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People will say something, it is people’s job to say!

March 6th, 2024

What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.

Question and answer are a part of our personal life. Sometimes we also ask some question to someone else which perhaps the other person does not like. It often happens that people keep asking anything knowingly or unknowingly. I also don’t like one such question, when people ask me again and again, why are you becoming so thin? Hey brother, anyone can have health problems. But it is not necessary that this question be asked every time we meet.

There are some people who after meeting me seem as if they have nothing to do. But they upset me by asking the same thing again and again. Maybe their desire is to make me more worried. And while they know I am facing some health problem. Here I am remembering a song from a Hindi movie, Kuch to log kahenge logo ka kaam hai kehna!

I remember a poem from my school days on this topic.

Some people will say that it is the job of the people to speak. If no one says anything then you should also not remain silent. This habit of remaining silent will become a disease. When you want to speak, no voice will come.
Recognize your voice in those silent screams. Only you know when to silence the silence.
How powerful is Nataraja praise of Shiva?

March 5th, 2024

The importance of Nataraja form of Lord Shiva has been described in the scriptures. Nataraja Stuti Path shows the complete arts of Lord Shiva. Many benefits of reciting Nataraja Stuti have been mentioned in the scriptures. Nataraja is also a name of the God of Gods, Mahadev Lord Shiva. The blissful orgy of Lord Shiva is considered to be the form of Nataraja. Nataraja is also called the god of dance. Nataraja is made up of two words, first Nat means art and second Raj. It shows the complete arts of Lord Shiva. There is a description of Lord Shiva’s Nataraja form in the scriptures. This shows that life in the universe, its movement and vibration everything lies in Lord Shiva only.

In Vedic astrology, there is description of gems, mantras and yantras to remove the inauspicious effects of planets. God also becomes pleased by reciting some mantras. Due to which the inauspicious effect of planets on the person is greatly reduced. By reciting it daily, all the wishes of a person are fulfilled. Also he gets health. Nataraja praise recitation is extremely powerful. By reciting it daily, the inauspicious effects of planets can be removed because Lord Shiva is considered to have dominion over all the planets. The moon is seated on the head of Bholenath. Therefore, reciting Nataraja Stuti provides relief from the inauspicious effects of the planet.

Recitation of Nataraja Stuti should be started from Monday or can also be started from Shivratri of the month. Every morning, after taking bath, one should recite in front of the idol or picture of Lord Nataraja. Dance artists consider Nataraja as their favorite deity. Also, those who are artists must recite Nataraja Stuti. By reciting this, the blessings of Bholenath remain on the person. Besides, reciting it is believed to bring happiness and prosperity in life. Also man gets spiritual power. Also, positive energy is transmitted inside it.

There are two forms of Shiva Tandava. First Rudra Tandav, second Anand Tandav. Shiva’s Rudra Tandava leads to the destruction of the universe, while his Anandamaya Tandava brings the universe into existence. Dance artists consider Nataraja as their God. Before performing their art, artists praise and salute Nataraja. Chanting this brings happiness in life. Everyone can make life happy by reciting Nataraja Stuti,
failure is the key to success

March 5th, 2024

How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success?

बचपन में मुझे याद है मेरा पढ़ने लिखने में बिल्कुल मन नहीं लगता था।पर दूसरों के जब अच्छे परिणाम आते तो मुझे दुःख लगता की मेरे अच्छे मार्क्स क्यों नहीं आते।प्रारंभ में मैं अपने जीवन में सफलता प्राप्त करने में बहुत पीछे था। मेरे अंदर निराशा की भावना स्थान बनाने लगी थी। फिर मैंने सोचा कि मैं क्यों नहीं सफल हो सकता हूं। यह प्रश्न मुझे झकझोर गया और मेरे अंदर उत्साह का भाव संचारित हुआ। मैं लगन और परिश्रम से अपनी पढ़ाई में लग गया। परिणामस्वरूप मुझे क्रमश: सफलताएं मिलने लगीं। उत्साहवर्धन हुआ और मैं अपने जीवन में एक सफल व्यक्ति के रूप में उभरा। प्रारंभिक असफलताओं के आधार पर किसी को भी अपने भविष्य का निर्धारण नहीं करना चाहिए।हमारे अंदर क्षमता की कमी नहीं होती है। आवश्यकता होती है उसको समझने की, उसको प्रोत्साहित करने की तथा मार्गदर्शन की।जीवन के प्रारंभिक चरण में असफल होने से निराश नहीं होना चाहिए। उसे चुनौती के रूप में लेना चाहिए क्योंकि असफलता भी सफलता का मार्ग दिखा सकती है तथा एक सीढ़ी का कार्य कर सकती है। प्राय: हम यह अनुमान लगा लेते हैं कि प्रारंभ में यदि विद्यार्थी पढ़ाई में कमजोर है तो वह भविष्य में सफल नहीं हो सकता लेकिन हमारी यह अवधारणा निराधार है। इस बात का उदाहरण मैं स्वयं हूं।

असफलता हमारे व्यक्तिगत स्तर पर, व्यावसायिक स्तर पर या किसी प्रतियोगी परीक्षा मे विफल हो जाने की वजह से प्राप्त होती है । जिसकी वजह से हम निराश हो जाते है और हमें अपने आप पर गुस्सा आने लगता है | मगर हमें अपने गुस्से को शांत करके विफलता के कारणो पर ध्यान देना चाहिए |असफलता का एक चुनौती की तरह सामना करो और जीवन मे सफल होने के लिए जिन कार्यो की जरुरत है उन पर अपना ध्यान केंद्रित करे। क्योकि जब तक हम जिन्दा है तब तक कुछ कार्य में हम सफल होंगे और कुछ मे असफल भी होंगे | लेकिन हम अपनी सफलताओ को भूल कर अपनी असफलताओ पर ही ध्यान केंद्रित कर दुखी होते रहते है |हम मे से अधिकांश लोग हमेशा अपने आप की तुलना दुसरो से करते रहते है अगर हम तुलनात्मक रूप से उनसे आगे है तो खुश हो जाते है और अगर उनसे पीछे है तो दुखी हो जाते है | हम अपनी सफलता की भी तुलना दूसरे की सफलता से करने लगते है जिसकी वजह से हम कभी खुश नहीं सकते है | हमें अपने मन को शांत करके ठन्डे दिमाग से काल्पनिक दुनिया से बहार आकर वास्तविकता को स्वीकार कर असफलता के कारणो पर विचार करना चाहिए ताकि हम अगले प्रयास मे सफलता को पा सके | इसलिए हमें अपने आप को पहले ही हर परिस्थिति के लिए तैयार करना चाहिए ताकि असफलता हाथ लगने पर भी हम हिम्मत न हारे और फिर से उठ कर सफल होने की राह मे आगे बढ़े।
Me and my God

March 4th, 2024

You’re writing your autobiography. What’s your opening sentence?

Me and my God. First of all, I would like to thank God and my parents who gave birth to me on earth. Because without the will of God, not even a bird can take birth.

Being a daughter, I got a lot of pampering from my father. Among the five siblings, I was the one who received the most love. In no time, childhood passed, adolescence arrived, and marriage took place. After marriage, I crossed a large part of my life thinking about joint family, children and all this. Now I started to feel that I had never fulfilled my hobbies. Because since childhood I was fond of writing.

Many friends have come and gone in my life and there are still many. But life is not complete with all these things. I came to know this now. Unless you give dimension to your desires and hobbies, life is incomplete. The definition of life is different for everyone. But whatever the situation, it is very important to create your own identity.
How true is it to accept increasing age?

March 3rd, 2024

As days, months and years pass, age also passes. This is a truth, and the rule is the same for every living creature.

For those who take life with equanimity, the stage of age is not scary. Accepting every situation helps a person to deal with every challenge. If it is taken as if it is a law of nature and you should take it as the second innings of life. Now you are free to live a different life, then perhaps people will be able to understand its significance better. But everyone gets scared of the future and they try their best to hide their increasing age. But just as the sun cannot be stopped from rising, similarly this stage of age also cannot be stopped without coming. It is a bitter truth of the train of life that it will definitely stop at this stage.

Even such an elderly person gets very nervous. Be it an employee, a businessman or any other professional. They feel that now the last stage of age has reached and they will soon start being called senior citizens. They are also worried that the influence they have had till now will be lost. And he will live the rest of his life like normal people. But this worry is unnecessary. Everyone attains this stage of age. This is a stage of age and reaching this age is also inevitable. But this does not mean that man’s active life has come to an end. There are some natural rules and they cannot be changed. But it is not wise to be restless about it and to make your life chaotic in that restlessness. Just as death is certain with birth, in the same way the job of age is to keep growing continuously. Time never stops, it keeps moving every day and with it the age of every living being also keeps increasing.

Some people start getting nervous as soon as they cross 60 and they feel that their retirement period is nearing. Whereas this is their age to get the best from them. But in panic they start making mistakes at every step. They do not feel like working and are always worried about the future. Such people are unable to work with full concentration in the office or workplace and start taking too much of a dig at the work of others. And do not work sincerely or vigorously at any one place. Therefore, considering aging as a natural law, one should keep trying to keep oneself busy and maintain a positive interest in life. With this you will live every moment of life happily.

Just as falling ill is natural and its solution is treatment, similarly aging is also a physical condition and considering it a burden or being nervous is a mental disorder. Like childhood, adolescence and youth, it is also a stagnation. The only difference is that by this age the body becomes loose. But for those who do not let this laxity creep in and take inspiration, this stagnation of age is just a natural process of the body.

How to keep yourself busy as you age?

Don’t let yourself be too worried or relaxed from within about this stagnation of your age, rather think that nature now wants you to do something else. That could be some social service, some more creative work. That and something that is different from your traditional work till now. As some people reached this age and started teaching poor and destitute children, some started taking care of other destitute old people. But most of the people first take retirement as an unpleasant event and then curse their age or start crying considering it to be their old age. After retirement, some people sit sad at home instead of being active and these are the symptoms of old age. They spend their days either sitting idle or chatting with friends of their age or getting busy with their families. And as soon as the slightest illness occurs, they sink into despair and feel that the end of life has come.

Therefore, instead of being afraid of increasing age, if people try to accept it as it is, then life will pass smoothly. Only those who did not succumb to the most difficult circumstances became successful. And the key to success is to maintain your courage. Accepting yourself as you age leads to a stress-free life.
Every age brings a different kind of beauty, enjoy it,
If you want to dye your hair then do it, if you want to lose weight then do it, if you want to wear clothes of your choice then wear them, laugh like a child, think good,
Maintain a good environment, accept your existence as you see it in the mirror. You can maintain an old machine and make it run well, but you cannot make it new. Recognize your beauty. It is more important to feel your beauty than to look beautiful to get comments or applause from others. Focus on the beauty of your mind. Two.If your stomach bulges, it doesn’t matter, there is no need to feel shy about it.
Your body changes with your age, so your weight also increases and decreases accordingly. Understand this. Cross the stage of age with a smile. One day everyone has to go, but as long as you are alive, consider yourself young.
Is everything alright?😀

March 3rd, 2024

What are three objects you couldn’t live without?

Actually, a human being needs only food, clothing and house to survive. But there are many such things in daily life without which we cannot imagine living. What someone likes, what someone dislikes. But there are some things without which we cannot live. It seems like I have also become a habit of some things.

1. Tea:

Tea is something that starts most people’s morning. Similarly, I am also very addicted to drinking milk tea early in the morning. Sometimes I think that I will stop drinking tea now. And on my part, I often start giving up on it. But after a few hours I have to drink tea. Otherwise it seems as if my brain will no longer work.

2. Mobile:

In today’s era, everything is incomplete without mobile. I also think this is true. From early morning good morning messages to nightly news, it can be seen. There is good and bad in some things. This is a dangerous thing for people who misuse mobile. But if seen, mobile is a big achievement in itself. Through mobile we are able to know about the news and condition of people. Sometimes, if we don’t see anyone’s messages for a few hours, we start getting calls from friends asking if everything is alright?😂

3, My specs,

without them I have no existence. Because these are my eyes with which I use my gadgets. The biggest thing is that without them I cannot look into the eyes of my God and have a silent conversation with him. I could do it. And if I don’t do it even for a day, I start feeling that my God will ask me if everything is well?🙏
keep your mind under control

March 2nd, 2024

What experiences in life helped you grow the most?

Every person has some experience in life which he remembers throughout his life. Such a time came in my life also.

I was of introverted nature since childhood. I never believed in God. I was not in the habit of completing any one task easily. Like I used to do the same in matters of studies also. Due to this nature of mine before the exams, I could not complete any subject.

Once my father made me read Ramayana. Many ways to be successful have been mentioned in the Hindu scriptures also. Goswami Tulsidas writes in Ramcharitmanas, just as the fishes of a big reservoir always remain happy, in the same way a person in the shelter of God also remains free from all problems. Therefore, concentrate on God to do your work. God will help you every step of the way. After reading this, my life changed completely. I became a believer from that day. Then I saw that there was a stability in my nature. And whatever I did, I put my heart and soul into it. Although, due to some family problems, I could not study much. But even today, when I do something, I do it with all my heart. Therefore, one should always learn to control the mind. A person who learns to control his mind and desires can be successful in any work. Because if your mind is not under control, you will always deviate from your work or goal. It is said in the scriptures that, control the mind and use the mind more than the heart to achieve success.
destiny a supernatural truth

March 1st, 2024

Do you believe in fate/destiny?

Offcourse! No one can ever get anything less than luck or more than luck. But nothing is achieved by relying only on luck. A person should do his work with full hard work, but sometimes the results are not in our hands. At that time, after doing all the hard work, we have to leave the result in the trust of God.

Every human being is helpless in the hands of his fate, and the pen of fate is in the hands of the Creator. This pen of God which determines man’s destiny is determined by man’s own deeds. By doing right deeds in the right direction, destiny starts changing, we just need to know the way to do the right deeds, the right way, the right method, the right Must know the time. Willpower and determination can transform a person from a pauper to a king and an ignorant person can become a great person. Therefore, if you want to change your destiny, then first of all strengthen your will power and determination and work in the right direction under the guidance of a qualified Guru, you will definitely get success.

Shri Krishna says in Geeta that God never writes anyone’s fate in advance. The fate of any person is determined by his thoughts, behavior and actions. It is written in Geeta that no one can take away whatever is in your destiny, if you have faith in God then you will get everything that you want. Are entitled.

I have heard many people saying that it was I who did this, otherwise who had the courage to do this? But perhaps man does not know that whatever good or bad work is done by his hands, there is also the will of the Creator. God alone decides what our actions are and makes our hands do the same. The present condition of man, happiness and sorrow, rich and poor, all this is the choice of fate. If luck had no role then all the hard working people would have been reaching great heights. And people who do not do many deeds also do not reach high heights.

That’s why luck is very important in my eyes. But don’t rely on luck.
Hey WordPress let’s talk 😔

February 29th, 2024

Do you enjoy your job?

Apart from WordPress, I don’t have any other job. I like writing, so I decided to do it. But I don’t get paid according to my hard work. So should I talk to WordPress? Your opinion?,😂
What is the importance of Holika Dahan fire? How to choose color according to zodiac sign?

February 28th, 2024

According to the Hindu calendar, Holi, the festival of colors, is celebrated every year on the full moon date of Phalgun month and people come together and play with colors. This festival is mainly celebrated during the spring season i.e. at the time of harvest which marks the end of winter. . This festival creates an atmosphere of joy and happiness for two days. Hiranyakshipu’s sister Holika was blessed with the boon that she could not be destroyed in fire. Hiranyakashipu ordered that Holika sit in the fire with Prahlad in her lap. Holika got burnt while sitting in the fire, but Prahlad was saved. Holi is lit on this day in the memory of God devotee Prahlad.

In this, a bonfire is lit and a prayer is made to destroy the evils. According to tradition, when people circumambulate the burning Holika, the heat emanating from the Holika destroys the bacteria present in the body and the surrounding environment. And thus it cleans the body and the environment. The way Holi is celebrated in South India, it encourages good health. After Holika Dahan, people in this region apply the ashes of Holika’s extinguished fire on their forehead as Vibhuti and for good health they consume it mixed with sandalwood and green shoots and the bark of mango tree. On the day of Holika, Holika There is a rule to worship fire before burning it. Worshiping Agnidev and receiving blessings from him leads to good health and longevity. According to the Puranas, one of the unique forms of Lord Vishnu is that of Agnidev. Therefore, fire worship has great importance on this day. It is believed that the flames of Holika Dahan are very beneficial for our body and mind. It is believed that this removes many physical problems and destroys evils. The fire of Holika Dahan destroys negativity and scientifically, its flames destroy many germs present in the environment.

As important as Holika is from religious point of view, the ashes remaining after burning are also said to have equal importance. The ashes of Holika Dahan can remove the troubles in life. Along with this, it can also make a person rich in wealth. With Holika Dahan, it is believed that the influence of negative powers also reduces in life.

How to worship Holika?

After saluting the fire of Holika Dahan, pour water on the ground. After this, add wheat ears, cowdung cakes and black sesame seeds to the fire. Then circumambulate the fire three times. Those children should look after chilli, black sesame, red chilli, black urad and burn these things in Holika Dahan. Many children face many skin related problems. They should apply turmeric and gram flour paste, take out this paste and put it in Holika at the time of Holika Dahan. Due to which all these evils and eye defects are removed.The ritual of Holika Dahan should be performed with full rituals and camphor, coconut along with green gram are also offered in the Holika fire. By doing this, the blessings of Goddess Lakshmi remain intact and there is good progress in job and business. It also has a positive effect on the children of the house.

There is a tradition of celebrating happiness by playing with colors on the next day of Holika Dahan. The main purpose of this festival is to celebrate the victory of good over evil.

Aries: Playing Holi with red color will be beneficial for you. The lord of Aries is Mars and the enemy of Mars is considered to be Saturn. Therefore, Aries people should stay away from black and blue colors while playing Holi.

Taurus: The lord of Taurus is Venus and Venus is a bright planet. Therefore, people of Taurus zodiac sign should play Holi with white color. White color will fill your heart and mind with happiness.

Gemini: Mercury is considered to be the lord of Gemini, hence the people of Mercury should play Holi with green colour.

Cancer: The lord of Cancer is Moon, which is also considered a symbol of water. People with Cancer zodiac sign should use maximum water while playing Holi.

Leo: The lord of Leo zodiac is Sun and to get the energy of Sun, people of Leo zodiac should play Holi with colors like red, pink, orange. People of Leo zodiac sign should stay away from black and blue colors.

Virgo: The lord of Virgo is Mercury. Playing Holi with green color will also be beneficial for Virgo people.

Libra: The lord of Libra is Venus. People of Libra zodiac sign should play Holi after using Safeda.

Scorpio: The lord of Scorpio is Mars. Playing Holi with red color will be beneficial for people of Mars zodiac sign.

Sagittarius: The lord of Sagittarius is Jupiter. It will be beneficial for Sagittarius people to play Holi with yellow color and saffron color.

Capricorn: The lord of Capricorn is Saturn. To please Shanidev, it will be beneficial for Capricorn people to play Holi with black and blue colors.

Aquarius: The lord of Aquarius is Shanidev. It will be beneficial for Aquarius people to play Holi with black color.

Pisces: The lord of Pisces is Jupiter. It will be beneficial for Pisces people to play Holi with yellow color along with natural colors.