Redefinewisdom

  • Why are you afraid of working hard?

    August 10th, 2023

    We all know that there is no result without hard work. No matter how rich you are, without hard work, all your wealth will also end.

    A young boy lived in a small village. He didn’t do any work. Everyone in the village used to call him lazy. He would go to the field and sleep the whole day and keep on weaving good dreams of the future. Once upon a time a very knowledgeable saint came to his village. That saint stayed in the village for two-three days. When he went for a walk outside the village, he would see that boy lying there sleeping. The saint understood that this is a very lazy boy, the saint decided to cure him. The saint said to him, son, will you do one thing for me? The boy asked what to do? The saint said, go to the hill which is visible from here and bring me a feather. The boy said, I will not be able to work so hard. Then the saint said, oh son, this is not an ordinary feather. By keeping this path with you, you can fulfill every wish. Then greed arose in the boy’s mind. And he went out to get feathers for the saint.

    The way to the hill was very difficult. The boy was very tired yet he did not give up. The higher he climbed, the more the feeling of happiness was increasing in his mind. While walking he reached the top of the mountain. He felt as if he had won the battle. The view down from the hill was very beautiful. Now he had to find the feather on the hill. While searching hard somewhere, he saw a feather. Which was shining even in the dark. He picked up the feather and now he was worried about going back. Because the path to the hill was absolutely pebbly. He had reached here by falling down with great difficulty. Now the name of going back started troubling him. Once he thought what should I do? Then immediately he noticed that after working so hard I have come up, so now I have to go. He started walking back with very tired feet stumbling. At last he reached the saint. It seemed that he had conquered the world. He was feeling happy that today he conquered his laziness.

    Seeing his happiness, the saint said that children, today you have done what not everyone can do. The world is not born with laziness, but makes itself.

    After listening to the saint, the boy started thinking that I am lazy, but I have achieved such a big thing, so what is the work that I will not be able to do now. After that day the boy completely changed.

    The saint said that as long as we only think about our plans, we will not be able to achieve our goal. We have to work hard.

  • where there’s a will there’s a way

    August 10th, 2023

    Someone has said such a wonderful thing that the blacker the night, the brighter the stars.  Remember, the deeper the sorrows, the closer the Lord is.

    There was a temple on a high mountain.  Big people used to come from far and wide to see devotees.  A man used to see every day that there is such a crowd here that people come from far and wide for darshan.  But he never went to the temple, thinking that he would go when he had to go.

    One night in a dream he saw that someone was killing him.  Then a thought comes to his mind that despite the temple being so close to the village, I never went to that temple.  Thinking this, he gets up and walks straight towards the temple. It is then midnight.  But as soon as he walks a little distance, a thought comes to his mind.  That the temple is so far away.  I will not be able to complete the route.  And he just sits there.  Then they think that when morning comes, they will leave.

    Just then he sees that a man is leaving from there.  He is an elderly man and he has a stick in his hand.  He also has a small lamp in his hand.  By whose light he is leaving.  He asked the old man where are you going.  So he said that I am going to the temple.  So he said that I was also trying to go but I am not going because of darkness.  But why are you taking this small lamp?  Its light is not visible only after one step.  So the old man said, I go every day and come back after seeing God.  And anyway, in order to walk, the light of just one step is needed.

    After listening to the old man, the man got into thinking.  Being so old, he has so much courage.  And even though I am young, I am waiting for the morning.  You must have heard that God says in Gita that if you take one step, I will take another step.  If there is a desire to do something in life, then the power is found automatically.  And if there is doubt in your desire, it never gets fulfilled.

    Once upon a time, the Guru was preaching to the disciples in the Gurukul. The Guru said that whenever you meditate with a calm mind, you feel that there is an infinite store of knowledge in this universe. But we are not able to achieve even a fraction. Otherwise, who doesn’t want to be happy in this world. But there are some negative thoughts in our mind which do not allow us to achieve anything. For this, we should sit in some solitude and have a little talk with ourselves and give ourselves confidence.

    Only then a disciple asks the Guru that how do we have to eliminate the evil and negativity inside us? Then the Guru said that nothing is so impossible. We should walk all the time thinking that we are today and will be tomorrow or not. If someone tells you that you have only one day left, what will you do? Will you fulfill all your wishes or not? In the same way, consider every day as your last day. Give as much love as you want to give, do whatever is necessary. If you consider your day as the last day, then you will not get time to get angry with someone, cheat someone. And take any stress on your mind. This will change your perspective of living. As long as we look at the world from a negative perspective, everything seems bad to us.

    Looking from a positive perspective, we can achieve our position in this world. If you have a true desire to do something in your mind, then you will put your all in it. And you have to apply, only then success will be achieved. Even if you ever fail in any work, at least you will not regret that you did not do any work of your mind in your life. Our conscience always wants our good. That’s why always listen to your heart.

  • How does food shape your future?

    August 10th, 2023

    Once upon a time, Buddha’s disciples asked Buddha, why do you always speak to take food with love.  And why is it said to take food in a balanced quantity only.  If we do not take food with love, then will there be no food, if we take food in excess, will it act as poison?  Buddha said that our thoughts become according to the kind of food we take.  And not just food, too much of anything is never good.  Buddha started telling the story to his disciple.

    Once upon a time, a hermit used to live in a forest by building a hut.  If any person would have taken any problem in front of him, he would have solved it immediately.  While doing this, he became very famous and the people of nearby villages also started coming to him to solve their problems.  He had become very famous.  Hearing the discussions of the sage, one day the king of that city reached to the sage with his courtiers.  The king folded hands and said, Maharaj, I have heard that you solve everyone’s problems.  So why don’t you solve some problems of our state as well.  And you have to walk with us because there is no material means for you in this forest.  You are passing through great difficulties in this small cottage.  After listening to the king, the sage said, “No, sir, I am absolutely happy in my place.”  But the king did not mind, he forcefully took the monk with him.  The king gave all the comforts to the monk in his court.  Delicious dishes to eat, velvet bed to sleep.  After getting all these, the sadhu changed completely, there was a lot of change in his nature.  Even the sage could not understand why his nature changed like this after coming here.  Then one day, suddenly getting a chance, the monk runs away from the court.  And he takes a lot of valuable things with him.  When the king came to know, he put a soldier behind them.  The soldiers searched everywhere for the monk but could not find him.  On the other hand, the monk went towards the forest while running and sat down tired under a tree.  Sitting under the tree, he saw a fruit fell down from the tree.  The monk was very hungry that’s why he ate that fruit.  He had such a medicine in the fruit that upsets the stomach. Medicine is also something that cannot be eaten without illness.

    After eating that fruit, the monk became so ill that he did not even know how to heal from his place. He didn’t like anything, he happily became a structure. One day he thought in his mind that why did I run away from Raj Mahal with his valuables. Maybe that’s why God put me in this condition. There is a lot of remorse in his mind and he starts thinking of giving back all the money to the king. Then gathering courage in his mind, he goes towards the Raj Mahal and starts giving back all the money to the king. So the king asked him why did you run away with my money. And now you have come to give back, when you had to give, then why steal.

    Then the monk said to the king, Rajan, while I was at your place, I was taking food from your house, and my intelligence had also become like yours. That’s why I ran away with this money. Because this money is not your earned, you have also snatched it from someone. Don’t know how many poor and unhappy souls reside in this money. Ever since I ate that fruit, all the food I had eaten in your house went out of my stomach because of it. And as soon as your food came out, wisdom came back in my mind. That’s why I came to give it back.

    Buddha says the same thing to his disciple that whatever we eat, we should first observe where that thing came from. Is that food of someone else’s right? Even when we cook food, the emotions of our mind get absorbed in the food. The condition from which we cook food enters our food. As we are preparing food with a very happy heart, the person who eats the food prepared by us also remains happy. If we cook with sadness, then the person who eats it will also be sad. If we cook food with anger, everyone will get angry because of the food we eat. So this is the thing that only one thing means how much importance Bhajan has in our life. If we prepare and speak food with a happy heart, then our mind also remains happy. And when the mind and heart are happy, then we can achieve immense success in our life.

    Food prepared with a sad heart and the person who eats it becomes so sad that he does not see the highs and lows of life. And when the mind itself is not happy then what kind of success.

  • every work of a good thinker is good

    August 10th, 2023

    In today’s world, one hears everywhere that do a good deed and throw it in the river. But it is not so. our good deeds stay with us always. And if our deeds are good then we don’t need anyone’s blessings. No auspicious time can harm us. Good luck to us every time. Every month is auspicious. And even God is always there to

    Today I am giving an example of this. A friend of mine bought a new house. Everyone said that he had bought the house just like that, he would have shown it to someone with architecture. After listening to everyone’s words, my husband also started telling me. So I thought that I should get rid of the daily hassle. One day I called an Vastu Shastra person to my house. He called me that you should come to pick me up at the station. I went to pick them up. As soon as I took the car forward with them, a dog came under my car. I immediately pressed the brake. I got down from the car and handled the dog. His legs were hurt, I took him to the hospital. After dressing her, I fed her and left her in a corner. But saw that he was still looking at me. I felt pity again put her in the car and thought I would take her home. But immediately the thought crossed my mind that my husband doesn’t like dogs. Still I can’t leave it. I brought her with me.

    As I was pushing the cart inside the house, a beggar came, and he said that he had not eaten for many days. I turned the car back. And took some food from the nearby shop and gave it to him. As soon as I entered the house, the maidservant was standing in front of me. She said that her child is very sick and needs some help. I quickly took out the 2000 note and said that the child should not have any problem. All this was in my nature. I was not doing anything to show my architecture.

    my architecture was watching all this, and was smiling. We went to the house, I made him sit with respect. And arranged tea water. Then I asked you to see my house and tell me what is wrong with it. my architecture started laughing when I said this. He said to me, daughter, there cannot be any fault in your house. Because you are always ready to help others. You must have heard that God also helps those who help others. And God is always pleased with them. When God is happy then how can we feel guilty.

    That’s why don’t think good and bad in life. Take care of yourself and take care of others as well. If God has given you something, then help others. Before thinking bad about someone else always keep in mind that it will happen to you. So now it is your choice how you think for yourself.

    The Lord says in the Gita that you do what I want, then what you want will happen. A man should never give up these three things, sacrifice, charity and penance. Because these three things make a man pure. The good and bad deeds of a man continue till birth after birth. Because human beings keep on coming and going in this world.

  • Is it necessary to sacrifice attachment to be happy?

    August 9th, 2023

    Once Gautam Buddha was passing by the bank of a river with some of his companions. It was evening time. The setting sun was making the atmosphere attractive with its redness. The Buddha saw that some children were building small houses out of porcelain lying on the banks of the river. The children were so happy that they did not need anything anymore. He was completely engrossed in the work of building the house. And his disciples stood there watching the children’s play. Just after a while, one child’s foot came on the house built by another. And the shape of his house deteriorated. The other shouted what have you done. After today you are not my friend. What have you done to this, you know how hard I made it. After today you are not my friend. Your friendship with me is over. After this, that second child starts building his house.

    After a while, the mothers of those children who are washing clothes in the river come and say, come on children, it is evening now, so now let’s go home. As soon as they heard this, all the children started breaking the mud houses they had built. They were all squealing with joy and jumping on the mud houses. The children who till a while back were doing my house, your house, now none of them had any idea that who was breaking whose house. After jumping and jumping for a while, the children put their hands on each other’s shoulders and went away jokingly. As long as those children believed that this house belonged to them, there were also fights between those children. Their friendship was also breaking. But as soon as the children came to know that the night is about to happen and now the time has come to go to their real home. So the children’s attachment to the mud house ended. And he himself broke them by jumping. And playing and jumping went to their home. 

    Gautam Buddha said that exactly the same happens with our life. The person who clearly saw that he has to die here, night has to happen. If not today then tomorrow you will have to go back to your real home. That person’s all attachment towards this world ends. Like when those children realized that this was the world created by them. In which he was lost for some time. Their real home is somewhere else, so they themselves broke those mud houses. And got free from them. Buddha said people ask me how we will get freedom from the world. Whereas you don’t need to be free. You are already free. You have just accepted that you are attached to the world. This is just a dream which you are going on living believing it to be true. But this dream will also go away one day because all the dreams are broken. This too will break.

    As long as those children attached themselves to those mud houses, they were considered their own. This fear was also sitting inside them that it might break. May no one harm them. But as soon as the night comes, the time comes for those children to go to their real home, all the love they have for those mud houses, ends. This life is also like that. Everything you are afraid of, worried about, everything you feel attached to, is just a dream. In which you are also going. And this dream can break at any moment. The things and people you consider yours are not yours at all. This is just your illusion. And this is the delusion of millions of people in the world. Every day it breaks, yours will also break. He said being a little serious, the most important thing is that life is a dream. But at the same time it is also an opportunity to know the truth. Now it is up to you whether you spend this opportunity in worry or tension or in a meaningful search.

    Because one thing is certain that we all are going to get closer to our death with every passing moment. And one day we all have to face it. If you people can see this life with this perspective, then no problem of the world, no sorrow will be able to disturb and upset you. There is only one reason for your mind to be disturbed is not to see the truth. The happiness and joy of truth is within us. But we keep looking for it in outside things and other people and get depressed. Being happy in any situation is a choice. And then gradually choice becomes our nature. If you also make a habit of being happy in every situation,

  • your own partner your heart

    August 9th, 2023

    In this chubby world, we meet many people unknowingly. Sometimes we leave after saying hi hello. But sometimes such a person is found who changes our life in just 2 minutes. Something similar happened to me one day. In the evening, I reached the banks of the Parth while strolling like this. There was a middle aged man sitting on the bench. I sat there while having a formal conversation. Because the middle-aged man was very interesting. I started talking to him a lot here and there. While talking, he told me one thing. Who changed my life

    He told us that our life is a gift from God. We are very fortunate to be born in human form. Otherwise, there are so many animals, so many insects and kites, so many animals and birds in the world. But sometimes we ruin such a beautiful life by our small mistake. Like many people stay in jail for years and years. They don’t know the outside world. Their world gets confined to a cell. Like many people cannot enjoy life due to physical disability. Many people go around hiding after committing crimes.

    they told me. Speak once a day by placing your hand on your heart. That you are a precious gift from God. God has sent you in this world to do good. And you are doing good to everyone with your body, mind and wealth. You live together with everyone. Wherever you go, you become the moon of every party. All your friends keep waiting for you eagerly. You always did good to everyone. And whenever you also need something, people cannot refuse. Today is going to be a wonderful day for you.

    The man told me that our heart is the only part on which we believe. Because this is what makes us do all the good and bad things in life. And when something good happens to us, it is the first to chirp in happiness. He cries first when we are hurt. And we leave no stone unturned to make it unhappy. We make him sad in small things.

    That’s why always take care of your heart. Wake up in the morning and caress her with love. Make good promises to him. Give him the assurance that today I will not do any wrong thing with you. I will not do anything that will hurt you. No matter how good or bad someone says to me, I will not be sad. No matter how big a problem comes, I will laugh it off.

    Your heart is your best friend. He always beats for you only for you to reach your destination. If you run hither and thither in fear of getting hurt on your heart then everyone will try to hurt you. No man is perfect in this world. People can find fault with you too. People have not left even God. All this is the work of people in every era. But your only job is to save your heart at all costs.

    If you grow from within, there will be no pride or prejudice. You will always do something after listening to your heart. Then your heart will not consider anyone else as a bad person. When your inner growth is done then everything will look great to you.

  • How can we get rich by thinking?

    August 9th, 2023

    In this world every single person wants to become rich. And every single person wants to know its secret. There are many people around us who have earned a lot of money and made a name for themselves in the society. There are some people who earn themselves and also inspire others. Sometimes the purpose of earning your money is fulfilled. The world around you starts changing as soon as money comes in hand. In front of whom you were nothing, people start respecting you.

    But how to earn money. It is also possible but for this you must have a desire in your mind. And it doesn’t happen just by having a desire, it should also be believed that one day you will earn a lot, and will become a big man. You have thought this, but for this now also try to check yourself, give suggestions to yourself. The suggestion is that how you have to plan to earn money. And nothing happens just by planning. Now that the ability to take a decision has also come, then there should also be the liver to take a decision. Because failure can also happen in the line of earning money. And lest you fail, kill yourself.

    If you have a strong desire to earn a lot of money, you will one day. In this way, thousands of desires flourish in our mind. We try to fulfill that which is most powerful first. So now when you have thought that you have to earn money, then also think how much you have to earn.

    And create its image in your mind. Then write it on a paper. Then also write that for which year or for how long you will earn this much money. And then write in that paper what you will do with that money. Now your money earning game starts from here. What you strongly desire will dominate your mind. And whatever dominates our mind, we keep thinking about it. And it will bear fruit one day or the other.

    But do you also think that you have not studied much. So how will you be able to earn money. There are many people around you whose studies did not help them in earning money. That’s why before stepping out of the house, keep everything in your sight. Keep monitoring every small and big work. You will not be able to understand that how much money can be earned from which small work.

    The storehouse of knowledge is spread around us. It’s just a matter of how much you can extract from it. Those who have earned a lot of money did not come rich from their mother’s womb. Some must be rich, but many people have earned by coming into this world. Two children born from the womb of the same mind become successful only on the basis of their respective abilities.

    Yes, definitely agree that hard work is very important to earn money. If you think that someone will give it to you while sitting, it can never happen. You have to apply both body and mind. Many times it happens that we work very diligently yet still fail. But do not panic in such a situation, the one who tries never gets defeated. Every time you fail, you learn something new every time.

    Do remember one thing, whether you believe it or not, there is a great power of God behind us. And if you have faith in this power then you will definitely be successful one day or the other.

    Only a small percentage of people are successful in this world because they focus on their work. However, he does not lack resources that can distract his mind. Yet they are so determined in their intentions that no power in the world can stop them from moving forward.

  • How to get rid of the habit of talking here and there

    August 9th, 2023

    Many people have the habit of talking here and there throughout the day. If seen, these things have no meaning. Nor is there any substance in their words. But it becomes a habit. It has been seen many times that people keep talking for hours even on the phone. The talk of work is only for two-four minutes. But then the nonsense starts again. But probably many of us do not know that silly things affect our mind a lot. Many times it happens that while talking you end up saying something which was not meant to be said. This thing can also cause differences among themselves.

    Now the era of TV ,mobile has come. We keep getting news from moment to moment. What is happening in the world is known immediately. Still, every morning the newspaper comes to our house with a bundle of things here and there. If you look at the newspaper, there are few useful things in it. All other rumours, useless things, and some wrong things are also written. By the way, for those who are very fond of talking here and there, it is the biggest means of timepass. Because first they spend whole time in reading this newspaper and then the whole day is spent in discussing it.

    Many people are also very fond of reading books. It’s a good thing. But many people also read stories and they imbibe the character they read. Once read, this image sits in his mind for many days. Some good stories happen and some bad ones too. If it is good then it is a very good thing, otherwise never let the wrong dominate you. Otherwise, many times people go into depression due to all these things.

    how to make your mind strong?

    It is said that the mind is the most powerful thing in the world. If you want something with all your heart, you will definitely get it. This is what great men say. If this is true, then why don’t we get what we want from our heart. Because no person would want sorrow for himself. Friends, today I am going to tell you, from that you will understand how to get any work done with your mind. How anything is achieved by the power of the mind. How the right seeds are sown in the mind. Along with this, I will also tell you how the Law of Attraction works. Once upon a time, there was only sorrow in the life of a man. Whatever work he used to do, he used to fail. That’s why there was always trouble and tribulation in his house. If he asked someone for help, no one would help him. There was only frustration and disappointment in his hands from all sides. He used to feel all the time that the mountain of sorrows had fallen on me only. He kept thinking day and night that how would I be able to come out of this misery. He was struggling day and night with this worry. Now irritability had come in his nature. Sometimes he used to feel that I should commit suicide. But thinking about his family, he was afraid to take this step. Sitting for 1 day, he decided that I will live after getting rid of my sorrows. He asked his friend what can I do to bring happiness in my life. So his friend suggested that you go to some Baba. He will definitely give you such a mantra that will remove all your sorrows. After listening to the friend’s words, it sat in the mind of that man that now only a Baba can solve my problem.

    Friend’s words were so true to him that now he started following Baba’s all the time. He spent a lot of his earnings on them. Now his trouble started increasing even more. Then he thought that like this my troubles are increasing even more, I should stop now. Then another friend told one day that you should call a good priest and perform a havan at your home by chanting mantras. With this, whatever negative energy is there in your house, it will end and happiness and peace will come. Then he thought let’s do this also and see. And he called a good priest and got a havan done with great pomp in his house. After the Havan, he sent off the Pandit by giving a big Dakshina.

    The condition of his house was slightly better till a few days after the Havan. But after a few days the same old situation returned again. After that he started feeling even more sad. Now he has become very disappointed and started thinking that sorrows will never go away from my life. Then one day his friend told that there is a Baba who solves all the problems and does not take any donation or dakshina. So he thought why not try it again this time. And he went to that Baba’s ashram, saw Baba meditating, he sat there quietly. When Baba’s attention opened, he saw a helpless person sitting in front of him.

    Baba asked him, tell me, child, what is your problem. So the man started saying Baba my life has been surrounded by sorrows. I am so upset that I think of committing suicide. But looking at my family, I do not get this strength. Now you tell me what should I do. I have tried many babas but none of them helped me. Now I am ready to do whatever you say. Baba thought that he looks like a very troubled man. Baba said that mantras to remove sorrow are not found just like that, for that a lot has to be done. So he thought that this Baba would also ask for charity and dakshina. He said I am ready to give whatever you want but your mantra should be true. On this, Baba said that money is a very small thing, I will not ask such a small thing from you. Then Baba said, I will give you a mantra, will you be able to fulfill that mantra. Then again Baba said, now when you will go home from here, keep repeating this thing all the way that I am happy, I am happy. But remember one thing, this mantra should not come on the tongue, it should only remain in the mind.

    That man said such a small thing, I will do it just by playing a pinch, but what will happen to him? Baba said, you have obeyed many Babas, so try to obey even this little thing of mine. So that man thought that Baba has not taken any money at all, he has just asked to do this much, I can do that much. He promised Baba that he would perform the mantra and started returning to his home. But when he was returning home, Baba called from behind. Son, while chanting this mantra, you should not think of a monkey. So that man said Baba, the thought of monkey never comes in my mind like this, then why would it come today. Now believe me I will only repeat this mantra in my mind.

    And that man kept on repeating I am happy, I am happy. Suddenly the thought of monkey came in his mind and went away. He thought that till today, I never had this thought in my mind, how did today come. While thinking like this, he started thinking about the monkey. I had forgotten that Baba had given him some mantra. He has to cram only that. Suddenly after some time he remembered Baba’s words and then he started repeating the mantra again. I am happy, I am happy, he was running away while saying that suddenly he saw a monkey. He saw the monkey, then he got the same thought in his mind. He was trying to get the monkey out of his mind. In this turmoil he reached home. And said to his wife, monkey, give me monkey to eat. As soon as she spoke, she felt that she had spoken wrong. And he started thinking that, the thought which never crossed his mind till today, why is the monkey thinking so much today. He spent the whole night thinking about this. Could not sleep even for a moment.

    As soon as he woke up in the morning, he ran towards Baba. He went and fell at Baba’s feet. And started saying to Baba, Baba, what has happened to me. Why is the same thing coming to my mind again and again for which you had forbidden me? So Baba started saying child, this is an illusion. Monkeys used to come to you whenever you came to me. But you did not pay attention to them because your attention was only on your sorrows. Then Baba explained to him that the things from which we want to run away sit in our mind. And connects with our inner self. The thing we want to get occupies our mind in such a way that we do not see anything other than that.

    A man does not become happy just by saying I am happy, I am happy. Then the man started asking Baba, now you tell me how this mantra will sit in our mind. Then Baba said, child, stop thinking about your sorrows. As long as you keep thinking about your sorrows, they will make a home in your mind. The day you stop thinking about your sorrows, they will go out of your mind. Because the things we think about the most start bearing fruits in us. Many times you must have seen that people want to leave their bad habits but are unable to leave. Because he constantly struggles with his mind to leave her. And the more he thinks, the more it grows. So stop thinking in your mind. Let the good things settle in your mind. Then see one day your mind will be filled with happiness.

    That’s why we should do good things. Avoid listening to bad things from others. Hear good news, read good. Don’t talk nonsense here and there.

  • easy way to reach god

    August 9th, 2023

    We all believe in God in some form or the other.  They definitely believe in less or more or more.  Even if they don’t remember everyday, they definitely do so on a particular day, in a particular month.  Those who don’t remember at all, even when they are hurt, they call out to God.  There are two things in connecting with God, one is simply remembering God.  And one is to connect with him completely and take his powers in yourself.  Saints say that if we remember someone, then the vibrations of their mind enter us.  That’s why our elders used to teach us to remember God so that his form comes in us.

    How is the relationship with God?

    If we want to connect with God, you should be the first to remember him as soon as you open your eyes in the morning.  Whether you remember him throughout the day or not, while sleeping at night, do thank him for today’s day.  Not only this, you can share everything in your mind with them.  If you had a bad day, someone told you a very big thing that touched your heart, then definitely tell them.  Agreed that they all know, but when you tell them through your own words, your mind will become light.  Even if you have got a lot of happiness today, do not forget to tell them.  Be sure to thank them for your happiness.  If you have any query in your mind then also you should ask him only.  Now you will say will he answer our question?  Will definitely give, when you maintain the same relationship with them.

    How to remember God?

    Remember one thing, never cheat God.  Sit down with your eyes closed and your attention is somewhere else, sitting with a garland in your hand, but your attention is somewhere else.  By doing this, the reason for virtue seems to be sin.  Those who sit whole day pretending to chant the name, better than this, even if you remember God with a true heart even for 1 minute in a day, they become happy.  For this, we should sit in a very quiet place and remember God with a true heart even if only for a few moments.  So that your voice is heard by you as well as heard by the Lord.  We should call God like you are calling him.  And while remembering God, just become a child.  That child who does not have any falsehood in his mind.  A child calls his mother absolutely selflessly.  When he is in his mother’s lap, he is not troubled by any fear of the world.  Because he knows he is safe here.  Similarly, we should consider ourselves in the lap of God.  And thus have faith that God will not allow bad things to happen to us.

    be a child before god

    God also tries to forget us like a mother does to a small child.  When the child cries, the mother comes, gives him a toy and leaves.  The child plays for a while then picks it up and throws it away. Because it does not want a toy, it wants its mother. And then it starts crying.  When the mother is working, she thinks how to silence him. She comes again and gives him a chocolate. After getting the chocolate, the child again becomes silent for some time. As soon as the chocolate is finished, he starts crying again.  Every now and then the mother comes and picks him up and makes him sit beside her. The child keeps on watching his mother working. He takes comfort in his mind that my mother is sitting near him.  try to mislead us.  And we are not children who only need their mother. Because we have grown up, and our mind is filled with deceit, cleverness. We are not calling God with a true heart. 

    how much god will take care of you?

    Like you sometimes go to a poor man’s hut.  You that poor man arranges food and water for you according to his ability.  And when you go to a rich man’s house, he has a status of his own.  Just like rich men keep their servants according to their status by giving them nice clothes.  So that no one can say that he is a servant of such rich people, and in such dirty clothes.  Similarly, when God takes you completely, He keeps you as His own.  Your mind, words, deeds and speech become pure like them.  Your thoughts become high.  In the gathering in which you sit, a divinity spreads there.  You never wish bad for anyone in your heart and mind.  That’s why one should never ask God for worldly enjoyment.  Tell God, Lord, I want you.  you and only you.  Because when the Lord is found, everything will be found on its own.  Like a poor person should be made to stand in front of an emperor and asked to ask.  So you know what he’ll ask for?  He will say, O king, arrange for my bread and water.  Because he is struggling with this sorrow the most.  Similarly, if God tells us to ask from him, what will we ask?  We will only ask for the things we need, which keep roaming in our mind all the time, right?  So God will laugh in his heart, have you asked for such a trivial thing?  That’s why it is best not to ask.  Let them give themselves.  He will give more than you ask for.

    don’t tempt god

    Many people offer money in the temple of God.  Many people try to please God with different types of fruits, dry fruits, sweets etc.  And in return they ask God for things worth crores.  Who has given you these fruits, flowers, etc. that you are pleasing God with?  The one above gave and you are giving the opposite.  Moreover, by giving back the thing that belonged to him, you ask for crores of things in return.  Even God laughs at your intelligence.  You deal with the one who gave you the wisdom to live in this world.  If you can, give him the pure love of your heart.  And only ask for love in return.  Then see how they shower love.

  • Why Only those who are happy become something in life

    August 9th, 2023

    Are you happy or irritable?  How many people do you get along with?  Are the people happy with you in the party?  Are your wife and children happy or upset with you?  There are many questions we should ask ourselves to know what drives our behavior.One medicine out of a million medicines is to be happy.  If you can’t be happy then you always make others sad too.  It is not pleasant to see someone else’s hanging face.  Many people say that if you see a hanging face in the morning, then the day gets spoiled.  Being happy also keeps your body energetic.  You must have felt that when you are sad, you do not feel like doing anything.  All the energy in your body gets exhausted.  Your hunger and thirst all disappear.  The brain stops working.  Because your mind only focuses on your sorrows.

    On the contrary, the happiness of the mind increases our age.  Happiness produces such hormones in our body that make us live longer.  Long life means that all our diseases end.  People revolve around happy people.  Uninvited people reach him.  While everyone avoids sad people.

    Can a man be happy all the time?

    Now you will say that being happy all the time is not a joke.  Only those who have passed on should know.  I agree with you.  No one can be happy all the time. All we can do is not let sorrows dominate us.  Many of your relationships may slip.  You may have to live in want.  You may be wrongly accused sometime.  Circumstances are sometimes unfavorable to us and sometimes favourable.  And the circumstances are also given to everyone in turn by God.  When your situation is going unfavourable, then accept that it is not my turn yet.  Those whose happy days are going on, they have also faced sorrows.  When the heart is sad, it troubles the mind.  So why don’t we save our mind.  Let it be used for the success of your life.

    what should be our expectations?

    When you have got human life, then you have to struggle. Sometimes there are moments of happiness and sometimes there are moments of sadness. Just as we spend the moments of happiness laughing, in the same way, we should keep patience in sorrow. Most of the unhappiness is caused by our inability to forget our ex. If you make it a habit to forget the past, you will not feel sad in the present. Don’t worry about your future. Worry only about the moment you are living in the present. We make many plans for our success, then we feel sad if we fail in that. Put your soul into your work, but don’t expect so much that if you don’t get it, you will be broken. So let each and every second of yours be spent happily. If you don’t do bad to anyone then bad will not happen to you.

    how to decide your life?

    To decide your life, you have to keep your intelligence right. Because it is the intellect that decides, whereas the mind only makes resolutions. That’s why always channelize your intelligence in the right direction. So your mind will also have good thoughts. For example, if you deliberately take your car on a rocky path, then you have to face difficulties, don’t you? Similarly, always take your mind on a clean path, then no pebble-like sorrow will fall on you. And only happiness will come in your life.

    are you a good driver?

    Our life is a two wheeled vehicle. Like a skilled driver knows everything about his car, then only he can drive the car smoothly. He immediately feels the fault in the car. Similarly our life is also like a car. Our vehicle of life never breaks down even after running for many years. And sometimes it starts giving too many problems. But as a driver, if we know our car perfectly, we can treat it. If a person or an animal comes in front of us while driving, we immediately apply steering. Sometimes while applying steering, the balance of our vehicle also gets spoiled. Similarly, when the clouds of sorrow come in our life, then we should put on the steering wheel of restraint. You may lose your balance for a moment. But then it can also be controlled. It is clear that we should learn to be happy in any situation.

    If you are a happy person then you will not have to fight for every small and big thing. The more you know about it, the more efficiently and the more successfully you will be able to run it. It doesn’t matter what degrees you have, it doesn’t matter what information you have stored in your head. Basically your success depends on how you are passing through the thoughts. If you don’t know this, you will only succeed with cooperation, and even if you succeed, you will suffer success anyway, you will not enjoy it.

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