Life is not always the same. Only by accepting change can we overcome our frustrations and disappointments and move forward with time and make our lives happy. But for this there is a need to be a little slow.
A rich man suffered a huge loss in business. He started feeling that his life was filled with complete darkness. Thoughts of suicide arose in his mind. As he was about to jump into the river, someone caught him from behind. He was a traveller. The person who was trying to commit suicide started crying bitterly, ‘Why did you save me, it is better to die than to live like this.’ After listening to the whole story of that person, the traveler said, ‘Do you believe that earlier you were happy?’ The person said, ‘Yes, there was only light in my life, but now there is nothing left except darkness.’ The traveler said, ‘Don’t you know that after day comes night and after night comes day?’ The person said- ‘Everyone knows this.’ If you knew then why were you committing suicide? When you accepted a happy life, why don’t you accept an unhappy life now? While you know that after this night the day will come again. Actually, only accepting change can make us dynamic. We are moving along with such a train of time, in which stopping means going backward. We can truly enjoy the journey of life only when we move with the times. Leaving the old stations i.e. customs and old concepts, and adopting the new stations i.e. innovations according to the times. Change is eternal. Any object, subject and idea changes with time. Seasons change. Human conditions change. Progressive change over time is called development. If we shy away from change, we will not be able to progress. Accepting change is an act of courage. Because for this one will have to be dynamic and active, one will have to struggle with the difficulties in life. Struggle alone sows the seeds of development in our lives.
Similarly, the adverse circumstances that come in our life help in our growth and creativity. Simply, we should fight them without losing our temper. If we want only good to happen in our life and nothing bad to happen, then even this good will start appearing bad. Both sorrow and happiness come in life. If we keep eating sweets all the time, we will get bored of it. But if you eat something sweet after eating salty food, it will taste more delicious. Therefore, accept the changes in life and enjoy the taste of life to the fullest.
Accepting change is an act of courage. Because for this one will have to be dynamic and active, one will have to struggle with the difficulties in life. Struggle alone sows the seeds of development in our lives. We should never shy away from trying. If you do not get success even after trying again and again, you should try once. It is possible that success will be achieved in the last attempt. Sometimes the last key in the key chain opens the lock. Never share the loss of your work with anyone. Such people will never do business with you again because they will be afraid that they too may suffer a loss.
What to do if problems arise in life?
Problems will come and go in life. We should try to live life with problems. Running away from problems is not the solution. We should overcome problems. If problems come, be patient, do not be afraid of problems. How to overcome them Think about it. Ask anyone these days how life is going. How are you? Life is just going on as it is and we get similar answers. It seems that we all are just going through life and it seems that we are living life forcibly and there is no fun in life. One thing. It should be remembered that living life and spending life are two different things. Animals live life, we are human beings, we have to live life well and happily by enjoying life, devotion, good deeds, becoming a successful person. There should be a goal to achieve something, there should be a yearning to achieve something. There should be an effort to make one’s life better.
Sometimes people ruin a good and wonderful life by committing suicide. Some people suffer loss in love, business and other reasons. Suicide is not the solution. Problems will keep coming in the life of all of us. Sometimes happiness and sometimes sorrow will come in life. There will be ups and downs in business. For all these difficulties, the end of life is not its solution. Shri Krishna said in Bhagwat Geeta that happiness and sorrow are not opposites, they are complementary. In fact, these are like two sides of a coin. If there is no sorrow then there is no feeling of happiness and if there is sorrow then there is a desire to attain happiness after that. The price of happiness is understood.