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keep your mind under control

March 2nd, 2024

What experiences in life helped you grow the most?

Every person has some experience in life which he remembers throughout his life. Such a time came in my life also.

I was of introverted nature since childhood. I never believed in God. I was not in the habit of completing any one task easily. Like I used to do the same in matters of studies also. Due to this nature of mine before the exams, I could not complete any subject.

Once my father made me read Ramayana. Many ways to be successful have been mentioned in the Hindu scriptures also. Goswami Tulsidas writes in Ramcharitmanas, just as the fishes of a big reservoir always remain happy, in the same way a person in the shelter of God also remains free from all problems. Therefore, concentrate on God to do your work. God will help you every step of the way. After reading this, my life changed completely. I became a believer from that day. Then I saw that there was a stability in my nature. And whatever I did, I put my heart and soul into it. Although, due to some family problems, I could not study much. But even today, when I do something, I do it with all my heart. Therefore, one should always learn to control the mind. A person who learns to control his mind and desires can be successful in any work. Because if your mind is not under control, you will always deviate from your work or goal. It is said in the scriptures that, control the mind and use the mind more than the heart to achieve success.
destiny a supernatural truth

March 1st, 2024

Do you believe in fate/destiny?

Offcourse! No one can ever get anything less than luck or more than luck. But nothing is achieved by relying only on luck. A person should do his work with full hard work, but sometimes the results are not in our hands. At that time, after doing all the hard work, we have to leave the result in the trust of God.

Every human being is helpless in the hands of his fate, and the pen of fate is in the hands of the Creator. This pen of God which determines man’s destiny is determined by man’s own deeds. By doing right deeds in the right direction, destiny starts changing, we just need to know the way to do the right deeds, the right way, the right method, the right Must know the time. Willpower and determination can transform a person from a pauper to a king and an ignorant person can become a great person. Therefore, if you want to change your destiny, then first of all strengthen your will power and determination and work in the right direction under the guidance of a qualified Guru, you will definitely get success.

Shri Krishna says in Geeta that God never writes anyone’s fate in advance. The fate of any person is determined by his thoughts, behavior and actions. It is written in Geeta that no one can take away whatever is in your destiny, if you have faith in God then you will get everything that you want. Are entitled.

I have heard many people saying that it was I who did this, otherwise who had the courage to do this? But perhaps man does not know that whatever good or bad work is done by his hands, there is also the will of the Creator. God alone decides what our actions are and makes our hands do the same. The present condition of man, happiness and sorrow, rich and poor, all this is the choice of fate. If luck had no role then all the hard working people would have been reaching great heights. And people who do not do many deeds also do not reach high heights.

That’s why luck is very important in my eyes. But don’t rely on luck.
Hey WordPress let’s talk 😔

February 29th, 2024

Do you enjoy your job?

Apart from WordPress, I don’t have any other job. I like writing, so I decided to do it. But I don’t get paid according to my hard work. So should I talk to WordPress? Your opinion?,😂
What is the importance of Holika Dahan fire? How to choose color according to zodiac sign?

February 28th, 2024

According to the Hindu calendar, Holi, the festival of colors, is celebrated every year on the full moon date of Phalgun month and people come together and play with colors. This festival is mainly celebrated during the spring season i.e. at the time of harvest which marks the end of winter. . This festival creates an atmosphere of joy and happiness for two days. Hiranyakshipu’s sister Holika was blessed with the boon that she could not be destroyed in fire. Hiranyakashipu ordered that Holika sit in the fire with Prahlad in her lap. Holika got burnt while sitting in the fire, but Prahlad was saved. Holi is lit on this day in the memory of God devotee Prahlad.

In this, a bonfire is lit and a prayer is made to destroy the evils. According to tradition, when people circumambulate the burning Holika, the heat emanating from the Holika destroys the bacteria present in the body and the surrounding environment. And thus it cleans the body and the environment. The way Holi is celebrated in South India, it encourages good health. After Holika Dahan, people in this region apply the ashes of Holika’s extinguished fire on their forehead as Vibhuti and for good health they consume it mixed with sandalwood and green shoots and the bark of mango tree. On the day of Holika, Holika There is a rule to worship fire before burning it. Worshiping Agnidev and receiving blessings from him leads to good health and longevity. According to the Puranas, one of the unique forms of Lord Vishnu is that of Agnidev. Therefore, fire worship has great importance on this day. It is believed that the flames of Holika Dahan are very beneficial for our body and mind. It is believed that this removes many physical problems and destroys evils. The fire of Holika Dahan destroys negativity and scientifically, its flames destroy many germs present in the environment.

As important as Holika is from religious point of view, the ashes remaining after burning are also said to have equal importance. The ashes of Holika Dahan can remove the troubles in life. Along with this, it can also make a person rich in wealth. With Holika Dahan, it is believed that the influence of negative powers also reduces in life.

How to worship Holika?

After saluting the fire of Holika Dahan, pour water on the ground. After this, add wheat ears, cowdung cakes and black sesame seeds to the fire. Then circumambulate the fire three times. Those children should look after chilli, black sesame, red chilli, black urad and burn these things in Holika Dahan. Many children face many skin related problems. They should apply turmeric and gram flour paste, take out this paste and put it in Holika at the time of Holika Dahan. Due to which all these evils and eye defects are removed.The ritual of Holika Dahan should be performed with full rituals and camphor, coconut along with green gram are also offered in the Holika fire. By doing this, the blessings of Goddess Lakshmi remain intact and there is good progress in job and business. It also has a positive effect on the children of the house.

There is a tradition of celebrating happiness by playing with colors on the next day of Holika Dahan. The main purpose of this festival is to celebrate the victory of good over evil.

Aries: Playing Holi with red color will be beneficial for you. The lord of Aries is Mars and the enemy of Mars is considered to be Saturn. Therefore, Aries people should stay away from black and blue colors while playing Holi.

Taurus: The lord of Taurus is Venus and Venus is a bright planet. Therefore, people of Taurus zodiac sign should play Holi with white color. White color will fill your heart and mind with happiness.

Gemini: Mercury is considered to be the lord of Gemini, hence the people of Mercury should play Holi with green colour.

Cancer: The lord of Cancer is Moon, which is also considered a symbol of water. People with Cancer zodiac sign should use maximum water while playing Holi.

Leo: The lord of Leo zodiac is Sun and to get the energy of Sun, people of Leo zodiac should play Holi with colors like red, pink, orange. People of Leo zodiac sign should stay away from black and blue colors.

Virgo: The lord of Virgo is Mercury. Playing Holi with green color will also be beneficial for Virgo people.

Libra: The lord of Libra is Venus. People of Libra zodiac sign should play Holi after using Safeda.

Scorpio: The lord of Scorpio is Mars. Playing Holi with red color will be beneficial for people of Mars zodiac sign.

Sagittarius: The lord of Sagittarius is Jupiter. It will be beneficial for Sagittarius people to play Holi with yellow color and saffron color.

Capricorn: The lord of Capricorn is Saturn. To please Shanidev, it will be beneficial for Capricorn people to play Holi with black and blue colors.

Aquarius: The lord of Aquarius is Shanidev. It will be beneficial for Aquarius people to play Holi with black color.

Pisces: The lord of Pisces is Jupiter. It will be beneficial for Pisces people to play Holi with yellow color along with natural colors.
my little village

February 28th, 2024

Describe a phase in life that was difficult to say goodbye to.

Man is the most important form of God’s creation on this earth. Man is the only creature on this earth who has been given a brain by God, which stores the capacity of our memories. Whatever events happen in our life are either happy or sad. Memories are always special in life, these memories sometimes make us feel happy and sometimes sad because they are about the past events of our life which are included in our memories. It may happen that some of those memories bring a smile. Some are cherished and some bring tears to our eyes. Most importantly, it connects us to our past events and experiences in our past lives. Thus, these memories are very special for us.

That phase of my life which was very difficult for me to say goodbye to. In those days my husband was working in a small town in India. That place was completely deprived of the facilities of the metropolitan cities. But I felt very relaxed by staying there. In two years I had developed a deep love for everyone in that small village. The people there also loved us very much. Suddenly the news came about my husband’s transfer back. I can’t tell you how sad I felt. My husband was explaining to me that wherever we go back, the situation will be similar again. But for me. I was feeling very uncomfortable. Once I even told my husband that I want to stay here, you go away. But I could not do that either. And with a heavy heart I had to leave from there. When we were coming, the whole The village came with us to the station. It seemed like I had a big family. Even today I miss that small village of mine very much. Because there is no love like a village in the city. People like the village, pure environment, food and culture like the village, there is nothing here.
service to a helpless person

February 27th, 2024

If you could be someone else for a day, who would you be, and why?

If I had to be someone else for a day, I would like to be an opportunity to serve some helpless person. Because we all are so busy in our lives that we are never able to find time to serve anyone else except our family. .We all know that serving the poor and helpless is no great virtue. Sanskaras have great importance in life values. One such sanskar is the feeling of service. Selflessly helping and serving the needy as much as possible identifies our values. Being ready to serve others with body, mind and words is such a great resource that there is no need for any other resource. Because the person who engages in service with true heart will automatically attain everything he aspires for.

It is very important to always have a feeling of service in the heart of human society. Through the spirit of service, where the evils spread within the society end, there is mutual harmony and peace as well as development of the society. We should not forget humanity. Service to the weakest, downtrodden, poor and needy in human society is the real worship. In reality, service is a feeling, not action. For this reason, service can be done according to ability, interest and capability in every situation. In the eyes of a true servant, no one is a stranger. If a person continues to do even the ordinary service work throughout his life, his ego will be completely destroyed and will pave the way for him to spiritual upliftment. As a service provider, good traditions are established in the society. Love for each other forms the basis of social unity, peace and brotherhood. Good life values are established through service activities. If you really want to do something then there is no need to open big hospitals, what is needed is to remove the small problems of the people. The spirit of service not only provides maximum self-satisfaction to a person in life but also awakens a sense of self-motivation. The spirit of service gives a person the ability to lead. People inspired by the spirit of service emerge as good leaders and become a source of inspiration for other people of the society. It is the spirit of service that creates a person’s identity and makes his hard work shine. The spirit of service not only becomes a carrier of self-satisfaction for us but also works to give a new direction and condition to the society by automatically spreading the message of goodness among the people we come in contact with. Just as a rose does not need preaching, it simply spreads its fragrance. Its fragrance is its message. Similarly, beautiful people are not always kind, but kind people are always beautiful, this is well known.
What is the importance of Narmadeshwar Shivling?

February 27th, 2024

There has been a tradition in Sanatan Dharma for centuries, in which we consider the pebbles found in the depths of Mother Narmada river as a part of Lord Bholenath, bring them to our homes and worship them. This is the devotion and devotion of the devotees in which we consider the pebbles found in the depths of Mother Narmada as the form of Bholenath and start worshiping him. If we talk about mythological stories, then Mother Narmada has been said to be the daughter of Bholenath. That is why it is said that Bholenath resides in every pebble of Mother Ganga. Why do we consider every pebble found in Mother Narmada as the form of Bholenath and worship it? We consider the pebble found in Mother Narmada as a part of Bholenath. There is a big story hidden behind this.

How did the Narmada river become sacred?

In ancient times, when the Narmada River decided to become like the Ganga River and started doing penance to Brahma Ji. Brahma Ji is the only God who is famous for giving boons. The Narmada River did penance to Brahma Ji for many years so that Brahmaji was pleased.
Pleased, Lord Brahma asked Mother Narmada to ask for a groom. Narmadaji said – ‘Brahma ji! If you are pleased with me, then make me a destroyer of sins and a giver of salvation like Gangaji. Brahmaji said smilingly, ‘If any other god can become equal to Lord Shiva, any other man can become equal to Lord Vishnu. Any other woman can be equal to Parvatiji, any other city can be equal to Kashipuri and any other river can be equal to Ganga.’ Hearing this from Brahmaji, Narmada renounced his boon and went to Kashi and there Shivalinga was installed in Pilpilatirtha. After establishing the temple, she started doing penance. Lord Shankar was very pleased with her penance and asked her to ask for a boon. Narmada said ‘Lord! What is the benefit of asking for an insignificant groom? May my devotion remain only in your lotus feet.’ According to mythology, despite being the daughter of Bholenath, Mother Narmada had performed rigorous penance for Bholenath for a long time, due to which, Bholenath was pleased and gave her a boon and said that in Kalyug, I will be with you every day. I will reside in pebbles. From then till today, Bholenath resides in every pebble of Mother Narmada.

Why is every stone of Narmada considered as Narmadeshwar Shivalinga?

This Shivalinga is found naturally on the banks of river Narmada. According to various scriptures and religious texts of Hindu religion, Mother Narmada had received the boon that every big or small stone of Narmada would be worshiped in the whole world as Shivlinga without sacrificing life. Therefore, every stone of Narmada is considered as Narmadeshwar Shivlinga. People call every pebble found from Mata Narmada as Narmadeshwar Shivling. It is said that this is the Shivling of Bholenath, which Bholenath has given to Mata Narmada and without consecration of life, we take it home and worship it. We know these small Shivlingas by the name of Narmadeshwar Shivlinga. Narmadeshwar Shivlinga is also considered very important in the scriptures, it is said that whoever takes these Shivlingas home and worships them with devotion, his wishes are fulfilled. Only this is completed. Mata Narmada is the daughter of Bholenath and this Shivalinga of Bholenath, obtained from her womb, is automatically consecrated with the water of Mata Narmada. To please Lord Bholenath, we offer water of Mother Narmada, hence, those who take these Narmadeshwar Shivlings home and worship them with devotion, their wishes are definitely fulfilled. On any day in this holy month of Sawan, Narmadeshwar Shivlinga is worshiped. By establishing it in your home or workplace, you get hundred times the virtue. Bad luck gets improved by worshiping it. Any worshiper or devotee of Shiva who worships Narmadeshwar Shivalinga gets the blessings of Lord Shiva.

How to identify the original Narmadeshwar Shivling?

To identify Narmadeshwar Shivling, you should see that it is shiny, clean, hole-free and solid like marble. This naturally formed Shivling appears heavy to you. These are often found in small forms.

What happens by worshiping Narmadeshwar Shivalinga?

In the Puranas and stories, Lord Shiva has been called the remover of obstacles and hence worship of Narmadeshwar Shivalinga provides happiness and prosperity as well as protection from the biggest troubles. The result is a hundred times more than what is obtained from the worship of many deities. The result of worshiping Narmadeshwar Shivalinga is a hundred times more than the result of worshiping thousands of clay Lingas. Narmadeshwar Shivalinga is extremely beneficial for the householders. Worshiping it every day brings peace in the house and averts diseases and troubles from the family members. Worshiping it gives you and your family knowledge, wealth, accomplishment and Will give opulence. It has been said and believed since the Vedic period that where Narmadeshwar resides, Kaal and Yama do not enter untimely. In Hindu religion, Shiva is the only god who is worshiped in both the forms. They are worshiped in corporeal and formless forms. Shiva in his physical form is seen holding a trident and damru in his hands. Whereas in formless form he is wearing the form of Shivalinga. The formless form of Lord Shiva is the symbol of the beginning and end of the entire world. This self-contained Shivalinga is found only in the Narmada River. Many times people receive it while taking a dip in the Narmada River and install it in their home as a blessing. Considering the importance of Shivalinga in Shiva worship, it is installed both at home and in temples. There are different rules for installing it at these two places. The most common thing in this is that the altar of Shivalinga should face north. It is said that by worshiping Narmadeshwar Shivalinga, the blessings of Lord Shiva are showered on the devotee. While offering water on Narmadeshwar Shivalinga, Belpatra should also be included in it. By doing this, Lord Shiva remains very happy.
A wonderful solution with fruits and vegetables

February 26th, 2024

Describe the most ambitious DIY project you’ve ever taken on.

My most ambitious project that I have just started with my daughter is a solution made from fruits and vegetables in a completely natural way. Which is very mild, and does not contain any preservatives, there is nothing that can harm our skin. Which is completely different. You can use this solution for hand wash, dish wash, fruit and vegetable wash, even hair wash. This solution also removes rust. The most important thing is that it is completely chemical free. Right now we are observing its other benefits. When all the processes are completed then we will launch it. I am very happy that we have created such an amazing thing. We hope that if you all support us, our project will be successful. Need prayers.🙏
“Lol”😂 it’s done

February 25th, 2024

If you could permanently ban a word from general usage, which one would it be? Why?

There is one word that I want to ban from my tongue forever, which is lol, I have got into the habit of using it in every conversation. Although this word is not an abuse, still if some work is not done properly So I say lol, it’s done. Many times even children tell me that I have learned to say this. Sometimes I also feel that I should not say this. Because whenever I do something wrong, everyone teases me. Now you’re done lol.
How to deal with the problem?

February 24th, 2024

Not everything that looks like a problem is a problem. It’s up to you whether you get caught up in what you call a problem or take it as an opportunity to learn and grow in life. It’s best to learn and grow. Often, people waste a lot of time trying to figure out the ‘what’ and ‘why’ of a problem. This habit of over-investigating not only consumes energy, but also makes the problem appear bigger than it really is. Instead of seeing the problem as it is, people become overwhelmed by its exaggerated form. The proper approach is to spend less time and energy on the ‘what’ and ‘why’ and focus on the ‘how’ to solve the problem. By looking at it with the proper perspective and attitude, solutions start appearing automatically. Are. Problems are an inevitable part of life, your ability to solve them with dignity is tested here. It also tells your speciality. Intelligent people have a different perspective on problems.

Is it necessary to have problems in life?

When all efforts have failed, leave the problem to God. Often we leave it in despair, now try to leave it in faith. Faith and surrender bring about spontaneous liberation and a deep sense of peace. Whenever a problem arises, the normal tendency of the mind is to either deny it or to become completely immersed in it. A problem neither goes away by denying it nor is solved by continuously thinking about it. The first step to effectively solve the problem that has arisen is to accept the problem. Recognizing the problem enables one to focus on the solution. With acceptance comes the ability to respond calmly. On the contrary, not accepting it creates excitement in the mind and the person gets inspired to do wrong things. This increases the problem further. Most people wish for a problem free life. However, such a life, if it were ever possible, would be dull and boring. As humans we are shaped by both positive and negative experiences. Challenging situations inspire people to expand their boundaries and bring more richness and beauty to the human experience. So it is better to have problems for life. Any situation becomes a problem when we start seeing the gap between its actual and ideal form.

How to explain your troubled mind?

The realization that everything is changing will keep you from becoming overwhelmed by problems. Think about your body, it is constantly changing. Your feelings, thoughts, beliefs, likes, dislikes and attitudes are all changing. Similarly, your problems also change. Know that you are not going to be stuck with a problem for the rest of your life. Many problems have come and gone in your life. Remind yourself that ‘this too shall pass’. This wisdom of recognizing the changing nature of the universe is a sign of maturity. Some things are inevitable, so what. Another way to look at a problem is to accept that some things are not going to change. If you expect the weather to be cool during the summer, this thinking is only going to cause problems. There are many things in life over which you have no control. You can’t control how other people feel. You can’t control the weather. You cannot force your spouse or anyone else to change. The moment you accept the situation as it is, there are no problems left. Learning to reconcile with opponents with patience is an invaluable skill in life.