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  • reason for my laughter

    March 29th, 2024

    What makes you laugh?

    Not everyone can sit covered in sadness all the time, it is human nature. Laughter is such a thing which lightens our mind. There is no need of any excuse to laugh. I laugh at those people who do nothing without any work.  We deepen our relationship with others and then when the meaning is out, we forget everything. I laugh at those people who talk about being modern but act vulgar. I laugh at those people who call themselves modern.  The rich say this, but when the time comes, they settle every penny with the poor. I laugh at those people who wear ridiculous make-up to make themselves look beautiful, and become laughing stock in every gathering.  .I laugh at those people who wear anything in the name of fashion. I laugh at those people who wear clothes without ignoring their figure. And become the reason for everyone’s laughter.

  • what i have got no one else

    March 15th, 2024

    What strategies do you use to cope with negative feelings?

    Negative sentiment is a baseless concept.  The root cause of this feeling is that person who sometimes fails and creates such feelings in his mind that he starts considering success as very far away. Sometimes such moments come in life that even without wanting, the person becomes  When negative thoughts start coming in your mind, then it seems as if everything in life is covered with darkness, everything seems meaningless. Focusing on the good things even when you are feeling bad helps you in maintaining your emotional balance.  Can help in changing from positive to positive. I am also not untouched by these things. Sometimes negativity comes to me too. Let’s see how I deal with it.

    First of all, I share my feelings with my parents, another trusted adult or a friend. And I try to convince myself that I am just like everyone else. And people are also like me.  We are negative when we think that every adverse outcome is someone else’s fault.  When we accept that everything originates from within us and all good and bad results are born from our own actions, then a sense of responsibility will arise within us, which is a positive thought.  We have to be grateful, learn to laugh at ourselves, without helping others it would be baseless to expect anything from them, we should make friends with positive thinking people.  We should try to do socially useful work, this increases the feeling of karma within us.
    We should learn to take responsibility for both good and bad results. If we have done good, we should be proud of it, but if something wrong has happened, we should also take responsibility for it.  Knowing about the life of a successful person is as important as staying in touch with family members.  Don’t compete with your friends by considering them as ideals.

    There are thousands of books that discuss the lives of successful people.  I read these books.Emotionally intelligent people often practice mindfulness, which is the act of being present and fully engaged in the present moment.  Mindfulness allows them to observe their thoughts and feelings without judgment, which can help them stay grounded when dealing with negativity.  Through mindfulness, emotionally intelligent people can manage their negative emotions more effectively, allowing them to react to situations in a more calm and rational way. Emotionally intelligent people are able to ignore the negative aspects of a situation.  Instead of focusing on the negative, let’s focus on the positive.  They look for opportunities to learn and grow from their experiences, even when things don’t go according to plan.  By focusing on the positive, emotionally intelligent people can improve their mindset and find new ways to face challenges. I turn to yoga to infuse myself with positive energy. Yoga improves concentration and mental  Stability is even better.  There are many such yogas, which throw out the negative thoughts from your mind, hence in today’s time the importance of yoga has increased even more.
    The days of our life are limited and the energy we spend for each hour of that day is also limited.  We should not spend so much energy only on negative emotions but should use it with positive thinking. You will also remain healthy and others will also get energy from you, only then there will be positive energy in the world.

    My parents have also instilled in me the habit of always looking towards people who are inferior to me in order to remain positive. In my childhood, when I did not get something, my mother always used to say that it is not necessary for everyone to have the same thing. Is it yours?  Does your face resemble anyone?  This lesson has been useful to me in my life till date. If we can explain something like this to our children, then perhaps their life will also not be dependent on small happiness.

  • Why not consider yourself helpless?

    March 14th, 2024

    Never consider yourself helpless in life.  Because when the idol of God gets broken, people keep it outside under a tree.  Then what is the status of humans like us? If we consider ourselves weak then people will harass us even more.

    Every part of our body is dependent on each other.  However, there is no doubt that our brain is the most powerful tool in the entire body.  Once we understand the nature of our mind and how it works, it becomes much easier for us to use it. To enjoy good health, to bring true happiness to our family,  To bring peace to all, first of all one must discipline and control one’s mind. If you sit idle, with no work, you will automatically not be able to stop yourself from overthinking.  Sometimes positive, sometimes negative thoughts will come to your mind depending on the environment.
    However, such thoughts are easy to control.  Just keep yourself busy in some work that requires concentration.  You must have heard this saying since childhood that “an empty mind is the devil’s house”, it is true in a way.  Your mind is responsible for everything that happens in your life.  It is a creative force for good things and bad things, for success and failure. Some thoughts start changing on their own with time, our thoughts start arising as per our attitude.  But we have to change some thoughts ourselves.  When we decide our own thoughts, we give this message to our brain.  And decide to adopt new ideas.

    Why do bad thoughts come?

    The root cause of bad thoughts is feeling helpless and insecure, which makes us like a child who feels helpless and insecure.  Well, this problem is very widespread, many people do not realize that these bad thoughts can affect their mental health.  And that is why it is very important to solve this problem. It would be useless to say not to be afraid of anything or not to think about the future, because very few of us will have that much control over our mind.  To deal with bad thoughts, imagine that a mountaineer is stuck in the middle of a thousand meter high peak, from where he can neither go down nor go up.  What will he do in such a situation?  He has to find a place where he can spend the night comfortably and wait till morning so that he can find a way to escape in the light of day.  You should also always remember that sometimes time solves many problems. Bad thoughts become more prevalent when you keep thinking about what will happen to you, even if it has not happened to you.  Be it about your promotion or salary hike or your preferred posting as per your wish.  Bad thoughts arise from fear, whether it’s the fear of being stuck in a situation you don’t want to be in or one you hate.  If fear persists, bad thoughts will only increase.

    how to explain yourself?

    First we have to accept that people will always be uncertain and unreasonable.  We need to convince ourselves that life is like a maze and the roads in the maze are not straight.  Once you start seeing life as a maze rather than a straight staircase, you will start accepting its twists and turns, ups and downs without any discomfort.  Overall, accepting uncertainty is the first step to conquering fear. If you are in a situation where you feel that things are not going to go your way, there are three things you should consider before making any decision.  Needed  First of all, think about what you would like to do and what its possible consequences would be.  Then think about what you would do in that situation.  What will be your next step, what will be its possible consequences and what will you do then.  If despite answering these three questions you do not find yourself in a better situation, then my advice is that you get out of this situation.  Because if you remain in such a situation, you will not be able to control yourself.

    God has given all the people who have created in this world different intelligence, discretion, action, knowledge and ignorance.  It is not necessary that after obtaining a lot of higher education, you become completely knowledgeable.  The real wise person is the one who has learned to rein the horse of his mind and heart. Without this, all knowledge is incomplete. Man cannot be happy only with money unless he has wisdom.  No need. The most true thing is that we can never be helpless in the presence of God who has sent us here. In God’s house there is delay, not darkness.

  • Should we be afraid of having a bad dream?

    March 14th, 2024

    Many people do not sleep properly at night and even if they do, they wake up due to bad dreams.  Often one has dreams of snakes, dreams of ghosts or some such dreams due to which there is fear.  Many people see the death of their loved ones in their dreams.  It is said about such dreams that the age of the person whose death occurs in the dream increases. Nightmares can arise due to many reasons like stress, anxiety, irregular sleep, consumption of medicines, mental health disorders etc.  It is normal to have nightmares after a traumatic event like physical abuse, sexual abuse or an accident. Dreams seen with closed eyes are sometimes good and sometimes bad.  Some of these dreams are remembered and some are forgotten.  If we talk about nightmares, then many times they start coming and do not seem to end.

    In case of frequent nightmares, after taking bath every morning, recite Hanuman Chalisa along with worshiping Sankat Mochan Hanuman ji.  This provides relief from bad dreams.  If you want, you can recite Hanuman Chalisa even before sleeping.  It has been said for Hanuman ji, Nashe Rog Hare Sab Pira, Japat Continuous Hanumat Bira. On Saturday, take the name of Hanumanji and tie a black thread on the big toe or index finger of the feet, this will give strength to the mind and ward off bad or  Scary dreams will not come. Keep alum tied in a black cloth under your sleeping bed.  This frees the person from bad dreams, flashes in sleep or any unknown fear.  Keep a piece of alum near the child’s bedside on any Tuesday or Sunday.  The child will not have bad dreams while sleeping at night, nor will the child get scared or scream.  If you are having continuous nightmares then keep some Durva grass under your pillow and sleep.  It is said that Durva is destroyer of Tridosha.  It is also said in our scriptures that Durva grass destroys nightmares.

    Before going to bed, keep aside all kinds of worries and do not read a scary book or watch any such movie or discuss such a thing with anyone before sleeping.  To avoid bad dreams, keep a knife, scissors, nail cutter or onion under your pillow.  By doing that remedy, you get relief from scary dreams. If you want that you do not have nightmares at night, then do not bring the slippers and shoes that come out of your bedroom inside the house even by mistake, nor do you keep them in your bed.  Keep any slipper or shoe at the bedside.
    According to astrology, if you suffer from frequent nightmares, then to avoid this, you should keep three peacock feathers under the head of your bed.  By following this remedy, nightmares stop. If you are going to sleep, then also decide in which direction your feet are.  Never set foot in South and East.  Do not keep your feet in the direction of the door.  This causes loss of health and prosperity.  Sleeping with head towards east increases knowledge.  Sleeping with head towards the south brings peace, health and prosperity. Dinner should be eaten 2 hours before sleeping.  Dinner should be light and satvik.  For good sleep, do Vajrasana after eating, then do Bhramari Pranayam and finally go to sleep while doing Shavasana.

    If the bad dream comes after 4 o’clock in the morning, then after waking up in the morning, without saying anything to anyone, tell your entire dream to the Tulsi plant.  By doing this one does not get bad results of the dream.  If there is no Tulsi plant, then tell God in your mind and pray for everything to be good.
    Write your bad dream on paper, burn it and throw the ashes in the drain.  After this, chant Om Namah Shivay mantra at least 108 times.  Before sleeping at night, camphor should be burnt in the entire house and in your bedroom every day.  This removes negative energy from the house.  You get a good sleep at night and get rid of bad dreams.  Apart from this, there are many benefits of burning camphor in the house every day. Some people eat food in bed while sleeping at night, due to which some false particles remain on the bed.  It is believed that this also causes nightmares.  If negative energy starts flowing in your house then it also causes nightmares.  Sometimes due to Pitrudosh etc., nightmares start coming.  For this, you should get your horoscope checked and get the solution.

    People who are emotionally weak remain haunted by the fear of the unknown.  These people are not mentally strong due to which they start seeing nightmares while sleeping at night.  A person should recite Hanuman Chalisa daily and if possible, recite Hanuman Chalisa before sleeping at night.  This provides relief from both fear and bad dreams.  Understand the law of nature: The thing we want to distance ourselves from runs after us even more.  So stop thinking about dreams.  Bring positive thoughts in your mind and always try to be happy.

  • Cooking

    March 14th, 2024

    What activities do you lose yourself in?

    Everyone definitely has some hobbies of their own.  Some are fond of food and drinks and some are fond of other things.  But I am fond of cooking.  Since childhood, I was very fond of trying new recipes.  Although I never made my hobby my career.  But I like to make something new and serve it to everyone.

    When I decide that I have to make something today, I keep making it.  Then I don’t worry about my hunger or thirst.  How many times does it happen that the thing I have made does not turn out to be good?  But yes, I can understand how to make it next time.  My relatives and friends all praise my food a lot.  I don’t like to hear my praise but I feel good that I fed them something good.

  • When is life called meaningful?

    March 13th, 2024

    Human life is not available by birth.  After birth we get the opportunity to build our life.  But those who consider birth as enough, their life becomes meaningless.  The life that we consider as real life after birth is nothing but slowly dying.  It is difficult to even call it life.  Those who know exactly will call it slow death.  After birth you should remember that we die slowly every day.  Death does not come suddenly, it is a long evolution.  Every day we live ends with our age.  So we do not understand the long sequence that this is the sequence of dying.  But in reality this is the process of dying.  If we consider this as life then we will be in error.  This is not life.  What we have got is a slow death of seventy years. We understand the difference between the living beings, the world and Brahma, but unfortunately today’s humans are drowning in the bondage of subjects.  Adi Shankaracharya has clearly said that if you do not remember the name of God while living this life, then there is no one more foolish than you.  O my dear friends, if you don’t wake up now, when will you wake up?  Once your feet are spread, nothing can happen again.  The truth is that the Supreme Father God blows the conch shell in the temple of our heart every morning, O man!  Get up and achieve what I have sent you into this world to achieve.  But today’s man is so intoxicated with power, wealth and hospitality that he does not hear these words.  Everyone has come alone in this world, and will also go alone.  Therefore, everyone’s accounts are different in God’s ledger.  Keep in mind that he likes only people with pure and innocent minds.  No trickery or diplomacy works there.  If something good is happening to you today, it contains seeds sown by your past lives.  Whatever you sow today, you will reap tomorrow.  One has to suffer the consequences of the good or inauspicious deeds done.

    Whoever has come into this world, his departure is also certain.  Nothing is eternal here, everything is transitory, changeable.  This world is like the twinkling morning star, it gets destroyed in no time.  This is the condition of human life also.  If man understands death in the form of time, he will make fewer mistakes.  This is because even the biggest success will throw a man into the abyss of failure.  If we go along then our good work will be done.  If we can extend our hands towards service to protect humanity, then this will be our true capital.

    Meaningful life: Man is born to do something good.  Therefore, be aware from today itself that this money does not go waste.  God also becomes happy only when we do good work in life by taking efforts and hard work together. Every conscious being, especially human being, has happiness and sorrow, good and bad, and what is harmful? What is beneficial?  There is the ability to differentiate between.  Because of this ability to recognize and differentiate between these different types of emotions, we are all exactly alike in that we want happiness and do not want sadness.

    It is obvious and obvious to all of us that we all desire happiness and dislike the experiences of pain and suffering.  Therefore, it is extremely important to live a life that brings harmony and peace, not unrest and turmoil. Living ethically, with justice, teaches us that money is a means to our survival, not an end.  This does not mean that money, property and achievements have no value, but real success and happiness lies in living consciously and becoming indispensable to the society.  Then this meaningful life will not only be successful but will also be called meaningful.  Therefore, a meaningful life is more important than a successful life and meaning is greater than success.


    आज का युवा प्रतिभा और क्षमता वाला है। वह सीखने और नई चीजों को तलाशने के लिए उत्सुक है। मुश्किल यह है कि युवा पीढ़ी बहुत जल्दबाजी में है। हालांकि विज्ञान, प्रौद्योगिकी, गणित, वास्तुकला, इंजीनियरिंग और अन्य क्षेत्रों में बहुत प्रगति हुई है,  यह अटल सत्य है कि जिंदगी संघर्षमय है। हमें रोज एक नई चुनौती का सामना करना पड़ता है। इस जिंदगी रूपी खेल में जहां हमने एक स्तर पार कर लिया, तो दूसरा स्तर स्वत: तैयार हो जाता है। एक नया संघर्ष, एक नया लक्ष्य फिर तैयार हो जाता है। आज के इस एकल परिवार एवं आर्थिक चुनौतियों से संघर्ष के दौर में सामाजिक, सांस्कृतिक विरासत खत्म हो रही है। इससे व्यक्ति का जीवन भौतिक संसाधनों की उपलब्धता के बावजूद आत्मिक सुख-शांति का अनुभव नहीं कर पा रहा है। जीवन का स्वभाव है विस्तार और फैलाव, यह मनुष्य की सारी गति एवं प्रगति का अंतिम लक्ष्य है। अनंत विस्तार को पा जाना, इतना विस्तार कि फिर कुछ भी पाने को शेष नहीं रह जाए। इसलिए मनुष्य एक स्थिति से दूसरी स्थिति की ओर गति करता रहता है और एक दिन समाप्त हो जाता है। क्या भौतिक जगत में उपलब्ध संसाधनों को पाकर व्यक्ति पूर्णत: सुखी हो जाता है?

    When it comes to the question of attaining peace and happiness, it is wrong to think that overall peace and happiness comes only from external material prosperity.  It is possible that by depending on material facilities, we can increase our material happiness and joy and overcome some of our material difficulties.  But what we get from material facilities is limited to the experience of the body.  Unlike animals, we humans are not satisfied with merely garnering immediate happiness and reducing immediate sorrows.  This is because we humans have the ability to make long-term plans and make calculations, and this is also why we discriminate between ourselves and others.  On the basis of these differences, we talk about different countries, different races and different religions.  We make innumerable distinctions and, on the basis of these, we develop a variety of inconsistent ideas and misconceptions.  Because of them, we are sometimes very hopeful and sometimes very apprehensive. What kind of success is this, where the happiness one gets from income is momentary and limited.  Where it is not possible to live with family, relatives and friends.  There is a great need for social capital for self-expression and self-satisfaction in human life.  Success and failure are a matter of debate.  Success for one may be failure for another.  For someone, earning Rs 100 in a day can be a success, while for someone else, earning lakhs in a day can be a huge failure.  Some people get happiness by helping and serving others, while others get happiness by creating problems in the lives of others.

    It is also said that ‘getting what you like’ is success.  The purpose of human life is to live considering Dharma, Artha, Kama and Moksha as the sutras.  Earning work and wealth under the control of religion.  There is no prohibition of earning money here, but there is a prohibition of going crazy after money.  If religion is controlled, then a person will not earn money through injustice and injustice.  Religion shows us a path of dignity.  Living ethically and with justice teaches us that money is a means to sustain our lives, not an end.  This does not mean that money, property and achievements have no value, but real success and happiness lies in living consciously and becoming indispensable to the society.  And only then this life is called meaningful.

  • Mr bean

    March 13th, 2024

    What movies or TV series have you watched more than 5 times?

    Mr bean is my favorite TV show. No matter how many times I watch it, I like it. Because there is only entertainment in this serial. Sometimes when I feel sad, I watch this serial and I forget my sorrow.  This serial also teaches us that we should know how to be happy in life, no matter what the circumstances are.

  • There is God in the entire creation

    March 12th, 2024

    Are you superstitious?

    I am not a staunch superstition but I definitely believe in God. If believing in God is superstition then I am a superstition.  If any custom is followed without questioning the logic behind it, then it is called superstition.  But all castes have their own customs and traditions which they follow, no matter how modern they consider themselves.  Superstition is a belief which has no good reason.  A small child starts following literally the traditions and beliefs that he has been seeing and hearing in his home, family and society since childhood.  This superstition leaves such a deep impact on his mind that he is unable to come out of these superstitions throughout his life.  Superstition is not only seen in the uneducated and low income group people, but it is also seen to more or less in the highly educated, learned, intellectual, high income group and people of developed countries.  This is usually seen from generation to generation.  Superstitions are of different types according to the society, country, region, caste and religion. Knowing the general attitudes and expectations of the worldly people, many people have created big shops of superstitions.  The situation has become such that because of this superstition, we have strayed far away from the importance of worshiping God.  No matter how modern we become, we will find countless people in the world who spread superstitions and believe in them. Those who believe that there is God in the entire creation are true believers, the rest are superstitious.

  • An ant

    March 11th, 2024

    Which animal would you compare yourself to and why?

    Man is the most intelligent creature in the world because his physical structure frees him from many bonds of nature and his brain has developed in the course of evolution.  But intelligence is related to the brain only.  I will compare myself to an ant.  Because ants are considered very intelligent team players.  Ants can prove to be much better as a person.  They can cover long distances easily and do not forget their path at all. Ants are considered the most intelligent.  Ant has the smallest brain but the greatest intelligence.  Researchers believe that its planning and actions show how intelligent it is.  It builds a city underground and then lives there happily throughout the rains.  It can predict earthquakes and many other types of natural disasters in advance.

    Like an ant, you too can do better than your capacity.  This requires only effort and hard work.  This will definitely give you success. Ants are mostly seen in groups.  He is seen only in his family and clan.  By coming together as a group, ants can easily lift the load of objects 10 times their size.  Some people try to succeed by separating from their family or group.  But the result is that they do not get success and they move away from society and family.  We should learn from this quality of ants that there is strength in unity.  By uniting together, even a mountain can be moved and even the biggest goals can be achieved.

    The life of the ant inspires us to use our weaknesses to our advantage, and be happy even with minimal resources.  Ants teach us to work together, it has been seen many times that when one ant is unable to lift something, other ants also come to help it and surround that object from all sides and drag it away.  Ants teach us that we should preserve something for the future. Ants teach us the need to plan and look ahead.  They store their food in seasons of abundance, so that they have enough in times of scarcity.

  • Dear pushpanjali

    March 10th, 2024

    Write a letter to your 100-year-old self.

    Dear pushpanjali

                  Happy 100th year of age.  You are so lucky to have lived this long.  You have seen many ups and downs in your life journey.  Many springs have come and gone after making the garden of your mind green.  Many autumns also came which left you desolate.  But according to the laws of nature, flowers bloomed again in the garden of your mind.  People took great advantage of the fragrance of those flowers. But as always, you kept showering your love to everyone with a big heart.  You may not have collected much wealth in the vault of life, but you have collected a lot of praise through your good deeds.  This capital of your lifetime is very valuable.  Now no matter how many more years you live, there is no longing.

    The thorns that were with you in the flower of your life have now become edgeless because now you have got used to tolerating their pricks also.  Perhaps after all these years you have now understood that without them your life was also meaningless.  Well, no life is short even without sorrow.

                      your wellwisher  

                              Pushpanjali

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