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Do you listen to your heart?

August 23rd, 2023

A person loses the most in life when his mind is unfaithful to him. When our mind remains in full faith for something, and the faith is broken, then our mind gets the most shock. In this world, we cannot get anything in this world forever. All happiness is momentary, it can never happen that we always have what we want. That’s why we should not get too attached to anything. If we have got any happiness today, it is the result of our good deeds. There will be no happiness tomorrow, that too is the result of our actions.

A very skilled king used to rule in a city. He was very careful towards his subjects. He had a son. The king always had faith that his son would become like him a follower of his subjects. But the son was just the opposite of his father. He had nothing to do with the state. He lived in his comforts all day long. A deen king got very angry. He threw his son out of the house. The prince started stumbling door to door.

After a few days, when the king’s anger subsided, the king searched for the prince. But he was nowhere to be found. The king was now very worried. Just kept cursing myself. The king used to think that I have chased away the prince of my kingdom, now what will happen to my kingdom after me. One day the king was standing in the balcony of his palace. A man begging to him looked like his son. He kept looking at her for a long time. Then when he was convinced that it was his son, the king sent his men to capture him. When the king’s men went to capture him, he fled in fear. Reached another city while running. The king’s men came back empty handed.

Now the king started feeling even more sad. One day the king again saw that prince. And this time he was successful in catching him. When the prince was captured and brought, he was absolutely terrified. He had forgotten all the previous things. He did not recognize anyone in the palace. Seeing his condition, the king’s heart became more sad. The prince had now become a beggar. Now his habit had become the same. Like a beggar’s. The king gave him all such comforts here. But he had lost the habit of staying at one place. One day he again ran away after stealing from the king.

Now it was as if the king’s world was completely ruined. The king thought that if I had not left the prince in a fit of anger that day, had I kept him with me and tried to reform him, then perhaps I would not have to see this day. No, but I didn’t listen to my mind due to anger. When I was taking it out, my mind was saying this again and again, Raja, you are doing wrong.

Whenever we do any good or bad deed, our mind definitely gives a signal. But we don’t have time to listen to our mind. Our mind is very powerful. We keep loading external things on the mind. While we should keep our mind away from all external thoughts.
How to increase your price?

August 23rd, 2023

Some people in life are such that wherever they go, they gather a crowd of people. People yearn to talk to them and befriend them. On the other hand, there are some people whom no one respects at home as well as outside. People always insult him when he sits in the middle of four people. No one sees any power in his words. He gets frustrated with people’s behavior.

To increase our value, we must first increase our own value in our own eyes. Because as long as your value is not high in your own eyes, its value will remain small in the eyes of others as well. For this you have to know what is your worth. Till now people have made an image like you, you are walking with the same. When people called you a fool, you never thought that they were speaking wrong. You became the way people made you.

First of all, we must stop considering ourselves unworthy. Once upon a time a king went to his garden. He asked all the big trees, tell me what do you do for me. The mango tree replied, When the mango season comes, I am at your service with beautiful fruits. Asked the neem tree, tell me what do you do for me? Nim replied, I am used for the medicines that are made in the Raj Darbar. There was a big banyan tree, the king asked what do you do? Banyan replied, when the gardener and the people of your royal court get tired, then they come and sit under my shade. The king asked the grass what do you do? The grass replied, I am useful in the food of all the cows here. Then the king picked up a small flower while roaming around, asked the flower, tell me what use are you? The little flower said that I am of no use here, the gardener does not break me even for your worship. Because I’m small But I have this desire of my mind that I should be in front of your eyes. May the atmosphere around you be fragrant. The king was very happy with his words. Because despite doing nothing, he had demanded a lot from the king with his cleverness. The king picked it up and decorated it in a vase in his room. The king said to the flower, today you have given me great knowledge. Whenever I see you, the feeling of being the best will awaken in me. Today you have given me a lot of inspiration.

Positive thoughts are very important to increase your value in life. Like the flower said to the king that I am of no use but I am fond of being in front of your eyes. Our spirits should also be equally high. God did not create everyone by giving them all the qualities. At the time of birth, we were mere figures of flesh and bones. Gradually, we started taking education from home, family, society, school etc. The more knowledge one gained, the further he went. Someone’s share also came less, and he made himself sad. It is not necessary that only very educated people can do something in life. People who have common sense also make their name famous in the world with their power. You just need to prove yourself to be the best. To take care of your morale. To have power in your words.

Never let your head down in life. Whether you have wealth or not. Whether people ask you or not. Whether you are good looking or not. Never let your self esteem fall. Never take sympathy from people. People will make you weak by giving their sympathy. Never show your helplessness in front of people. For example, when a beggar sits with a bowl, everyone puts money in his bowl. In the same way, if you show your helplessness to people, then everyone will show kindness to you. Never be an object of people’s kindness. This will weaken your mind. You will start thinking of yourself as small. You will start comparing yourself with others. Will be filled. That’s why make yourself strong by avoiding all these things.
Will you learn the art of being alone?

August 22nd, 2023

No one likes to be alone in this world. Everyone needs each other’s support to survive. We feel that there should be some person who can listen to our heart. Some people are very much afraid of being alone. Some people do not like sleeping, eating, walking, traveling etc. alone.

A person living alone is very self-sufficient. He has the ability to do everything alone in life. All the people in this world who have achieved success in the depths of meditation have done so by being alone. Loneliness gives us the opportunity to know ourselves. Gives opportunity. A man living alone stays away from negativity. A man living alone can understand the reality of life very well. A man living alone is always different from others. They think different from others. They have amazing decision making ability. They are very fearless. They have the courage to call right what is right and wrong what is wrong. People who live alone speak very little, so that their energy is not spent on useless things.

A man who lives alone does not care whether someone befriends him or not. He never feels alone. Because he is used to being alone. A person who lives alone may become funny in everyone’s eyes, people tease him, because he does not join people in doing evil to people. But it also has the advantage that even people cannot do any harm to him. No one can ever say that he told me this about you. He does not waste his time getting entangled in useless things. That’s why he is able to spend his time in work matters.

A man who lives alone does not compare himself with anyone. While people living in a crowd always get jealous of each other. They compare themselves with others. It passes in me. Keeping an eye on people all the time, talking here and there becomes a part of their life. Whereas a lonely man stays away from all these things. He does not like all these habits.

The key to the happiness of a man living in a crowd lies with the people. When people say good things to him, he is happy, if someone says something against him, he gets upset. He does everything just to show people. While a single man is the master of his own will. He can please himself whenever he wants. It is better to be alone than to have a mean relationship with others unnecessarily, it is more correct. Anyway, when we are struggling in life, when we are in times of sorrow, then we have to bear it all alone. But when we achieve success, then the whole universe is with us. By walking with the crowd, you always get company but not recognition. If we have to make our identity, then we have to make it by being alone.

Once upon a time there were many children studying in a school. One of them was completely different. He was lost in his thoughts all the time. When the study time was over, he would sit under a tree. Sitting there, he used to imagine. He kept talking to himself. Sometimes he looks at the sky. Sometimes towards the trees, sometimes in the redness of the setting sun, he would have busy himself. Sometimes he would get lost in the sound of birds. All the children started calling him Dhyani Ram. Whenever he passed by someone, people would laugh at him. But he didn’t care about anyone at all. He always lived in his own world. Days passed like this. After the completion of schooling, all the children were separated. Everyone was busy in their own world.

Once after many years, for the first time a motivational speaker was coming to the city. Everyone along with their families went to listen to him. People asked many types of questions. Someone was asking why I could not succeed in life? Someone was asking, I have many friends but I do not feel anyone is my own, what should I do? Someone was asking, I don’t get along with my wife because she always catches my words. Someone was asking, I get entangled in my own words because of speaking too much. The speaker was laughing after listening to all of them. Now he started speaking, we have to learn the lesson of keeping calm from childhood. When we have our learning days then we spend our life making fun of others. People who cannot keep themselves alone for some time in life, people who are always surrounded by others, do not understand that both time and understanding do not come together. When there is time, there is no understanding, when understanding comes, time slips out of hand. I was always made fun of in the school where I studied as a child. But I never cared for anyone. That is why I am at this stage today. Everyone who had studied in the same school were stunned after listening to his words. Their eyes narrowed. Later they all apologized to the speaker for their behaviour.

If we ever get success in life, then our experience has a big hand in it. The experience you have gained from life will take you forward. The desire to do something will arise in your mind. That’s why never be afraid of being alone in life. We have come alone in this world and will go alone.
do you talk too much?

August 21st, 2023

You must have seen family friends around you, relatives, etc., that someone speaks so much, he himself does not even know what he is saying. Often the tongue of the person who talks more slips. Our words are like a trap, if we say anything after raising it, then we ourselves get caught in the web of our words. Similarly, we become multifaceted because of being introverted. Sometimes the words of our spoken word defeat even the big weapons and weapons. To make our point the best, we don’t know how many lies we have to lie. And then go on telling lies one after the other. When our lie is caught, nothing remains in us except being ashamed.

The habit of speaking less is a good in itself. Those who speak less can test everything well. A person who speaks less is more energetic than the person who speaks more. Because he does not spend his energy by not chattering in useless things.

There was a very learned saint. He had many students. A student was very proudy. He used to try to prove himself better at the time. His behavior was getting worse day by day. That time would try to humiliate his friends. Everyone was upset by his action. One day a child went and told the saint about him. Then the saint said that I too have been watching all this for many days. Soon I will find it in my senses. One day the saint said to all the students, today you will go to all the cities and ask for alms. You guys will form a group of two people. The group who will come by earning more alms will get the higher position of this school.

All the students left for alms. The boy in the group who was talking more was absolutely less talkative and very calm. As told by the saint, everyone had to go alone to beg for alms. The arrogant boy, by whom he would go, would put forward the bowl of begging forward and start talking big things. People would close their door after listening to him. The boy who spoke less would go to the door and quietly put his bowl forward. His eyes kept rolling. Seeing his humility, people would silently give him alms. When the two boys met each other in the evening, the boy who remained silent had more alms. Seeing him, the arrogant boy got burnt. Immediately the devil’s wisdom came to his mind. He directly told the boy that why don’t we unite the begging of our two. The straight boy was absolutely straight, he mixed yes in his yes.

When all the children came to the saint, both of them had the maximum alms. He patted both of them in the saint. Then the saint said that now only one of you will get a high position of this school. So who both of you earned more alms to tell the truth? After listening to the saint, the arrogant boy said, I did. The saints had already understood, then he said that both of them should tell the truth. Then the boy who remained silent said, in fact I had earned more begging but it united both of them. The saint thought that now it is difficult to separate from it. Thoughts came to his mind. He asked the boy who spoke more, what do you see behind the hill? The girl said that the sun is looking very beautiful behind the hill. He is spreading a wonderful shade with his redness. Then asked the boy who spoke less. He did not answer, there were only tears in his eyes. The saint said that beauty does not need any definition. It expressed beauty with its own eyes. Beauty is just something to put in the heart. He doesn’t need a long haul. All the children had understood the words of the saint. The boy who spoke more was now splitting up.

Then the saint explained to him. People who talk more keep only reasoning and reasoning. Most of the people who speak more speak more to impress others. There was no merit in their words. Many people give advice without asking. Whether anyone follows their advice or not. There are many people who do not know anything themselves but definitely give knowledge to others. Slowly everyone keeps distance from such people. There is no person who has knowledge of everything. But a person who shares his knowledge in everything makes himself a point of joke in the eyes of others.

A person who speaks less always listens more to others. He tries to understand more than what others say. People like such a person more who listens to them calmly. Often people keep taking their opinion from such a person. People who speak less explain their point in one or two words. The one who talks more keeps on speaking all the time. That’s why people do not give importance to his words. A person who speaks less is more successful in life. Because he does not waste his time by talking nonsense. A man of few words rarely quarrels with people, so his peace of mind is never disturbed.

A person who speaks less talks more than himself. Can understand your mind more. Can make good plans for yourself. A person who speaks less is self-confident. I can improve my life as well as the lives of others.
how to strengthen the state of mind?

August 21st, 2023

There are some people in this world who have nothing, yet they are always happy. And there are many people who have everything yet they remain unhappy all the time. The man who is always lost in the memories of his past. He keeps on remembering the bad moments that happened to him in the past. Thinking of them today makes me sad. Such a man can never make himself happy. The man who is always imagining his future. If there is never any fruit in those fantasies, then he becomes sad.

Once a saint was walking with his disciple. On the way, he reached the flower garden. There the saint explained to the disciple. Look, many flowers in this garden are withered. But tomorrow he will bloom again. If the flowers think that I would not bloom yesterday, I will not bloom today, then it can never come back to life. And then it doesn’t even worry about tomorrow whether I will bloom tomorrow or wither. He only lives today. His life is made for the purpose that he can make others happy with his smell. He blossoms only to give happiness to everyone from his life.

Like we clean our body’s dirt daily. Similarly, we should also clear our thoughts. A wise man is one who always walks thinking that death is certain in the end. We should also come to handle ourselves with all the responsibilities of our household life. Whatever events of the past affect our mind, we should throw them all out of our mind. Every man should express his feelings. Whenever you express your feelings in front of others, your mind becomes lighter. For this, there can be any person, whether your family members, whether your friends or anyone else. If we learn to do this then we will learn to be more blissful in our life. Those who keep everything in their mind, the same people in this world are the most unhappy. Sometimes it should happen to us that our mind has been hurt a lot, and if we are having a desire to cry a lot, then we should go into solitude and cry loudly. So that our mind becomes completely light. Let the burden of our hearts come out with our tears. And whenever our mind is very happy, we should still express happiness with full force. It is not right to suppress happiness inside. When happiness also comes out, it calms the mind completely.

Like the flowing water of a river is capable of breaking any obstacle in front of it. Similarly, our mind also exerts its influence with a velocity in sorrow or happiness. Sometimes we feel that this incident is very unpleasant, if we tell it to someone, that person will be sad. Some incidents also happen that we don’t say because of the fear of getting angry with others. All these things pollute our mind. We go on roaming around with a burden on our mind. Its side effects fall on our body. Diseases surround us. Our behavior becomes wrong. If we take courage once and put the burden of our mind in front of someone, then maybe we will be able to remain happy throughout our life. That’s why we should not keep anything suppressed in our mind. While removing the burden of our mind, we do not think who will think what. You didn’t come in this world just for others. Your happiness also matters to you.

If we feel bad about someone, then we should have the courage to tell his mistake in front of him. If you feel bad for once, the person in front will also feel bad. But never in life will that man be able to muster up the courage to hurt your heart.

Always remember that you have been brought into this world by God. No person should have the courage to hurt your existence. To fill yourself with confidence, you should confess your mistake before God every day. If you have not done any wrong thing then you do not need to be afraid of anyone. And even if someone has done wrong, you don’t need to be afraid of anyone.
Are you having a bad time?

August 20th, 2023

Time is such a test that comes in everyone’s life. Sometimes it shows very good results and sometimes very bad. Have you ever prepared for a test called time? If you haven’t done it, then definitely do it. Because there is no time for this exam. There is no time table. God takes it whenever. Like our school teacher, God also wants to see who is studying how much. Who has done complete preparation for the exam?

Like a student going to take an exam, if he gets nervous on seeing the exam paper, he can never pass. Similarly, the difficulties that come in our life which are a test for us, if we panic, we will never be able to get out of our sorrows. To pass this difficult test, we have to remember the lesson of patience and perseverance. Only then at the right time our intelligence will also support us.

Once upon a time, there was a guava tree in the house of a very rich man. The guavas of that tree were very sweet and juicy. Along with humans, animals and birds also used to gather there. There was a flock of birds in the nearby village. He also used to come every year to taste these guavas. Many birds together used to peck and drop many guavas. The ones that were sweet, she would eat and the ones that were not sweet, she would drop them all and go away. All the servants and workers of that house were troubled by the actions of the birds. They do not get to eat guava properly because of the sparrows. Those people tried a lot but none of them worked in front of the bird. One day he went to owner and said. Lord, we are not able to do anything with these sparrows. These ants cleverly come to eat guava.

For 1 day, the owner did not think that he would catch this bird today. The owner quietly went and hid in the garden. When a flock of birds came and was about to sit on the tree to eat guava. The owner caught one of the birds. The bird said,owner, if you leave me, I will tell you four things. owner said first tell. The bird started saying never trust your enemy. Never believe the impossible. Don’t repent for the past. You have held me so tight that no sound can come out of my mouth. If you give me some leeway then I will tell you the fourth thing. The owner loosened the bird a little and the bird flew away. The bird flew away and went to its friends. And from there he said to the owner, this my beak and my feet are all of gold. Now the owner started repenting that why I left it. Then the bird started saying to the owner, just now I told you four things. I told you not to trust your enemy. Still you trusted me and left me loose. The second thing I said is don’t believe the impossible. Have you ever seen any bird with golden beak and feet? I also told you this, don’t repent on the past. Still you are regretting my flight.

Owner started thinking that even though I am so rich, I have earned so much money with my knowledge and intelligence. But a small bird opened my mind today. According to the saying of the bird, we should never lose our patience in times of trouble. Like the bad times of the birds, he crossed them wisely. Similarly, we should also accept our bad times with understanding and patience. It is impossible that there will always be bad times. Bad times do not last forever. Because there is light only after darkness. So never believe this impossible thing. When bad times come, we should not be sad remembering our good times. This cycle of time continues. Always trust your God. Because if anyone can do anything in this world then it is God only. No man has the courage to take such a big test of you.
Do you want to look young forever?

August 19th, 2023

While creating our body, God has put such medicine inside our body by using which we can remain healthy and young forever. To stay young, we must first fix our mind. We have to remove the burden of stress on our mind so that our mind can breathe freely. No matter how many creams you use, but when your mind is sitting inside with stress, then you will not be able to get the benefit of any medicine or recipe. Our digestive power also gets spoiled due to stress. When the digestive power gets spoiled, its effect comes on our face. Our hair starts falling and turns white.

We should maintain our best sitting posture. Breathing while sitting straight has a profound effect on our mind. Even while sleeping our spine should be straight. We should also keep our food habits right. Eat food at the right time. Today’s children do not keep proper time for eating and drinking due to excessive work. That’s why they fall sick more. According to Ayurveda, we should fix the time of sleeping and getting up exactly. If you have a quick and light dinner, then the body does not have to work hard to digest it. If your food is digested well then your face glows.

It is very important to have discipline in life. Those who do not follow discipline never move ahead. For example, many people sleep by setting an alarm on the clock. But the alarm keeps ringing. Then those people think that today I slept very late. Let’s get up from tomorrow. Anyway, I had read in my childhood that getting enough sleep is very important. All these thoughts come to mind at the same time. What does this show, how much we are slaves of our mind. Whenever our steps try to move towards success. Our laziness does not allow us to grow. Because we can’t even fulfill the promise we made to ourselves. We fail even in a small effort that we take in the morning. So how can we think that we will achieve great success in life. If we do not have discipline then our mind is illiterate.

You can see for yourself whether your heart is working or not. But your mind is not working, who will see this. Whenever your mind starts getting restless, do check your mind once. You will find that there is some upheaval going on inside you. Negative thoughts are forming. And the same thoughts are the cause of your mind’s unrest and sorrow. The one whose mind remains sad, his face also remains sad. If the mind blossoms, then the face also blossoms. If there is too much burden on the mind, then the face also shrinks due to fear. The whole game is of the mind.

You must have seen how beautiful some faces are in begging faces. But their beauty is surrounded by a layer of helplessness. Similarly, our beauty is also covered by our sorrows. We always ignore ourselves. That’s why if we want to always look young, then first of all we have to keep our mind happy. When the scale of happiness fills in the mind, it definitely comes on the face.
Are you the saddest person in the world?

August 19th, 2023

Everyone thinks that I am the most unhappy person in the world. I don’t have everything I want. I don’t have what other people have. No one loves me There are many sorrows to be sad, which can make us sad in minutes. When a man has nothing, he is sad, but even when he has everything, man remains sad. Because man’s desire never ends. When one desire is fulfilled, another takes birth. Man is the effigy of desires. Desires make a man dance at his behest.

We see so many people around us who are more unhappy than us, yet we keep cursing ourselves. No matter how much money a man collects, there are only two times to eat. Have often seen people fighting for wealth. Brothers become thirsty for each other’s blood. The relationship between brother and sister gets spoiled. The reason for all this has come to be seen as the longing for money. We cannot be happy even with the money we get after fighting and fighting.

There was a very poor husband and wife. He had a son. Often the child insists on his mother that today my friend is eating this, which I also want to eat. Today my friend wore very nice clothes which I do not have. Now my friends will go to study in a good school, I can never go. Mother tell me when will we get the money. When will we also have a very nice house, a car and all such comfortable things. Being unhappy with the child’s words everyday, the mother thought of a solution one day. He spoke to his son. Son, a very big saint has come to the nearby village. He solves everyone’s sorrows. You also go to him and come asking when our days of sorrow will end. Don’t tell them that you want wealth and property. Just asking how many more days we will see the suffering. There was a lot of curiosity in the minds of the children. He left the house early in the morning the very next day.

He was thinking in his mind that now the end of our sorrows is about to come. I will definitely bring some solution from the saint. He was walking thinking, the whole day passed, and now it was getting night. A little further he saw a huge palace. He went inside the palace in fear. Went inside and saw the mistress of the palace sitting in the verandah. He asked the mistress can I spend the night in the verandah outside your house. The mistress felt pity on the child. The owner was very good natured. He said yes you can definitely spend. Seeing the face of the child, the mistress felt that he was hungry and thirsty. He asked his servant to order food for the child. When the child had eaten the food, the mistress asked him where are you going? Then the child told the whole incident. Said I am going to the saint, my mother has sent me. The mistress said to him, son, will you do one thing for me? The child said yes, I will definitely do it. The mistress said, you ask the saint a question for me, ask that my daughter has not spoken since childhood, will she be able to speak or not. The child said, I will definitely ask and in the morning he left from there.

He went on and on. After a while he felt thirsty. He saw a saint sitting under a tree. He has water in a vessel. The children went and asked the saint, will you give me some water? The saint said why not children. The saint gave him some water from his own water. The saint asked, son, where are you going? The child told him all his troubles. Then the saint said, will you ask me a question? The children thought that I was so thirsty that they gave me water, now I will have to do their work. The saint said, ask the great saint to whom you are going that I have been doing penance for so many years but why am I not getting the result. The child said, I will definitely ask and he went ahead. Now the evening had come to fall and the child was very hungry. He was sitting in a field thinking with a sad heart, Oh God, what will I eat now. Just then saw that a farmer’s wife brought bread for her husband. The farmer had seen the child. He called the child and asked will you eat food? He was very hungry, he said yes. The farmer fed him. Then the farmer also asked him where are you going? The child then told everything to the farmer. The farmer spoke after listening to the children. Ask the saint one thing for me too. That I plant seeds in the fields with so much effort. But my crop is not good at all. There are big fruit trees in my farm which never bear fruit. Even after working so hard, I am not able to earn at all. The child said okay, I will ask him.

As soon as the child went a little further, he found that saint. The saint’s face was very sharp. He was smiling slowly. He asked the child, did you get the answer to your question? A child was a child after all. He had to ask what his mother had sent him to ask. So he asked the saint. Then the saint explained to him, son, all the happiness and sorrows that have come in this world are the fruits of their deeds. Till the time the books of bad deeds are not completed, we have to bear them. By the way, while coming on the way, you must have come to know that no one is happy in this world. If someone has everything then someone is troubling him. That’s why we should never consider our sorrow too big.

The child was very satisfied with the idea of the saint. He returned to his home as told by the saint. As the saint had said, keep doing your work, God will automatically give you the results. The child also worked hard. And his days changed.
how to overcome fear of failure?

August 19th, 2023

Every person in this world wants to be successful but the fear of failure does not let him move forward. Many times he also takes the decision that I will show off by doing this, then people scare him. The person who has a doubt in his mind whether he will be able to succeed in this work or not, if an unsuccessful person speaks even a little to that person, then he understands his own words. Such unsuccessful people themselves are unable to do anything in life, nor do they allow others to do it. If there is success in any work, then we have to be patient. But the person who is not firm in his determination, gets scared a little bit. Human nature is like this, when we see problems when our goal is not firm. Just like an archer shoots a target with one eye closed, because with one eye he can only see his target. In the same way, a man should also keep a vow in his mind.

Once upon a time there lived a very learned Buddhist monk in a village. Whenever the people of the village had any problem, he would come in front of them and find a solution to their problem. Once a young boy came to him. The boy started saying that I do not trust you, but if you solve one of my problems, I can trust you. The monk asked him, tell me what is the matter? Then the boy said that whenever I want to achieve any success, fear remains in my mind. Many types of questions arise that what will I do if I fail. All my family and friends forbid me that this will not be possible from you. Now you tell me what should I do?

The monk said to the boy, let us go for a walk in the forest, there you will find the solution to your problem. The monks took the boy with them to the forest. While roaming around the forest, a cave was seen there. The monks went inside the cave with the boy. It was completely dark in the cave. Both were moving forward. Suddenly the boy turned back and saw that the monk was not there. The monks came out of the cave leaving the boy there. And closed the door of the cave. Now the boy was completely scared. He turned to come back out. But there was no door to be seen anywhere. He didn’t understand what to do. He was thinking that today my life will be lost here. I did not come even after speaking to my family members. Those people must be looking for me. But even if they wanted to, they would not be able to trace me. This monk turned out to be a very wrong person. Till date I have never trusted such people. Don’t know what happened to me today why I trusted them. The boy also felt hungry and thirsty. His body became a lake of sweat. His hands and legs were trembling. He was making loud noises. But how would anyone listen inside this cave. His body was completely tired while trying. He felt that he would faint and fall. So he silently sat down on a stone. He was missing home a lot. He was remembering God while crying.

When he looked around, he saw light coming from one side of the cave. It was on the upper side of the cave. The boy grew bigger after seeing the light. But he could not understand how he would go up. Slowly he tried to climb. Every time he tried to climb, he would slip and come down. But he did not lose courage. Because he had no other option but to go out. He sat down tired for a while. After a while he got up and started climbing back. This time he breathed life into his feet. His mind thought that I will not fail this time. And while climbing the boy reached near that light. As soon as he reached the top, he saw someone’s hand. Once he got scared, but the next moment he held that hand. It was the hand of the same monk who pulled him out.

As soon as he came out, the boy started abusing the monk. The boy said, for the first time in my life I trusted a monk. you left me to die Have you not pity me at all? Then the monk said to the boy, child, I am not going to leave you, I was only testing you. The boy said what kind of test in which someone’s life is lost. You know how scared I was. My condition had worsened due to hunger and thirst. The monk gave water to the boy. And sat with him under a tree. The monk said that the question you had asked me that why doubts come in the way of your success, I had left you alone to explain the same thing.When you were inside the cave, you could not see anything. Because it was completely dark there. If there was full light there, you would have died of fear seeing the small animals there. Because it was dark in the cave, you could see even a little light. You had no other way out, so you climbed so hard trying to come out. If I had kept the door open, you would not have climbed in. The same thing happens in our life. When we find the easy way to success, we calmly decide it. And when the path to success is difficult, they lose their courage. like you were all alone in the cave
How to become the remote of your mind yourself?

August 19th, 2023

God has given us a very powerful and strong mind. But we do not recognize the power of our mind. We are the master of our mind. But foolishly, we have made others the master of our mind. Instead of keeping the remote control of our mind in our own hands, we have handed it over to others. Now our mind works as he presses the button. Like you do not like every channel that comes on TV. Similarly, your state of mind is not always in your favor with the buttons people push. That’s why we get filled with stress. Why don’t we keep the remote in our hands and replace people with the buttons we press? Even if people try to make you sad, you press such a button so that it cannot reach your mind.

When we go to the hospital to see a sick person. If that sick person even says a bad word to us, then we think that he is ill. His mind is not right, he does not know what he is saying. We ignore his words. Similarly in life, if someone starts dominating us, starts hurting our mind, says bad things to us, at that time also we should think that his state of mind is not right. If you improve this habit in yourself, then one day you will not feel bad about anything people say. But God keeps the account of those who have spoken wrong. All this is his karma.

To make your mind powerful, always call wrong wrong and right right. Don’t lick a man’s feet to impress him. Because if you do this then people start taking you very lightly. Your words have no weight. If you testify your yes on some false things, then your value also remains the same. That’s why don’t mix yes in everyone’s yes and no in no. By this habit of yours, people will understand that you have no power to take decisions. After that people will stop asking you. This will hurt your mind.

To recognize the power of your mind, sit in solitude and test yourself. do you like yourself Do you have all those qualities that you like in people? If someone likes you then why like him. If you lack all these things then don’t feel bad about yourself. Try to develop these qualities in yourself too. If someone is hurting your heart, then refuse him in strong words. At that time do not think that he will feel bad about your words. Rather, you should not let your mind feel bad. Your mind is very precious to you. Take care of him like a Kohinoor dimond.

Mistakes happen to all humans. If you commit any mistake, be aware of it. So that your mind is not saddened by the words of people. Save yourself from talking too much. People who speak too much cannot control their tongue. And they say anything to anyone. For this they have to listen bitter talk from others. Then their self-respect gets hurt. They feel that people do not understand whatever I say.

Our mind is a storehouse of very valuable things. Don’t make it dirty by filling any nonsense in it. Store good thoughts neatly. Never forget the nice things others have said for you. What is not in your interest, what hurts your mind, what you do not like to hear, do not allow it to enter the warehouse of your mind. Take your remote with you whenever you go to sleep. But don’t forget to close it. So that when you rest at night after working hard for the whole day, no one should show you the wrong channel.