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What is sin? And what happens from it?

November 11th, 2023

Anything that takes a man away from himself is sin. And whatever works to bring you closer to yourself is virtuous. Sin or crime are those actions committed by humans, which are considered unacceptable in any religion. All those actions, which degrade spiritual and social values, or destroy economic and natural resources, fall in the category of sin or crime. The person who commits a sin is called a sinner or a criminal. Living in the society, we make many efforts to run the family, but we do not keep track of how much sin is being committed and how much virtue is being done. Our only goal is to earn money. If money is earned through lies and sins, it gets consumed in the stomach, but sins are accumulated with you. Remember, the money earned through sin gets spent, but sin does not. Lust, anger, attachment, greed, pride and jealousy – these six enemies keep agitating the mind. By suppressing them, man becomes free from sorrow and sin. As soon as we look within the mind, by the grace of God, the destruction of these enemies begins.

The desire to grab others’ wealth is a great sin. Such a person never attains salvation. And who knows for how many births he has to bear the burden of this sin. Even a grain of someone else’s share brings poverty in our actions.
Trying to do things that the mind refuses to do is also included in sin. Considering the body as everything is the biggest sin. The biggest sin in the world is playing with the honor of a woman. The person who plays with the honor of a woman commits the biggest sin in this world. According to science, women power is such a power which is very difficult to estimate. Women are considered the most revered in the world. Insulting a woman is equivalent to destroying the entire universe. In the world, women nurture their children in every way. Whom we call mother in the language of love. This woman appears to the man in every form. Sometimes as a mother and sometimes as a sister. Only women run this world. A person who hurts a woman becomes the victim of crores of sins.

The person who hurts others by speaking harsh words to them is a partner in sin. Therefore, always control your speech. He should think about what to say to whom and then speak. Because one of our bitter words can upset someone and we too have to be his friends. Lying is also a sin. No one respects the person who keeps telling lies in every conversation. Nor does anyone believe in them. A person who criticizes also earns sin. The person who always wastes his time in criticizing others never develops. Such a person has no respect in the society. There are many people who keep speaking without any reason. Who knows what many things he says while speaking like this. Such persons commit sins through their words. Theft is a great sin. If a person steals someone else’s money, he has to repay the debt for many births. Having a relationship with another man or woman is the biggest sin. The person who breaks his limits in the society is never worthy of being respected. According to the scriptures, such a person has to suffer hell. Whenever you save your own sins and put them on others, then you become surrounded by sins.

What are the consequences of sin?,,

The consequences of sin can be seen in our own lives. If there is physical and mental pain in our body. So this is the result of sin. If there is unrest and discord in our family, this is also the result of sin. Honor and respect in society is also the result of sin. If we have never found any Guru in life and our mind is not focused on God then this is the reason for your sin.

To put it in simple words, sin is nothing but missing one’s purpose. Man was created by God with a purpose. We did not come here in this world just like that, but God has given a purpose to all of our lives. And that primary objective was that humans should always live with each other in complete happiness. But this world is mean and selfish. No one thinks about anyone here. Forget about others, people of the same family become bloodthirsty. We all know that sinning is not a good thing. Yet it is the nature of mankind to adopt whatever gives us immediate happiness. Like we know that if we are itching then if we itch more then it will peel off. But still we are unable to stop ourselves because this thing gives us instant happiness.

However, different people have different concepts of sin, for example, in some places sacrificing an animal is normal and in some places it is a heinous crime. But since beliefs and customs keep changing. No person does any work so that his mind becomes unhappy, hence it is appropriate for us to stay away from any work which gives us unrest and any work which brings peace of mind. Only if we go towards the truth i.e. the mind gets satisfied, only that work is right for us. The work which takes you towards peace is the only one worth doing. Knowing that the work I am doing will not satisfy me, I Despite this, doing that deed is a sin. In other words, committing a wrong action knowingly is a sin.

Knowing that I will not be able to get peace of mind even by getting attracted to some person or getting something, but still going near that person or thing is called a sin. There is a special difference between mistake and sin, did you not know that any karma Whether your mind will be satisfied after doing it or not, but you still did it, it is a mistake.
But you have experienced this before and know that the mind is not completely satisfied with this thing, but still you put effort, energy and time in doing that work, then it has become a sinful act. And the mistake is forgiven, but it is a sin. Gets punishment. You know what is most important for you to do at this time, but in the name of your fear, greed or responsibility, you are avoiding doing that action, then understand. This is sin.

And the punishment for this sin will be that you will have to suffer the consequences of spending your time in wrong work instead of right work.
You knew very well that if you give the exam today, the result will also come, but if you did not go for the exam, then what was the punishment? The hard work you had done throughout the year has been wasted and you will have to practice again. You have committed unwise acts in the past without being conscious and you realize your mistake. This is the atonement for your sin, and the special thing is that you You can get rid of your sinful deeds by considering yourself a sinner. But for those people who consider themselves to be sinless, smart, doing good deeds, their chances of changing their life or doing something better in their life end there. .And the only way to get rid of sin is to not allow yourself to be the way you were before, let’s say you were an alcoholic who used to abuse people after drinking alcohol and used to commit acts like assault. But one day you came to your senses and decided to give up alcohol. Now after two years, if you meet an old friend or person and he calls you an alcoholic or a madman, it will not matter to you because you are not the same as before.

Rather you will say, no problem, let him say, he doesn’t even know that now I have left unconsciousness and have adopted the path of consciousness. Just like you were very greedy for money earlier, you were a greedy type of person, and due to money, many You also did wrong things. Now one day you come to your senses and decide to give up your greed, then after some time such a situation arises. When someone tempts you with the lure of money, you will ignore it and move ahead because Now the greed for money has gone from your mind. Suppose you have always had the habit of gossiping. But one day you give up this habit. Your friends who used to enjoy gossiping with you start doing it again, and you tell them that I have given up all this. So you become free from your sins.

But often people realize their mistakes and sinful deeds, but they still remain the same as they were at the time of committing the mistake. Neither they are able to change their thoughts nor their actions, due to which they again One has to suffer the consequences of one’s sinful deeds. All those deeds which are not considered appropriate by the social system and law, but if such deeds are performed by a person, then they come under the category of crime.
Punishment for criminal actions is definitely given by the society and legal administration, this punishment may include imprisonment, payment of fine etc. All the sorrows we have to suffer in life are the result of our sins. Therefore, man should always stay away from such misdeeds. So that he can become a great personality in the eyes of everyone in the society and in his family.
Should we get angry?

November 10th, 2023

Man himself is an embodiment of desires. There is no human being born on earth who does not have any desire. A person who is unable to express or fulfill his desires feels irritated. The main reason for anger is personal or social contempt. People who are ignored, despised and considered contemptible get more angry. Because they want to show the society that they also exist through negative activities like anger. The purpose of anger is also to expect love from a particular person or society. Anger is an emotion. At the physical level, when there is anger, the heart rate increases; Blood pressure increases. The psychology of anger is that you wanted something and someone stopped you from getting it. Something has become an obstacle in the way, an obstacle. All your energy was going to achieve something and someone stopped the energy. You couldn’t get what you wanted. Now this frustrated energy becomes anger.

Anger against the person who has destroyed the possibility of your desire being fulfilled. The main reason for anger is personal or social contempt. People who are considered neglected and despised get more angry. Because they want to show the society that they also exist through negative activities like anger. The aim of anger is also to expect love from a particular person or society. Being alone in a new place is a reason for anger. Psychologists say that people who have less friends generally get angry easily. Children who are born in a nuclear family and one of their parents suffers from mental illness. They become angry due to mental irregularities. They start abusing, hitting siblings and breaking things. Psychiatrists say that if your child gets angry a lot, it means he is frustrated somewhere.

At the time of anger, one’s fierce form is expressed or uncultured words are used, which hurts the self-respect of the other person. This creates a new problem. The other person gets angry and starts thinking of taking revenge and humiliating the other person. No one sees the reason for the anger.

Nine types of emotions arise in the mind of all of us at one time or the other due to circumstances, of which anger is also one. Anger in its refined form becomes bravery which fills with extraordinary energy and also ensures victory in difficult situations. To understand the psychology of anger, we have to understand the mathematics of expectations. First of all anger should be accepted. A balanced amount of anger is essential and necessary which gives strength to fight against oppression. There is an incident in the Ram-Ravana war that Shri Ram was asking for a way from the sea to cross Lanka. Three days passed but the sea remained motionless. In such a situation, Ram also had to get angry. It is out of anger that Shiva performs Tandav and Kali kills the wicked. It is worth understanding that anger is also energy. There is a subtle difference between whether this energy will be used for constructive work or for destruction. It is said in Geeta that at the root of anger is attachment, so the way to go beyond it is also suggested in Geeta. Karma without attachment is called that, when you understand that Karma itself is in your hands. This helps in reducing anxiety. Doing selfless work is neither difficult nor complicated. This is the name of flowing in the flow of life, because the owner of this world is God and our period here is limited.

A bone broken once in life can be healed, but the wound caused by a single word from the mouth of an angry person never heals, it remains forever. The person who often expresses his anger in life And the one who gets angry loudly is actually ignorant, but on the contrary, the one who controls his anger by remaining calm is called wise. Just as you cannot see your reflection in boiling water, in the same way You can never know or understand the truth in a state of anger.
Anger is the cause of many major troubles in human life. Due to this, a person gets tied in the bondage of the world and due to this his religion is destroyed, hence a person should always avoid getting angry.

An angry person moves away from everyone in the society because of his anger. No one wants to have a relationship with such a person because everyone feels that he gets angry at every conversation. Being angry produces such hormones in a person’s body which are very harmful for the person himself. An angry person makes his soul so sad that he himself feels guilty due to this. Therefore, instead of getting angry, if we think about it peacefully for 2 minutes, then perhaps the anger may reduce a little.
How to make old age happy?

November 7th, 2023

The human body does not always remain the same. After childhood, youth, middle age and then old age. Nobody wants us to go to this stage. But this is a routine and one has to bear it. Blurred vision, wrinkles all over the body and face, unclear speech, helpless steps, inability to digest food, all these symptoms are not liked by anyone. On top of that, the old age of the daughter and daughter-in-law makes life haram. But by paying attention to some things, old age can be made pleasant.

(1) To be physically independent,,

With time, our body parts also start becoming loose. But if we are strong in our mind then we do not let them reach this situation. This condition of our body does not develop in a day. If we remain active while we are young, then even in old age we will have the strength to do our own work. We will be able to cook our own food, make our own bed, do our own body work like bathing etc. We will be able to clean our own clothes. If we put these small tasks on others, we become a burden. If while we are young we develop the habit of doing all this work ourselves, then this habit develops in us. Then in old age we do not have to face anyone.

(2) Take care of your diet,,

Food and drink are important for our body at every stage. But if we improve our eating habits in our youth, we will not have to suffer from physical diseases in old age. Always make a habit of eating simple food. If you feel like eating something spicy, eat it occasionally. Wrong eating habits cause diseases in our body, which trouble us even at a young age. In old age, one feels more like eating something spicy. In such a situation, fulfill your hobbies sometimes.

(3) Remembrance of the Lord,,

This habit of not remembering God in old age is inculcated from youth itself. Always try to make yourself a believer to some extent. You may not believe in God, but develop the habit of enjoying God’s hymns. If you develop this habit from your youth, then in old age you will not be able to stop yourself from remembering God. And there is no doubt that this will make your old age better.

(4) Attachment to one’s family,,

Always love your daughter-in-law, son, grandchildren. If you love your daughter a little less, it will not make any difference to you. Because the daughter understands every reaction of the parents. But it takes time to accept the daughter-in-law who is someone else’s daughter. And the stick of your old age is your daughter-in-law. Therefore, love your daughter-in-law more than your son. Take care of children. Bring a small gift for them from time to time. The more you take care of them, the more they will take care of you. Never speak bitter words to them.

(5) maintain kinship,,

When the web of relationships surrounds us, we do not realize when and how we forget our sorrows. Friendship is also a kinship, which adds color to our life. Choose good friends while you are young. Always maintain good relations with your relatives. Visit their house from time to time and invite them to your place too. If this continues till old age, your old age will never let you feel lonely.

(6) Mind your own business,,

Most of the people do not have any work after reaching a certain age, so they keep wandering here and there the whole day. This thing is not good. This habit does not allow us to live anywhere. This spreads discord. And when the matter reaches the ears of the family members, their respect is also at stake. We should mind our own business right from our youth. One should give up the habit of interfering in anything done by others. When two people are talking, the habit of interrupting, the habit of giving advice without asking for it, the habit of abusing while talking, the habit of gossiping, should be given up from youth itself. Otherwise these bad habits continue with us till old age.

(7) To be content in mind,,

Contentment is the ultimate wealth, contentment is the ocean of happiness. Many people remain dissatisfied despite having everything in life. Man’s desires can never be fulfilled. Even the king and the king could never fulfill his wish. Even God succumbed to desires. We should always be satisfied with whatever we have got. If we have this habit since childhood, then half of our sorrow will go away in old age. All suffering in old age is due to desires. The desire to eat more, the desire to travel more, the desire for more money, and the desire to get more respect. These are the desires whose non-fulfillment makes a person unhappy. The more we fulfill our desires, the more they keep increasing.

If we learn to do these small experiments from childhood itself, then perhaps we will not have to cry in old age. Just as we enjoyed all the stages of the body, we will also learn to enjoy old age. And when we leave this world, people will remember us for our goodness.
How to develop the power to take right decisions?

November 7th, 2023

Taking the right decision in life is not within everyone’s reach. When you take a decision, after taking the decision, ask yourself whether I am taking this decision out of being too emotional or angry. Question yourself honestly on every aspect and answer yourself with such perfect impartiality. Only when you are satisfied with your answer, proceed with the decision. In the sixth chapter of Gita, Shri Krishna has said that take any decision only in a state of mental stability. That is, when you are more happy or more sad, do not take any decision at that time. In a state of sadness or great happiness, there are more chances of taking wrong decisions. It is also important to know yourself along with your desires. By knowing your desires and yourself, you give the right direction to life.

Success also means satisfaction. Whatever work you are happy with and whatever goal you achieve, that is success for you. When you become conscious of your desires and reluctance, all your power, energy, abilities and capabilities will start working unitedly in a certain direction.

You need to set your priorities because we cannot do too many things at once. We have to choose to do some work first and some work later. This election is to decide the priority. If priorities are set correctly, you will find that 80 percent of your success is based on 20 percent of your actions. Meaning, out of the list of 100 tasks, 20 tasks are more important.

Quick decision brings you closer to your success. Nothing will happen unless you decide. Many times people delay even in taking small decisions. It is better to make an error in judgment than to be indecisive. Mistakes can be corrected but if you do not take decisions then inaction will destroy you. Taking appropriate and quick decisions brings you closer to success. Success always comes from a restrained life. Restraint is not only discipline but also self-discipline. True confidence awakens from here. Life gets the right direction. Patience plays a very important role in success also. With restraint a person becomes stress free. A balanced and stress-free routine also increases your efficiency and brain energy.

May you always work selflessly. Take right decisions and intensify work-related efforts. The action to complete the task is in your hands, not its result. Therefore, when you do not get results, do not stop doing good work. Because you will get the result when God wishes. When you have taken a decision, along with its result will also come a change in circumstances. In such a situation, if change is coming due to your decision making then definitely make the change. Because it is important to come out of your natural state i.e. comfort zone. Otherwise you will not be able to understand your capabilities. Take any decision only when you have confidence in yourself and trust in God. If your desire is strong and intentions are clear, then God will also help you in completing your work. So to take the right decision, right intentions and strong intentions are also necessary. Keep your emotions balanced with logic. If you are always 100% logical, your life will become very boring. In such a situation, keep yourself balanced by maintaining the right balance of emotions and logic. Many times in life, it happens that we are unable to take decisions. Caught in dilemma, we keep spending our energy on negativity. In such a situation, whenever you are stuck in any problem or taking a decision is proving difficult, you can take the decision by adopting the 20-minute rule. This will provide you a lot of support. Also, by paying attention to some other things, you can come out of difficult times.

Whenever we want to take a decision, we have to face two types of imaginary worries. One is the fear of losing what we have got, the other is the fear of not getting what we are going to get. Meaning, either There is a fear that we may lose what we have achieved till date, or we are afraid of not getting what we are going to get in the future. If someone has confidence in himself then any difficult task can be completed easily. May go. When we go towards a higher destination, apprehensions and fear definitely come in our mind, but to overcome these, we should keep our inner confidence strong. Moving towards the goal with enthusiasm also strengthens inner confidence. If we believe in our capabilities from within, then any goal can be easily achieved.

The direct and simple solution to this is with you only. First of all you have to understand that nothing is available for free in this world. If you want something then you have to pay its price. In the process of taking the right decision, first of all you have to decide for yourself that
What do you want to achieve? You have to decide your goal. After this you have to look at the brightest side of your goal.And at the same time you have to know its lowest side. A right decision can change the life of a common man. Your entire life completely depends on your decisions.

You can adopt this art of decision making at any time, in any situation and ensure your success in every area of life. Through this you can easily achieve a free and fearless life and You can make it the way you really want it to be.

When some work goes wrong or we face failure, we often say that our decision was wrong. Therefore, develop effective decision making ability within yourself, no matter what the work is or what field you are associated with. That work becomes important only because of your decision. Therefore the decision should be such that it is effective. Because only the one who takes fast decisions does justice to the revolutionary situations. Along with this, you can also learn from your decisions taken in the past. Which decisions taken in the past led to your success or failure? In this way, you can bring about a change in your decision making ability. Apart from being effective, the decision should also be fast. Therefore, stop waiting to take decisions for any work, because the right time never comes or every time is right. It is said that only people who take effective decisions quickly and according to time achieve the greatest achievements. .
Do you know how to talk to people?

November 7th, 2023

Communication is an important part of our life. Dialogue means talking to someone and expressing your thoughts. We talk to many people in the society every day. That’s why sometimes we feel uncomfortable talking to someone and sometimes we think about the way to talk to impress someone. Many times we see a decrease in our self-confidence, we do not feel confident in talking in front of anyone. This question always remains in the mind of all of us that how should we present ourselves in front of someone, how should we present ourselves to someone? How to start talking to a new person or what should be our way of talking? Before talking to someone, it is very important to know that in order to talk to someone, it is necessary to listen to him well first. Many times we talk to someone but it is difficult to understand what the other person is interested in and we end up saying something to ourselves.

Any relationship is built on words. You must have seen many people in the society who are very good looking but people do not like them because they do not know how to talk to people. In today’s time, class and color do not matter. If you know the right way of using words and talking, then you can talk to someone for hours and impress the other person and make him/her agree to your point. In the way of talking, it is not necessary that you convey something through words only. saying. Your expressions, gestures, body language, style also prove that you are a good person. Only with these things you can attract a stranger towards you. And if you know how to talk properly along with expressions, gestures, body language, style, then you can build a good relationship with anyone. Many times our voice becomes loud or we start talking loudly, due to which the other person does not like to listen and he also does not show interest in talking. Therefore, before starting a conversation with someone, we need to improve our way of speaking.

Whenever we go to talk to someone, we should talk slowly, but you also have to take care that your voice does not become so low that the person in front of you cannot hear it. If this happens, you will feel confident in yourself. Will see the shortage. To talk, the voice should be according to the place. If there is not much noise around then you should speak softly and sweetly but your voice should be such that your voice can reach the person easily. Keep this in mind. The first thing is that if you lack confidence then first Bring confidence that, “I can do this”. Only then will you be able to present yourself in front of others. Without self-confidence, you will not be able to talk to people well, so it is important that you inculcate in your mind that you can talk to anyone easily.

Your confidence will increase only when you start talking to someone, admittedly you may face some difficulty in the beginning but gradually you will be able to easily talk to anyone with confidence. Many people are such that they do not want to finish what the other person is saying. Don’t let that happen, read the lyrics before that. Such people should stop their words. If you don’t listen to the other person, he will also feel bad. There are many people who want to say one thing and say something else. He talks so much that he doesn’t know what to say about whom. Avoid such habits. Many people have the habit of cursing while talking, this is absolutely wrong.

Many people impress everyone with their art of talking. Such people leave their mark in everyone’s heart. One quality of the most successful person is that he speaks exactly the right thing. And his reactions, emotions, conduct, ideology, Behavior doesn’t hurt anyone. That is why if you also get a chance to sit in a high level meeting, then express your views but do not hurt anyone. In today’s world, only that person is successful who knows how to communicate well. Speaking is not a big deal, and it is not taught to us in any curriculum. A person’s inner culture is reflected in his communication. Therefore, whenever you speak, speak on time. Don’t croak like a frog all the time. And don’t hijack anyone’s honor. Never break anyone’s self-respect with your words. Don’t disturb anyone’s concentration with your voice. Never make anyone feel inferior, poverty and insignificance through your words. Rather, your words help someone and give them a solution. If your words are giving comfort to someone, then there is certainly truth in your words. You must have seen how subtly a crow signals the arrival of a guest at your house. But he doesn’t speak sweetly, that’s why you don’t pay attention to what he says. And on one side there is the cuckoo which always sings songs of separation. But she sings sweetly, that’s why you like her voice. Therefore, in life, learn to speak like a cuckoo and not like a crow.
Does our thinking determine our success?

November 6th, 2023

Man’s life depends on his thinking and behavior. Many times we assume that we cannot do it, then we are not able to do all that because our mind starts working on our orders. Therefore, we should move ahead in life by adopting positive thinking. How successful we are in life or whether we are able to achieve our goals or not depends entirely on our thinking. In fact, our thinking is our real personality and behavior which comes out in physical form and comes in front of people and in the same way we get respect in the society. What we say, what we do and what reaction we get from the other person depends on our thinking. In fact our thinking is a reflection of our personality.

Our positive thinking is the belief that we can solve even the most difficult situations of life. Maintaining courage even in difficult times is the power of our positive thinking. We get the courage to do any difficult task only through our positive thinking. The more positivity we do in any work, the more accurate and successful the work will be. Due to lack of positive thinking in difficult situations of life, many people lose their mental balance and cause huge loss to themselves. The secret of success of all successful people till date is their positive thinking. Positivity is the key not only to our success but also to our good health. The thinking of “I will not be able to do it” even before doing any difficult task is called negative thinking. The work done by people having negative thoughts starts getting spoiled and negative thinking also has a very bad effect on our health. Negative thinking pushes us into the abyss of failure and makes us an example of a loser in the society. Sitting idle and running away from situations without facing the difficulties of life is a symbol of negative thinking. Anticipating the bad outcome of any work without seeing its result is also an example of negative thinking. In any society, the position of people with positive thinking is always higher than the people with negative thinking. A person with positive thinking Is free from fear and despair. He is always ready to do the most difficult task without worrying about its consequences and the effect of his positive thoughts is clearly visible in his life.

The thought of “I can’t do it” even before doing any difficult task is called negative thinking. The work done by people having negative thoughts starts getting spoiled and negative thinking also has a very bad effect on our health. Negative thinking pushes us into the abyss of failure and makes us an example of a loser in the society. Sitting idle and running away from situations without facing the difficulties of life is a symbol of negative thinking. Anticipating the bad outcome of any work without seeing its result is also an example of negative thinking. In any society, the position of people with positive thinking is always higher than the people with negative thinking. A person with positive thinking Is free from fear and despair. He is always ready to do the most difficult task without worrying about its consequences and the effect of his positive thoughts is clearly visible in his life. Difficult situations definitely come in everyone’s life one day or the other, but It depends on our thinking that how we get ourselves out of that situation. If our thinking is positive then it is possible that we will find the solution to that problem as soon as possible but if we have negative thinking then hardly we will be able to save ourselves from that problem without the help of a positive thinking person. How we will be seen, how much respect we will get in the society, all these things depend on our own thinking and thoughts. When we present our views in the society, what will be the reaction of the people on it and how much the people of the society agree with our words, all these things depend on our thinking only.

Once upon a time, two friends were returning home through the forest. As soon as they reached the middle of the forest, they saw the bushes in front of them moving. They talked among themselves, “It must be a man-eating wolf, I have heard that it has killed many people.” Hearing the friend’s words, the other friend said, without seeing, how can you say that it is a wolf, the bush can move even with the wind or it could be some other animal, don’t think too much and keep moving forward. After some time we will also reach our village.

The first friend says, “No, no, I don’t want to become a victim of that wolf, I will go home via the road.” Saying this, he goes away from there. The second friend moves ahead towards the bush, as soon as he removes the leaves from his hands to go across the bush, a baby goat comes out and stands near him. He picks up the baby goat in his lap and goes home with it.

Next day, when the friend who had run away reaches home tired, the other friend points towards the goat and says, ‘Look, your man-eating wolf is eating grass and you are afraid of it and are coming back after covering double the distance. Hearing all this, he starts regretting his thinking and out of shame he looks away and walks away. So the lesson we learn from this story is that we will be able to surpass others in any situation only when our thinking is positive and good.

If we want to be successful in our life or keep ourselves as an ideal person in the society, then we should always keep our thinking positive. With negative thoughts you will lead yourself and others towards despair. Every person who wants success in life should complete his work with positive thinking. We should always try to be friends with a person with positive thinking so that his thoughts impact us and we too move towards success like him. As is the thinking of a person, so is his personality. That is why it has been wished that my mind should be of good intentions. The mind is full of determination and options. Contradictory feelings keep arising in him. When good thoughts come to mind, bad thoughts also come. When bad thoughts arise, opposing thoughts i.e. good thoughts also arise. By controlling the thoughts that arise in our mind, we can give life the desired shape.

Life can be improved by choosing good thoughts and life can be degraded by choosing bad thoughts. It is often said that work is accomplished only through efforts. Not by heart’s desire. This is absolutely correct, but when does a man make efforts and what is called effort? The first thing is that without desire, even effort is impossible. The desire to make efforts in humans also arises from some emotion or the other and emotions are generated and controlled by the mind. Therefore only positive thoughts make efforts possible. The catalyst for effort is the mind itself. Many people make so-called efforts, yet remain far away from success. Achieving the goal depends not on effort but on the will of the mind. Kalidas says that nothing is unattainable for the aspirant. Desires are what motivate us to move forward. Positive wishes prove to be effective in providing success. In fact, the result will be as per your wishes.
Do you know the talents within you?

November 6th, 2023

Sometimes you never know that you have extraordinary qualities that you never realized. That is, we never considered this quality of ours as a quality. But then others tell you what qualities you have. You just wonder what it is that makes you so unique. Whereas you are an ordinary person who wants to live a normal life like others. This happens to all of us. But deep in our hearts, these soothing words reassure us that we too have some special talent. This talent defines our personality and character traits. It is important to know that no two people are ever the same. Although sometimes they look alike, everyone is different in terms of character, style and qualities. People with supernatural abilities are seen only in films and television dramas. Although it may not be a big deal, you can become a superhero to your parents and loved ones, and vice versa. Because your character holds a special place in their hearts. And you are undoubtedly the apple of their eyes. It means that you are very special to them because your parents and loved ones see some special qualities in you that others do not have.

You often limit your thinking, whenever you try to understand yourself you consider yourself an ordinary person. Every person is born in this world with different intelligence, consciousness, behavior and values. If you learn the art of awakening the positive energy and positive power within you, then you will be able to recognize your qualities. When it awakens effectively from within you with power and energy, it is as if your entire life, your mind, the events around you come under your control.

This is the path through which you learn more about yourself, and discover what brings betterment to your life. When you create a garden within yourself. Like, you are a gardener yourself and after becoming a gardener, you want beautiful, attractive, attractive, fragrant flowers in that garden, then what will you do? What do you need? Think about what you will need. If we have light, we also have water. What else do you need? Do you know that the first seed is there? A land is needed for the seeds. Land means land which is fertile. Where those plants can grow, those flowers can grow. There is a need for such land. And that land is not anywhere else but within you.

There is some talent hidden inside every person. We all need to recognize that. Many people are not at all aware of their talent. Such people are not able to achieve the status in life that they deserve. We should never hide our talent, but should bring it out. Every person has some hobbies. This hobby is a hidden talent. You can achieve success by learning its intricacies deeply. The work in which our mind is completely engaged or it can also be said in this way that the work which we do wholeheartedly and never gets tired. This is our hidden skill. A person always gets happiness by working as per his wish. Provided that it is such that more money can be earned. One should not have to do any other employment due to lack of money. A person can never achieve success in life by hiding his talent. His mind is always distracted.There is some art hidden within every human being in this world. We have to make our career by exploring this art. This skill of ours can take us to great heights.

It becomes difficult for us to know ourselves when we either have negative thoughts or our self-confidence is negligible. If a person is satisfied with his life or his life is going smoothly then in such a situation that person can never find his talent. It is possible that along with yourself, you help people who also know you. If not, it shows that you are a helpful person.
It is also possible that you listen to everyone’s problems and give the right advice, in such a situation you can be a good advisor. It is possible that you like some sport and you are good at that sport, in such a situation you can become a good advisor. There can be the ability of a good player. Similarly, you will have to search your life deeply and know what kind of qualities you have because everyone has some quality inside them.

The blade is very sharp but it cannot cut trees. An ax is very strong but it cannot cut hair. Everyone has their own different talent. There is a need to recognize that talent and give it dimension. The day you recognize your inner talent and learn to channelize it in the right direction, no one can divert you from the path of success.
Do you get nervous at the slightest trouble?

November 6th, 2023

Often people get nervous in the slightest trouble. The mind becomes disturbed and things become disorganized. It is not easy for everyone to come out of such situations. The nature of today’s people has become such that they get upset over small things. We need to be a little patient. Any calamity comes and goes, never think that the problem will destroy us. If we suffer any loss today, we can get even bigger benefit tomorrow. We should not be afraid of trouble, but should face it boldly. One should act with courage in times of trouble. Those who have courage even in difficult times can overcome even the biggest problems.

This is the story of three friends who lived in a small village. Once those three friends went to the city for some work and were returning back to their village. To reach their village they had to pass through a dense forest. When he was passing through this forest, a friend felt thirsty and went to search for water and lost his way. After some time it became evening and it was about to fall, his eyes fell on a cave. Because the cave was surrounded by trees on all sides, they thought that this was a good place to spend the night. So both of them collected some wood, went inside the cave, lit a fire and sat there. It was night time and the fire was burning inside the cave. It was completely dark outside and the sounds of some animals were coming outside. Among those three friends, one friend was of a carefree nature. So he slept there while warming himself by the fire. Now one of the two remaining friends starts feeling scared inside. He began to realize that he was seeing a scary shadow.

Because he had heard many stories of ghosts that some terrible spirits wander in the forest at night and if they find such a lost person, they do not leave him. So when he started talking about ghosts, His third friend laughingly asked him, have you ever seen a ghost? He said – No, I have not, but I have some acquaintances who have. So his third friend tried hard to convince him. Tried and explained that man, we don’t believe in such hearsays. Now it is very late in the night, so go to sleep and let me sleep too, I am feeling sleepy.

In this way, two of the three friends had fallen asleep. Now the remaining friend who was talking about ghosts was not able to sleep. After some time, he started seeing the shadows of ghosts on the stones there and he started getting scared after seeing those shadows. This continued for a few hours and then later, because he was tired, he also fell asleep. But shortly after falling asleep, he had a dream. In the dream, he saw a very scary shadow moving towards him. Then he looked at his friend who was sleeping, held him and picked him up, then he told his friend what happened to him, his friend started laughing again, then his friend said to him – “If again If you see that shadow, you just say what I am telling you. You have to say within yourself, “I am not afraid of you, if you have the courage then come forward.”
Then let’s see what the shadow does to you. You just have to say within yourself, “I am not afraid of you, if you have the courage then come forward.” So his friend did the same. After some time again he saw a shadow in his dream and he did the same. After some time again When his shadow came into view, he started repeating in his mind – “Wherever you are, I am telling you that I am not afraid of you. If you have the courage, come forward. I am telling you that I am not afraid of you.” , If you have courage, come forward. As he was speaking, the shadow started getting smaller and started moving away from him. It kept getting smaller and smaller and gradually the shadow stopped.

Exactly the same happens in our lives too. The more we fear all the fears within us, the smaller we become and the bigger those fears become, but if we are not afraid of the fear within us, we can face it. So there is no fear or problem in the world that we cannot face.

No matter how big the problem is, do not be afraid of it, rather face the problem. There is no fear or problem in the world that we cannot face. There is no such problem in the world which we cannot face. At some point of life, suddenly such a critical situation arises, which a person finds himself unable to overcome. Although some people face difficult times with patience, others get nervous. In difficult times most people’s conscience does not work. Due to this, a person has to face loss of life and property.

A person needs a solid strategy to come out of the crisis. When a person makes a strategy to get out of the crisis, he works step by step and ultimately achieves victory. It is very important to be careful in times of trouble, because during times of crisis, a person has limited opportunities and The challenges are big. In such a situation, a small mistake can cause huge harm, hence it is very important to be careful in advance. A person should keep positive thinking even in adverse circumstances. Whatever the situation may be, do not lose patience. If you do this, you will win half the battle without fighting. In times of crisis, fulfilling the responsibility towards the family should be the first duty of a person. Special care should be taken for the safety of family members. One should support one’s family members in times of crisis. If any kind of trouble has befallen the family members, then you should help them out of that trouble. A person should always save money. If you have good financial management then you can be successful in getting out of the biggest crisis. In fact, in times of crisis, the true companion is money. It becomes very difficult for a person who lacks money at the time of crisis to overcome the crisis.

Therefore always be careful of your conscience. So you can never face any problem in life. Always live in today, do not create problems within yourself by worrying about tomorrow. If you ever get more happiness in life, don’t be proud of yourself. If you suffer more, don’t extend your hand to anyone. Rather, manage to deal with your problem yourself. Because the lion cub remains weak as long as it cannot speak. The day he learns to roar, he becomes the king of the jungle.
Why does man become poor?

November 5th, 2023

To a great extent, man himself is responsible for his happiness and sorrow. God may send you wealth and happiness in your destiny, but God keeps an eye on everything you do. And according to your deeds your destiny also changes. That is why it is seen that many people die untimely death even if they have a long life line in their palm and live in poverty even if they have a good fate line. Lord Shri Krishna’s friend Sudama is also considered an example of this, who had to face extreme poverty due to his mistake. However, later by the grace of Shri Krishna his poverty was removed. Sudama, out of greed, ate the food given by Gurumata alone, even though Shri Krishna also had a share in it. Sudama had to face poverty because of eating someone else’s share. Therefore, the rights of others should not be snatched away.

In today’s era, everyone considers only filling their stomach as success. Whatever wealth, wealth, prosperity and respect we have in our life has been given by the Lord. It is said in the Gita that those who eat food without offering it to God commit the mistake of eating stolen food. One has to suffer the punishment for this in both this world and the next world. Lakshmi gets angry in a house where God is not remembered before eating.

If you have enough money then you must help a poor person. You get pleasure from generosity.
A hungry and poor man came to the door of the house to ask for food and it was considered a great sin to scold him and send him away. There are no blessings in the wealth of such a person and Goddess Lakshmi gets angry with him and goes away. It is said in the scriptures that whatever charity you do, you get it double. And not only you but many of your generations enjoy the fruits of your good deeds.

In today’s era, there is a competition between husband and wife as to who is the best. It happens in many homes that husbands do not give any respect to their wives. Women are Sri i.e. Lakshmi. Those who want wealth should respect those men who misbehave with their wives. They speak harsh words and beat them; Lakshmi does not stay in those houses for long. It is written in the Puranas that where Grihalakshmi i.e. the woman of the house is disrespected, Goddess Lakshmi does not remain there for long, that is, poverty does not take long to arrive there.

Drinking alcohol is a common thing in today’s era. But there is a limit to anything. If anything is excessive, it causes destruction. Alcohol and gambling have been considered the causes of destruction. An example of this is directly shown in Mahabharata. Chakravarti emperor Yudhishthir had to lose his kingdom due to gambling and in the end even his wife had to be put at stake. Yudhishthir had to wander from forest to forest with his brother and wife for years.

According to the scriptures, adultery is considered a great sin. There are many examples of this, from Bali to Ravana and from Ramayana to Mahabharata, in which even rich people became poor due to evil eyes on other women. Due to casting evil eye on Ahilya, even Indra, the king of gods, had to lose his kingdom and wander like a common man. Therefore always keep yourself within limits.

Serving the elders at home is the biggest service. It happens in many homes that the elders remain very sad. They are not given food, clothing and even a proper room to live. In such a situation his soul always remains sad. And when someone’s soul is sad then where will we get blessings from. There is never any blessings in such houses. People of such houses have to face a lot of problems.

Cow is considered to be the form of Lakshmi. One of the gems that came out of the churning of the ocean is the cow. If a person keeps cows in his house and does not take proper care of them, then poverty comes to that house.

A person should always be honest and should also teach honesty to his children. Lakshmi has no place in the life of a person who commits despicable acts like cheating others and embezzling others’ money. We should always consume our share only.
How to beat stress?

November 5th, 2023

Most of the times we stress without any reason. When the pressure is on, it’s easy to feel stressed, even if you’re well prepared and following your schedule. Thus, to begin with, you should start eliminating all the factors that cause unnecessary stress before it gets worse. The best way to deal with stress is not to defeat it but to approach it with a different perspective. Have to see from. View stress as a good thing that motivates you to study harder. Use this to your advantage and you will be able to perform better in your field. Too much stress and no stress at all are both bad for you. It is not the burden that breaks you, but the way you perceive it, your shortcomings.

Thus, healthy stress seen from a positive perspective is all that you need. Everyone struggles with stress. This is a disease related to our mind. Stress arises due to imbalance and lack of harmony between our mental state and external circumstances. Due to stress, many mental disorders arise in a person. He is always restless and unstable. Stress is like a conflict which creates instability in a person’s mind and emotions. A person suffering from stress is never able to concentrate on any work, which has a negative impact on his efficiency. Having a small amount of stress in normal routine is not a matter of concern because this much stress is necessary for normal personality development, but if it becomes a part of our emotional and physical life then it can prove to be dangerous.

There is no need to do much to relieve stress, you just have to spend time in a green place for a few minutes every day. Any green place can be a park. In this research on stress, it has been found that people who spend just a few minutes in the park, their mental stress level drops by several percent. If you try to find the reason behind your tension, you will find no solution. Some reason will definitely be found. People working are worried about work, parents are worried about their children’s education and children pursuing higher studies are worried about achieving something big. Try not to worry about every small and big thing. This will reduce your stress. It is a little difficult to always be happy but it is not impossible. Try to keep the environment around you calm and cheerful. By being happy, many of your problems will go away.

Always stay away from fights.
Our stress increases a lot during fights. In such a situation, try to avoid every reason due to which you fight. Also, try to think and understand calmly even during a fight. After doing some work, we feel very good. In such a situation, do whatever work makes you feel good. If you like, watch TV and relieve stress while also enjoying movies.

Try to enjoy what is going on in the present without thinking about what will happen next. This is considered the best way to relieve stress. Not every person gets everything in life. If you think that the other person is very happy, then it is absolutely wrong. Every unpleasant event that happens to you is already determined in your actions. No matter how hard you try, it will happen. Stress is like a surge in the sea which calms down after a few moments. You just need to understand whether you get swept away with the waves or the waves touch you and turn.

Stress is natural, but holding on to it is foolish. Just as we cannot hold on to happiness, similarly it is not necessary to hold on to stress. Whenever you are under stress due to any reason, think about it peacefully and find a solution. Don’t let stressful situations worsen. If there is any tension regarding family members, call a family problem-solving session. The solution should be found only by talking and not by taking tension. There is no person in today’s world who does not feel stressed. Having stress is a good thing, but it can be dangerous if it goes beyond limits. When this stress starts troubling us in our everyday life then only the problem arises. A person who is always stressed should consult someone for treatment. Remember that this is nothing to be ashamed of. This is not madness or any disease but it can happen to any person at any time. To reduce stress, Vaastu recommends using lavender color. If you are stressed then you should wear lavender colored clothes. This will give you peace and bring happiness in your life.