It is every person’s dream to achieve mental and physical balance.Millions of people all over the world are suffering from mental illness. Mental imbalance and excitement create a feeling of impatience. Being impatient is a sign of narrowness of heart and spiritual childishness. Some say to avoid this, leave social media. Some say avoid associating with bad friends. Someone says develop the habit of meditating. But do all these things cure the disease 100%? Some people may see a little benefit here and there, but once this disease engulfs them, it is difficult to recover from it.
Today’s humans are of very jealous nature. He feels that every happiness and prosperity of the world belongs only to him. Because since childhood, he has such sanskars which keep increasing with age. Spiritual fall due to mental imbalance not only leads to loss in the worldly and material sphere, but also has harmful consequences from the spiritual point of view. In people who easily fall prey to mental excitement, the amount of pride and greed also increases and both these elements give rise to many other types of vices. Pride is a kind of intoxication, in which, being intoxicated, a person considers himself greater than others and others lesser than himself. He likes that other people flatter him, consider him great, listen to him, when something is lacking in this, he considers it an insult and starts hissing like a snake in anger. He does not want anyone to be equal to him in wealth, knowledge, strength and prestige, hence he becomes jealous and jealous of anyone whom he sees even a little prosperous. Wants to increase his prosperity to satisfy his ego. Prosperity is achieved through virtues, through hard work, through constant hard work, but a person intoxicated with pride is not able to walk on a straight path, he resorts to unethical behavior and dishonesty. His talent gets frustrated. No adventurous work can be done by them. The courage required to achieve prosperity and remove the injustice done to oneself is not found in a humiliated person.
As a result, he is neither able to become prosperous nor free from the clutches of injustice. To escape from these difficulties he has to resort helplessly to injustice. One has to commit crimes indicating poverty like theft, cheating, deceit, deceit, arrogance, untruth, hypocrisy, adultery, flattery etc. Mental disorders like attachment, fear, apprehension, anxiety, apprehension, grief, remorse, disappointment and resentment surround him. These are the reasons which increase mental imbalance. Achieving self-knowledge and self-respect and adopting a humane path to protect them is the natural course of life in good faith. When this chain gets broken, spiritual balance gets disturbed, then the process of committing sins starts.
All these are modern things. But do you know that in today’s times, the mental condition of any child is definitely due to the lack of his parents. Today’s parents work hard themselves but keep their children like flowers. They themselves go through hardships for their education and do not even let them know where the money comes from. Keeps away from household chores. In ancient times, when a disciple went to the Guru for study, he first had to test his patience. Cows had to be grazed, wood had to be collected, in ancient times wise men knew that only patient and hardworking men could achieve success in any work. Having knowledge of alphabets or getting a certificate of a particular class does not serve any special purpose. Our ancestors used to teach their children to do everything peacefully.
The nature of haste and haste is a serious danger that makes life unsuccessful. Karma takes time to mature. To reach the jewelery form, gold has to cross many difficult stages and go through harsh obstacles, the hard work done in this way bears fruit through a specific process. It takes time and is also difficult. Sometimes, due to circumstances, this delay and difficulty may be more than necessary.
In childhood, children should not be kept inside the house and should be allowed to play with air, water and soil. They must be taught how much time it takes for a seed to germinate. All these small things increase their patience. When children play the game of gardening, their working method is strange. Just sowed the seed, just applied fertilizer and water to it, just after two-four minutes turn the seed over and see whether a sprout has emerged from the seed or not. When no sprout is visible, we bury it again and look again after two minutes. In this way, even after trying many times, when their imagination of producing a tree is not fulfilled, then they use another solution. They break branches of trees and bury them in the soil and try to quench their longing for a garden with them. We pick the leaves from those branches and see whether they bear fruit or not. If fruits do not appear within ten-twenty minutes, then the pebbles are tied with a string and hung on the branches. He does not get satisfaction from this incomplete garden. As a result, after some time they spoil the garden and go away. Many young and old men also do the same kind of children’s games in their area, start any work with great enthusiasm, this “enthusiasm” turns into extreme haste. It is not long after the work has started that we start to see how much time is still left for success. They can’t bear any kind of waiting. When they do not see their colorful fantasies fulfilled in a short period of time, they get disappointed and leave it. Starting many works and spoiling them, they continue to do such childish games throughout their life. Small children cannot imagine any difficulty, distance or delay between their aspiration and the fulfillment of their wish, these childish impatient men also have a similar mindset. If there is no mustard on the palm, then it does not take long for them to spoil the game. Therefore, unless these people develop self-reliance, responsibility, stubbornness and non-respect respectively, the above mentioned qualities will not remain within their limits.
Elephant is an intelligent animal. He keeps his heavy frame in place, feels the need to cross the river, understands the wide expanse of water. Keeping all these things in mind, he starts his work seriously. Wherever he sees danger, he withdraws his feet from there and then goes to another place and finds a way. In this way he completes his work. Man should also learn the intelligence of an elephant and complete his tasks at a moderate pace. No matter how much a student tries to complete his education in a month or two, even if he does, he will soon forget it. Only the education completed sequentially and in due time remains stable in the brain. All trees, plants, animals and birds are capable of giving mature fruits and grow old in their stipulated time. If that destiny is hurried, then the result is bad. We should complete the assigned tasks keeping in mind our strength, capabilities, abilities, mental condition, etc.
Every parent should develop the desire of their children to earn a lot of money in life or not but must teach them not to be afraid of the adversities that come in life. Develop the qualities of kindness, religion, love and participation in children right from childhood. Teach your children to be patient. And also teach them that whatever is in your destiny, you will get it. One should never snatch and eat from others nor should one be tempted.
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