud houses they had built. They were all squealing with joy and jumping on the mud houses. The children who till a while back were doing my house, your house, now none of them had any idea that who was breaking whose house. After jumping and jumping for a while, the children put their hands on each other’s shoulders and went away jokingly. As long as those children believed that this house belonged to them, there were also fights between those children. Their friendship was also breaking. But as soon as the children came to know that the night is about to happen and now the time has come to go to their real home. So the children’s attachment to the mud house ended. And he himself broke them by jumping. And playing and jumping went to their home. 

    Gautam Buddha said that exactly the same happens with our life. The person who clearly saw that he has to die here, night has to happen. If not today then tomorrow you will have to go back to your real home. That person’s all attachment towards this world ends. Like when those children realized that this was the world created by them. In which he was lost for some time. Their real home is somewhere else, so they themselves broke those mud houses. And got free from them. Buddha said people ask me how we will get freedom from the world. Whereas you don’t need to be free. You are already free. You have just accepted that you are attached to the world. This is just a dream which you are going on living believing it to be true. But this dream will also go away one day because all the dreams are broken. This too will break.

    As long as those children attached themselves to those mud houses, they were considered their own. This fear was also sitting inside them that it might break. May no one harm them. But as soon as the night comes, the time comes for those children to go to their real home, all the love they have for those mud houses, ends. This life is also like that. Everything you are afraid of, worried about, everything you feel attached to, is just a dream. In which you are also going. And this dream can break at any moment. The things and people you consider yours are not yours at all. This is just your illusion. And this is the delusion of millions of people in the world. Every day it breaks, yours will also break. He said being a little serious, the most important thing is that life is a dream. But at the same time it is also an opportunity to know the truth. Now it is up to you whether you spend this opportunity in worry or tension or in a meaningful search.

    Because one thing is certain that we all are going to get closer to our death with every passing moment. And one day we all have to face it. If you people can see this life with this perspective, then no problem of the world, no sorrow will be able to disturb and upset you. There is only one reason for your mind to be disturbed is not to see the truth. The happiness and joy of truth is within us. But we keep looking for it in outside things and other people and get depressed. Being happy in any situation is a choice. And then gradually choice becomes our nature. If you also make a habit of being happy in every situation,

  • your own partner your heart

    August 9th, 2023

    In this chubby world, we meet many people unknowingly. Sometimes we leave after saying hi hello. But sometimes such a person is found who changes our life in just 2 minutes. Something similar happened to me one day. In the evening, I reached the banks of the Parth while strolling like this. There was a middle aged man sitting on the bench. I sat there while having a formal conversation. Because the middle-aged man was very interesting. I started talking to him a lot here and there. While talking, he told me one thing. Who changed my life

    He told us that our life is a gift from God. We are very fortunate to be born in human form. Otherwise, there are so many animals, so many insects and kites, so many animals and birds in the world. But sometimes we ruin such a beautiful life by our small mistake. Like many people stay in jail for years and years. They don’t know the outside world. Their world gets confined to a cell. Like many people cannot enjoy life due to physical disability. Many people go around hiding after committing crimes.

    they told me. Speak once a day by placing your hand on your heart. That you are a precious gift from God. God has sent you in this world to do good. And you are doing good to everyone with your body, mind and wealth. You live together with everyone. Wherever you go, you become the moon of every party. All your friends keep waiting for you eagerly. You always did good to everyone. And whenever you also need something, people cannot refuse. Today is going to be a wonderful day for you.

    The man told me that our heart is the only part on which we believe. Because this is what makes us do all the good and bad things in life. And when something good happens to us, it is the first to chirp in happiness. He cries first when we are hurt. And we leave no stone unturned to make it unhappy. We make him sad in small things.

    That’s why always take care of your heart. Wake up in the morning and caress her with love. Make good promises to him. Give him the assurance that today I will not do any wrong thing with you. I will not do anything that will hurt you. No matter how good or bad someone says to me, I will not be sad. No matter how big a problem comes, I will laugh it off.

    Your heart is your best friend. He always beats for you only for you to reach your destination. If you run hither and thither in fear of getting hurt on your heart then everyone will try to hurt you. No man is perfect in this world. People can find fault with you too. People have not left even God. All this is the work of people in every era. But your only job is to save your heart at all costs.

    If you grow from within, there will be no pride or prejudice. You will always do something after listening to your heart. Then your heart will not consider anyone else as a bad person. When your inner growth is done then everything will look great to you.

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