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  • When I see a helpless person getting help

    September 1st, 2024

    What brings a tear of joy to your eye?

    The process of laughing and crying continues every day in life. Whenever we are very happy, many times tears automatically flow from our eyes while laughing which people also call tears of joy. But sometimes such situations occur which make us emotional. In such a situation, when tears of joy come out while crying, they have no value. I am telling you such an incident, after reading which, perhaps tears of joy will come in your eyes too.

    One day I was sitting at the station waiting for the train. A gentleman was also waiting sitting next to me. Just then a shoe polisher came and said, Sir! Shall I polish your boots? Seeing his pitiful face, he extended his shoes forward and said, “Take them, but polish them properly.” The boy started working but he did not have the energy like the other polishers. He said, what kind of sloppy work do you do? Move your hands quickly! That boy remained silent. Meanwhile another boy came. He immediately pushed this boy aside and himself started working quickly. The first one stood aside like a mute. The second one polished the shoes. Whom should I pay? Thinking about this, he put his hand in his pocket. He thought that now there will be a fight or scuffle between these two for the money. Then he thought, “The one who did the work should get the money.” So he gave the money to the boy who came later. He took the money but kept it on the palm of the first boy.  He patted his back lovingly and went away. The man kept looking at him with astonished eyes. He immediately called the boy back and asked “What is this?” The boy said, “Sir! He fell from a moving train three months back. His hands and legs were badly injured. By God’s grace the poor fellow survived, otherwise what would have happened to his old mother and sisters, he is very self-respecting… he cannot beg…!” Then pausing a bit he said, “Sir! Here we have a group of shoe polishers and in it there is a God like uncle of all of us, whom everyone calls god uncle’. He goes to satsangs and keeps telling us about God’s story’s. It was he who suggested that ‘Friends!  So what if he cannot work with the same enthusiasm as before? God has given all of us an opportunity to show active interest, spirit of sacrifice, affection, sympathy and unity towards our companion. Just as the back, stomach, face, hands, feet look different but are parts of the same body, similarly we all look different from the body but are one soul! We are all one. All of us living at the station decided together that we will give him the income from polishing one pair of our shoes every day and will also help him in his work whenever needed.

    This incident brought tears of joy to my eyes. Whenever I see such incidents, I cannot stop myself. And knowingly or unknowingly I have seen many such incidents when I cried a lot and after that God made me laugh.

  • I write blog to share my thoughts

    August 31st, 2024

    Why do you blog?

    I write blog to share my thoughts and expertise as well as to increase my online presence. I did not know anything about blogging before. I just knew that I can save all my articles on this blog. So I started transferring all my articles to the blog. But the views on the blog were very less, so I was not very happy. I think blogging has brought a lot of positivity in my life and I would like to list some benefits of writing blogs and these are also the reasons why I believe that everyone should do blogging.

    Blogging gives me the opportunity to share my thoughts, experiences and knowledge with others. It is a creative outlet where I can express my feelings and thoughts.

    Blogging gives me the opportunity to connect with other bloggers and readers. This allows us to be part of a community and make new connections.

    Regular blogging can improve your writing skills. It gives you the ability to express your thoughts more effectively. Blogging not only gives you a chance to teach, but it can also be a learning process. Readers’ reactions can help you understand new perspectives and ideas.

  • I write blog to share my thoughts

    August 31st, 2024

    Why do you blog?

    I write blog to share my thoughts and expertise as well as to increase my online presence. I did not know anything about blogging before. I just knew that I can save all my articles on this blog. So I started transferring all my articles to the blog. But the views on the blog were very less, so I was not very happy. I think blogging has brought a lot of positivity in my life and I would like to list some benefits of writing blogs and these are also the reasons why I believe that everyone should do blogging.

    Blogging gives me the opportunity to share my thoughts, experiences and knowledge with others. It is a creative outlet where I can express my feelings and thoughts.

    Blogging gives me the opportunity to connect with other bloggers and readers. This allows us to be part of a community and make new connections.

    Regular blogging can improve your writing skills. It gives you the ability to express your thoughts more effectively. Blogging not only gives you a chance to teach, but it can also be a learning process. Readers’ reactions can help you understand new perspectives and ideas.

  • What should be the true meaning of a relationship?

    August 30th, 2024

    Relationship does not mean only a boyfriend or girlfriend relationship. A relationship in which two people are connected to each other only by emotions. A relationship which has no social stamp or name. But the duty is fulfilled more than every superficial relationship of the society. A bond in which you are connected to each other and there is no restriction on your freedom. That feeling which never lets you stay alone. It is not necessary that someone is with you only if he is walking with you, what is important is that someone’s presence never lets you feel lonely. The one whose happiness is included in your laughter, whose eyes become moist in your pain, a relationship in which there are no promises, oaths are not taken, just a feeling which keeps two people connected to each other.

    The end of a relationship need not be marriage or separation forever. A feeling to be carried throughout life, a belief that whether someone is with me or not, he will always be there. A belief that never lets you become weak.

    But as the new generation comes, the meaning of love and relationships also changes for them. There was a time when a boy or a girl was ready to go to any extent for their love. But in today’s generation, the meaning of love has completely changed. That is why today different words are coming to define love or a relationship. When a person comes into a relationship with someone, it is called a relationship. In this situation, both spend time with each other and want to live their future life together. In this, both are tied in the relationship of girlfriend and boyfriend. Then after this came a word ‘Friends with Benefits’, in which two friends live together for some benefit. This benefit can be of any kind. It can also be to fulfill physical or mental needs. Or it includes roaming around together, going on dates, etc. At the same time, the word ‘situationship’ is trending a lot these days.  It means that two people live together in a situation. In this, two strangers can also connect with each other. The biggest difference of situationship is that there are no vows or promises in it.

    Today’s children are getting cheated at every step. They give up their lives for false love. Girls sacrifice everything. At the age of studying, children say that they are in a relationship. They are not even worried about their future. Neither do they care about their parents. Who will explain to them the true meaning of love. Parents should teach them the art of understanding what is right in every field from childhood. Inspire them to take a decision after thinking carefully before moving ahead in any field. This may make your children think before taking an important decision of life.

  • No one is completely satisfied in this world

    August 30th, 2024

    Interview someone — a friend, another blogger, your mother, the mailman — and write a post based on their responses.

    I asked my friend what he was doing these days, he told me that he had lost his job and he was very upset because of this. It was becoming difficult to manage the household expenses. I had been working at this place for 12 years. But while firing me, they did not think even once how much I had done for them. The world is very selfish, once their work is done, they do not think about others. I consoled him, it is no big deal, it is a problem for a few days. You are so intelligent, you will get a job back somewhere or the other.

    I asked a blogger about his condition. He said that the future of both these blogs is in danger. Earlier I used to have a lot of visitors, now there are very few visitors. I try my best to write good content. But I don’t know what is happening to me. I said don’t be sad, the same is happening to me. Maybe in a few days we will find a solution to our problem.

    This morning I spoke to my mother after a long time. Mother was very worried about her health. I told mother not to worry. Consult a good doctor. You will get well. Then I told mother that if you keep thinking in your mind that I am ill, then you will not be able to get well. Then mother told me that in childhood I used to explain to you like this.

    Yesterday I spoke to the mail man. He was telling that yesterday when he reached home after delivering the mail, his wife was admitted to the hospital by the relatives. She had fainted due to heat wave. He was telling that the work involves a lot of hard work.

    After talking to all these people, I felt that no one is perfect in this world. No one has peace in their mind.

  • Will exploitation of women ever stop?

    August 29th, 2024

    How are you feeling right now?

    A human mind is never empty. The chain of thoughts does not stop even for a moment. These thoughts appear to us in the form of dreams when we sleep. This evening I read a Hindi story. In the story, a man was talking to an angel about a woman. Let me first tell you the conversation between the angel and the man.

    When God was creating woman, it took him a lot of time. It was the sixth day and the creation of woman was still incomplete. So the angel asked- God, why are you taking so much time in this?God replied- Have you seen all its qualities, which are necessary for its creation. It can handle all kinds of situations. It can take care of all its children together and keep them happy. It can heal everything from knee scratches to broken hearts with its love. It can do all this with just its two hands. Its biggest quality is that it can take care of itself when it is sick and can also work for 18 hours.
    The angel was astonished and asked in surprise, God, is it possible to do all this with two hands? God said- This is my wonderful creation. The angel went closer and touched the woman and said- God, she is very delicate. God said- Yes, she is very delicate from outside, but she has been made very strong from inside. She has the strength to handle every situation.  She is soft but not weak. The angel asked- can she even think? God said- she can even think and can also fight by being strong. The angel went close and touched the cheeks of the woman and said- God these are wet. It seems something is flowing from them. God said- these are her tears. Angel- tears for what? God said- this is also her strength. Tears are her way of pleading, expressing love and removing her loneliness. Angel- God your creation is amazing. You have created her after thinking everything. You are great. God said- this creation in the form of a woman is amazing. This is the strength of every man, which encourages him. She remains happy seeing everyone happy, keeps smiling in every situation. Whatever she wants, she can get it even by fighting. There are no conditions in her love.  Her heart breaks when her own people betray her, but she also knows how to compromise with every situation. Angel- Lord your creation is perfect. God said- No, there is still one flaw in it. It forgets its importance.’

    As a woman, I am feeling what God said about women, that women forget their importance even after doing everything. Women go through so many ups and downs from morning to night. A woman has to take care of her life and also the whole family. She honestly fulfills the relationships of daughter, sister, wife, mother, mother-in-law and grandmother throughout her life. Even after fulfilling all these relationships, she works with full strength so that she can make the future of herself, family and country bright. Still, women are insulted and exploited at every step. Is this right?The incident that happened in Kolkata, India has shocked women all over the world. It is not that this is something new today. But I feel ashamed even thinking how low a man can stoop.

  • how to stay excited every day?

    August 28th, 2024

    Enthusiasm can be called a kind of internal energy, which forces one to do work full of interest. People who do not have enthusiasm in their life, their life becomes dull, such people do not find joy in any work, the mind remains sad all the time. To avoid such a situation, one should remain happy and satisfied in all circumstances. There is a popular folk tale in this regard, in which the importance of enthusiasm has been described.

    In olden times, a king had special affection for his elephant. The king used to take that elephant to every war. The elephant also used to follow all the orders of the king. With the help of the elephant, the king had defeated many enemies, but with time the elephant had grown old. Now he was not very fast. Because of this, the elephant stopped taking that elephant to the war. The king had ordered a new elephant.
    The king had made full arrangements for food and drink for the old elephant, but even after this he started being sad. The king and his soldiers felt that now he has become in such a condition due to old age. After a few days, the elephant became completely demotivated. One day he reached the middle of the pond, there was more swamp there. After reaching the middle of the pond, he got stuck. Even after a lot of effort, the elephant was not able to get out. Defeated, he sat there. Seeing the elephant trapped, the soldiers informed the king. The king immediately reached the shore of the pond with his ministers.
    The king called the elephant a lot, but he did not move.  The soldiers also tried hard to get it out, but did not succeed. Then a minister told the king that we should play the drums used in war here. The king was surprised to hear this, but he agreed to the minister’s suggestion to get the elephant out. Now the drums started playing there. As soon as the elephant heard the sound of the drums, he got up with full force. Now he intensified his efforts to get out of the swamp and he also got success. In a short time the elephant came out of the pond. The king was surprised to see this. He asked the minister how this was possible. Then the minister said that Maharaj, I know this elephant very well. It used to go to war with you. At that time there was enthusiasm in its life, but since you have stopped taking it to war, it started being sad, its enthusiasm was gone. Today we played drums in front of it again, then it felt that now it has to go to war.  His enthusiasm returned and he put in all his strength to get out of the swamp and he succeeded. The lesson of this short story is that as long as there is enthusiasm in our life, this life feels good. When enthusiasm ends, this life becomes dull. That is why one should remain happy in all circumstances. One should remain satisfied with one’s comforts and facilities, only then enthusiasm remains.

    In today’s competitive era, every person is bent on copying each other. No one is happy with his life because everyone sees more food in the other’s plate. When the five fingers of our hands are not equal, then how can humans be equal. Therefore, never let negativity enter your mind. Your negative thoughts have the biggest role in reducing your enthusiasm. Just be happy with your achievements for one day and see at what peak your enthusiasm remains.

  • Some contribution is necessary for a quality life

    August 28th, 2024

    What daily habit do you do that improves your quality of life?

    Quality of life refers to how well we live. Many factors determine quality of life, such as the happiness, comfort, and health that an individual or society experiences. Some consider quality of life to be about possessions and wealth, while others consider it to be physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Quality of life is influenced by a person’s physical and mental health, degree of independence, social relationships with the environment, and other factors. Quality of life can be defined as a person’s satisfaction with aspects of his or her life compared to his or her ideal life. Healthy relationships, adequate sleep, a healthy diet, and regular physical activity can all contribute to a better quality of life. A person can also improve quality of life by finding meaning in his or her work, reducing energy stress, and making time for things he or she enjoys.

    Paying attention to mental health,

    I pay the most attention to my mental health. Health and well-being are directly related. Well-being is a holistic approach to health. It is the presence of positive emotions, the absence of negative emotions, and the satisfaction with life felt by the patient. When a person refers to his well-being, he often means both his physical and mental state. It is said first happiness is a healthy body. This means that if we are healthy, we will be able to enjoy life to the fullest. Physical and mental fitness enhances the quality of our life. If we are healthy, our thinking will be positive and we will be able to work harder to achieve the goal. Meditation and yoga keep us healthy. I eat nutritious food for good health.

    Waking up early in the morning,,

    I wake up early in the morning to improve the quality of life. Waking up early is very good for our daily routine. We are able to plan our day’s activities and we get enough time for all the tasks. We do not have to rush and panic in any of our work. Many types of lifestyle diseases are becoming common among urban youth these days. However, if a little improvement is made in the diet and routine, then not only can these be avoided, but the quality of life can also be improved.

    Leaving the past behind,

    what’s gone is gone. I never miss my past. Half of us keep remembering our past and keep getting sad. One should get out of the memories of the past and learn to live in the present. One of those behaviors that can really hold you back is thinking about the past. The important thing is to learn from these mistakes of the past and use them as stepping stones towards a better future. This change in focus can make you happier, more positive and more productive.

    Speaking openly,

    I don’t hold anything back. I say whatever hurts me. Holding on to anger and resentment drains your energy and prevents you from moving forward. But the person it hurts the most is you, so, for your own peace and happiness, let go of the grudges. You will feel a burden lifted from your shoulders and you will have a new freedom to move forward in life.

    Positive Thinking,

    I always try to keep my thinking positive. If you are constantly thinking negatively, you are creating a negative world around you. Negative thinking not only brings you down, but it also obstructs your path to success and happiness. Start practicing positive thinking. It may be hard in the beginning, but keep at it.

    The habit of blaming others,

    I never blame anyone for my sorrows, happiness, honor or insult. It is easy to point fingers and blame others whenever things go wrong but the truth is that blaming others will not solve your problems. It prevents you from learning and growing so take responsibility for your actions and mistakes. This self-awareness will help you move forward and avoid repeating the same mistakes in the future.

    The habit of procrastination,

    I never leave any of my work for tomorrow. Because I know that once the work is stopped, it takes time to start it again. Often we postpone many things, we do not know when the tendency of doing it tomorrow turns from tomorrow to a year. The habit of procrastination is a big obstacle in the path of success. The more you delay doing the work that needs to be done, the more difficult it will become. Divide the tasks into manageable parts and start with the first part.

    Consider yourself lucky,,

    I consider myself the luckiest person in this world. It is my habit to happily accept whatever God has given me. No one is perfect, and chasing perfection will only lead to frustration and disappointment. Strive for progress instead of striving for perfection. Celebrate your small victories, learn from your mistakes and keep moving forward. It is better to be a flawed human being who is trying to improve. If you want to change your life for the better, these are the behaviors you have to say goodbye to.

    JiComparing to others,

    I never compare myself to others. Shift your focus from what others have to what I have. Start counting your blessings no matter how small they may seem. Then you will realize that you have a lot to be grateful for and take a moment to appreciate all the good things in your life. It will make you happier and more satisfied.

    Faith in God,

    I have complete faith in my God. No matter how much trouble I face in my life, I do not share it with anyone but tell my God. If you ask God to always inspire you to walk on the path of truth, then surely you will see yourself on this path. So always be a believer and not an atheist.

  • Remembering my childhood TV shows brought me back to my childhood

    August 26th, 2024

    What TV shows did you watch as a kid?

    With time, many things changed and with it the ways of entertainment also changed. The era of films lasted for a long time, many times it also changed. This era is still going on. The difference was so much that with the change of generations, the choice of the audience kept changing. In the eighties, along with films, a new medium of entertainment, television, also got added to it. The audience got the option of sitting at home and entertaining themselves. First came ‘Doordarshan’ which entertained the audience for years. Today, even though ‘Doordarshan’ has lagged behind in the race of entertainment, but the serials of Doordarshan are still fresh in the memories of the audience of that generation. Initially, the broadcast time of Doordarshan was limited. But, whenever a program started, the whole family would sit in front of the TV. The audience would not only watch entertainment programs but also programs like Krishi Darshan.

    In the history of Indian television, ‘Hum Log’ was the first serial, which was telecasted on Doordarshan on 7 July 1984. This serial closely depicted the life of the middle class of the country. Its popularity was similar to that of ‘Ramayana’ and ‘Mahabharata’ later. ‘Ramayana’ is considered to be one of the most successful serials of Indian television. This serial of Ramanand Sagar had such an impact that it brought out the religious sentiments of the viewers. When this serial was telecast on Doordarshan, the roads would become empty at that time.

    Shaktimaan, one of the favorite serials of children of the 90s, was ‘Shaktimaan’. All the children of that era would be familiar with this serial. Children used to be very excited to watch this show after finishing their studies. This show started on DD National in the year 1997 and ran till the year 2005. At that time, children used to think that Shaktimaan was not a serial character but a real person who had magical powers.

    Sonpari,, The children of the nineties eagerly awaited the start of this serial. This show ran for four years, but was a great source of entertainment for children. In this serial, the role of children’s favorite Sonpari was played by Mrinal Kulkarni. The story of a girl named Sonpari, Altu and Fruity was very much liked by the children of the nineties.

    Haatim, how can we forget the children’s favorite show Haatim. The magical story of Haatim and Jasmine was one of the favorite shows of children of that era. Even after closing, the popularity of this serial did not decrease.

    Shaka laka bum bum, who can forget the story of the magic pencil and Sanju. It was a special wish of the children of the 90’s that they too should have a magic pencil like Sanju. That is why many children had pencils with Shaka laka boom boom in their stationery at that time. Even today these pencils can be seen in the market, seeing which the memories of childhood are refreshed. This show ran from the year 2000 to 2004.

    Mogli, ‘Jungle, jungle baat chali hai pata chala hai aise…’ These are the lines that Gulzar had written for the ‘Jungle Book’ serial. From children to adults, everyone used to wait for it. This Japanese animated English series used to come on Doordarshan which was adapted in Hindi.

    In the eighties and nineties, ‘Hum Log’ and ‘Buniyaad’ were milestones in popularity. Apart from this, there are many serials which may seem light in terms of production today, but were popular because of the story. ‘Malgudi Days’ based on RK Narayan’s stories was also a favourite serial of children in 1987.Remembering my childhood TV shows brought me back to my childhood.

  • Don’t follow everything people say

    August 25th, 2024

    Many times we find such people around us who keep finding faults in others. But if you ask them about improvement, they back off. One needs to be cautious of such people because their habit of finding faults can push someone into depression. Just by being around such people, the environment gets filled with negativity. It is better to mind your own business rather than staying in contact with them for long. Even if they are finding faults in someone, one should not pay attention to them. Instead of listening to such people and taking them to heart, it is better to remove any fault in yourself and move forward towards your goal. The stars do not have the courage to decide our fate, but our fate is in our hands. This was said by the world famous author and playwright William Shakespeare many years ago. Even today, such thoughts work like medicine for us at many turns of life. This fact cannot be denied that a better person can be made only by one’s good thoughts and deeds.  It is our thinking that has the ability to make us successful or unsuccessful. But there are many occasions in life when we get so entangled in our own problems that we cannot see a way out. Then we should listen to the voice of our conscience. We should understand that people are there only to find faults.

    There was a painter who used to make very good paintings. Once that painter made such a painting after which he felt that this painting is the best painting of his life. There was no mistake in it. He became very happy and started telling everyone about his painting. He showed the painting to one of his friends and told that friend: This is the best painting of my life, there is no mistake in it.

    His friend told him that if you really want to see that there is no mistake in this painting, then you should put this painting at a crossroad where people keep coming and going.

    And put a board there and write on it that if you see any mistake in this painting, then put a black mark there. That painter did the same, put his painting at a crossroad and kept an art brush there and went from there. When that painter came back in the evening, he saw that there were so many marks on his painting that the painting had turned completely black.That painter went to his friend crying and told him the whole thing and felt that I thought that there was no mistake in this painting. But people found a lot of mistakes in it.

    After listening to everything, his friend told him: Make another identical painting and put it on the same square. But now write there that wherever you see a mistake in this painting, correct it.
    The painter did the same and made a similar painting and put it on the same square. He also put some brushes there and went away.
    When it was evening and the painter came back, he saw that nothing had changed in that painting, the painting was the same as it was. There was no improvement or change in it. The painter was surprised to see this and told his friend everything.

    His friend told him: Friend! There are many faultfinders in this world, who can find fault in a good thing in a second. But if they are told that you have found fault, now correct it, then no one does it, no one comes forward. That is why we should not pay attention to what people say.

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