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my little village

February 28th, 2024

Describe a phase in life that was difficult to say goodbye to.

Man is the most important form of God’s creation on this earth. Man is the only creature on this earth who has been given a brain by God, which stores the capacity of our memories. Whatever events happen in our life are either happy or sad. Memories are always special in life, these memories sometimes make us feel happy and sometimes sad because they are about the past events of our life which are included in our memories. It may happen that some of those memories bring a smile. Some are cherished and some bring tears to our eyes. Most importantly, it connects us to our past events and experiences in our past lives. Thus, these memories are very special for us.

That phase of my life which was very difficult for me to say goodbye to. In those days my husband was working in a small town in India. That place was completely deprived of the facilities of the metropolitan cities. But I felt very relaxed by staying there. In two years I had developed a deep love for everyone in that small village. The people there also loved us very much. Suddenly the news came about my husband’s transfer back. I can’t tell you how sad I felt. My husband was explaining to me that wherever we go back, the situation will be similar again. But for me. I was feeling very uncomfortable. Once I even told my husband that I want to stay here, you go away. But I could not do that either. And with a heavy heart I had to leave from there. When we were coming, the whole The village came with us to the station. It seemed like I had a big family. Even today I miss that small village of mine very much. Because there is no love like a village in the city. People like the village, pure environment, food and culture like the village, there is nothing here.
service to a helpless person

February 27th, 2024

If you could be someone else for a day, who would you be, and why?

If I had to be someone else for a day, I would like to be an opportunity to serve some helpless person. Because we all are so busy in our lives that we are never able to find time to serve anyone else except our family. .We all know that serving the poor and helpless is no great virtue. Sanskaras have great importance in life values. One such sanskar is the feeling of service. Selflessly helping and serving the needy as much as possible identifies our values. Being ready to serve others with body, mind and words is such a great resource that there is no need for any other resource. Because the person who engages in service with true heart will automatically attain everything he aspires for.

It is very important to always have a feeling of service in the heart of human society. Through the spirit of service, where the evils spread within the society end, there is mutual harmony and peace as well as development of the society. We should not forget humanity. Service to the weakest, downtrodden, poor and needy in human society is the real worship. In reality, service is a feeling, not action. For this reason, service can be done according to ability, interest and capability in every situation. In the eyes of a true servant, no one is a stranger. If a person continues to do even the ordinary service work throughout his life, his ego will be completely destroyed and will pave the way for him to spiritual upliftment. As a service provider, good traditions are established in the society. Love for each other forms the basis of social unity, peace and brotherhood. Good life values are established through service activities. If you really want to do something then there is no need to open big hospitals, what is needed is to remove the small problems of the people. The spirit of service not only provides maximum self-satisfaction to a person in life but also awakens a sense of self-motivation. The spirit of service gives a person the ability to lead. People inspired by the spirit of service emerge as good leaders and become a source of inspiration for other people of the society. It is the spirit of service that creates a person’s identity and makes his hard work shine. The spirit of service not only becomes a carrier of self-satisfaction for us but also works to give a new direction and condition to the society by automatically spreading the message of goodness among the people we come in contact with. Just as a rose does not need preaching, it simply spreads its fragrance. Its fragrance is its message. Similarly, beautiful people are not always kind, but kind people are always beautiful, this is well known.
What is the importance of Narmadeshwar Shivling?

February 27th, 2024

There has been a tradition in Sanatan Dharma for centuries, in which we consider the pebbles found in the depths of Mother Narmada river as a part of Lord Bholenath, bring them to our homes and worship them. This is the devotion and devotion of the devotees in which we consider the pebbles found in the depths of Mother Narmada as the form of Bholenath and start worshiping him. If we talk about mythological stories, then Mother Narmada has been said to be the daughter of Bholenath. That is why it is said that Bholenath resides in every pebble of Mother Ganga. Why do we consider every pebble found in Mother Narmada as the form of Bholenath and worship it? We consider the pebble found in Mother Narmada as a part of Bholenath. There is a big story hidden behind this.

How did the Narmada river become sacred?

In ancient times, when the Narmada River decided to become like the Ganga River and started doing penance to Brahma Ji. Brahma Ji is the only God who is famous for giving boons. The Narmada River did penance to Brahma Ji for many years so that Brahmaji was pleased.
Pleased, Lord Brahma asked Mother Narmada to ask for a groom. Narmadaji said – ‘Brahma ji! If you are pleased with me, then make me a destroyer of sins and a giver of salvation like Gangaji. Brahmaji said smilingly, ‘If any other god can become equal to Lord Shiva, any other man can become equal to Lord Vishnu. Any other woman can be equal to Parvatiji, any other city can be equal to Kashipuri and any other river can be equal to Ganga.’ Hearing this from Brahmaji, Narmada renounced his boon and went to Kashi and there Shivalinga was installed in Pilpilatirtha. After establishing the temple, she started doing penance. Lord Shankar was very pleased with her penance and asked her to ask for a boon. Narmada said ‘Lord! What is the benefit of asking for an insignificant groom? May my devotion remain only in your lotus feet.’ According to mythology, despite being the daughter of Bholenath, Mother Narmada had performed rigorous penance for Bholenath for a long time, due to which, Bholenath was pleased and gave her a boon and said that in Kalyug, I will be with you every day. I will reside in pebbles. From then till today, Bholenath resides in every pebble of Mother Narmada.

Why is every stone of Narmada considered as Narmadeshwar Shivalinga?

This Shivalinga is found naturally on the banks of river Narmada. According to various scriptures and religious texts of Hindu religion, Mother Narmada had received the boon that every big or small stone of Narmada would be worshiped in the whole world as Shivlinga without sacrificing life. Therefore, every stone of Narmada is considered as Narmadeshwar Shivlinga. People call every pebble found from Mata Narmada as Narmadeshwar Shivling. It is said that this is the Shivling of Bholenath, which Bholenath has given to Mata Narmada and without consecration of life, we take it home and worship it. We know these small Shivlingas by the name of Narmadeshwar Shivlinga. Narmadeshwar Shivlinga is also considered very important in the scriptures, it is said that whoever takes these Shivlingas home and worships them with devotion, his wishes are fulfilled. Only this is completed. Mata Narmada is the daughter of Bholenath and this Shivalinga of Bholenath, obtained from her womb, is automatically consecrated with the water of Mata Narmada. To please Lord Bholenath, we offer water of Mother Narmada, hence, those who take these Narmadeshwar Shivlings home and worship them with devotion, their wishes are definitely fulfilled. On any day in this holy month of Sawan, Narmadeshwar Shivlinga is worshiped. By establishing it in your home or workplace, you get hundred times the virtue. Bad luck gets improved by worshiping it. Any worshiper or devotee of Shiva who worships Narmadeshwar Shivalinga gets the blessings of Lord Shiva.

How to identify the original Narmadeshwar Shivling?

To identify Narmadeshwar Shivling, you should see that it is shiny, clean, hole-free and solid like marble. This naturally formed Shivling appears heavy to you. These are often found in small forms.

What happens by worshiping Narmadeshwar Shivalinga?

In the Puranas and stories, Lord Shiva has been called the remover of obstacles and hence worship of Narmadeshwar Shivalinga provides happiness and prosperity as well as protection from the biggest troubles. The result is a hundred times more than what is obtained from the worship of many deities. The result of worshiping Narmadeshwar Shivalinga is a hundred times more than the result of worshiping thousands of clay Lingas. Narmadeshwar Shivalinga is extremely beneficial for the householders. Worshiping it every day brings peace in the house and averts diseases and troubles from the family members. Worshiping it gives you and your family knowledge, wealth, accomplishment and Will give opulence. It has been said and believed since the Vedic period that where Narmadeshwar resides, Kaal and Yama do not enter untimely. In Hindu religion, Shiva is the only god who is worshiped in both the forms. They are worshiped in corporeal and formless forms. Shiva in his physical form is seen holding a trident and damru in his hands. Whereas in formless form he is wearing the form of Shivalinga. The formless form of Lord Shiva is the symbol of the beginning and end of the entire world. This self-contained Shivalinga is found only in the Narmada River. Many times people receive it while taking a dip in the Narmada River and install it in their home as a blessing. Considering the importance of Shivalinga in Shiva worship, it is installed both at home and in temples. There are different rules for installing it at these two places. The most common thing in this is that the altar of Shivalinga should face north. It is said that by worshiping Narmadeshwar Shivalinga, the blessings of Lord Shiva are showered on the devotee. While offering water on Narmadeshwar Shivalinga, Belpatra should also be included in it. By doing this, Lord Shiva remains very happy.
A wonderful solution with fruits and vegetables

February 26th, 2024

Describe the most ambitious DIY project you’ve ever taken on.

My most ambitious project that I have just started with my daughter is a solution made from fruits and vegetables in a completely natural way. Which is very mild, and does not contain any preservatives, there is nothing that can harm our skin. Which is completely different. You can use this solution for hand wash, dish wash, fruit and vegetable wash, even hair wash. This solution also removes rust. The most important thing is that it is completely chemical free. Right now we are observing its other benefits. When all the processes are completed then we will launch it. I am very happy that we have created such an amazing thing. We hope that if you all support us, our project will be successful. Need prayers.🙏
“Lol”😂 it’s done

February 25th, 2024

If you could permanently ban a word from general usage, which one would it be? Why?

There is one word that I want to ban from my tongue forever, which is lol, I have got into the habit of using it in every conversation. Although this word is not an abuse, still if some work is not done properly So I say lol, it’s done. Many times even children tell me that I have learned to say this. Sometimes I also feel that I should not say this. Because whenever I do something wrong, everyone teases me. Now you’re done lol.
How to deal with the problem?

February 24th, 2024

Not everything that looks like a problem is a problem. It’s up to you whether you get caught up in what you call a problem or take it as an opportunity to learn and grow in life. It’s best to learn and grow. Often, people waste a lot of time trying to figure out the ‘what’ and ‘why’ of a problem. This habit of over-investigating not only consumes energy, but also makes the problem appear bigger than it really is. Instead of seeing the problem as it is, people become overwhelmed by its exaggerated form. The proper approach is to spend less time and energy on the ‘what’ and ‘why’ and focus on the ‘how’ to solve the problem. By looking at it with the proper perspective and attitude, solutions start appearing automatically. Are. Problems are an inevitable part of life, your ability to solve them with dignity is tested here. It also tells your speciality. Intelligent people have a different perspective on problems.

Is it necessary to have problems in life?

When all efforts have failed, leave the problem to God. Often we leave it in despair, now try to leave it in faith. Faith and surrender bring about spontaneous liberation and a deep sense of peace. Whenever a problem arises, the normal tendency of the mind is to either deny it or to become completely immersed in it. A problem neither goes away by denying it nor is solved by continuously thinking about it. The first step to effectively solve the problem that has arisen is to accept the problem. Recognizing the problem enables one to focus on the solution. With acceptance comes the ability to respond calmly. On the contrary, not accepting it creates excitement in the mind and the person gets inspired to do wrong things. This increases the problem further. Most people wish for a problem free life. However, such a life, if it were ever possible, would be dull and boring. As humans we are shaped by both positive and negative experiences. Challenging situations inspire people to expand their boundaries and bring more richness and beauty to the human experience. So it is better to have problems for life. Any situation becomes a problem when we start seeing the gap between its actual and ideal form.

How to explain your troubled mind?

The realization that everything is changing will keep you from becoming overwhelmed by problems. Think about your body, it is constantly changing. Your feelings, thoughts, beliefs, likes, dislikes and attitudes are all changing. Similarly, your problems also change. Know that you are not going to be stuck with a problem for the rest of your life. Many problems have come and gone in your life. Remind yourself that ‘this too shall pass’. This wisdom of recognizing the changing nature of the universe is a sign of maturity. Some things are inevitable, so what. Another way to look at a problem is to accept that some things are not going to change. If you expect the weather to be cool during the summer, this thinking is only going to cause problems. There are many things in life over which you have no control. You can’t control how other people feel. You can’t control the weather. You cannot force your spouse or anyone else to change. The moment you accept the situation as it is, there are no problems left. Learning to reconcile with opponents with patience is an invaluable skill in life.
The problem is only weakness of mind

February 24th, 2024

What is the biggest challenge you will face in the next six months?

I do not consider any problem in my life as a problem. Because life is all about ups and downs. Do we stop walking when pebbles come our way? Problems are an inevitable part of life, your ability to solve them with dignity is tested here. It also tells your speciality. Intelligent people have a different perspective on problems. Challenging situations inspire people to expand their boundaries and bring more richness and beauty to the human experience. So it is better to have problems for life. Any situation becomes a problem when we start seeing the gap between its actual and ideal form. Virtually everything that looks like a problem is not a problem. It’s up to you whether you get caught up in what you call a problem or take it as an opportunity to learn and grow in life. It’s best to learn and grow. Often, people waste a lot of time trying to figure out the ‘what’ and ‘why’ of a problem. This habit of over-investigating not only consumes energy, but also makes the problem appear bigger than it really is. Instead of seeing the problem as it is, people become overwhelmed by its exaggerated form. The proper approach is to spend less time and energy on the ‘what’ and ‘why’ and focus on the ‘how’ to solve the problem. By looking at it with the proper perspective and attitude, solutions start appearing automatically.

The problem is only a disorder of the mind. There is weakness of mind and our wrong way of thinking. When God has always closed one path for man, he has opened another. Then what is the problem?
What is prohibited for women in Sanatan Dharma?

February 23rd, 2024

Of course, women today are no less than men in any respect, but there are some rules in the scriptures which are considered necessary to follow. According to those rules, some work is considered prohibited for women.

Why Women are prohibited from touching Hanuman ji?

Women are prohibited from touching Hanuman ji because everyone knows that Hanuman ji is celibate. It is believed that Hanuman ji considered women like mothers. That is why it has been said in the scriptures that women should not touch them. However, they can worship Hanuman ji by staying away. In some places it is also believed that women can touch Lord Hanuman after their periods stop.

Why are women prohibited from breaking coconuts?

Women are prohibited from breaking coconuts because when coconuts are broken or lemons are cut in temples, energy is released from them. The same purpose is hidden behind sacrificing any animal, chicken or goat.
Only men do the work of breaking coconuts during puja or any other auspicious function at home and temples. It is considered taboo for women. Actually, coconut is considered a symbol of Mother Lakshmi and fertility. However, women can offer coconut to God. According to mythology, when Lord Vishnu incarnated on earth, he brought with him three things – Lakshmi, coconut tree and Kamdhenu. All these three things are boons for humans. This is the reason why the coconut tree is also called Kalpavriksha. All three gods Brahma, Vishnu and Mahesh are considered to reside in the coconut. Due to the presence of three gods, coconut is kept away from women. Coconut is considered to be a fruit sent to earth by Lord Vishnu. Over which Goddess Lakshmi has authority. Therefore, no woman except Goddess Lakshmi can break a coconut. Coconut is considered to be in the seed form and a woman gives birth to a child in the seed form, hence women are prohibited from breaking the coconut. It is said that if a woman breaks a coconut, she faces problems in conceiving. Religious belief is that once Vishwamitra got angry with Lord Indra and created a separate heaven and when Maharishi was not satisfied even after this, he He decided to create a different earth and he first created a coconut in the form of a human being, due to which coconut is also considered to be the form of a human being. Coconut has three eyes. It is believed in the scriptures that these three eyes Is considered to be the form of Trinetra.

Why are women prohibited from wearing sacred thread?

Women are strictly prohibited from wearing sacred thread. In Hindu religion, only men wear sacred thread and not women. In fact, many rules have been made in the scriptures regarding the sacred thread, and it has also been said to take special care of its purity. Women are not considered pure during menstruation, during this time they are not even allowed to perform puja or touch God. In such a situation, women will not be able to completely follow the rules of wearing sacred thread. That is why it is prohibited for them to wear it. However, while remaining pure, she can definitely make the sacred thread.

Why are women prohibited from sacrificing?

Women are prohibited from performing sacrifices.
Whenever a sacrifice is made to any god or goddess, this work is always done by men because this work is also prohibited for women in the scriptures. Because women are weak at heart and they have more compassion in their hearts than men. It happens. The most important thing is that women give birth to children and they know that a living being is brought into this world after enduring so much suffering.

Why can’t a woman be the sole host in Havan?

havan or religious ritual
Even during any havan or religious ritual, women alone do not become the main host. It is considered mandatory for her husband to be with her. This is prohibited in the scriptures. Women cannot offer sacrifice in Yagya without their husband. If the husband is alive.

Why are women forbidden from cutting pumpkins?

Pumpkin has mythological significance in the Hindu community. In many religious rituals where animal sacrifice is not done, pumpkin is sacrificed considering it as a symbol of the animal. There is also a popular belief that pumpkin is considered the eldest son. In many states including Chhattisgarh, women of the tribal community cannot even think of cutting it. In many houses, women do not cut the pumpkin. Many people also call the pumpkin the head of Ravana.

Why are women forbidden to touch Shaligram?

Women are also prohibited from touching Shaligram because Lord Shaligram is in the shape of a linga. Women do not even touch Shiva Linga. Women and married women should not touch Shaligram. According to the scriptures, women should not worship Shaligram during menstruation.

Why are women prohibited from going to the crematorium?

Crematorium is a place where evil spirits reside. It is believed that negative energies are more attracted towards black and tall people. That is why women are prohibited from going to the crematorium. It is believed that evil spirits first target women. Ghosts especially target women who are virgins. That is why they are not taken to the cremation ground. There is also a belief that dead souls keep wandering at the cremation ground, hence the chances of these spirits entering the bodies of girls and women are highest. Therefore, there is a ban on women going to the crematorium.
How to correct your faults?

February 23rd, 2024

The conditions under which humans are born
It is almost impossible to remain fully virtuous among them. It is also possible to commit mistakes, errors and crimes in daily behavior and ethos. Discretion between good and bad is not always there. When mental disorders arise, a person gets inspired towards evil deeds. Everyone has some faults or the other. Absolutely
Very few virtuous and virtuous people will be found. Most people definitely have some evil in their nature. This world is flawed, the situation is not the same anywhere here.
Guilt is a natural process of human life but no man blames himself, no matter how grave a mistake he has committed.

Is admitting a mistake an insult?

There is no harm in accepting a mistake. Our mind becomes pure and we become healthy and alert for life ahead. But when a fault is not accepted as a fault, then man’s audacity gets aroused and he starts taking pleasure in committing crimes. Hidden mistakes also give rise to many other types of disasters. In this way, sins and faults and misdeeds do not directly create as toxic an environment as they do by hiding them.

What happens when you accept your mistake?

The roots of some deeds penetrate deep into the mind of a person and create a strong state which cannot be removed even by punishing him once or again. Like water held back by a dam, it bursts out again and again wherever it sees carelessness and weakness. Due to this, man’s restlessness increases, all his energy gets spent in watching out for this wastage of energy. And all the happiness and joy of creative or qualitative life becomes devoid of joy. A person desirous of self-welfare has to face a lot of trouble in correcting his latent defects, but if these defects are revealed then a lot of the burden on the mind gets lightened and the moral path of self-development begins to be paved.

Accepting one’s faults means loving the truth. Truthfulness is a very useful quality in the external and internal development of man. If there is no truth, man cannot move forward even a single step. Truth is the first essential thing. It is not possible to experience the universal soul by abandoning it. Man will remain scared. The heart trembles in lies. Someone or the other seems to be pointing fingers everywhere. There is a suspicion on every signal, every gesture that he is doing some evil on his part, even if no one there says anything.

What would be the benefit of apologizing?

Before forgiving yourself, it is important to know what you did. Write down the incident that happened to you in detail and also write down the things that helped in that incident happening. Avoid blaming anyone else or circumstances and just focus on yourself. You may feel uncomfortable doing this, but this process will help you become practical. Although apologizing is not so easy, but if you take the initiative to apologize to someone, it shows that you made a mistake and you Ashamed of him. In this way you are saved from repeating the same mistakes. Fearlessness lies in truth. Why would someone who has the practice of speaking the truth be afraid of someone’s criticism? True men are always courageous. The person who can express himself is supremely courageous. One day he definitely achieves his life goal.

What to do to achieve success?

Success and failure go with life. If by doing some things we get success, then by doing others we may have to taste failure. But this does not mean that you should blame others for your failures. We should keep making new efforts with a new approach every moment. Avoid considering yourself weak so that you can enjoy life. It is okay that sometimes things go wrong due to the mistakes of others and despite repeated explanations, they do not improve themselves. Still, we have to admit that if your priority is to complete tasks and put things right, then you should avoid the habit of blaming.
To move ahead in life, it is important that you pay more attention to your things instead of clashing with others. Recognize the difficulties that stand in the way of achieving your dreams. You have to understand or decide whether it will be beneficial to fight a problem or to increase your ability or to improve your quality of life. Every person has some problems in his life. We have to constantly strive to run our lives to create our own happiness and spread our wings. You need to try to go above the limits set by yourself. One way to be happy is to worry less and take it easy in whatever you want to do or are doing. We have our own creation on which we should spend most of our time. Adverse situations can happen in any environment at any time, never feel guilty for this. This will destroy your long-term happiness.
spreading the fragrance of personality

February 23rd, 2024

What advice would you give to your teenage self?

I would like to advise my teenage self that no matter how many ups and downs come in life, do not let yourself go astray. Always keep the horse of your mind under control. It is in the midst of adverse circumstances that a child proposes a new path to reach the heights of success. Therefore, face the failure in life boldly.

When we control our body and mind, it does not matter to us whether anyone praises or criticizes us. If you have acquired knowledge but have not controlled your body and mind, then this knowledge itself will act as poison for you.

Always remember what your duty is towards your parents. Whatever work, direction, message, order is in their interest and happiness, it is their duty to do it promptly without any hesitation. If that doesn’t happen, at least obey them as much as you can and don’t deliberately cause them trouble even in your dreams.

Always follow the path of honesty. How important it is to be honest in life, it should not be for someone else’s sake, nor to fulfill one’s own benefit. It is important to be honest simply because we are all human beings and it is our duty to be honest with each other.

Emotions like anger, non-violence, ego, jealousy are seen in today’s children. Because there is competition in every field. Therefore, I would like to tell children to stay away from all these things. And focus on developing your personality. Because if the person climbing the stairs of success in life is devoid of qualities like generosity, forgiveness and affection, then what is the use of that success?

Not everyone is successful in life. But a good person is successful in himself. The fragrance of his personality always spreads all around.