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How does laziness hinder our success?

August 31st, 2023

If someone says that I am lazy to do this work, I am lazy to get up in the morning. So all this is wrong. Laziness is a function of the body which has been created by our thinking. The man himself expresses the idea that he is lazy. Laziness arises within us due to two reasons. One physical and the other mental. The first reason for physical laziness is food. When we consume food that has no life in itself, such food enters our body and creates laziness. To avoid laziness, we should eat food obtained from nature. Sitting wrongly, walking wrongly and sleeping wrongly also create laziness in our body.

In everyday life, we have to do our work. As long as you are busy with your work, work is easy, but when you are lazy, no work is easy. People who are lazy keep postponing today’s work for another day. None of his work gets done on time. Because of this, many times they have to listen to higher officials than themselves. Such devotees are not able to enjoy the moments of their life.
Concentration is also necessary to study. Meditation is necessary for concentration. Only through meditation can we achieve concentration by controlling our senses. Children who are lazy do not even have the power to meditate. Those children are not able to complete their studies properly and when the exams come near, they want to study everything in one go. In such situations, those children become ill both physically and mentally. When a farmer is lazy, he delays sowing seeds in his field. And when the time of harvesting comes, there is no one in his field. Due to the laziness of a lazy person, his earning gets hampered and he is forced to ask for loan.

We are what our thoughts have made us, so be careful what you think.
Whatever you think, you will become. If you think yourself weak, you will become weak, if you think yourself strong, you will become strong. You just need to try continuously. Your physical and mental labor will prepare you to get success. The work for which you promise, it must be done at the same time, otherwise people lose their trust.
Take an idea Make that idea your life, think of it, dream of it, live that idea. Let your brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body be immersed in that thought and put all other thoughts aside. Do one thing at a time and while doing so put your whole soul into that work and forget everything else.
All the powers of the universe are already ours. We are the ones who put our hands on our eyes and then cry how dark it is.
Arise and awake and stop not till you reach your goal. Always leave lazy people in life. Otherwise, you will also become lazy by looking at those lazy people.

One day the king of the forest called all the animals living in the forest to his court and gave an important decision that from tomorrow one of us creatures would go hunting to another forest and bring food for all of us. Next day another animal would hunt. go for, and bring food, so one animal has to hunt on different days to bring food for everyone. All the animals agreed to this order of the king and it was decided that every day one The animal will hunt and bring food for everyone.
After a few days, the day came to hunt the king of the jungle, the lion. But the lion was lazy, he ordered the other animal to go hunting. The lazy lion was the king of the jungle, so the other animal had to follow his orders. So, taking the king’s permission, the jackal went to another forest to hunt.

In this way every day the other animals went hunting and brought food for all. But when the lion had to go hunting, he would send another animal. This happened four or five times. One day when a wild horse was going hunting, he met a man on the way. He said why does the lion, the king of your jungle, send you hunting? Why don’t they go? The lion has to protect his people. And you are protecting him.
The wild horse understood this. And he did not hunt that day. And went to another forest. The wild horse told this to his friends. With time all the animals came to understand this. At last the animals of the forest left that forest and went to another forest.
The lazy lion was left alone in the forest. Due to his laziness he did not go hunting. Days passed and he became fat. After a few months he became ill due to lack of food. No animal went to serve him. So he died in the end.
We learn from this story that laziness is the key to death. A person’s life is destroyed by laziness. Therefore never be lazy.

The key to success says that laziness is a man’s biggest enemy. Laziness is such a demerit that never allows a person to be successful. A lazy person always tries to postpone today’s work for tomorrow. One should always keep in mind that time does not stop for anyone, it moves at its own pace. Bad and wrong habits destroy the positive energy of a person. To achieve the path of success, these habits sometimes prove to be dangerous. If you also have these bad habits then leave them today. Despite making all the efforts, failure seems to be in hand. Because these habits create obstacles in success. Not only this, your present as well as your future can be in danger due to these habits. If you get the key to success, then all the closed and difficult roads to success in life will automatically open. Even in Shrimad Bhagwat Geeta, Lord Krishna said that a person is defeated by his own demerits. Therefore it should be abandoned.

If we do any work in life, the biggest enemy hindering it is laziness or carelessness. Unless we remove or destroy laziness, it is difficult to succeed in any field. Laziness is the biggest obstacle in the path of success. A person who is lazy does not achieve success. Therefore, one should immediately give up laziness. One should always work with discipline. Only a disciplined person can achieve success by completing the work on time. Therefore every work should be done with time and discipline.
How to rate yourself?

August 30th, 2023

There are all kinds of people in the society market, some call themselves very intelligent. Someone is very rich. Someone has a knack for keeping everyone happy. So someone is very unhappy about his status. Some people think that I am not capable of standing in the society. Because I am very poor. If I go to the society of rich people, people will make fun of me. It would be better that according to my status, I get up and sit with people equal to me.

There was a poor farmer, one day while working in the field he saw a shiny thing. He was so poor that he didn’t even know it was a diamond. Because he had never seen such a thing till date. He brought that diamond to his house. The farmer’s wife started saying, this definitely seems like a valuable thing, you should go to the market tomorrow and find out its value. But yes remember one thing, don’t sell in a hurry. The very next day the farmer went to the market with the diamond. Although the farmer was poor, he took the diamond wherever he bought seeds. Two-four people saw and told the farmer that I will give ₹ 100 for this. Kis remembered his wife’s words and said that he will not sell for this much. After coming home, the farmer told everything to his wife. His wife advised him to take it to the jeweler’s shop tomorrow. The next day he went to which jeweler’s shop and asked the price of the diamond. The jeweler saw that the person in front of him was very poor and he got greedy in his mind. He told the price of diamond as ₹ 500. When the farmer started coming back, the jeweler said, I will give thousand. The farmer then remembered the words of his wife and came back. The second day the wife said that today I will also go with you. The farmer was taking his wife. There was a huge museum on the way. The farmer’s wife asked him to show me the museum today too. To keep his wife’s point, the farmer and his wife went to visit the museum. There both of them saw that the queen had a necklace of such a big hero around her neck. And in the museum too, there were many base precious gems. The farmer’s wife took out her diamond and showed it to the chief officer of the museum. He told him the price of the diamond in lakhs of rupees. The officer said that I can give more of it so that this precious stone can become the decoration of our museum. The farmer’s wife was clever. He had understood the whole matter. He refused to sell the diamond.

As the price of diamond was increasing according to the place. Similarly, the value of a man is also determined by how he considers himself. When a fly is sitting on top of a grain sack, its weight does not increase. If the same fly sits in the gold scales, then the weight of gold increases. Man should never consider himself small. Man decides his own evaluation. The inferiority complex that fills his mind does not allow him to move forward. The richest people of this world have also come after facing poverty. If he had thought that we can never grow up, he would not have been at this stage today. A person is bigger than his thoughts. That’s why never bring such thoughts in your mind that you are less than anyone. Always do your work with good people. So that you can accept their goodness. There is no difference between the poor and the rich. If you sit with poor minded people, you will make yourself like that. The scope of your knowledge will be limited.

Just as good food is necessary for good health, similarly good thoughts are necessary for a good mind. We know we will fall ill if we eat junk food. Similarly, we should not allow bad thoughts to enter our mind. Don’t feel inferior in yourself by looking at others. You may be better than them, but you have never understood yourself. Never checked your worth. Every person is a diamond in himself, whose value he does not know.
What is the biggest weakness of human being?

August 30th, 2023

If we talk about the biggest weakness of a human being, then it is very difficult to decide that only one thing can be the biggest weakness of every human being. It means that the biggest weakness of every person is different. For example, the biggest weakness of a person who is addicted to alcohol is alcohol. And he can do anything for her. And the biggest weakness for a lover can be the girl he loves. And your biggest weakness can be your business. For which you are ready to do anything. Similarly, for children who study too much, studies can become their weakness. For lazy people, laziness is their weakness. Our biggest weakness is to give up. The surest way to succeed is to always try one more time.’ Seeing the courage of such a patient person who is not afraid of obstacles and adversities, does not bow down to adversity and makes even suffering a stepping stone to progress, failure bows down to failure. Gives. Whether a struggling person learns anything or not, he learns to smile even when he is sad. The one who reaches his destination after rubbing his heels on the ground of struggle never rides on the clouds of pride. He never thinks of taking rest, because he knows that time has no holidays. We should struggle so much in life that we do not have to give examples of others to increase our child’s self-confidence.

Swami Vivekananda has said, ‘Arise awake and stop not till the goal’. What is going to happen in the future is uncertain. If anything is certain, it is our own struggle and effort. Leaving the worry of whether you will get success or not, just go on doing your work. If you get success then wow. Even if we don’t get it, the mind will be satisfied that we did as much as we could. This satisfaction is also a kind of success. American singer Stevie Wonder has said, ‘The meaning of life is only in the struggle. Victory or defeat is in God’s hands. So, let’s celebrate the struggle.’ This struggle and faith gives us new strength, new faith and new energy. Sometimes we become selfish with this achievement. We have to keep in mind that our effort should move in those directions from where the human face of a human being shines with the virtues we get. The horror of illiteracy, malnutrition and lack of other facilities to live should end. Higher values of life should become our aim. At present man’s favorite music of life is breaking and personal solitude is being lost. He is getting cut off from himself, his people and nature. In this time of change, in this era of globalization, economic freedom and aggression, there is a need for a human structure where both the human being and his humanity remain intact. For this, struggle and effort should be kept. This is the source of success.

The people of a village had no friendship among themselves at all. Even if any decision had to be taken for the village, they would start fighting among themselves. The people of the village hated each other very much. The people of other villages also knew this, that is why people of other villages did not want to come to this village. Everyone in the village, from children to old people, had the same nature. A woman lived in this village. That woman was different from these villagers. She wondered why this was happening in this village, and if she tried to explain it to anyone, no one would listen to her. One day a saint asks his disciples to bring him back from the village begging for alms. Then the disciple said that if the people in the village are not happy with each other then why will they give us alms. Then the saint says that we are saints and it does not matter to anyone’s behavior. Let us go to this village today to beg. The saint went to that village to take alms but no one gave him alms there. Only the woman who was away from the village gave alms to the saint. Now the saints started going to that village daily for alms. One day, while giving alms, the woman asked the saint, you come to this village every day to take alms, by now you must have known the behavior of the people of this village. Please tell me when will these habits of these people change? Where your holy feet lie, I believe that the people of this village will change one day at a time. After listening to the woman, the saint said, I come here only to take alms, I don’t care whether the people here fight or die.

The woman gets very angry after listening to the saint. The woman says, I had thought that you are a learned saint, your arrival will bring change in my village. But you are also like these people. I have not taken any contract to give you alms. The villagers were also listening to the woman’s words. She started saying that you call yourself such a great scholar, and you don’t even know how to talk to a woman, go away from my door, now there is no alms for you. The saint was listening to the woman silently. When the woman wanted to close the door, the saint said, Goddess, don’t be so angry, if you are feeling too angry, take a long breath and drink water. Saying this the saint started smiling. The woman was surprised to see this behavior of the saint. Then that woman started asking the saint, what kind of double faced behavior is this of yours? Then the saint explained to that woman, what did I say to you so loudly that you got angry so much.

This is what is lacking in your village. No one has patience here. Nor have these people learned any lesson on tolerance. Here no one listens to each other completely but expresses his/her opinion before that. I thought you were the most intelligent woman in this village. But you also became a little like him while living here. But a man’s wisdom is revealed only when time comes. This is the weakness of your village, there is no coolness, humility among the people. The people of your village do not like to listen to anyone, they consider themselves more intelligent. Putting one’s own views above all else, considering others as ignorant, and not changing oneself with time is the biggest weakness of a human being.

The biggest weakness of a human being is to work less or run away from hard work. Because a person who does not like to work hard can never be successful. The most thing that stops you from working hard is the laziness sitting inside you, it makes you useless and inefficient and less hardworking. Let’s assume that you work hard and you are not lazy either, but you can never be successful even if you have negative thinking inside you. Lying is the biggest weakness of a human being, a lying person always hides his inner weaknesses by telling himself good. Such a person immediately brags about his success in front of others, but such success does not last long.

Man knows his weaknesses very well. Getting excessively angry, quarreling in every conversation, lying in every conversation, gossiping about others, becoming sad after seeing others’ happiness, always cursing one’s fate, cheating etc. are many weaknesses. It happens in humans. Weaknesses which a person can improve if he wishes.
Why do we get sad over small things?

August 30th, 2023

There will be a very rare person in this world who considers himself to be the happiest. Every person faces some kind of sorrow. But we don’t even know exactly why we are sad. Because we don’t have a single sorrow to express, there are thousands of things that we are sad about. Like someone’s failure in love, someone not getting a job, discord in someone’s family, death of someone’s family, not being successful in the exam, etc. All this is a big reason that makes us sad for a few days or years. When we overcome these sorrows, then the track of our life starts running. All these sorrows are momentary, sorrows and happiness keep changing like sunshine and shadow in life.

But the real cause of our unhappiness is our nature. God has made man’s nature such that he always sees more ghee in the plate of others. This is the biggest reason for human suffering. A person used to pray to God everyday. One day God was happy and said what do you want? The person said, God, grant me such a boon that I can have whatever I desire. God said, I will give you a groom, but whatever you ask for yourself, the same thing will be given to the neighbor. He thought okay, what do I have to do with the neighbor, I will get that thing right? He said to God it is okay.

Now the man would get whatever he asked for. He said to God, God, give me a good house. God gave it to him and also built two houses for the neighbor. He asked God for a son, God gave him, and gave two sons to the neighbor. He asked God for a car and God gave it to him. But gave two vehicles to the neighbor. Now that person’s mind was shocked. He started thinking that I got a boon from God by doing so much devotion, and this neighbor is getting everything for free. Now he was jealous of his neighbor. One day he said to God, God, cut off one of my hands. God cut off one of his hands and cut off both of his neighbor’s. He felt that the person’s mental condition was deteriorating. That person started feeling sad because of his neighbor. In the process of causing harm to his neighbour, he was also suffering harm to himself. Even when that person was in need, he was not as unhappy as he considered himself to be now. That is why it is said that today’s man is unhappy by nature, not by lack.

Happiness and sorrow in life are like gusts of wind that keep coming and going in our life, sometimes we have to face such situations which are not even expected. We are happy at the time of happiness and become sad when unhappiness comes. There is no single reason to be sad. A person becomes sad on small things. I always keep myself sad because of thinking. Everyone has his own sorrow and by narrating his sorrow to others, he tries to show that his sorrow is the biggest while no one person in the world is unhappy. Yes, we all are sad for one reason or the other.

Most of the people are unhappy because of their desires, often we have high expectations from others, besides, we are worried about getting the result of our efforts quickly and getting more. If we do not get the desired result, then our mind becomes sad. goes and life seems miserable so it is important that we remember this. That we can reduce our sufferings only by reducing our expectations. In today’s time, sadness has become such a disease that almost the entire world is affected. No one is able to feel true happiness. Most of the people are sad. Because people have become slaves of their habits, the habits of a person decide his future, if the habit is good then the future becomes better and if the habit is bad, the future also becomes bad.
Every human being lives a life of both sorrow and happiness, but man himself increases his sorrows and gets trapped in small sorrows and is unable to open the web of his sorrows.

But a person can take happiness only from his good deeds if he chooses the right path by following the ideals. The path may be difficult but when a person is on the right path, he is always happy internally. Happiness can never be achieved by anything external. A person can achieve true happiness only from his inner self, for that he has to feel the happiness of his mind. This can happen only when a person always chooses the right path, even if it is difficult. Always pay attention to the awakening of your life and instead of getting trapped in worldly affairs, focus on giving a new perspective to your life. Seeing others sad and disappointed, you yourself They are really making someone sad. Before thinking bad about someone, think about yourself that it will affect you first, maybe you may not feel that effect immediately but it will definitely come to you at the right time.

When you try to boast of yourself in every matter, show yourself as superior and try to humiliate others. By not accepting their mistake and going back on their words, they turn anything into truth by calling it a lie. If you develop a bad habit of arguing with others, then people soon become unhappy with you and start looking for excuses to stay away from you. Never do the things that you find bad to others. If you do something to someone that is bad for you, then do not expect generosity from anyone.
Putting someone down is a way of making yourself miserable. Some people think that doing this will make them happy, but by doing this you do not become happy but rather feel embarrassed in your mind. When we lose to someone, our mind becomes sad, we become sad, why does this happen?
This happens because our expectations are not fulfilled, the reason for that is no one else but us because we give up.No one can defeat you until you give up. You may lose in many things but you should try again. Instead of worrying, keep moving forward because winning in life is certain if you try with a true heart. A person only concentrates on winning and is afraid of accepting defeat. While it is necessary to understand defeat along with victory. Win and loss are two sides of a coin. You may have lost now but there are chances of winning too. Instead of thinking that we have lost, try again to win. Success is not achieved by the one who does not lose, but success is achieved by the one who does not accept defeat.
What is the meaning of our life?

August 30th, 2023

The purpose of life is different in the eyes of every human being. The truth is that the name of living is life. Life is the name of moving forward in every situation and situation. The goal cannot be achieved by being disappointed and frustrated in life. Stop worrying about the time that has passed. Think about the life that is left. There is a need to gradually bring this remaining stream of life from the material world to the spiritual. Many of us may not even believe in karma or destiny, but we all have the right only to do karma, do good deeds and be kind. Doing good deeds is a satisfaction in itself. As long as we keep sleeping, our luck also keeps sleeping and when we get up and start walking, our luck also accompanies us. The all-loved and well-known advice of Gita is also that without worrying about the result, get engaged in good deeds and make this divine rare human life of yours successful.

For an artist, his talent can be his life and he searches or finds the meaning of his life only in his art. Similarly, sometimes for a businessman his business, for a lover his girlfriend and for a mother her children become the purpose of their life. There can be many ways to find out what is the purpose of our own life. But it is very important that the right way to know it should be adopted.
The surest and best way to know the meaning and purpose of life is to know about it from God. Yes! No one can tell you the purpose of your life better than your creator. Look at it in this way, when you buy any new product or machine from the market, initially you do not know much about it. Then you take the help of the manual guide provided with it to understand its correct use. Only the creator can give the manual guide of any item and information about its correct use. Similarly, the purpose of your life is also known and can be told by the God who created you.

A successful person is not the one who has never fallen. A successful person is one who gets up after falling. We should pay attention to both the types of people and listen to their words. A successful person can always tell you the secret of his success in life. But unsuccessful person will tell you that in which you will get cheated. Seeing every successful person, we think that God has made him like this. But this does not happen with everyone. Not every person can be successful by birth. Many people are such that they go and sit in front of God, that God will make them rich by worshiping God. But God also says the same thing, do your work. Without doing any work, we start weaving such big dreams.

God says if you take one step, I will take two steps. What I mean to say is that whether it is the path of devotion or the path of success, you will have to take the first step on it. When success slowly starts coming to you, people will also be eager to connect with you.

Only the lazy curse fate and a hard-working person thinks it is better to remain lazy. Generally, what we call fate or destiny are our pre-accumulated actions. Lying on the bed inside the house, we can only see the rooms. Even a lion in the jungle does not get satisfied unless he tries to get his food himself. This world is a land of work and if we keep sitting idle then no work will be accomplished. Man is a thinking creature and human life is considered rare and priceless. Those who do their work and efforts with faith in God get success. The making and breaking of the world is under the control of God only. Every work of God is done according to rules. We can remain happy by being in the company of God, by being an effort maker and by doing work.

What is life and what is its purpose? The answer to this can be different for everyone. Every person’s point of view is different. That is why the meaning and purpose of life is different for every person. In today’s time, the only purpose of life of every human being is money. According to them the meaning of life is to live life happily only. But the person who will understand the true meaning of life and its purpose, in reality that person will be the richest and happiest person in the world.

Life is a personal journey, in which you will meet many people on the way. But no one is going to support you in this journey till the end. You have to travel this journey alone. For the person who understands the true meaning and purpose of life, this journey will be very easy. But for the one who does not know the true meaning and purpose of life, this life is full of struggle. The secret of life, the purpose of life needs to be understood by every human being. There are many types of people in the world and the meaning of life is different according to all people and every person lives life according to his own meaning. According to some scholars, the true meaning of life is union with God and life becomes meaningful by meeting God. But, meeting with God can happen only when we dedicate our whole life to God, spend our life in his contemplation only.

But is this the meaning of life for every person? No. There are some people in this world who have no faith in God. Questions are also raised on the existence of God: Does God exist? But scholars say that we humans are just like statues of salt.
If a salt effigy goes out to measure the depth of the sea, can it ever come back, it will be lost in the sea forever. In the same way we humans are also like a puppet of the sea and God is like the sea. We humans are contained within God. We cannot see them but can feel them. In this way one who realizes the existence of God, his life becomes meaningful. Today’s every person is engaged in outdoing each other, he has neither time for himself nor time for his loved ones. In such a situation, they are living their life to say everything, but there is no peace in their life, it is not peace.

Every person today is busy in outdoing each other, he neither has time for himself nor for his loved ones. In such a situation, they are living their life to say everything, but there is no peace in their life, it is not peace.
Today people look for a calm and relaxed life. But they do not find peace anywhere. Because a person has forgotten that the meaning of life is not just to eat and drink, the meaning of life is to live and awaken the world. Today the aim of every person’s life is to achieve success, to earn a lot of money so that he can live his life happily. But despite getting wealth, a person is not able to live a life of peace and tranquility. Because no matter how much success a person achieves, no matter how much wealth he acquires, he cannot be happy unless he is satisfied. Today the nature of every human being is to earn and eat. But the aim of real life should be to earn yourself and feed the hungry.

Today, the way in which a person has forgotten to value relationships by following wealth, he does not know that only his own people are there to support him in times of sorrow. We are all humans but not all humans have humanity. That is why today people forget their loved ones in the greed for wealth. But they do not know that with wealth you can get food but not hunger, with wealth you can get a bed but not sleep, with wealth you can buy a book, But knowledge cannot be found, with wealth you can build a temple but you cannot find God.

Today’s man does not value time, does not value respect for elders, but has more value for money. There is no sadness when time is wasted, there is no sadness when loved ones go away. But they feel sad when money is wasted. Even though human is the best among all living beings, but human life is best only when your life is dedicated for the betterment of others. A person should be like salt, which remains in the food, then it is not visible and if it is not there, then its lack is felt and your lack will be felt only when you become important in someone else’s life. This will happen only when you become someone else’s life Will be useful when needed. It is necessary for today’s person to understand the true purpose of life. It has to be understood that the purpose of life is to know God, the person who knows God, he will understand the purpose of life. If we want to take advantage of life, then it is necessary to know the true purpose of life. If a man starts giving up due to small bad circumstances, then he can never become great. In fact, it is the circumstances that make a man great. But one should also know how to take advantage of the circumstances. Only the person who takes advantage of this becomes great.

The aim of life should not be only to attain happiness. Although there is no such person in the world who refuses happiness, be it an ordinary person or a religious person and a priest. Yes, but the meaning of happiness can definitely be different for everyone, the means to achieve it can be different.
What to do to become rich?

August 29th, 2023

Who doesn’t want to be rich? Night and day, every person must be thinking that why he is not a millionaire. He also works as hard as the other person. Despite this, he is always struggling with the financial crunch. If you evaluate the people around you, you will find that all the successful people never stop improving themselves. They invest time, money, energy to improve. If you also want to become successful and rich, then you also have to invest in yourself and keep improving. One thing to note here is whether we ever evaluate who we are comparing ourselves to. Do you also think like that person and are willing to take risks like him? If so, then you too can become rich as soon as possible.

To become rich, it is most important that you think of serving others. Pay attention to what people need at what time. With what can their needs be met? When you think this today, you will become an inventor. This thinking will help you to create a product that will be trending in the current market. The things people need will be sold in the market and you will become a successful businessman. Many people do not choose work according to their skills. In such a situation neither they become successful nor they are satisfied. That’s why you should choose work according to your skills. You may have to start from scratch to do this. People have to face opposition, but one thing is sure that if you start the work of your wish, you will definitely become successful and rich.

To become rich, set your goal to do any one thing right and work on that thing continuously. Learn about it and practice it by getting more and more information about it and evaluate that work. You would know about how you want to become rich and you might have set your goal as well. If you have not made your goal, then definitely make your goal and decide which path you will choose.

Without a goal, it becomes very difficult for a person to reach the point of success, because the goal is called the foundation of success. That’s why if you want to take yourself to the highest level of success, then make your goal clear. There is a famous saying that you will meet a good man and you will meet a bad man. It means that good people meet good people and bad people have bad friends. Somewhere this proverb also fits in the way of becoming rich.
To become rich you should always side with big people. You should associate with such people who have already become rich and have achieved success in their life. By associating with such people, the poverty mentality within you will end and you will be able to live with big people. From this you also get to know what methods big people use to earn money and how they behave. Not only this, by being with big people you also get financial help which is necessary to become rich. It is very necessary. Associating with big people gives you an idea of how rich people think and make decisions.

If you hang out with people who have never done anything on their own, you will never get to learn anything from them except cursing your luck. Investing in yourself means investing in the work that you have done. You should invest your whole body, mind and money in it because when you are completely busy in any of your work, then your confidence increases and if you do any work with confidence, then that work will be done properly. It is accomplished and you definitely get success in it.
In simple words, don’t worry about the fruit at all. Just go on working and enjoy your work.

It doesn’t matter what job you are doing. If you work hard then success will kiss your feet if not today or tomorrow. On taking loan or loan from someone, it may be that more of your time goes to repay the loan or loan and in this way when you borrow or If you take a loan, you have to pay that money every month. By doing this, you get troubled by the financial condition failure, due to which your expenses increase and you use all your money to maintain your expenses. Start doing and you go far away from your destination of becoming rich.
That’s why you should avoid borrowing. Even if you have a lot of trouble at the end of the month, you should not borrow. One should think about borrowing only when it becomes very necessary. Remember, do not waste your time. To become rich, time should be used properly because once time is gone, it does not come back. By wasting time, you will not benefit at all, but there will definitely be loss.

To become rich, you should make good use of your every minute and always keep yourself busy in some or the other work and should never allow laziness to arise. Positive thinking will help you to reach your destination.
Many times, due to the negative thinking of people, many of their works are not done. If you want to become rich, then in place of negative thinking, positive thoughts have to be kept inside your mind. By having positive thoughts, you will get positive thoughts which will be beneficial for you.

Help people as much as you can. When you help a person who is in trouble, that person develops a sense of respect for you and from inside he starts thinking that he Will definitely repay your favor at some time or the other. In such a situation, when you start a new business, people themselves are ready to help you financially by walking in front of you. Apart from this, they also shop for your item which benefits you.

To become rich, do meditate for some time every morning. While meditating give yourself the comfort that I want to become rich. Remembering my goal, I will keep moving towards it. I believe in my inner powers. I will be rich one day or the other. God will always support me in this work.
What is the illusion of our mind?

August 28th, 2023

Man is such an intelligent creature who is sitting with different types of illusions in his mind. He thinks that this work cannot be done without him, that work cannot be done without him. Similarly, he has the illusion that without him his wife and children will not be able to live. I keep falling into the pit. The elephant knows that there is a sugarcane tree on the other side of the pit. But the greed of food makes him forget the fear of falling. Similarly, a man forgets his image because of his attachment to his family.

There was a very learned saint. For many days he was thinking that now I am about to get old, I should engage myself in the devotion of God. Went to his guru and told the whole thing to the guru. The Guru said, tomorrow you take your family and go for a swim in the river and stay quietly inside the water by doing breathing exercises there. The saint did the same, he hid inside the water. His family members thought he had drowned. Everyone returned to their homes. When the neighbors saw that the saint was no more in this world, they all started helping him. On the other side, the saint came out of the water and went to do penance in the forest. But the memory of home does not allow him to concentrate. Again and again the face of his wife and children would come in front of him. He wonders whether my wife and children would have eaten the food or not. Because I was the only earning member in the family.

This went on for a few days, his mind was not engaged in meditation. One day he came back to his master. I started saying to the Guru, what should I do, my mind does not forget about my family. The man’s wife also used to come to the Guru’s place everyday to seek his blessings. The Guru said to the saint, today you sit quietly, when your wife comes, listen to her words. The saint did the same, early in the morning his wife came. Guru asked the saint’s wife how is your life going. Saint’s wife said that we are living a better life than before. With my husband’s earnings, my house was run with great difficulty. Till the time my husband was there, even the villagers did not help us. After he left, he also started helping us. I also grow vegetables in my garden and sell them in the market. I have started earning good money. Now my children have also started studying. The saint was listening to the whole thing. He was very happy to hear the words of his wife.

When the saint’s wife left, the saint came out. The Guru explained to him, look, it doesn’t make any difference in the world whether someone lives or not. But the mind of the saint had become restless now. He was feeling that now there would be no attention from him. He started telling the Guru that I want to go back to my home. The Guru explained to him a lot but he did not agree. One night he went to her house and started knocking on the door. Who is his wife’s voice coming from inside? She said, I am your husband, open the door. The saint’s wife got scared, she said from inside, it has been 6 months since my husband died. Please do not lie to me. You must be some robber. The saint said no I am your husband and he told the whole story. Still the saint’s wife did not open the door. She was thinking that some miscreant must have come trying to rob her. The saint’s wife said that even if you are my husband, go away because we have come to live now. We are living life better than ever before. Please don’t disturb our happiness.

The saint went back to the forest with a very sad heart. Today his illusion was shattered, that his family cannot live without him. While the truth was that his wife never tried to work outside while he was alive. Whatever work the saint used to do, she was living in that. It never occurred to his wife that even if I do something, four more paise will come into the house. Due to lack of money, she could not educate her children. But now she had become independent. That’s why don’t consider yourself so great in life that the world will not run without you.

Illusion is the dream of a closed eye and an open eye. If this is visible in the open eye then there will be realization in life. This deception can be cut off only with the light of knowledge. It is said that a saint used to live in an ashram on the banks of the Ganges and teach his disciples. One day at nightfall he gave something to one of his disciples and said go inside and put it on my bed. The disciple came back with the object and fearfully said, ‘There is a snake sitting on Gurudev’s bed.’ The saint said, ‘You go inside again, chanting the name of the Lord, the snake will run away.’ The disciple went inside again, but he saw that the snake There it is. He came back scared again.

Now Guruji said that this time you go inside with the lamp in your hand. When the disciple reached inside with the lamp, he saw in the light of the lamp that what he thought was a snake was actually a rope. Because of the darkness, he was visible to him like a snake. When he told Gurudev about the rope, he said, ‘Wats, the world is a web of deep lies. It can be cut only with the light of knowledge. Due to ignorance, we keep many illusions. One should always take the help of knowledge to remove them.

We keep uniting day and night for all the happiness of the world, even after that we do not get happiness. On the other hand, we never try for the happiness of our soul. Due to this, many types of sins continue to happen. We keep thinking only about happiness in our mind whereas there is no happiness and sorrow in this world, we accept happiness and sorrow as our own. We consider the reduction of sorrow as happiness. The job of our mind is to create illusions. The thing we desire or the thing we are afraid of, many times we have the illusion of being or appearing. It is created by our own mind. Before this, its image is created in our mind and later we feel the illusion of seeing something.

All the illusions in the world are created by our mind. We can also see this by connecting it with the imagination power of our mind. Everyone knows that whatever is happening is today’s time and now is the moment only. There is no such thing as past or say yesterday and future or tomorrow.
Do you lack communication skills?

August 28th, 2023

Communication is a process by which information is exchanged between two or more persons. In Hindi, communication means communication or communication. Effective communication skills help a person to effectively present his point of view among one or more persons.

An effective communication skill is one of the main means of attracting any person towards you. If you have good communication skills, then any person is attracted towards you and he likes to talk to you, as well as people’s interest in talking to you will increase. To create your best image, you must have good communication skills.
Your communication skills are very useful in every field. No matter where you work, or if you have your own business, good communication skills are important everywhere. Communication is the only thing that connects people to us. If you also want to be successful in life, then you have to improve your communication skills.

Having good communication skills attracts people towards us and if our communication skills are not good then no one is interested in what we say.

Your communication skills are very useful in every field. No matter where you work, or if you have your own business, good communication skills are important everywhere. Communication skill is a part of conversation or communication which is not known to everyone. Having good communication skills attracts people towards us and if our communication skills are not good then no one is interested in what we say.

If you talk to a person, then only by the way he speaks, you can get an idea of his communication skills. How you communicate or talk depends on your communication skills.
First of all, oral communication is a communication system in which two or more people share information by speaking. These words can be in both oral and written form. It is used to keep your point on the phone or in a group.
The second is the written communication system, in which a person makes his point in writing to keep it between one or several persons. Sending messages, orders or instructions in written form, for example through letters, manuals, reports, telegrams, office memos, bulletins, etc. Third, non-verbal communication, also known as manual language. In which you are talking without using spoken or written words. In this you use your body language, facial expressions, blinking of eyes etc.

Some specific steps can be taken to improve your communication skills. First of all, we have to pay attention to how our body language is. Own
Keep body language right, listen carefully, be confident and positive, keep eye contact, talk point to point, use the right words,
understand the person, practice daily
Give respect, complete the talk, body language plays the most role in communication. When you talk to someone, it is also visible from your body. It should not happen that you are speaking something else and your body language is saying something else. This is the first impression of communicating with someone. That’s why it is very important to have control over your body language. Always listen carefully to what others say. Whenever you talk to someone, you should also listen carefully to the other person’s words. Because for good communication, as much as it is necessary to speak, it is more important to listen carefully to the other person’s words. If you listen carefully to the person in front, then only you will be able to answer their words correctly. It is also very important that you remain confident and positive. Keep it up and have your say. For this, first think a little and only then speak your words. If you look confident then you can prove your point right.
Keep eye contact in yourself.
When you talk to someone, talk to them by making eye contact. If you talk while looking into the person’s eyes, then it also increases your confidence and the person in front is also interested in listening to you and speaking to you. If you do not do this, then the person in front feels that you are not interested in his talk and you are getting bored with him. Whenever you talk to someone, talk point to point.
We can explain our things only when we talk point to point. Many people do such a thing that they say something together at once, so that the person in front does not understand anything. For this, keep your words point to point so that the listener can understand all your words very well.

Always use the right words.
When you talk to someone, do not use wrong words. Choose the right words, never use words like work. When you use nice and attractive words then people get attracted to you. And listens to you carefully and considers you a good person.

Understand the person in front.
The way of talking to all humans is different. So whenever you talk to someone, keep in mind his age and his profession. Like if you talk to a small child then his way is different and when you talk to an older person then his way is different and when you live in office then the way of talking there is different. Is. Similarly, the way of talking to all persons is different.

Practice your confidence level daily.
You must have heard the saying that “Practice makes man perfect”. So practice daily to improve your communication skills. It starts with a small interaction only.

Learn to give respect to others.
If you give respect to the talk of the person in front, then he is interested in talking to you further. That’s why take care of the words of the person in front and give respect to their words, otherwise the conversation will start getting bored. Always complete your words.
Never leave your words incomplete, complete the matter and let the person in front also complete it. Do not cut off their words, otherwise the person in front will feel that you are not interested in their words. In a team or group, allowing others to speak without interruption is seen as an essential communication skill.

You must have seen many times that a person is shaking unnecessarily while talking. And someone is scratching his head while talking. And someone crosses the limit, keeps on putting finger in nose again and again. Someone is speaking in a stutter. All this is seen even in very educated people. All these things show how much self-confidence they lack. Book knowledge is not just acquired, it should also be known to be expressed. If any of you have such a habit, then stand in front of the mirror and talk to the mirror. And try to improve your habits. Avoid the habit of repeating the same thing over and over again. Start your conversation only after the person in front has finished speaking. If a person is saying something, then do not speak at all in between. With these efforts, you will see that within a few days your communication skills will improve completely.
How much should you be attached to your loved ones?

August 28th, 2023

Some people are so important in our life that we talk about breaking even the moon and stars for them. Being blinded by the love of our loved ones, we ignore their evils. If someone says even a word to our loved ones, then we get ready to fight and die. To this extent, those who are attached to their own people keep on falling into the pit of injustice. By loving our children too much, we make ourselves so weak, when the children do not respect us when they grow up, then a mountain of sorrows breaks down on us. We need everything to have a limit. While raising children, we should not forget our future.

People who are very attached to children paralyze them. Those parents do not allow the confidence of the children to increase. They keep covering all their mistakes. Such children grow up to become criminals. Do not ignore even the smallest mistake of children. It is necessary to inform them about every mistake. Due to excessive attachment, we want to give every happiness of the world to our children, but it does not mean that you make them unworthy. Teach your children to be kind to others so that they can never do any wrong thing in life.

A man lived in a small hut with his wife and a son. There were fruit trees in front of his hut, where a nightingale used to come everyday. Nightingale used to sing very sweetly. One day that person saw that a nightingale had made a nest on the tree, in which her small children lived. The man used to watch the nightingale everyday with his son in his arms. After a few days, Nightingale’s children started growing up a bit, Nightingale taught its children to pluck grains, and taught them to fly. Seeing this, the man’s child started insisting on taking the nightingale’s child one day. He started crying loudly and said that I want the same nightingale’s child. The man loved his son beyond measure. He cleverly caught a baby nightingale and gave it to his son. That man’s son broke and twisted Nightingale’s child like a toy, Nightingale’s child was very small, it died. When the nightingale’s child was not doing any movements, the man’s child picked it up and threw it.

The man was watching all this action of his son, still he did not refuse him just out of fascination. Nightingale was very sad to see her children dying. But none of his buses were running in front of the man. After a few days, the rest of Nightingale’s children grew up and flew away. One day the man went to the market from work. Meanwhile, it rained heavily, the clouds in the sky burst, and the man’s hut was washed away. When the man returned, he was surprised to see that his wife and children were not known to anyone. The whole village was submerged in the flood. The man went away from the village and sat under a mango tree. He was very hungry but he had nothing to eat. Just then he saw the same nightingale plucking mangoes from the top of the tree with her beak. The man ate mangoes to his fill. Just then the children of the nightingale came. They had brought grains of rice in their beak, which they dropped in front of the man.

Seeing the children, the nightingale also came down. Now the nightingale started singing again. Seeing these actions of all of them, the man started crying loudly. The man was thinking that I took the life of his child for my son. How selfish of me and how kind of a bird it is. I have never taught my children that other people’s lives are as important as yours. But this bird has taught so much knowledge to its children. We nurture our children so that they will grow up to take care of us. Because of this selfishness, we keep on fulfilling every wish of his mind. But this bird left her children to struggle in the world. The lesson of humanity which I could not teach to my children, this dumb bird taught to its children.

Attachment creates inertia, which destroys our intelligence. We always have the fear that what will happen to our family if we are no more. But nothing like this happens, people will remember us for a few days. Then he will get involved in his routine. The happiness and facilities that you had given to them, now they will try themselves to get them. The one who used to keep both his hands tied while you were there. Life doesn’t stop for anyone. That’s why your intelligence should not be destroyed by attachment.
Do you have to be bad to be successful?

August 27th, 2023

Yes it is necessary to be bad to be successful. Because this world does not allow straight people to live. This world stands wide open like a hunter all the time. When do you find a straight person and hunt him. No matter how weak you are from inside, you should appear tough to people from outside. The world always makes good people cry. Good people silently bear the oppression of others, that’s why the world dominates them more. We should not become bad by our actions, nor by our nature. To be bad means to be tough. Always follow the path of your truth. No matter how much people pressure you, never cheat anyone. If you feel bad about someone, then answer directly on the face. At that time don’t think what will happen to them. It is not necessary to think so much for someone who does not care about your feelings. The world calls such people bad who tell the truth on their face. People gossip about such people. But one should never be afraid of all these things. Always stay away from people who don’t like you. Because wild animal only hurts our body, but such people hurt both our body and mind. Often people cut straight trees and leave the crooked trees.

Two sons used to live in a house with an old parents. The younger son always used to serve his parents a lot. He would always try to keep his relatives happy. But in return he always got insults. One day he went to a saint and said. I do so much for everyone, try to make everyone happy, serve everyone, I consider myself the best person. Still I do not get any result from it. Then the saint said to him, who told you to do such good deeds. And why do you do all this? Then the boy said, I do all this so that people also think well of me. Respect me and consider me a good person. Then the saint said to him, you do all good deeds so that in return people also say good to you. You like to hear people brag about you. You are always present for people so that when the time comes, they also do your work. This is your biggest mistake. What you wish for from people is not necessarily what you get back.

Whenever we do a good deed and do it thinking that the person in front should do the same with us, then we are a straight person. Straight people have no value in this world. People take straight people very lightly. People think that it will not mind anything, no matter how it is treated. On the contrary, people who speak very carefully, people who do not lick the soles of others in the pursuit of their pride, people who care about their work, people who do not talk here and there, explain to the world if not today or tomorrow. What is its existence?

Thinking of becoming better does not allow us to succeed in our goal. Because we keep thinking all the time how to please the person in front of us. We are not able to give any importance to our important work. And sometimes it happens in the end that nothing is found except regret. What about people, people remember your good words only for two days. People use you according to their needs. And you cannot say that I will not, because you do not know how to say no. People use such people as employees. For whom we stake our future, they insult us by being successful in their life.

That’s why it is necessary to be bad to be successful in life. Because when ghee does not come out from a straight finger, then the finger has to be bent.