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The problem is only weakness of mind

February 24th, 2024

What is the biggest challenge you will face in the next six months?

I do not consider any problem in my life as a problem. Because life is all about ups and downs. Do we stop walking when pebbles come our way? Problems are an inevitable part of life, your ability to solve them with dignity is tested here. It also tells your speciality. Intelligent people have a different perspective on problems. Challenging situations inspire people to expand their boundaries and bring more richness and beauty to the human experience. So it is better to have problems for life. Any situation becomes a problem when we start seeing the gap between its actual and ideal form. Virtually everything that looks like a problem is not a problem. It’s up to you whether you get caught up in what you call a problem or take it as an opportunity to learn and grow in life. It’s best to learn and grow. Often, people waste a lot of time trying to figure out the ‘what’ and ‘why’ of a problem. This habit of over-investigating not only consumes energy, but also makes the problem appear bigger than it really is. Instead of seeing the problem as it is, people become overwhelmed by its exaggerated form. The proper approach is to spend less time and energy on the ‘what’ and ‘why’ and focus on the ‘how’ to solve the problem. By looking at it with the proper perspective and attitude, solutions start appearing automatically.

The problem is only a disorder of the mind. There is weakness of mind and our wrong way of thinking. When God has always closed one path for man, he has opened another. Then what is the problem?
What is prohibited for women in Sanatan Dharma?

February 23rd, 2024

Of course, women today are no less than men in any respect, but there are some rules in the scriptures which are considered necessary to follow. According to those rules, some work is considered prohibited for women.

Why Women are prohibited from touching Hanuman ji?

Women are prohibited from touching Hanuman ji because everyone knows that Hanuman ji is celibate. It is believed that Hanuman ji considered women like mothers. That is why it has been said in the scriptures that women should not touch them. However, they can worship Hanuman ji by staying away. In some places it is also believed that women can touch Lord Hanuman after their periods stop.

Why are women prohibited from breaking coconuts?

Women are prohibited from breaking coconuts because when coconuts are broken or lemons are cut in temples, energy is released from them. The same purpose is hidden behind sacrificing any animal, chicken or goat.
Only men do the work of breaking coconuts during puja or any other auspicious function at home and temples. It is considered taboo for women. Actually, coconut is considered a symbol of Mother Lakshmi and fertility. However, women can offer coconut to God. According to mythology, when Lord Vishnu incarnated on earth, he brought with him three things – Lakshmi, coconut tree and Kamdhenu. All these three things are boons for humans. This is the reason why the coconut tree is also called Kalpavriksha. All three gods Brahma, Vishnu and Mahesh are considered to reside in the coconut. Due to the presence of three gods, coconut is kept away from women. Coconut is considered to be a fruit sent to earth by Lord Vishnu. Over which Goddess Lakshmi has authority. Therefore, no woman except Goddess Lakshmi can break a coconut. Coconut is considered to be in the seed form and a woman gives birth to a child in the seed form, hence women are prohibited from breaking the coconut. It is said that if a woman breaks a coconut, she faces problems in conceiving. Religious belief is that once Vishwamitra got angry with Lord Indra and created a separate heaven and when Maharishi was not satisfied even after this, he He decided to create a different earth and he first created a coconut in the form of a human being, due to which coconut is also considered to be the form of a human being. Coconut has three eyes. It is believed in the scriptures that these three eyes Is considered to be the form of Trinetra.

Why are women prohibited from wearing sacred thread?

Women are strictly prohibited from wearing sacred thread. In Hindu religion, only men wear sacred thread and not women. In fact, many rules have been made in the scriptures regarding the sacred thread, and it has also been said to take special care of its purity. Women are not considered pure during menstruation, during this time they are not even allowed to perform puja or touch God. In such a situation, women will not be able to completely follow the rules of wearing sacred thread. That is why it is prohibited for them to wear it. However, while remaining pure, she can definitely make the sacred thread.

Why are women prohibited from sacrificing?

Women are prohibited from performing sacrifices.
Whenever a sacrifice is made to any god or goddess, this work is always done by men because this work is also prohibited for women in the scriptures. Because women are weak at heart and they have more compassion in their hearts than men. It happens. The most important thing is that women give birth to children and they know that a living being is brought into this world after enduring so much suffering.

Why can’t a woman be the sole host in Havan?

havan or religious ritual
Even during any havan or religious ritual, women alone do not become the main host. It is considered mandatory for her husband to be with her. This is prohibited in the scriptures. Women cannot offer sacrifice in Yagya without their husband. If the husband is alive.

Why are women forbidden from cutting pumpkins?

Pumpkin has mythological significance in the Hindu community. In many religious rituals where animal sacrifice is not done, pumpkin is sacrificed considering it as a symbol of the animal. There is also a popular belief that pumpkin is considered the eldest son. In many states including Chhattisgarh, women of the tribal community cannot even think of cutting it. In many houses, women do not cut the pumpkin. Many people also call the pumpkin the head of Ravana.

Why are women forbidden to touch Shaligram?

Women are also prohibited from touching Shaligram because Lord Shaligram is in the shape of a linga. Women do not even touch Shiva Linga. Women and married women should not touch Shaligram. According to the scriptures, women should not worship Shaligram during menstruation.

Why are women prohibited from going to the crematorium?

Crematorium is a place where evil spirits reside. It is believed that negative energies are more attracted towards black and tall people. That is why women are prohibited from going to the crematorium. It is believed that evil spirits first target women. Ghosts especially target women who are virgins. That is why they are not taken to the cremation ground. There is also a belief that dead souls keep wandering at the cremation ground, hence the chances of these spirits entering the bodies of girls and women are highest. Therefore, there is a ban on women going to the crematorium.
How to correct your faults?

February 23rd, 2024

The conditions under which humans are born
It is almost impossible to remain fully virtuous among them. It is also possible to commit mistakes, errors and crimes in daily behavior and ethos. Discretion between good and bad is not always there. When mental disorders arise, a person gets inspired towards evil deeds. Everyone has some faults or the other. Absolutely
Very few virtuous and virtuous people will be found. Most people definitely have some evil in their nature. This world is flawed, the situation is not the same anywhere here.
Guilt is a natural process of human life but no man blames himself, no matter how grave a mistake he has committed.

Is admitting a mistake an insult?

There is no harm in accepting a mistake. Our mind becomes pure and we become healthy and alert for life ahead. But when a fault is not accepted as a fault, then man’s audacity gets aroused and he starts taking pleasure in committing crimes. Hidden mistakes also give rise to many other types of disasters. In this way, sins and faults and misdeeds do not directly create as toxic an environment as they do by hiding them.

What happens when you accept your mistake?

The roots of some deeds penetrate deep into the mind of a person and create a strong state which cannot be removed even by punishing him once or again. Like water held back by a dam, it bursts out again and again wherever it sees carelessness and weakness. Due to this, man’s restlessness increases, all his energy gets spent in watching out for this wastage of energy. And all the happiness and joy of creative or qualitative life becomes devoid of joy. A person desirous of self-welfare has to face a lot of trouble in correcting his latent defects, but if these defects are revealed then a lot of the burden on the mind gets lightened and the moral path of self-development begins to be paved.

Accepting one’s faults means loving the truth. Truthfulness is a very useful quality in the external and internal development of man. If there is no truth, man cannot move forward even a single step. Truth is the first essential thing. It is not possible to experience the universal soul by abandoning it. Man will remain scared. The heart trembles in lies. Someone or the other seems to be pointing fingers everywhere. There is a suspicion on every signal, every gesture that he is doing some evil on his part, even if no one there says anything.

What would be the benefit of apologizing?

Before forgiving yourself, it is important to know what you did. Write down the incident that happened to you in detail and also write down the things that helped in that incident happening. Avoid blaming anyone else or circumstances and just focus on yourself. You may feel uncomfortable doing this, but this process will help you become practical. Although apologizing is not so easy, but if you take the initiative to apologize to someone, it shows that you made a mistake and you Ashamed of him. In this way you are saved from repeating the same mistakes. Fearlessness lies in truth. Why would someone who has the practice of speaking the truth be afraid of someone’s criticism? True men are always courageous. The person who can express himself is supremely courageous. One day he definitely achieves his life goal.

What to do to achieve success?

Success and failure go with life. If by doing some things we get success, then by doing others we may have to taste failure. But this does not mean that you should blame others for your failures. We should keep making new efforts with a new approach every moment. Avoid considering yourself weak so that you can enjoy life. It is okay that sometimes things go wrong due to the mistakes of others and despite repeated explanations, they do not improve themselves. Still, we have to admit that if your priority is to complete tasks and put things right, then you should avoid the habit of blaming.
To move ahead in life, it is important that you pay more attention to your things instead of clashing with others. Recognize the difficulties that stand in the way of achieving your dreams. You have to understand or decide whether it will be beneficial to fight a problem or to increase your ability or to improve your quality of life. Every person has some problems in his life. We have to constantly strive to run our lives to create our own happiness and spread our wings. You need to try to go above the limits set by yourself. One way to be happy is to worry less and take it easy in whatever you want to do or are doing. We have our own creation on which we should spend most of our time. Adverse situations can happen in any environment at any time, never feel guilty for this. This will destroy your long-term happiness.
spreading the fragrance of personality

February 23rd, 2024

What advice would you give to your teenage self?

I would like to advise my teenage self that no matter how many ups and downs come in life, do not let yourself go astray. Always keep the horse of your mind under control. It is in the midst of adverse circumstances that a child proposes a new path to reach the heights of success. Therefore, face the failure in life boldly.

When we control our body and mind, it does not matter to us whether anyone praises or criticizes us. If you have acquired knowledge but have not controlled your body and mind, then this knowledge itself will act as poison for you.

Always remember what your duty is towards your parents. Whatever work, direction, message, order is in their interest and happiness, it is their duty to do it promptly without any hesitation. If that doesn’t happen, at least obey them as much as you can and don’t deliberately cause them trouble even in your dreams.

Always follow the path of honesty. How important it is to be honest in life, it should not be for someone else’s sake, nor to fulfill one’s own benefit. It is important to be honest simply because we are all human beings and it is our duty to be honest with each other.

Emotions like anger, non-violence, ego, jealousy are seen in today’s children. Because there is competition in every field. Therefore, I would like to tell children to stay away from all these things. And focus on developing your personality. Because if the person climbing the stairs of success in life is devoid of qualities like generosity, forgiveness and affection, then what is the use of that success?

Not everyone is successful in life. But a good person is successful in himself. The fragrance of his personality always spreads all around.
Is your child afraid to tell you about his mistakes?

February 22nd, 2024

Anger is a trap, after getting trapped in it, a person does not care about his own or strangers, good or bad. Therefore, the person who always speaks the truth does not get angry at every thing and also controls his anger. There is always peace in the life of such a person. By speaking the truth, the mind remains calm and problems also start going away. It is written in Mahabharata that what benefits a person gets who speaks the truth. Apart from this, all those things have also been mentioned in Mahabharata which help in living a high standard of life. By speaking the truth, troubles and tribulations start going away in a person’s life. Even God is pleased by speaking the truth. The person who always speaks the truth lives longer than others. Such a person has neither fear of anything nor greed. He always remains blessed by God and gets a long life. The habit of lying and cheating in every matter becomes the cause of sorrows in life. The life of a person who always supports the truth is full of happiness. There is no room for problems and tribulations in the life of such a person. A simple person easily finds solutions to all his problems without any deceit. Such a person gets happiness as well as respect in life. Therefore everyone should adopt the habit of speaking the truth.

How do children learn to lie?

No one learns to lie from birth, that is, it is not a natural tendency. Experts say that children learn to lie from their peers, society and media. And childhood is the right age when it is important to curb the tendency to lie. In childhood, children easily become victims of bad habits like lying. In such a situation, parents do not even know when innocent lying children become experts in lying. Therefore, it is very important to teach children to speak the truth right from childhood. However, it is also impossible to motivate children to tell the truth by reprimanding them for their habit of lying. In such a situation, parents can easily get rid of this habit of children by finding out the reason for lying. In childhood, children copy most of the good and bad habits from their parents. In such a situation, you can become a role model for children. For this, try not to lie in front of children and teach them to tell the truth. Children’s childhood is quite innocent. In such a situation, children are not able to understand the difference between good and bad. This is the reason why many children knowingly or unknowingly become victims of some bad habits. Lying is also one such habit. Children often start lying to their parents to hide their mistakes. It all starts from childhood. When a child starts going to school or play school, he comes back and happily tells his family whatever he did or learned in school. Then as he grows up, his habit changes. Because he sees that whenever he comes home and informs about any behavior done during school time, he gets scolded or sometimes even beaten. Therefore, gradually he starts telling something else instead of the truth for his own convenience or to please others. He feels that this is the right thing. This habit gradually starts getting stronger.

He does not know that relationships built on the foundation of lies do not last long. By the time we realize it, it is too late. If children gather courage and tell you everything truthfully after making a mistake, then do not forget to praise them for telling the truth. This will encourage children to tell the truth in the future and they will also reduce lying. Parents often find it better to punish their children to correct every small and big mistake. But, this creates fear in children and children often start lying to hide their mistakes. Also, if children are caught lying, instead of punishing them, try to find out the reason for lying. Many times the reasons are very small but due to the possibility of parents getting angry, children resort to lies. Therefore, always treat your children with love. Even if he has made a big mistake, try to understand it fully. Also keep your eyes on him in such a way that he doesn’t even know. But if he repeats the mistake again and again, you will have to take a strong decision. If you have laid the foundation of speaking the truth in your childhood itself, then you will not have to see this day.

Therefore we all should always practice speaking the truth. Along with yourself, you should also encourage your family and friends to speak the truth. If we want to live a life full of happiness, then we have to follow the path of truth. In today’s era, the most difficult thing is to hear and speak the truth. We all twist the truth according to our convenience and in such a situation the truth gets buried somewhere below. But today’s reality is that most of the people are living this kind of double life and hence are not happy. Because he can lie to everyone, but never to himself. Due to this habit of not telling the truth, we also become victims of stress and depression etc. To tell the truth, a big heart is needed, but to tell a lie, only one heart is needed. This person remains engrossed in his daily routine without making any noise. The scriptures say that one should always speak the truth. There is nothing greater than truth. But, the scriptures also say that such a truth which hurts someone should not be told. If anything has to be said, it should be said in such a way that it does not hurt anyone.

Parents are the first school of the child. The younger the children are, the more values they learn to adopt. Sometimes it becomes difficult to explain anything to them after they grow up. Therefore, give values to your children in their childhood itself. And do not, under any circumstances, take their first mistake lightly.
to exercise

February 22nd, 2024

What bores you?

I find exercise boring. Whenever I think that I will wake up tomorrow morning and will definitely do exercise, that day never comes. When I wake up from the alarm, I think that I will let it be for today, I will definitely do it tomorrow. I don’t know when that tomorrow will come.😔
Coconut water

February 21st, 2024

What is your favorite drink?

My favorite drink is coconut water. It helps me to keep fresh all the time.And also Coconut water is a treasure for health whose consumption maintains heart health, keeps kidneys healthy, reduces sagging skin, improves skin tone and proves to be very effective in controlling diseases that keep skin healthy. It happens. Coconut water is a powerhouse of nutrients containing electrolytes, lauric acid, potassium, magnesium and potassium.
my lucky shoe

February 20th, 2024

Tell us about your favorite pair of shoes, and where they’ve taken you.

My favorite shoe is a black ballerina. My best friend gifted it to me on my birthday four years ago. Since then I have worn this shoe very carefully, because I like this shoe very much. True If I say so, this shoe is also lucky for me. Whenever I wear it and give an interview, I have always got success. This proves that your positive thoughts towards something opens the way for your success. Like my Being for shoes. We all achieve some milestone in our life. So why don’t we associate it with something or the other which makes our thinking unfavorable.
The price of silence?

February 20th, 2024

If there is a danger of relationships getting cold, then there is no harm in covering yourself with the shawl of silence for some time for warmth. Because the lamp does not speak, its light introduces you. Similarly, do not say anything about yourself, keep doing good deeds, and remain calm. When we have enough energy and enthusiasm we are able to tackle any challenge, but the question is how to increase the energy?

What is the power of silence?

‘Nishabdha’ means where there is no word or sound – beyond body, mind and all creation. Beyond sound does not mean absence of sound, but going beyond sound.This is possible by doing spiritual exercises, meditation, yoga and pranayam. They take the person to the realm of silence. This area is full of energy. Inner silence is the source of all relaxation and all creativity. It is in this field of silence that great scientific discoveries have been made, path-breaking inventions have been made and wonderful poems and tunes have emerged. Silence does not merely mean keeping one’s mouth shut. It is more than turning the senses inward by removing them from external activities. The absence of involvement of the mind in any of the five senses provides a certain amount of peace within. This leads to a state of complete satisfaction. The virtues of silence are countless. From a source of enlightenment to a balm that heals cracks in relationships, silence can be used as a panacea for many of the worldly problems we face in everyday life. Silence makes thoughts more coherent, makes a person more intelligent. From talking face to face to addressing a huge group of audiences, an intangible quality affects people more than words. But the essence of all this lies in the inner silence. Real communication goes beyond words. If you are firmly situated in the field of peace, if your mind is at peace, you will suddenly find yourself able to influence individuals, groups and masses. A thousand conversations cannot express what just one look can express. When we go into the depths of silence we have a unified experience of communication without thoughts. It is when all questions disappear from a person’s mind that the supreme intelligence within begins to speak.It is a scientific fact that the entire existence is an echo or vibration of energy. Man is able to feel every vibration in the form of sound. There is a particular sound associated with every form of creation. We are experiencing this complex confluence of sounds as creation. The basis of all sounds is ‘Nishabd’. The very attempt to transform any part of creation into the source of creation is silent. Nishabd means emptiness. Sound is on the surface, silence is in the innermost. There is no sound at all in the innermost part. Absence of sound means absence of vibration and echo, life and death, i.e. the entire creation. The absence of creation in experience means moving towards the all-embracing presence of the source of creation. Therefore, a place that is beyond creation, a dimension that is beyond life and death, is called silent or silent. Man cannot say it, it can only happen.

Has science also acknowledged the power of silence?

If one becomes completely silent and eliminates the noise of the mind, that intelligence will never fail to reveal the best solutions to even the most serious problems. Meditate and remain silent for a short time every day. When you reach that place of silence through meditation, you will always be guided on what needs to be done. Silence increases the inner strength of a person and sharpens the intellect. The power of silence has been given great importance in religions. Now scientific evidence also shows that it has a deep connection with health. Amidst the increasing noise in the world, experts have discovered what kind of silence and peace has the most impact on the brain. This not only relieves problems like blood pressure, cortisol, insomnia, but also increases concentration, thought control and creativity. Many experts and research studies are confirming that amidst the increasing noise in the world, some Moments of peace can give us many health benefits. The absence of sound may seem like emptiness, but by reducing the sound, we can see very surprising results at the level of body, mind and mood. Moments of silence or peace are most beneficial in hypertension or high blood pressure. Are. Just two minutes of peaceful moments after listening to the song is very effective in reducing the heart beat rate and blood pressure in people. Even quiet moments reduce heart health problems compared to slow, relaxing music. Unwanted noise increases our stress levels. Silence reduces cortisol, the hormone responsible for stress. Not only this, silence can also improve our creativity, problem solving ability, and also relieve us from problems like insomnia.

Does silence increase speech power?

In today’s fast-paced world, our mind also seems to run fast. In this there is a continuous flow of thoughts which seems almost impossible to control. but it’s not like that. By learning to remain calm, we can stop our consciousness from wasting unnecessary energy and can also get rid of problems like restlessness. This helps us to be completely in the present. Being silent allows you to concentrate on thoughts and words and due to this whatever you say comes out absolutely accurate. By remaining silent we are able to control the thoughts of our mind. Remaining silent also makes the deceitfulness of the person in front clearly visible.

Can silence control anger?

The more you keep yourself silent, the more you will control your anger. By having control over anger, you will be able to solve the problem thoughtfully and you will be able to get rid of anger dominating your behavior. Remaining silent saves physical and mental energy so that you can use it later at the right place and in the right situation. Find. Besides this, this energy also boosts self-confidence in you. It is believed that if you observe a fast of silence for some time every day and sit in front of your Ishta Dev i.e. whichever God you worship, then your luck becomes stronger and Besides, there is increase in intelligence, strength and spirituality. Apart from this, one of the benefits of observing Maun Vrat is that it strengthens the planets.

difference between practicing silence and being silent.

There is a difference between practicing silence and being silent. If you are practicing something, you are definitely not it. If you try to enter silence with full awareness, then there is a possibility of you becoming silent. The human body and mind are also an echo or vibration. But body and mind are not everything in themselves. They are just the surface of a greater possibility. They are like a door. Many people do not look beneath the surface; they spend their entire lives sitting on the door frame. But the door is for going inside. The practice of remaining silent to experience what lies beyond this door is called silence. The English word ‘silence’ does not convey much. ‘Silence’ in Sanskrit and everything in existence that can be felt through the five senses is actually an echo of sound. Everything that can be seen, heard, smelled, tasted or touched is a game of sound.
my heartbeat my dad

February 20th, 2024

Who are your favorite people to be around?

I like all the people around me but the most important relationship is with my father. He is not only around me but he is the heartbeat of my heart. Because it is the father who instills dreams in my little eyes, fathers give their lives for their daughters. My dad comes home tired from work. Seeing my smile, he forgets his sorrows. Whenever I feel sad and dejected,He puts his hand on my head and encourages me. My father does so much for my happiness. He even forgets his status. My father is like this. He has taught me and brought me up with great love. Whenever I stumble, He is holding me in his arms. Salute to such a father!