Redefinewisdom

In whose hands is the reins of your life?

April 19th, 2024

Man is a purposeful creature who strives towards achieving goals and results. After each goal comes another goal, and then another goal – until finally you arrive at the most fundamental power of human life. This power is nothing else but the desire to be happy. And you can be happy only when you practice self-discipline, self-victory and self-control. Only when you feel that you have complete control over life, you get true satisfaction. You feel happy only to the extent that you have control over your life. You feel unhappy only to the extent that you feel that you are not in control and that other elements or people are controlling you.

This curiosity arises again and again in the mind of every human being whether the thread of man’s life is in his hands? If the string is not in his hand then in whose hand is it? Will he keep dancing on the instructions of God all his life? In answer to these questions, it can only be said that man has come into this world of theater to act as his character. It is his responsibility to play the role given to him by director Ishwar efficiently. If he plays his role well, he keeps getting applause from the people. His fame spreads everywhere. People keep that seasoned actor in their hearts. Its value increases on the stage of this world. Everyone begs him to be on their side. On the contrary, if he makes a mistake in playing his role, then he has to face humiliation at every step in his life. The value of such an actor who has lost the battle of life reduces in the eyes of people. He doesn’t get good roles to act on this stage. In other words, he is declared useless. Such an actor never gets a good role again. The reality is that this world is a theatre. All of us living beings are sent here to play a special role. Some are kings and some paupers, some rich and some poor, some police and some thieves, some judges and some criminals, some saints and some fraudsters, some leaders and some actors. In this way the owner sends all kinds of characters, good and bad, on this stage. He determines our role in this birth according to the deeds done in previous births.

We get only those co-actors i.e. our relatives and friends with whom we had transactional relations in our previous births. If we live up to his expectations, then the Lord will give us a better role in the next birth. Resends. In which we get happiness and prosperity. We get fame, we get applause from all sides. But if for any reason we do not prove to be true to the expectations of that Lord, if we prove to be worthless, then He does not send us as good characters in the next birth. Then He gives such roles to those who are going to live in sorrows and troubles all the time. It is He who decides when a person will be born or die, whether he will get happiness or prosperity or not, when happiness or sorrow will come in his life. Even if a man wants to, he cannot sit somewhere hidden because he remains under the eyes of that master every moment.
Man is free to act. If he makes good use of this freedom then his next birth will be full of virtuous deeds. If humans misuse it, it sends them to the lower worlds as punishment. But this does not mean that man should rely on luck.
Like we praise and reward our children for doing good work and punish them for doing wrong. We always warn our children before doing any work, similarly they also keep warning us through their conscience. If we agree then we do not commit any wrong act and if we ignore it after listening then we suffer.

If you are not able to do something in life, then do not put the responsibility for it on anyone else. Don’t do things you don’t want to do, but don’t force them on others. Do not hold your parents responsible for your failures. Take responsibility for your life in your own hands. If you are not happy within yourself, you will never be able to keep the environment around you happy. Earning more money or working more will do no good if you are not happy with yourself. This happiness will come when you take the reins of your life into your own hands. When you want to do in life, you will do it yourself. Where fate left us, we fell there and started asking what should we do, luck does not support us, everyone is against us, bent on rivalry, times have come very bad. Is. These are manless thoughts indicative of human ignorance, which have spoiled many lives. Man is a puppet in the hands of fate, he is a toy, he is clay which can be crushed from time to time, these feelings are symbols of ignorance, attachment and cowardice.
Sow the seeds of life in your conscience and make the plants of courage, effort and good resolutions flourish by watering them with water. Also, sort out and uproot the weeds of inaction. Make waves in the air of enthusiasm and joy. The key to your happiness is with you, you just need to find it. If control is internal i.e. self-discipline, then life is happy. If it is external, it is called coercion and makes life miserable. The thing is as simple as that if you want happiness and satisfaction, then keep the control of your actions and thoughts in your own hands. Your ability to achieve happiness is what determines your success in life. It is the true measure of success. There is nothing more important than this. Nothing else can take its place. If you achieve every material thing but are not happy, it means that you have truly failed to reach your full potential as a human being.

When you feel in control, you make your own decisions and you often decide most of the things that happen to you in life. When the control center is internal, you realize that the reins of your life are in your hands and you are driving your own car. You feel that you decide most of the things that happen to you, so you feel powerful, purposeful, and happy. On the other hand, your center of control is external to the extent that you feel that You are not in control or have little ability to direct your life. For example, if you feel that a biased or critical boss is controlling you, but you are afraid to quit your job, you experience stress and anxiety. This causes you to do poor work, which also increases the likelihood that your boss will fire you and the same circumstances that you fear will be created.

Many people feel that they are controlled by their personality. They are absolved of the responsibility of exercising the necessary discipline and willpower by saying, ‘That’s just the way I am.’ Will have to do.
So decide to take complete control of your life. Realize and accept that you actually make your own decisions and are the reason you are where you are today. If there is an aspect of your life where you are not happy, discipline yourself as necessary to do whatever is necessary to change that situation. Only then will you be able to change your situation. You may feel that certain conditions must exist to be happy. Often the difference between your desired circumstances and your current circumstances determines whether you are happy or unhappy. It is largely a matter of your own evaluation and decision. Success means getting what you want, happiness means wanting what you get. When your income and life are in line with your goals and expectations and you are satisfied with your situation, you are happy. On the other hand, if for some reason your current situation differs from your desired situation, you remain dissatisfied and unhappy.
You are the creator of your own destiny, circumstances, opportunities in your life. You yourself can elevate or degrade your life. When you strive for happiness and satisfaction and live in the same mental state, then satisfaction and happiness overflow on your face. When you remain sad and tired, your life withers and your strength diminishes. Think about power, love, strength and masculinity, create circumstances for yourself like the best brave men of the world. You have the ability to overcome your poverty, deficiency and weakness. Just ignite your inner strength.
O God, may your love remain mine

April 19th, 2024

Jot down the first thing that comes to your mind.

The first thing that comes to my mind is, O God, today is dedicated to you, you will do something good for me. May you participate in all my sorrows and happiness. May there be happiness on the faces of all my relatives. May there be no sin from my hands for which I have to repent. May my behavior be good with everyone today. May no one be sad because of me. May I do whatever I can for everyone. No matter how people behave with me, may I be able to forgive them. May I always feel your blessed hand on my head. Oh God, if you are with me then I don’t need anything else in life. May your love remain with me.
learned to ignore what people say

April 17th, 2024

Describe a decision you made in the past that helped you learn or grow.

Decisions made in my past that helped me learn or grow are ignoring what people say. I believe that in this world there are 80 out of 100 people who think of doing something big and leave their idea there as soon as they think of people. They feel that what will people say if I fail? Sometimes what people say makes us feel so bad that we are never able to free ourselves from that pain. Leave aside the aim of moving forward in life, we even forget our everyday happiness. People who pay more attention to the bad things of others remain restless in their lives. If we want to find happiness and peace in our life and want to do something, then we should ignore the bad things of others.

Similarly, when I started writing a blog, my family asked what would happen if I did it. It is useless to work so hard for so much money. But I didn’t listen to anyone. I was fond of writing. And I wanted to fulfill my hobby. We come across many things which we do not like at all but we have to live with them. You can’t change bad things, you just have to figure out how to avoid them. Just as there are thorns on every branch along with flowers, similarly there are all kinds of people in society. In this society, some good things happen and bad things are also seen. If you fight every evil, you will waste your precious time in it. All your energy will also be wasted in this. Positive attitude is the most important thing in the world. All our goodness comes from how positivity we look at life. Any person fails in the outside world on many occasions and there are dilemmas within him too, but in every situation, only a positive attitude towards life helps. A positive attitude means ignoring things in a big way.

We come across many things which we do not like at all but we have to live with them. You can’t change bad things, you just have to figure out how to avoid them. Just as there are thorns on every branch along with flowers, similarly there are all kinds of people in society. In this society, some good things happen and bad things are also seen. If you fight every evil, you will waste your precious time in it. All your energy will also be exhausted in this.

The idea of fighting evil is like plucking all the thorns from a rose plant to get a rose without thorns. After a few days the thorns will emerge again. If you plant another rose plant, it will also have thorns. So we have no control over this. What we cannot do is to create a new variety of rose which has flowers but does not have thorns. Exactly similar is the case with human society also. The same thing happens here that there will always be someone who will make you angry. It will create an unpleasant situation and you cannot be completely free from it, it will always be there. You should find a way to avoid it. When you learn to ignore, you will be able to come out of such situations. The whole point is that we get angry, emotional and get entangled with things. People think that if problems are eliminated then peace will come, but peace will never come by eliminating problems. By the time you solve one problem, another one will arise. This sequence will continue and you will keep moving in this circle. Therefore, if you want to get out of the problem then learn to ignore it.
Israel never

April 16th, 2024

What place in the world do you never want to visit? Why?

I have always wanted to come and travel a lot in this world. And I have also traveled to many places. I have liked every place I have visited till date. But I would never like to go to Israel. Because when we leave the peaceful environment of our home and go for a walk, the hope is to remain free from all kinds of worries. And come back with a good experience from where you are going. Looking at the current situation in Israel, I feel that I will never try to go there.

Israel is one of the richest countries in the Middle East and Asia, as we all are seeing in the news there is a fight going on between Israel and Hamas. Because of which the whole world has been divided into two parts. And Israel is the only country in the world where it is very important for women to serve in military service. Many women roam around here with big guns in their hands. They have been deployed from the border to every corner of the country. It is very scary for me to see this scene. There are many places to visit all over the world. Any tourist who is going on a trip after spending so much money would like to be able to return home safely.
Why is struggle necessary for success?

April 15th, 2024

Success in life can be achieved only through hard struggle. If we give up after seeing the struggle in work, we can never reach the goal. Success is possible only with wise decisions in difficult situations. When the era of struggle ends, the era of success begins. Struggle creates within us a strong desire to achieve success. It motivates us to work hard. Only by accepting the struggle can one move forward on the path of success. There are many obstacles in life, but if we have strong willpower in our mind and dedication towards our work, then we find some way to success even amidst the obstacles. We ourselves are the authors of the story of our struggle. It depends on us how we are accepting our struggle. If we drown in negativity we will never be able to struggle. Will never be able to reach your goal. We should fight only with a positive attitude. Only this positive vision simplifies our difficult struggle. We can make our life golden only with difficult struggles. Difficult struggle creates shine and luster like gold in our personality. It is only through struggle that we become what our destiny has decided for us. The bee is a living synonym of hard struggle. That small body accepts its lifelong struggle. We should learn from the bee the art of living life by struggling in a disciplined manner. She collects honey by making arduous journeys all day long. His struggle starts as soon as the day breaks. We should also learn from bees in our lives. Even strong challenges can be defeated. We should welcome difficult struggles in life. When challenges arise, the struggle begins.

I remembered a very good story related to the struggle. A Girl said to flute, you are very lucky, you live so close to krishna. Krishn holds you in his soft hands. What’s more, whenever Krishna feels like it, he hugs you with his lips. Even when krishna is busy in some other work, you remain tied to his waistband. What and how many good deeds have you done that krishna keeps you close all the time? Flute said, Sister, krishna did not give me this status just like that. I have had to suffer a lot to reach here. She said, what is the point of suffering in this? The artisan took ordinary wood and made you a flute, where did the trouble come from?
Flute said, first I, the head of my family, like a father, was cut and separated from the tree. Then a tool was used to hollow me out from the middle. My pain reached its peak. The pain had not gone away yet, so by drilling a hole in me, the pain was further increased. Then, I made a flute out of ordinary wood and krishna liked me because despite having so many holes in it, I still produce a melodious sound.
Sister Let me tell you one more thing, to become sandalwood on the forehead, it is necessary to rub and grind it. Girl became speechless.

We are very happy to see a successful person and feel proud of him. But they are completely unaware of the story of struggle behind their life’s success! When we are struggling in life, it is very difficult to maintain inner peace. One thing to remember is that when things are happening differently in our lives, they are for our good only. We think too much. Thinking can create a lot of problems in our life. We should try to understand the fact that whatever is happening to us cannot change us. The control key of our power is with us. Struggle is a tough course, but if we lose hope and start feeling that it has a bad effect on us then life will become difficult. If we mediate between ourselves and the conflict, we will find that we feel inner peace after coming out of stress.

There are two types of humans in the world. One who likes to live a normal life and does not like to face difficulties in life to grow. The second type of people are those who set their goal and choose the path of struggle to achieve it. Life of such people is not easy. They have to face various obstacles at every turn. But such people face these obstacles. Many times they also face failure. But this does not dishearten them and they correct their mistakes and start fighting afresh! Nature teaches every living being to struggle since childhood. Every person starts struggling after being born on earth. He struggles to sit, stand, walk, eat, drink etc. In true sense, the destiny of man is struggle. The day a person stops fighting, he finds himself as if he is dead. In true sense, it is the struggle which takes a person to his destination. Stumbling and falling and then managing oneself and then walking again is the struggle. This struggle is the ultimate truth of your life. Just as God does not take shape unless a stone is hit by a hammer, in the same way no life becomes easy without struggle.
My joint family

April 15th, 2024

Describe a positive thing a family member has done for you.

Family are those people who stay with you all your life. And who will always be there for you. Often these people are blood relatives. Family members support each other in every happiness and sorrow. Many times, there is some squabbling and bickering among the family members regarding certain matters, but after all, family is family. Everyone wants to give love and happiness to each other. Of course, this feeling is there in everyone’s mind, but after some argument or because of shy nature, it seems difficult to express this love.

Recently I lost my father a month ago. My joint family has supported me a lot in this hour of grief. Everyone took care of me all the time. Fed me with them and recognized the value of my tears. Very soon my wound got healed. Because family shapes our life. Plays a paramount role in giving. Therefore the importance of family cannot be underestimated. Family is extremely important because they are the people who care about us the most. They help us grow, learn, and feel loved. They are the people who support us, help us socialize and teach us important things in life. Family plays a big role in making us happy and successful. Having a family is a special gift that not everyone gets, but sometimes people don’t fully appreciate this blessing. Some individuals choose to spend time away from their families to achieve independence, not understanding the importance of this precious bond. Families play a vital role in our development, molding us into well-rounded individuals with our own unique identity. They provide us with a sense of security and a nurturing environment to grow. Individually, we consider ourselves fortunate to belong to a family that has played an important role in making us a better person.
my mother’s kitchen

April 14th, 2024

What is your favorite restaurant?

My favorite restaurant is my mother’s kitchen, where food is prepared for me with love. The food cooked in mother’s kitchen is fresh. In my house, food is prepared at different times for all three meals and the practice of eating stored food is not in our culture. That’s why we all try to cook as much food as we can eat at one time. Eating freshly prepared food provides our body with more nutrients than eating stale or packed food. When cooked food is reheated and eaten, a large number of its nutrients are lost. Preservatives are used in outside food, which are food grade chemicals. But these are not nutritious for health. We do not use any kind of preservatives in home cooked food. Therefore, this food is more nutritious and does not contain excess of unnecessary chemical elements. Everyone takes full care of hygiene while preparing home-made food. To prepare it we use oil, ghee and spices. This makes this food completely pure.

Whereas restaurants, hotels or street food etc. all come under business food and while making business food, profit is always considered first. Therefore, you cannot trust this food as much in terms of purity as you can trust your home-cooked food. Problems like food poisoning usually occur due to eating outside food. Because we know the shelf life of home cooked food and when it gets too old, we do not eat it. Whereas the food cooked outside tries to hide its old and stale taste by making it tasty with spices and gravy. While preparing food at home, my mother takes full care of the amount of oil, fat, spices and vegetables in it. Must be in quantity.

Homemade food is not just food, the way it is cooked also shapes our values. Many times, there is an argument between family members over some issue. In such circumstances, unless we talk, the conversation does not start. Whereas if we sit together and eat food, then in some way or the other the conversation starts. Every family has a different atmosphere which cannot be understood unless we spend time together. While eating, we talk about many topics and also try to understand what is going on in someone’s life. Therefore, in my view, it is better to try making those dishes at home rather than spoiling your health by eating restaurant food.
I want to be the smile on the faces of old people

April 13th, 2024

Where do you see yourself in 10 years?

If you want to achieve heights or goals in life, then for this you will have to embrace passion. The struggle of life will give you the strength to live. Will spread a smile on your face. Hard work and struggle are most essential for satisfaction in life. No matter what you do, without struggle the boat of your life will not find shore. When the most valuable truth of life is struggle then each one of us should not try to avoid it.

In 10 years I want to see myself there which is my dream.I want to be the smile on the faces of old people I want to serve the very poor, helpless, helpless and old people who live their old age on the roadside by keeping them in a big house. In this modernity In the changing environment, people are forgetting the relationships. Due to the decline of morality and humanity in our society, the affinity of children towards their old parents is decreasing, as a result of which the number of old people in old age homes is increasing day by day. A large number of parents are being neglected by their families due to lack of emotional, physical and financial support. These elderly people are facing many problems due to lack of adequate social security. This clearly shows that old age has become a major social challenge and there is a need to meet the economic and health needs of the elderly and to create a social environment that is sensitive to the emotional needs of the elderly. The biggest challenge for me is to ensure that they Not only live a long life but also live a safe, dignified and creative life. My desire is to provide the basic needs of the elderly, especially food, shelter and health care, to the destitute elderly persons.

In this world, we all keep running after wealth, honour, glory and prestige. Even if life gives you everything you wanted at one go. Money, power, friends – they will go away from you after some time. And you will again be dissatisfied and want something more. But service is something that can never be boring for you. This is the inner feeling that every person is searching for. By attaining this joy within yourself, you will attain the storehouse of everlasting and inexhaustible bliss.

The period of study is that important time when all the values and abilities of life are formed in us. The “knowledge” we get in this state makes us cultured, gentle and restrained. Helps us to fight the crises of life. Knowledge is not limited to degrees only. Learning continues throughout life. One who stops learning remains incomplete. Getting a degree in itself is a big achievement in life, but to achieve success, it is very important to have the right ethics and values.
small happiness big hope

April 12th, 2024

What are 5 everyday things that bring you happiness?

It is not just the big happiness that matters in life, there are so many small happiness which bring energy to us every day.Life is so hectic that we don’t get a chance to do anything. Even in these difficult moments, if we want, we can find some moments of happiness. There is something in my life that gives me happiness. Like, the first happiness for me is to meditate on my God early in the morning. By doing this I absolutely feel the impact in my mind. I plan my entire day before my God. In a way, I want my personal request. And then before sleeping at night, describing my entire day, this is also my daily habit. The second happiness is by preparing breakfast for your family. I enjoy making some new dishes every day. The third happiness is in reading books. Which I read with all my work in it. The fourth happiness I get is when I go somewhere with my family. And the fifth happiness is in meeting and talking to your friends. Meeting with friends feels as if childhood has come back.

Happiness is a positive and pleasant emotion, ranging from satisfaction to intense joy. Moments of happiness can arise from positive life experiences or thoughts, but sometimes it can arise for no apparent reason. One of the greatest joys in life is being able to express one’s feelings to someone. The thing is that it satisfies the human soul as much as it can.

There is no need for position, money or any other special reason to be happy. If the mind is good and the thinking is positive, then one can become happy even without any reason. But being happy is not just having a good mood. Being happy and being happy is the biggest positive event that can happen in your life and there are many other consequences associated with this event. If you remain happy, it creates new reasons for happiness. Remember that sadness never creates happiness. A mango tree produces only one mango tree. A lion produces a lion and a fox produces a fox. Similarly, if happiness is to be created, it can be created only through happiness.
my plants my children

April 11th, 2024

Describe something you learned in high school.

After coming to high school, I started feeling a little more burden of studies. Sometimes I used to get irritated with my studies. Gradually, due to the burden of studies, my nature started changing. Meanwhile one day my uncle came. He told me that apart from studies, you can concentrate on something else for a few hours. I liked his idea. Since childhood, I was very fond of gardening.

There is so much to learn and know about plants that you could never learn just by reading or watching. For this you have to experiment yourself. Most of my childhood was spent in the village. Since my maternal uncle and maternal grandfather were farmers, I used to visit there often. I enjoyed playing in the fields there, planting trees and taking care of them. Since my mother is a farmer’s daughter, she has good knowledge of gardening. However, due to lack of space, she too was not able to grow much. For this reason, I thought of doing gardening on the terrace. I started with plants like roses and money plants. Later started growing vegetables. Often, I started planting the seeds of whatever vegetables came to the house, be it bitter gourd or lady’s finger, in the pot. I used to feel very happy when plants would grow from them. After asking around and getting seeds, I started planting vegetables and fruits. Due to growing in pots, the quantity of fruits was less, but the taste was very good. There were many vegetables which I never used to eat, but when the same vegetables grew at home, I started eating them with great enthusiasm. You don’t truly learn until you try out all the things you’ve learned yourself. I got the knowledge about the nature of each plant only through my own experience.

Even today I love my plants very much. When there is too much sunlight, I feel that my plants are also feeling very hot. Whenever it gets very cold, I take measures to protect my plants from the cold just like me. My plants feel like my children to me. Whenever I go and sit in my small garden, I forget the sorrows of the world. Everyone loves the plants planted in the garden and their children very much. Seeing children laughing, talking, stammering and being stubborn, we forget all our sorrows and pains. Unafraid of every sorrow in the world, their ear-pleasing sounds take you away from stress and immerse you in the ocean of joy. Similarly, when plants grow slowly, tender buds burst, delicate buds are eager to bloom, unaware of the difficulties to come, then one feels immense happiness while looking at them.