Redefinewisdom

No one likes to be alone in this world. Everyone needs each other’s support to survive. We feel that there should be some person who can listen to our heart. Some people are very much afraid of being alone. Some people do not like sleeping, eating, walking, traveling etc. alone.

A person living alone is very self-sufficient. He has the ability to do everything alone in life. All the people in this world who have achieved success in the depths of meditation have done so by being alone. Loneliness gives us the opportunity to know ourselves. Gives opportunity. A man living alone stays away from negativity. A man living alone can understand the reality of life very well. A man living alone is always different from others. They think different from others. They have amazing decision making ability. They are very fearless. They have the courage to call right what is right and wrong what is wrong. People who live alone speak very little, so that their energy is not spent on useless things.

A man who lives alone does not care whether someone befriends him or not. He never feels alone. Because he is used to being alone. A person who lives alone may become funny in everyone’s eyes, people tease him, because he does not join people in doing evil to people. But it also has the advantage that even people cannot do any harm to him. No one can ever say that he told me this about you. He does not waste his time getting entangled in useless things. That’s why he is able to spend his time in work matters.

A man who lives alone does not compare himself with anyone. While people living in a crowd always get jealous of each other. They compare themselves with others. It passes in me. Keeping an eye on people all the time, talking here and there becomes a part of their life. Whereas a lonely man stays away from all these things. He does not like all these habits.

The key to the happiness of a man living in a crowd lies with the people. When people say good things to him, he is happy, if someone says something against him, he gets upset. He does everything just to show people. While a single man is the master of his own will. He can please himself whenever he wants. It is better to be alone than to have a mean relationship with others unnecessarily, it is more correct. Anyway, when we are struggling in life, when we are in times of sorrow, then we have to bear it all alone. But when we achieve success, then the whole universe is with us. By walking with the crowd, you always get company but not recognition. If we have to make our identity, then we have to make it by being alone.

Once upon a time there were many children studying in a school. One of them was completely different. He was lost in his thoughts all the time. When the study time was over, he would sit under a tree. Sitting there, he used to imagine. He kept talking to himself. Sometimes he looks at the sky. Sometimes towards the trees, sometimes in the redness of the setting sun, he would have busy himself. Sometimes he would get lost in the sound of birds. All the children started calling him Dhyani Ram. Whenever he passed by someone, people would laugh at him. But he didn’t care about anyone at all. He always lived in his own world. Days passed like this. After the completion of schooling, all the children were separated. Everyone was busy in their own world.

Once after many years, for the first time a motivational speaker was coming to the city. Everyone along with their families went to listen to him. People asked many types of questions. Someone was asking why I could not succeed in life? Someone was asking, I have many friends but I do not feel anyone is my own, what should I do? Someone was asking, I don’t get along with my wife because she always catches my words. Someone was asking, I get entangled in my own words because of speaking too much. The speaker was laughing after listening to all of them. Now he started speaking, we have to learn the lesson of keeping calm from childhood. When we have our learning days then we spend our life making fun of others. People who cannot keep themselves alone for some time in life, people who are always surrounded by others, do not understand that both time and understanding do not come together. When there is time, there is no understanding, when understanding comes, time slips out of hand. I was always made fun of in the school where I studied as a child. But I never cared for anyone. That is why I am at this stage today. Everyone who had studied in the same school were stunned after listening to his words. Their eyes narrowed. Later they all apologized to the speaker for their behaviour.

If we ever get success in life, then our experience has a big hand in it. The experience you have gained from life will take you forward. The desire to do something will arise in your mind. That’s why never be afraid of being alone in life. We have come alone in this world and will go alone.