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What is the illusion of our mind?

August 28th, 2023

Man is such an intelligent creature who is sitting with different types of illusions in his mind. He thinks that this work cannot be done without him, that work cannot be done without him. Similarly, he has the illusion that without him his wife and children will not be able to live. I keep falling into the pit. The elephant knows that there is a sugarcane tree on the other side of the pit. But the greed of food makes him forget the fear of falling. Similarly, a man forgets his image because of his attachment to his family.

There was a very learned saint. For many days he was thinking that now I am about to get old, I should engage myself in the devotion of God. Went to his guru and told the whole thing to the guru. The Guru said, tomorrow you take your family and go for a swim in the river and stay quietly inside the water by doing breathing exercises there. The saint did the same, he hid inside the water. His family members thought he had drowned. Everyone returned to their homes. When the neighbors saw that the saint was no more in this world, they all started helping him. On the other side, the saint came out of the water and went to do penance in the forest. But the memory of home does not allow him to concentrate. Again and again the face of his wife and children would come in front of him. He wonders whether my wife and children would have eaten the food or not. Because I was the only earning member in the family.

This went on for a few days, his mind was not engaged in meditation. One day he came back to his master. I started saying to the Guru, what should I do, my mind does not forget about my family. The man’s wife also used to come to the Guru’s place everyday to seek his blessings. The Guru said to the saint, today you sit quietly, when your wife comes, listen to her words. The saint did the same, early in the morning his wife came. Guru asked the saint’s wife how is your life going. Saint’s wife said that we are living a better life than before. With my husband’s earnings, my house was run with great difficulty. Till the time my husband was there, even the villagers did not help us. After he left, he also started helping us. I also grow vegetables in my garden and sell them in the market. I have started earning good money. Now my children have also started studying. The saint was listening to the whole thing. He was very happy to hear the words of his wife.

When the saint’s wife left, the saint came out. The Guru explained to him, look, it doesn’t make any difference in the world whether someone lives or not. But the mind of the saint had become restless now. He was feeling that now there would be no attention from him. He started telling the Guru that I want to go back to my home. The Guru explained to him a lot but he did not agree. One night he went to her house and started knocking on the door. Who is his wife’s voice coming from inside? She said, I am your husband, open the door. The saint’s wife got scared, she said from inside, it has been 6 months since my husband died. Please do not lie to me. You must be some robber. The saint said no I am your husband and he told the whole story. Still the saint’s wife did not open the door. She was thinking that some miscreant must have come trying to rob her. The saint’s wife said that even if you are my husband, go away because we have come to live now. We are living life better than ever before. Please don’t disturb our happiness.

The saint went back to the forest with a very sad heart. Today his illusion was shattered, that his family cannot live without him. While the truth was that his wife never tried to work outside while he was alive. Whatever work the saint used to do, she was living in that. It never occurred to his wife that even if I do something, four more paise will come into the house. Due to lack of money, she could not educate her children. But now she had become independent. That’s why don’t consider yourself so great in life that the world will not run without you.

Illusion is the dream of a closed eye and an open eye. If this is visible in the open eye then there will be realization in life. This deception can be cut off only with the light of knowledge. It is said that a saint used to live in an ashram on the banks of the Ganges and teach his disciples. One day at nightfall he gave something to one of his disciples and said go inside and put it on my bed. The disciple came back with the object and fearfully said, ‘There is a snake sitting on Gurudev’s bed.’ The saint said, ‘You go inside again, chanting the name of the Lord, the snake will run away.’ The disciple went inside again, but he saw that the snake There it is. He came back scared again.

Now Guruji said that this time you go inside with the lamp in your hand. When the disciple reached inside with the lamp, he saw in the light of the lamp that what he thought was a snake was actually a rope. Because of the darkness, he was visible to him like a snake. When he told Gurudev about the rope, he said, ‘Wats, the world is a web of deep lies. It can be cut only with the light of knowledge. Due to ignorance, we keep many illusions. One should always take the help of knowledge to remove them.

We keep uniting day and night for all the happiness of the world, even after that we do not get happiness. On the other hand, we never try for the happiness of our soul. Due to this, many types of sins continue to happen. We keep thinking only about happiness in our mind whereas there is no happiness and sorrow in this world, we accept happiness and sorrow as our own. We consider the reduction of sorrow as happiness. The job of our mind is to create illusions. The thing we desire or the thing we are afraid of, many times we have the illusion of being or appearing. It is created by our own mind. Before this, its image is created in our mind and later we feel the illusion of seeing something.

All the illusions in the world are created by our mind. We can also see this by connecting it with the imagination power of our mind. Everyone knows that whatever is happening is today’s time and now is the moment only. There is no such thing as past or say yesterday and future or tomorrow.
Do you lack communication skills?

August 28th, 2023

Communication is a process by which information is exchanged between two or more persons. In Hindi, communication means communication or communication. Effective communication skills help a person to effectively present his point of view among one or more persons.

An effective communication skill is one of the main means of attracting any person towards you. If you have good communication skills, then any person is attracted towards you and he likes to talk to you, as well as people’s interest in talking to you will increase. To create your best image, you must have good communication skills.
Your communication skills are very useful in every field. No matter where you work, or if you have your own business, good communication skills are important everywhere. Communication is the only thing that connects people to us. If you also want to be successful in life, then you have to improve your communication skills.

Having good communication skills attracts people towards us and if our communication skills are not good then no one is interested in what we say.

Your communication skills are very useful in every field. No matter where you work, or if you have your own business, good communication skills are important everywhere. Communication skill is a part of conversation or communication which is not known to everyone. Having good communication skills attracts people towards us and if our communication skills are not good then no one is interested in what we say.

If you talk to a person, then only by the way he speaks, you can get an idea of his communication skills. How you communicate or talk depends on your communication skills.
First of all, oral communication is a communication system in which two or more people share information by speaking. These words can be in both oral and written form. It is used to keep your point on the phone or in a group.
The second is the written communication system, in which a person makes his point in writing to keep it between one or several persons. Sending messages, orders or instructions in written form, for example through letters, manuals, reports, telegrams, office memos, bulletins, etc. Third, non-verbal communication, also known as manual language. In which you are talking without using spoken or written words. In this you use your body language, facial expressions, blinking of eyes etc.

Some specific steps can be taken to improve your communication skills. First of all, we have to pay attention to how our body language is. Own
Keep body language right, listen carefully, be confident and positive, keep eye contact, talk point to point, use the right words,
understand the person, practice daily
Give respect, complete the talk, body language plays the most role in communication. When you talk to someone, it is also visible from your body. It should not happen that you are speaking something else and your body language is saying something else. This is the first impression of communicating with someone. That’s why it is very important to have control over your body language. Always listen carefully to what others say. Whenever you talk to someone, you should also listen carefully to the other person’s words. Because for good communication, as much as it is necessary to speak, it is more important to listen carefully to the other person’s words. If you listen carefully to the person in front, then only you will be able to answer their words correctly. It is also very important that you remain confident and positive. Keep it up and have your say. For this, first think a little and only then speak your words. If you look confident then you can prove your point right.
Keep eye contact in yourself.
When you talk to someone, talk to them by making eye contact. If you talk while looking into the person’s eyes, then it also increases your confidence and the person in front is also interested in listening to you and speaking to you. If you do not do this, then the person in front feels that you are not interested in his talk and you are getting bored with him. Whenever you talk to someone, talk point to point.
We can explain our things only when we talk point to point. Many people do such a thing that they say something together at once, so that the person in front does not understand anything. For this, keep your words point to point so that the listener can understand all your words very well.

Always use the right words.
When you talk to someone, do not use wrong words. Choose the right words, never use words like work. When you use nice and attractive words then people get attracted to you. And listens to you carefully and considers you a good person.

Understand the person in front.
The way of talking to all humans is different. So whenever you talk to someone, keep in mind his age and his profession. Like if you talk to a small child then his way is different and when you talk to an older person then his way is different and when you live in office then the way of talking there is different. Is. Similarly, the way of talking to all persons is different.

Practice your confidence level daily.
You must have heard the saying that “Practice makes man perfect”. So practice daily to improve your communication skills. It starts with a small interaction only.

Learn to give respect to others.
If you give respect to the talk of the person in front, then he is interested in talking to you further. That’s why take care of the words of the person in front and give respect to their words, otherwise the conversation will start getting bored. Always complete your words.
Never leave your words incomplete, complete the matter and let the person in front also complete it. Do not cut off their words, otherwise the person in front will feel that you are not interested in their words. In a team or group, allowing others to speak without interruption is seen as an essential communication skill.

You must have seen many times that a person is shaking unnecessarily while talking. And someone is scratching his head while talking. And someone crosses the limit, keeps on putting finger in nose again and again. Someone is speaking in a stutter. All this is seen even in very educated people. All these things show how much self-confidence they lack. Book knowledge is not just acquired, it should also be known to be expressed. If any of you have such a habit, then stand in front of the mirror and talk to the mirror. And try to improve your habits. Avoid the habit of repeating the same thing over and over again. Start your conversation only after the person in front has finished speaking. If a person is saying something, then do not speak at all in between. With these efforts, you will see that within a few days your communication skills will improve completely.
How much should you be attached to your loved ones?

August 28th, 2023

Some people are so important in our life that we talk about breaking even the moon and stars for them. Being blinded by the love of our loved ones, we ignore their evils. If someone says even a word to our loved ones, then we get ready to fight and die. To this extent, those who are attached to their own people keep on falling into the pit of injustice. By loving our children too much, we make ourselves so weak, when the children do not respect us when they grow up, then a mountain of sorrows breaks down on us. We need everything to have a limit. While raising children, we should not forget our future.

People who are very attached to children paralyze them. Those parents do not allow the confidence of the children to increase. They keep covering all their mistakes. Such children grow up to become criminals. Do not ignore even the smallest mistake of children. It is necessary to inform them about every mistake. Due to excessive attachment, we want to give every happiness of the world to our children, but it does not mean that you make them unworthy. Teach your children to be kind to others so that they can never do any wrong thing in life.

A man lived in a small hut with his wife and a son. There were fruit trees in front of his hut, where a nightingale used to come everyday. Nightingale used to sing very sweetly. One day that person saw that a nightingale had made a nest on the tree, in which her small children lived. The man used to watch the nightingale everyday with his son in his arms. After a few days, Nightingale’s children started growing up a bit, Nightingale taught its children to pluck grains, and taught them to fly. Seeing this, the man’s child started insisting on taking the nightingale’s child one day. He started crying loudly and said that I want the same nightingale’s child. The man loved his son beyond measure. He cleverly caught a baby nightingale and gave it to his son. That man’s son broke and twisted Nightingale’s child like a toy, Nightingale’s child was very small, it died. When the nightingale’s child was not doing any movements, the man’s child picked it up and threw it.

The man was watching all this action of his son, still he did not refuse him just out of fascination. Nightingale was very sad to see her children dying. But none of his buses were running in front of the man. After a few days, the rest of Nightingale’s children grew up and flew away. One day the man went to the market from work. Meanwhile, it rained heavily, the clouds in the sky burst, and the man’s hut was washed away. When the man returned, he was surprised to see that his wife and children were not known to anyone. The whole village was submerged in the flood. The man went away from the village and sat under a mango tree. He was very hungry but he had nothing to eat. Just then he saw the same nightingale plucking mangoes from the top of the tree with her beak. The man ate mangoes to his fill. Just then the children of the nightingale came. They had brought grains of rice in their beak, which they dropped in front of the man.

Seeing the children, the nightingale also came down. Now the nightingale started singing again. Seeing these actions of all of them, the man started crying loudly. The man was thinking that I took the life of his child for my son. How selfish of me and how kind of a bird it is. I have never taught my children that other people’s lives are as important as yours. But this bird has taught so much knowledge to its children. We nurture our children so that they will grow up to take care of us. Because of this selfishness, we keep on fulfilling every wish of his mind. But this bird left her children to struggle in the world. The lesson of humanity which I could not teach to my children, this dumb bird taught to its children.

Attachment creates inertia, which destroys our intelligence. We always have the fear that what will happen to our family if we are no more. But nothing like this happens, people will remember us for a few days. Then he will get involved in his routine. The happiness and facilities that you had given to them, now they will try themselves to get them. The one who used to keep both his hands tied while you were there. Life doesn’t stop for anyone. That’s why your intelligence should not be destroyed by attachment.
Do you have to be bad to be successful?

August 27th, 2023

Yes it is necessary to be bad to be successful. Because this world does not allow straight people to live. This world stands wide open like a hunter all the time. When do you find a straight person and hunt him. No matter how weak you are from inside, you should appear tough to people from outside. The world always makes good people cry. Good people silently bear the oppression of others, that’s why the world dominates them more. We should not become bad by our actions, nor by our nature. To be bad means to be tough. Always follow the path of your truth. No matter how much people pressure you, never cheat anyone. If you feel bad about someone, then answer directly on the face. At that time don’t think what will happen to them. It is not necessary to think so much for someone who does not care about your feelings. The world calls such people bad who tell the truth on their face. People gossip about such people. But one should never be afraid of all these things. Always stay away from people who don’t like you. Because wild animal only hurts our body, but such people hurt both our body and mind. Often people cut straight trees and leave the crooked trees.

Two sons used to live in a house with an old parents. The younger son always used to serve his parents a lot. He would always try to keep his relatives happy. But in return he always got insults. One day he went to a saint and said. I do so much for everyone, try to make everyone happy, serve everyone, I consider myself the best person. Still I do not get any result from it. Then the saint said to him, who told you to do such good deeds. And why do you do all this? Then the boy said, I do all this so that people also think well of me. Respect me and consider me a good person. Then the saint said to him, you do all good deeds so that in return people also say good to you. You like to hear people brag about you. You are always present for people so that when the time comes, they also do your work. This is your biggest mistake. What you wish for from people is not necessarily what you get back.

Whenever we do a good deed and do it thinking that the person in front should do the same with us, then we are a straight person. Straight people have no value in this world. People take straight people very lightly. People think that it will not mind anything, no matter how it is treated. On the contrary, people who speak very carefully, people who do not lick the soles of others in the pursuit of their pride, people who care about their work, people who do not talk here and there, explain to the world if not today or tomorrow. What is its existence?

Thinking of becoming better does not allow us to succeed in our goal. Because we keep thinking all the time how to please the person in front of us. We are not able to give any importance to our important work. And sometimes it happens in the end that nothing is found except regret. What about people, people remember your good words only for two days. People use you according to their needs. And you cannot say that I will not, because you do not know how to say no. People use such people as employees. For whom we stake our future, they insult us by being successful in their life.

That’s why it is necessary to be bad to be successful in life. Because when ghee does not come out from a straight finger, then the finger has to be bent.
What to do after being cheated in love?

August 26th, 2023

When someone loves someone, he spends the whole universe on him. He hands over all his day’s peace and night’s sleep to that person. No matter how important a work may be, nothing is important because of it. He is not worried about his future. He lives only in the present. In such a situation, if a person cheats someone, then he does not live anywhere.

As long as you keep thinking about the person who betrayed you, it won’t matter. When you beg in front of him to ask for love, then you will have no value in his eyes. The one who values your love will never cheat you and the one who cheated doesn’t love you at all. You may have fallen in love with him but he only had a bond of attraction with you. Often the same people cheat more on whom we trust blindly. The same false love betrays us one day or the other. If someone has true love towards you then he can never cheat you.

If ever you have loved a person who repeatedly humiliated you. Still you were vying for his love. You are bound to be cheated in life. Because that person did not love you from the heart, you gave him so much value. That’s why he was making a false show of love by taking pity on you. You were so madly in love with her that you did not understand this false love. If you had ignored that human being at this time, you would not have been in this condition today. If you tried to forget him, you would probably feel sad for a few days. But there is no such big stumbling block in life. The person who values love also values the love of others.

The one whom a person loves, he settles in the heart and mind. Such a deep layer of love sits in his heart and mind that it becomes difficult to remove it. A person is immersed in his remembrance all the time while sleeping, waking up, laughing and playing. But is it okay to make yourself so vulnerable for the person who betrayed you? The one who has cheated must be making more new plans in his life. And must be playing with someone. Whatever happens happens for the good. It is better not to be with such a deceitful person. As the leaves of the tree fall according to the time, and then when the time comes, the tree becomes green again. Similarly, our life turns many pages. When the right time comes, everything goes back to the way it was. The wound of time does not always remain a wound. The more wisely you take less, the sooner your wound will heal.

Sorrow and happiness are two sides of our life. Those who are more weak, they have a lot of effect on them. The person who is strong with his feelings does not care about big or small sorrows. Everyone has trouble when they have come into this world. Some get scattered in trouble and some get sparkled. It is your own decision whether you have to shine by fighting such trouble, or you have to scatter in life by remembering the one who cheated you.

Love does not mean only between a boy or a girl. Brother’s love, sister’s love, friend’s love, and also love with family members is love. Where love is not true, there can be betrayal in any relationship. And when there is cheating in the relationship, we break ourselves. We must understand that the world does not stop for anyone. If we try to forget someone, we will remember him more. So put your mind somewhere else.

Was a very handsome scholar boy. He fell in love with a girl during college days. He didn’t understand that girl, the girl loved him to fulfill her needs. And when her needs were met, she left the boy. In this condition, the boy was not able to make himself comfortable. He thought what would I do by living in this world now. And he got up very early in the morning and left the house to commit suicide. Reached the bank of a pond, and sitting there started thinking for a while. Only then a saint came to bathe in the pond. When he saw that young boy there, he asked him son, what are you doing here so early in the morning? I come here everyday to take bath, I have never seen you. The boy did not say anything on the words of the saint, he was just looking towards the pond. The saint understood his condition. The saint put his hand on his forehead and asked, son, will you tell me your problem? After getting the love of the saint, the boy started crying loudly and narrated the whole story to the saint. Then the boy said to the saint, let me die because I cannot forget him.

The saint explained to the boy, our mind and mind is our slave. When you had kept him in love with that girl with love, till then he was supporting you with the same love. Now when you will scold them and say that leave me in my condition, I should not remember anyone. So he will definitely listen to you. God has filled us with so much strength that we can heal the wounds of our mind with the ointment of our own thoughts.

Will the mother who gave birth to you ever die, will you go with her? Whose father himself by facing difficulties and fulfilling your every need made you worthy that you can be his support in old age. Will you repay their favor like this? To commit suicide is a coward. With whom will you fight when you destroy yourself? You have to fight the situation and make yourself happy again. It is necessary to keep yourself alive for your family, for your society and for your country. You are not so cheap that you give your life for someone. Your life is priceless. You have a golden future in front of you. Don’t know how many pebbles and stones will come on the rocky path of life, how many times you will get thorn in your feet. So will you sit down with your feet together? When we get hurt by stones once, then only we walk carefully.

That’s why one should slowly try to remove the person who cheats from his thoughts. As many times as you remember that person, use the word cheater for him and calm your mind in your mind.
Why is struggle necessary for life?

August 26th, 2023

Nothing in life without struggle. When we struggle, a force is born in us. On the basis of that strength, we are successful in achieving our destination. When gold turns into ornaments, it is melted in a burning hot fire. He doesn’t know how much he is beaten to turn iron into a tool. How much heat does coal take to become a diamond? Similarly, the personality of a man also shines through struggle. The people who do not struggle always remain backward in life. Not seeing their shortcomings, they keep blaming fate.

He was a very hardworking farmer. He would grow crops in the fields with all his hard work, but sometimes his crop would become completely useless. He does not get any benefit from his crop. The reason for this is sometimes dryness, sometimes too much rain, sometimes too much sunshine, and sometimes so much hail used to fall without any season. One day looking towards which sky he started saying to God. Lord I am very angry with you. All the people of the world consider you omniscient. I have heard that nothing can happen here without your consent. Everything in this world is made by you. Not even a leaf can move without your consent. But being so knowledgeable, why don’t you pay attention to small things. Whenever you change the weather. Don’t you know that this has a big impact on agriculture. Perhaps you do not know because you do not have to do farming. But why have you taken the right to do the work which you do not have to do. Do one less God, hand over this right to me. Then see how I take the weather in my hands. I will do what is right for the farm.

God laughed after listening to the farmer. God thought that I should give him a chance this time so that he can understand the importance of the laws of nature. In front of whom did God appear? To whom did God say that after today you can do everything according to your wish, I give you this boon. Saying this, God left from there. To what extent was he happy? He was thinking that now he will grow food on his own will. For the first time, the farmer planted wheat seeds in his fields with great enthusiasm. Now the weather was in his hands. The sun would come out when he wanted. He would have stopped the rain when he wanted. He started taking care of the farm as per his convenience.

After a few months, large ears of wheat started waving in his field. The farmer was very happy in his heart that he had never seen such a full field till date. Now God will also see how the crop is grown. Seeing my crop this time, they will have to change the rules of their nature. After a few days it was time to harvest the crop. As soon as the farmer started harvesting his crop, his head became dizzy. There was no wheat at all inside the wheat ears. The farmer started crying sitting there and started calling God. Oh God how you cheated me like this. Did I take the weather in my hands, because of that anger you did not put wheat in my ears? Then what is the difference between you and an ordinary person.

Hearing the words of the farmer, God started laughing again. God came and started saying, why would I be angry with you? I gave you what you asked for me. You still have a complaint with me. The truth is that you didn’t even give your plants a chance to struggle. Neither did you let him fight with the storm, nor did you rain hail, nor did you let the sun shine for a long time. You kept them as per your convenience. It is only after bearing these laws of nature that the power to grow in food comes. We also have to suffer hammer injuries to sit in temples.

After listening to God, the farmer started asking for forgiveness from God. The farmer has started saying that God, what I had considered so simple, there is a big secret behind it. Struggle is the first step to our success. Struggle strengthens both our body and mind. The storm in our life is a challenge for us. If we try to save ourselves by being afraid of all this, then our fate will be like the wheat of the farmer. We will not be able to develop. A person who does not struggle is a doodle. That’s why struggling is our life. To be afraid of struggle is cowardice.
How strong is loneliness?

August 26th, 2023

Weakness and strength are two sides of a coin for humans. Loneliness does not just mean that we are not surrounded by a crowd of people. Loneliness means behind the millions of questions arising in our mind, our sadness, the disturbance of our mind, the fear hidden inside us. When a person does not consider himself capable, then he feels that he is the only fool in the world. Loneliness is not just physical it is a cause of mental disturbance. Loneliness with mental disturbance makes a man’s mind like a blank paper. In which the victim goes on writing the feelings arising in his mind.

The problem of loneliness happens to a person when he gets too attached to something and that thing goes out of his hands. Or someone plays with our feelings. A person struggling with the problem of loneliness can turn his life in two directions. If he turns his life towards positive direction then he can make himself capable of achieving anything in the world. And if a person’s mind goes towards negativity, then he can also commit an act like suicide. A person struggling with loneliness remains full of strength. At this time, if that person finds someone to show him the right direction, then that person can do a lot.

Being alone, a person can weave the fabric of his future very well. A single person can change the whole world. All you need is courage. Anyway, no one belongs to anyone in this selfish world. We waste our time by falling in the trap of false relationships. When a person is alone then only he is able to take the right decision for something. Victory in life and everything becomes our thinking, the one who accepts that he will lose, he loses, the one who is determined that he will win, he wins. Being alone means you are not alone but with yourself. You can never be alone if you have that powerful mind with you.

Your mind is like a crazy child. You have to keep him under control either by intimidation or by love. Do not always weaken your state of mind by thinking that I have no one in this world. I have no friends, no one talks nice to me, etc. We did not bring all these people with us. We came into this world alone. And God has given us so much strength that we can single-handedly lift the whole world on our heads. Then why do we get disheartened about loneliness every now and then.

There was a sculptor. He used to make idols out of stones. One day he went to find a big stone in the forest to make an idol for the village temple. He saw a very big stone in the forest, he was happy that this stone is perfect for me. There were also many smaller stones lying there. He took out the tools from his bag. And as soon as I hit the stone, a sound came from the stone, I am feeling very pain. Leave me for God’s sake. The stones lying near him also started saying please leave it. Nothing like this had ever happened to him. He left that stone. Then when he started moving forward, he found another similar stone. That stone was all alone. This time again he took out his weapon, as soon as he hit the stone again there was a sound. This time he thought that maybe the same thing happens in this forest. He did not hear any sound from the stone, he continued to do his work. After a few hours he made a beautiful idol. And he brought that idol to the village. The villagers kept that idol in the temple. All the villagers used to worship him a lot. One day a person said that there is no stone in our temple to break coconut. So that sculptor said that I will bring the stone to break the coconut.

The sculptor went back to the forest and brought back the stone he had left behind while making the idol. He brought it and kept it in the temple. Whoever came to the temple used to hit the coconut with a stone. One night the idol stone and the coconut stone were talking to each other. The coconut stone said how lucky you are people worship you. I am so unlucky people break coconuts on my head all day it hurts me so much. After listening to his words, the idol stone spoke. When this sculptor came to pick me up I was in pain too

The work which the world always stops us from doing, you will not be able to do it, if we muster the courage to stay alone, we will definitely be able to do it. We have already heard that on whom the world laughs, he creates history. Don’t consider yourself less than anyone. The tour of loneliness is such a journey for you, by walking in which you can get new information. Even if there are difficulties in your journey, it will increase your courage. If someone blocks your way, then your courage will increase. If you surrender yourself in defeat, then at that time your value will further decrease.

People who live alone have knowledge of every field. Because they have to do every small and big work on their own. They do not care about the things of the world. They harden themselves by bearing the taunts of the world. He is not ashamed of doing any small or big work.
When should we keep calm?

August 25th, 2023

Being calm is a very powerful medicine for our body. When we are calm, the hormones in our body also become calm. When we are excited, they also start doing their work very fast. By sitting quietly, the cells of the brain work deeply. There are many occasions in our life when we should remain calm.

When we do not have the facts of something, we should be calm. If we keep on talking without any reason about things that we are not aware of, then we may be made fun of. People will never give value to our words again. People will feel that he keeps on speaking like this. Some people have a habit of putting their foot in everything. Such people unnecessarily become the reason for jokes.

Sometimes such a situation comes, that everyone is making fun of a poor or helpless person. In such a situation, you should remain absolutely silent. The man who is poor today may be richer than you tomorrow. But when you together with people will call him good or bad, then you will fall in his eyes. When any of your relatives or family members are insulting you, then you should be completely silent. Even if you are right, don’t say anything at that time. The person in front will definitely realize his mistake. If you are getting very angry on his words, then you go away from there. And sit quietly in one place and take long breaths. Your anger will calm down.

Always pay attention to your words while speaking. If your words are harming someone then shut up immediately. Even if someone is talking bad about another person in front of you, it is okay to remain silent. Because the one who is doing someone else’s harm today will harm you tomorrow. Sometimes such an occasion comes when we are very sad, at this time if someone is not understanding our feeling, then we should be very calm and talk to ourselves. Because when you are sad and someone shows you a little sympathy, then you may say all the things to your mother, which you should not tell anyone. Those who are intelligent, they kill someone with words. Are there and save someone too.

Just like we do not like the sound of a crow, and the sound of a peacock is sweet. Because crows always talk. And the peacock speaks only when it is about to rain. Similarly, we should not chatter all the time. Those who speak sometimes, their words have power. And people listen to their words with attention. That’s why your words should be spoken very seriously.

We should not speak at all while eating food. If you get involved in a discussion while eating food, you may have an argument with someone, the food eaten in such an environment becomes poison in your body.

When there is a quarrel between two people and you have no relation with them, then you should remain completely silent. At such a time, your speaking can cause a lot of trouble. That’s why keep yourself quiet. There is great power in silence. The person who has recognized the power of silence, that much happiness gets included in his life. Silence is such a weapon that the biggest controversies can be avoided. The truth of life is that in bad times a person loses his power to think and understand. And assumes that nothing good will happen in his life now. In such a situation, his mental condition starts deteriorating. And the man starts babbling unnecessarily. That’s why always keep yourself calm. Don’t unnecessarily put any pressure on your mind.

Sometimes a person is sharing his/her sorrows with you, at that time listen to him/her very calmly. Do not give any argument for your words in his words. If someone speaks his mind considering you as his well wisher, then keep his words limited to yourself.

When we wake up early in the morning, then for some time we should do our daily work in silence. Due to which our mind remains calm throughout the day.
how cocky are you?

August 25th, 2023

Among the thousands of diseases of the human body, there is one such disease whose name is ego. If a man says that he has no ego, then it can never happen. Everyone definitely has ego of something or someone in some form or the other. To a certain extent this is true, so long as men keep it in their minds. But when a man starts showing his ego in front of everyone, then it takes a very bad form. Our ego sometimes takes such a big form that behind it we put the happiness of our whole life at stake. Our ego does not allow us to learn anything new. Because we consider ourselves the most knowledgeable. Our ego sometimes separates us from our loved ones too. Because even in relationships it comes forward that I am the best. No one is as rich as me. My sons are the best. My children are more successful. I have a lot of respect in the society. I am very good at reading or very good at playing. Whatever you succeed in, you are not isolated from the world. You don’t need to think so much in your mind. Ego is the belief that you are the best.

Often people consider the person who speaks bitterly, the one who shows arrogance in every talk to be arrogant. But this is not always the case. Sweet speaking people are also egoistic. His words do not understand the ego inside him. We cannot know how ego is born inside a man.

There were many stones lying at one place. Children came there playing, one child picked up a stone and threw it upwards. No one had ever thrown such a stone before. The flying stone got a big impression that I am going upwards. The stones that were below also started praising that stone. That today our friend is going to fly up. Hearing the cheers of the friends, the stone flew up and swelled up with joy. He was saying from above that among friends, he is coming after visiting the sky for a while. In the meantime, he collided with a glass window. The glass of the window shattered as soon as it collided. Now he got more ego, he said, how many times I have told you, don’t come in my way. Have you become shattered? The stone did not understand that it was hard and the glass very weak. He was just full of his ego. Passing through the window, he went inside the house and fell on the carpet. After going there, he took a cold breath and started thinking in his mind, in the happiness of my arrival, they have also spread the carpet. Perhaps they knew that I would come today. How nice people are, how welcoming they are to me. The stone swelled with more pride.

Meanwhile, the servant of the palace came running. He probably heard the sound of breaking glass. When he came, he saw that the glass of the window was broken and there was a stone lying on the carpet. The servant picked up the stone in his hand and looked around. Even in this the stone was feeling proud. He was thinking look I am being watched. The servant threw it back down the window. Seeing the stone while going down from the window, his friends started shouting loudly. As if he had come from space. When the stone came and fell down. All his friends gathered there. Everyone asked him about the above scene. He was telling everything by offering a big stone. He was thinking that what the people below know. He was speaking when I went upstairs how many glasses did I break. Then I was sitting comfortably on the carpet of the palace. He told everyone by applying one to four.

Such is the nature of a man. People who are egoistic keep on telling their words to everyone in such a big way. We are also a stone created by God. Everything in our body is given by God. Still we keep doing me and mine. We have no control over the day we are born. Still we say my birthday. Were we born that day by our will? Nothing is ours on this earth. What we are sitting considering as our own is a momentary pleasure. For this we keep fighting and fighting all our life. If we understand this thing that we have nothing here, then maybe we will never feel sad about losing anything. We will never have ego of anything in our mind. Our breath is also an oxygen cylinder given by God. Which will be felt by someone other than us.
Do you worry all the time?

August 25th, 2023

Many types of incidents happen in our life. Some give us a lot of happiness and some give us a lot of worry. There is a secret behind every incidents. But knowing this secret is not in the capability of a human being. Whatever is not in our interest gives us worry. But we do not have that much understanding that we cannot fix his destiny by worrying. Whatever is going to happen will happen. That’s why don’t spoil the present by worrying about the future. Whatever happens, happens only for the good. But it is not possible for us to see the goodness behind it.

Once God of hell said to his messenger of Death , a woman has died in the world of death, bring her soul. messenger of Death went to the earth and saw a woman with three very small girls crying. A very small girl is lying on his chest. One is crying holding her mother’s hand and the other has fallen asleep while crying. Yamdoot got very scared seeing this. He felt so sorry for those girls that he could not take their mother’s soul. messenger of Death went to God of hell and said, how are such small girls, who have no one else in the world, lamenting with their mother, whatever you say, I cannot bring her mother’s soul. God of hell said that whatever is destined will happen. You have disobeyed my order, now I will throw you on the earth itself. When you go there and laugh three times at your stupidity, then only your punishment will be fulfilled.

God of hell threw messenger of Death on the earth. The messenger of Death was sitting on the earth as an ordinary human being. It was very cold and he was shivering with cold. Only then a cobbler came out from there. The cobbler was going to get warm clothes for his children. Seeing him fit the man, he bought warm clothes for him and forgot his children. Then the cobbler told him to the man, come to my house, you seem hungry for many days. If my wife gets angry with you, don’t say anything, because I didn’t buy warm clothes for the kids.

The cobbler came to his home with the messenger of Death. On seeing the man, the cobbler’s wife became more angry. She started abusing her husband. She was saying that your children may die of chills in the cold, but you have to keep this man alive. messenger of Death laughed out loud for the first time after listening to the cobbler’s wife. Seeing him laughing, wife became even more angry. The cobbler asked, are you laughing even after seeing so much anger of my wife? Then messenger of Death said when I laugh three times then I will tell the reason.

Both the cobbler and his wife did not know that he was a messenger of Death. And with his arrival, their house will be filled with wealth and grains. messenger of Death started learning to make shoes with the cobbler. Gradually he became very skilled in cobbler’s work. The cobbler’s business had now increased so much that even the King Maharaja used to get his shoes made from him. One day a man from the palace came and gave some leather and said to make shoes for king with this leather, not slippers. Because there was a rule in that state, if any person died, he would be sent to the crematorium wearing slippers. The cobbler had repeatedly told the Yamdoot not to make slippers out of this leather even by mistake, otherwise we will be hanged. But messenger of Death made him slippers. Seeing the slippers, the cobbler’s anger reached the seventh sky. He said very bad things to him. messenger of Death started laughing again after listening to the cobbler. The cobbler asked the reason for his laughter. He again repeated the same thing, when I laugh three times then I will tell the reason.

Meanwhile, the man of the royal court came running. He said that the king has died, he needs slippers. messenger of Death had made slippers only, so gave them to him. The cobbler apologized to Yamdoot. And said you are definitely not an ordinary man. After a few days, an old woman brought three young girls to the cobbler’s place. Seeing the girls, messenger of Death understood that these are the same girls because of whom I am being punished here. He asked the old lady who are these girls. Then the old woman replied that these are my neighbor’s girls. Its mother had died leaving these people very young. She had no one in this world because she was also very poor. I didn’t have any children, so I brought up these three girls. Now these three are going to be married to princes. This time he laughed out loud for the third time after listening to the old lady. He made very beautiful shoes for all the three girls.

Then the cobbler asked him, now you have laughed three times, now you tell me the reason for your laughter. Then he told his whole story to the cobbler and said that now my punishment is over. The little girl for whom I am being punished is going to marry the prince today. Had his mother been alive, she too would have been living in poverty.

Now I understand that I was worrying unnecessarily. God of hell had rightly told me that whatever God does, he does it for good. That’s why even if the biggest sorrow comes to a man, he should not panic. One should be patient thinking that God is definitely going to do something good for him. Always trust your God, he will never let bad happen to you. Often we blame God while bearing our sorrows. But we do not know that both sorrow and happiness are given by him. Always do not forget to thank them in happiness. And be carefree in sorrow. Leave everything up to them.