Redefinewisdom

  • Do you need luck or passion for success?

    December 20th, 2023

    Success plays an important role in everyone’s life, every man wants to be successful. While some people make every effort to achieve success, some people blame their fate, God and others for not being able to succeed. But in reality, some mistakes made by them and trust placed in others are responsible for their reality. It is impossible to achieve anything without efforts to be successful in life. Therefore, if you want to enjoy success, you will have to work hard for it. You cannot enjoy success just by relying on luck or God or by reciting prayers. For that, it is very important to put in your efforts and hard work. If we take the name of luck or consider luck responsible for our success, then it is definitely Luck is obviously not in our control. If we talk about faith, we cannot exercise our own will in this also. If we talk about God, then even in his matter we cannot forcefully demand anything from him.
    So what is left now, only effort remains in our hands.

    So to get success we have to put 100% of our efforts, whatever happens next will happen, we just have to keep trying, after trying once we should not sit disappointed if we do not get success but should try again. .We should not leave our energy and ability to fate, God and faith because if there is such a thing then it will definitely work on its own. All we have in our hands is to try, so we should just keep doing it. Our efforts should be effective, that is, it should be focused and measured. Only if you focus on success, you will be able to make possible efforts to achieve that goal. It is foolish to just keep trying. You will not achieve anything by just working hard, but right work, right time, right place, all these are important and for all these to happen, you need understanding i.e. knowledge and understanding.

    So all you have to do in your life is to constantly look for ways to enhance and enhance your awareness and intelligence, the rest will happen anyway. You just focus your attention on your goal and keep trying. Your efforts will take you to your destination and make you successful. Most of the people who rely only on faith, God and luck are usually among the most unhappy people in the world. This is because they have active intelligence but they are not able to see life properly. They do not know what to do to improve their life and achieve success, they just rely on faith, God and fate and curse them. But they are afraid to try and improve their understanding. People are just trying to expand their mind, even though it doesn’t matter that much. Expansion of mind will only make you socially successful but to be truly successful you will have to make efforts. Expansion of mind means just keeping thinking in mind that if we do this we will be successful, if we do this we will get success, if we do that we will get success.

    While this is not the case, if you truly want to be successful then you have to see everything as it is but without any distortion. That means no matter what the situation in life, one should never panic. Neither should you curse fate, you just need to keep trying continuously. If you learn to see everything in its true form, then life will become a game for you and you will be able to play it with full joy and well. If you play it well then people will consider you successful. If you learn to handle every situation of life well without getting nervous then you will definitely be successful in your life. Concentrate your entire attention on making yourself an intelligent and striving person and not on cursing or holding anyone responsible for your failure. You should never think that I have to be successful, just think about how you can make yourself a well-rounded person. Humans can make. The day you make yourself a fully developed person and increase your knowledge in every field, then one day people will definitely say that you are a successful person. Just as there is a technique for creating comforts and facilities in the outside world. Similarly, there is a science and technique to create happiness and joy within ourselves. That technique is to expand your intelligence and just try, without worrying about success. Because if your efforts are in the right direction and true then no one can stop you from being successful.

    The first principle of success is honesty. If you are not honest towards your work, you can never be serious towards your work. In such a situation you can never succeed. Even if such people earn money in wrong ways, it does not stay with them for long. Therefore, do your work with full dedication and honesty. Your destiny can also be changed with hard work. Therefore a person should not be afraid of hard work. People who are lazy always blame their failure on luck. But hardworking people have the passion to create their own destiny. No one can stop such people from being successful. If you have money, then you must invest it in noble causes. help people. Money invested in good work always grows faster. The luck of such people also shines. If hard work is also supported by luck, then a person progresses rapidly. It is said that listen to everyone, but do as per your heart. A person should take any decision with his discretion. One should not take it with any preconceived notion in mind or by getting influenced by someone’s words. “A person who knows how to take decisions wisely, often takes the right decisions in life and climbs the ladder of success quickly. Luck definitely belongs to the one who struggles continuously.” The strength you got from your courage and bravery. If you have it, attack your luck with it, then what is the point if you have to face failure in life. Therefore, let us embrace hard work rather than luck in our life. Undoubtedly, through this, success will kiss our feet.

  • Is money a hindrance to happiness?

    December 20th, 2023

    What resources does a person have? Time is a resource, intelligence is a resource, strength is a resource, knowledge is a resource, and similarly money is also a resource. So the one who is in chains and under arrest will have to use all his resources. He will say, “Whatever I have, I will use it for freedom, for liberation.” If knowledge is needed for liberation, then you need knowledge. If time is needed for liberation, then you need time; If strength, power is needed for liberation, then you will have to earn strength; And if you need money for salvation, then you also need money.

    Money is not unnecessary in spirituality, spirituality is not opposed to money. Spirituality says that money is neither good nor bad, freedom is good. So definitely earn as much money as you need for liberation, but do not earn even one rupee more than what is needed for liberation because if you earn even one rupee more than that, then the extra money you are earning will become your bondage. Money is a burden. Shouldn’t happen. If there is a burden on the mind, then money should be used to remove that burden. The unfortunate thing is that the one who is poor is burdened by the fact that he does not have money, and the one who becomes rich is burdened by the fact that he has more wealth, he has to protect it, it has to be increased, it has to be given to him. Have to give it to him. Both of these situations are wrong. If lack of money becomes the cause of restlessness, then it is also wrong, and if abundance of money becomes the cause of restlessness, then it is even more wrong. To the extent that money helps in cutting your bonds, is useful, money It is very necessary. And when money itself becomes a bondage, then money is not only unnecessary but dangerous. A man who is in bondage will use all his resources, all his strength to break his bonds. There can be such occasions in life when earning money and earning a lot of money can be a religion. And there are many such occasions and instances in life when earning money is a great crime. So money is neither good nor bad, it depends on what your mind is going to use the money for. A happy, joyful, free life is the most precious. If any thing helps in the direction of happiness, then definitely bring that thing, and if any thing hinders in the direction of happiness, then pick up that thing and throw it away. The main thing is not the thing, the main thing is life. And the meaning of life is not eating-drinking, sleeping-waking, breathing, life means being able to experience life in joy, in flight, openly.

    Well, money is not everything but money is a lot. Money is like salt, everyone needs it, but if it is in excess, it spoils the taste. We all make a goal in life and this goal is somehow related to money. We cannot buy everything with money, but there are many things in life which we cannot buy without money. This is a necessity of our life, for which it takes years of hard work. But it is wrong to lose the comfort and happiness of our life to earn money. It is very important to have money to live a happy life. Money is the only thing with which we can fulfill the needs of our life, there is a saying that love cannot be bought with money, it is also true that love and parents cannot be bought with money, but money and love can not be bought. Cannot be compared. Because we get love and have to earn money. We all know that to earn money we have to sacrifice something in life, but this does not mean that we have to sacrifice our share of happiness. Why do we earn? To find happiness and be happy. So should we remove this from our lives?

    Many things are necessary to be happy and prosperous in life, like health, relationships and money are also one of them, not everything. It is absolutely true that it is necessary to have money to be happy, but with this -Peace of mind is also equally important. Of course, we can buy the means to be happy with money, but along with that there should also be peace of mind. Life is made successful only when there is peace in the mind and peace in the mind happens only when there is money, but greed. This should not happen, because greed makes life unsuccessful. Greed destroys all happiness and peace in life, and what is the use of greed’s money in which there is no happiness and peace. One who needs money to win should try to earn as much money as he needs. If we want to do something big in life, then the need for money is also huge, our human body has been given to us as a means to attain God, this facility is not available in any other form. This opportunity is not available even to the gods. Then why misuse this body to earn money? When a person cannot buy even a moment of life by giving all the wealth in the world, then to what extent is it justified to spend his entire life for that wealth? Remember, three types of happiness have been described in the basic texts and scriptures of our way of life. First sensual pleasure: In this pleasure, physical and bodily pleasure which due to ignorance we consider to be the greatest pleasure. Second Brahmanand: When the living being begins to experience God, and third ecstasy: When the living being encounters God himself. The human body given to us is a means to attain God, the living being who does not make good use of this means sometimes blames time, sometimes his own actions or God in vain.

    Money is very important for a human being but as much as petrol in a car, neither less nor more. Just like air is necessary for us, water is necessary, similarly money is also very important but there are many things in front of which money has no value. No matter how much money a person has, he can never buy happiness with that money. No matter how much a person earns in his life, he cannot bring back his past with that money. If a person has a lot of money but does not have good health, then that money is of no use to him because what can you do without health. If there is no happiness in someone’s life then even if No matter how much money he has, it is of no use because there is nothing more important than happiness in this world.

    The relationship between money and happiness cannot be denied, but happiness cannot be bought with money alone. They believe that it is not possible to achieve complete satisfaction through money alone. Sources of joy and happiness may be different from money. This is something that separates you from materialistic pleasures and you live in constant joy. By helping others, being calm, and caring about others, you increase your happiness. This kind of happiness cannot be bought with money.

  • What is the scientific reason for celebrating makar Sankranti?

    December 20th, 2023

    The importance of Makar Sankranti is important from all three points of view, astrological, religious and scientific. On Makar Sankranti, Sun enters Capricorn. For religious reasons, worshiping the Sun on Makar Sankranti is considered to have special significance. At the same time, with the rise of the sun, the cold in the atmosphere starts reducing. For all these reasons the festival of Makar Sankranti is considered very important.

    The scientific reason for Makar Sankranti is that from this day, changes in nature begin as the Sun becomes Uttarayan. People who are shrinking due to cold start getting relief from winter due to the Uttarayan of the Sun. India is an agricultural country where festivals and festivals largely depend on agriculture. This day is considered to be the beginning of good days on earth because from this day the Sun starts moving from the South to the Northern Hemisphere. . This begins the day of the gods. According to religious beliefs, the doors of heaven open on the day of Makar Sankranti. Therefore, charity done on this day is more fruitful than charity done on other days.

    When the Sun enters from one zodiac sign to another, this event is called Sankranti in astrology. On the occasion of Makar Sankranti, the Sun enters Capricorn. The time between one Sankranti and another is called solar month. In the month of Paush, when the Sun turns Uttarayan and enters Capricorn, this occasion is celebrated as a different festival in different provinces of the country. The festival of Makar Sankranti is celebrated every year on 14 January in North India. During the Mahabharata period, Bhishma Pitamah had chosen Makar Sankranti to leave his body. It is said in Geeta that the person who sacrifices his body in Shukla Paksha of Uttarayan gets salvation. With Makar Sankranti, the Sun becomes Uttarayan, hence people celebrate this auspicious day with great enthusiasm. At the time of Makar Sankranti, evaporation takes place in the rivers. All types of diseases can be cured by this. Therefore, bathing in rivers on this day has special significance.

    At the time of Makar Sankranti, there is cold weather in North India. Medical science also says that consumption of sesame and jaggery in this season is beneficial for health. This provides energy to the body. This energy protects the body in winter. There is also a scientific reason for consuming Khichdi on this day. Khichdi keeps digestion healthy. When Khichdi is prepared by mixing ginger and peas, it increases the body’s immunity and helps in fighting bacteria. The Uttarayan position of the Sun has greater importance in both Puranas and science. When the Sun goes north, the day becomes longer and this increases the working capacity of a person. Human beings move towards progress. Due to increase in light, human power increases. From this day the nights become shorter and the days become longer. As the day becomes longer, there will be more sunlight and as the night becomes shorter, there will be less darkness. Therefore, the change in the Sun’s zodiac sign on Makar Sankranti is considered to be a movement from darkness to light.

    Generally, all the dates of the Indian calendar system are determined by considering the movement of the Moon as the basis, but Makar Sankranti is determined by the movement of the Sun. Makar Sankranti is the main festival of Hindus and it is celebrated all over India and in all the provinces of Nepal. It is not celebrated in any form. In North India, this festival is called ‘Makar Sakranti, in Punjab Lohri, in Garhwal as Khichdi Sankranti, in Gujarat as Uttarayan, in Tamil Nadu as Pongal, while in Karnataka, Kerala and Andhra Pradesh it is called only Sankranti. Generally, Sun affects all the zodiac signs, but the entry of Sun in Cancer and Capricorn is very important. This entry or transition process occurs at an interval of six months. It is well known that due to the Earth’s axis being tilted 23.5 degrees, the Sun is near the Northern Hemisphere of the Earth for six months and is near the Southern Hemisphere for the remaining six months. Before Makar Sankranti, the Sun is near the Southern Hemisphere, that is, relatively closer to the Northern Hemisphere. It is farther away due to which in the Northern Hemisphere the nights are longer and the days are shorter and there is winter season. But from Makar Sankranti the Sun starts moving towards the Northern Hemisphere. Therefore, from this day the nights start getting shorter and days longer in the Northern Hemisphere and the chill of winter starts reducing. Hence Makar Sankranti is the beginning of reduction of darkness and increase of light.

    Actually, all living beings (animals, birds and plants too) want light. The world moves from slumber to awakening. Due to more light, the consciousness and working power of living beings increases. Light is a symbol of knowledge and darkness is a symbol of ignorance. People of India express their gratitude towards Sun God by worshiping him on this day. It is worth noting that 90% of the world’s population resides in the Northern Hemisphere of the Earth, hence the festival of Makar Sankranti is important not only for India but also for almost all the countries. It is a day of joy for the entire human race. Among all the festivals in the entire world, Makar Sankranti is probably the only festival which is not related to any local tradition, belief, faith or any particular local event, but is an astronomical event, global geography and world It is based on the feeling of well-being and is going to give happiness to the entire humanity and 90% of the population of the Northern Hemisphere. It is said that in ancient India, above the equator i.e. the Northern Hemisphere was called the earth and below the equator i.e. the Southern Hemisphere was the underworld. was considered. Therefore, Makar Sankranti is such an astronomical event which brings new energy and joy to the entire earth. Makar Sankranti is a celebration not only of the nation of India but of the entire humanity. Although Makar Sankranti is a festival of joy for the entire humanity, it is celebrated only by the Hindu society because the sublime feeling of world brotherhood, world welfare and Sarve Bhavantu Sukhinah is the specialty of Indian culture only.

  • How to offer Laddu Gopal during menstruation?

    December 19th, 2023

    Many people in Hindu families keep Laddu Gopal at home and take care of him like a child and also worship him. Like all the members of the house, Laddu Gopal is a special member and like all the other members, he is also taken care of in everything. With every ritual, offerings are made to him and he is served and he is not left alone at any moment of the day. Most of the other things, including the care of Laddu Gopal, are done by women, but women do not go to the temple during their periods, whereas the question is how women serve Laddu Gopal during their periods. Although it is forbidden to do puja during periods, there must be many women among you who cannot give up Krishna puja or cannot live without worshiping Laddu Gopal.

    According to the information, women can chant mantra for Bal Gopal during their period. If you do not use rosary, then chant Bal Gopal 108 times with the help of fingers. Along with this, instead of food cooked in the kitchen, any prepared item from the market, like biscuits, bread or any other clean food item, should be offered to Bal-Gopal three times a day by any other member of the house. Bal-Gopal is the child of the house, you can neither leave him alone nor keep him without feeding him, hence if you have taken the service of Bal-Gopal in your house, then you can take care of him in these ways. You can serve them also during those days of the month. Therefore, after bathing, this woman can sit and worship at a short distance from the temple. Whereas to offer Laddu Gopal, take some soil and water in a plate and give it the shape of a child and then while chanting Krishna mantras, consider that shape as the form of Laddu Gopal. Then offer milk, flowers and fruits on the Laddu Gopal made of clay. Also offer butter to Gopal or Naval Krishna made of clay laddus and perform aarti. The posture used during menstruation should be different from the posture of worship. After that, dissolve the soil of the idol of Laddu Gopal in milk. Just take out the fruit from the plate or plate as Prasad.
    Mix the remaining soil, flowers, butter and milk.
    Then put that material in a flower plant. Finally, lift the asan, pay obeisance to Shri Krishna or Laddu Gopal. Keep the asan somewhere separate and use it again the next day.
    Women or girls can adopt this method every time during menstruation.

    With this, you will be able to worship Krishna happily while maintaining purity.
    Also, Laddu Gopal will be pleased with your devotion and you will also receive his blessings. Many women consider Laddu Gopal like their son. Such women cannot live without Laddu Gopal even during periods. So he should keep Laddu Gopal with him in his bed for four days. One should offer one’s food there. And when it becomes pure after 5 days, then bathe Laddu Gopal and make him sit in the temple. Doing this will bring peace to the minds of those women.

  • What is loneliness really?

    December 19th, 2023

    Loneliness is a human emotion. Even if there are many people around you, being alone can make you feel lonely. Whether you’re with family or friends, you can feel completely alone if you don’t feel a connection with these people or if no one understands you. Despite being surrounded by people, they feel completely alone. This usually happens when you do not feel connected to people. Events like shifting to a new place, losing someone close or ending a relationship, lead to loneliness in life, which leads to social isolation. There is also a reason. In some cases, there is a relationship between depression and loneliness. People with poor self-esteem may also have a tendency to feel lonely if they have trouble forming social relationships.

    Whatever the reason behind your feeling of loneliness, any kind of feeling can bother you for a long time. Therefore, it is important to understand it and it is also important to improve or change it. Look for a club or group near your house in which you are interested. By becoming a part of this place, you will know how many opportunities there are to interact with other people. You can be a part of groups like book club, community service, hiking club.
    If you put your heart into reading a book, you will get lost in it. It can make you feel more connected and help you understand how other people think. Books can broaden your horizons and make you feel a little less alone. There comes a time in everyone’s life when they feel alone.

    If you live alone somewhere away from your family and are busy with work, it is possible that you may not be able to talk to anyone for several days. It is natural to feel depressed while fighting life’s problems alone. But there is a very deep difference between sadness and loneliness. You may feel alone on many occasions. It is possible that you were not invited to a special party or your best friend forgot to invite you for lunch. In such a situation, it is normal to feel alone from time to time. However, for some people the feeling of loneliness bothers them a lot. When this loneliness continues for a few days, weeks or months, it can cause serious harm to your mental health. When the feeling of being alone and isolated from others persists for a long time, despite you In fact, you are surrounded by a lot of people around you, neither are you able to spend quality time nor are you able to find any way out of this situation. Every person can be happy in a particular relationship only when his feelings are respected. However, this does not happen in reality. Then there comes a time when a person starts feeling despair and extreme loneliness. As a result, the relationship not only becomes a burden but the person breaks down from within. Life becomes boring.

    Many times a person becomes so overwhelmed with loneliness and despair that he goes into depression. If these are not rectified at the right time, things get worse. Man’s loneliness begins to dominate. Which affects mental and physical health. There can be many reasons for loneliness and disappointment in a relationship. Being single and being alone are two different situations. Many times, despite being in a relationship with someone, you start feeling very lonely. These are alarming signs in any relationship. You have a problem of loneliness if you stay alone for a long time. But this problem is not so big that it cannot be dealt with. Believe me, it is very easy to solve this problem. The world can be changed just by changing perspective. Building confidence in yourself is the first step towards overcoming this problem. Man is a social creature. Living in society is both a need and a strength of man. But despite this, loneliness is not unusual. This can be easily overcome by increasing interaction with friends and people.

    We have often heard from our elders or experienced people that expecting too much from someone is a reason for unhappiness. This thing also fits in relationships. If you expect too much from someone, sometimes circumstances or situations are not there for him to fulfill them. It is true that everyone has high expectations from their partner. There is nothing wrong in this. But sometimes your partner is not able to complete it due to work commitments. Because of this people become victims of loneliness. Many times you can feel extremely happy and relieved by spending time alone. Certainly loneliness is a bad thing. But sometimes it also gives us a chance to connect with new people and make new friends.

    In loneliness we see old relationships in a new light. We try to improve them and fill them with new enthusiasm. This is a matter of thirst. Just like when you are thirsty, you look for water. In the same way, when you feel lonely, you look for friends, companions and acquaintances with whom you can spend quality time. Who can understand you. This means that sometimes loneliness gives us an opportunity to create new relationships and improve the old ones. Humans have been living like this for thousands of years as a society by building relationships with each other. This is humanity’s way of dealing with difficulties. Used to be. It also helps us deal with loneliness. So whenever you are alone, do not consider yourself less than anyone. Always think that God has given you a chance to understand yourself and also understand others. In the race of life, you have accepted so many false relationships as your own. This is the chance when you can take decisions about them. And I say that this opportunity should come in the life of every person. So just like we throw away old clothes while cleaning the wardrobe, similarly our mind should also be cleaned.

  • Why should we be content?

    December 18th, 2023

    People who are not satisfied with their life, their mind always remains disturbed. In such a situation, mental stress increases and the person is unable to take right decisions. The result is that the problems increase further. If we want happiness and peace in life, we first have to bring a feeling of satisfaction.

    A folk story is also popular in this regard. The essence of the story is that we should remain content and happy in every situation. In a village, a poor man used to worship God all day long, but he was not satisfied with his life. He was sad for the things he did not have. One day a learned saint arrived in his village. That poor man also came to meet the saint and told him all his problems. The saint told a mantra to that poor man and asked him to chant this mantra daily. The poor man started chanting the mantra as per the method suggested by the saint. After a few days, God became pleased with his devotion and appeared before him. God told the devotee that we are pleased with your devotion, ask for a boon, all your wishes will be fulfilled. The poor man was surprised to see God. He could not understand what to ask for in a groom. He told God that right now I am not able to understand anything, please appear again tomorrow. God said ok and he disappeared.

    Now the poor man became very worried. He thought that I don’t have a house to live in, I will ask for a house. After some time he thought that he should ask for a lot of land and property. After some time I thought that I should ask for a boon to become the king of some state. He could not sleep the whole night because of such thoughts. Morning came, but the poor man could not decide what he should ask for as a bride. God appeared before him again. The devotee said that God should give me only this boon that my mind remains engaged in your devotion. I want to be satisfied in every situation. God said that you can also ask for wealth from yourself. The poor man said, Lord, I don’t have anything right now, but the mere sign of money coming made me lose my sleep. Mental tension started increasing. I do not want such money, which will destroy my happiness and peace. God was pleased and said, it will be as you wish. The moral of this story is that those who want happiness and peace should always remain satisfied. If there is dissatisfaction then there will be unrest and we can never be happy. The increasing speed of the brain has slowed down the speed of the mind due to which the speed of the body is also getting blocked.

    We are baking the bread of resentment on the pan of lies and eating it impatiently on the plate of competition.
    We are eating ignorance, drinking fear, wearing injustice, wearing dissatisfaction, so it is important to give new, fresh, energetic food to our mind. Come, let us keep prudence in the cup of truth, mix faith and trust in it. Heat the enthusiasm in the cauldron of respect, add all the things and stir with the spoon of thoughts. Cool it in a cup of patience, garnish it with satisfaction and serve it with gratitude. The mind needs fresh food. We are eating ignorance, drinking fear, wearing injustice, wearing dissatisfaction. Every moment is in search of something more, just something more.

    bring out good qualities in yourself
    It is said that human nature consists of three qualities – Satya, Raja and Tama. Devotion, respect, truthfulness are reflected in Satva Guna, anger, hatred, excessive ambition are signs of Raja and laziness, frustration refer to Tama. Satva guna means happiness, Raja guna means sorrow, Tama guna means attachment. By working according to one’s nature, there is no hesitation or turmoil in the mind and body. By going against our nature, our mind gets extinguished and our health gets affected knowingly or unknowingly.

    Man thinks that birds fly in the air, so why shouldn’t I also fly? Fish swim in water, so why shouldn’t I make a submarine and go into the water? He wants to become human and compete with birds and even fish. Every moment one is busy searching for something else, something else. Satisfaction gives us happiness, gives us strength to live, gives us courage to accept circumstances. We do not compromise but remain satisfied. The disciples of a Sufi fakir had planted a big garden near his hut. He put a board on the garden saying, ‘I want to gift this garden to anyone who is completely satisfied.’ His disciple spread this news all around. Many people came, but returned empty handed. This news also reached the emperor. He thought, ‘You have returned others, okay what will you return to me? What do I lack, I am satisfied, I have everything I need.’ He went to the fakir and said, ‘I am completely satisfied. Give me this garden.’ The fakir laughed and said, ‘If you were completely satisfied, why would you come here? This garden is for the one who will not come here, I will go to him myself.

    People who are dissatisfied are always restless, we should be satisfied with the amount of money and comforts we have, this is the formula for a happy life. People who are satisfied with their things are always happy. If a person is attracted towards the things of others and does not give importance to his own comforts and is always dissatisfied, then he can never be happy. No matter how much money we acquire, no matter how much knowledge we acquire. Even if we conquer the whole world, some desires of the mind still remain. Our mind is not made to be filled with these things.
    Unless the feeling of devotion comes to our mind, it remains empty. That is why one should not run towards these worldly things. Our desires are infinite, they will never be fulfilled. That is why we should be happy in the situation we are in. This is the formula for a happy life. Be content and concentrate on God.

  • Is it easy to be happy?

    December 18th, 2023

    In today’s times people say that it is very difficult to be happy. But if we do not think too much about this thing then it is very easy to be happy. Every person has some characteristics. Make your characteristics the beauty of your mind. Only some of our characteristics can give us strong beauty in our mind. Concentration fills the mind with energy. The coconut tree is taller than other trees because the coconut tree is more concentrated. It keeps moving in one direction, whereas other trees are ready to spread in any direction. Wherever they get an opportunity, they start moving there, whereas the coconut tree does not let its concentration get disturbed. Humility is the characteristic that enhances the beauty of the mind and protects us from ego. The poison of ego poisons the mind as well as the body.

    There was a king He made a big beautiful garden. In it he planted the trees of truth, love, honesty and truthfulness, devotion, knowledge etc. The king himself took care of these plants. Would give them fertilizer and water. The plants started growing. Flowers bloomed on them. Those flowers had such a fragrance that the entire city and state were filled with fragrance. The king started being praised everywhere. He started cheering. Due to this the king started feeling arrogant. Within a few days, the king saw that a small plant had grown on its own. What could be the value of that plant among the big plants? The king did not pay attention to that. When that plant started growing rapidly, the king did not try to uproot it, thought, there is no problem. Let it lie there. A few days passed and it took the form of a tree. Flowers bloomed on it. The flowers were so beautiful that whoever saw them would keep looking at them, but they had such a terrible smell that it was difficult for people to tolerate. They would hold their nose. The king was surprised as to which tree is this whose flowers are so beautiful but whose smell is so unbearable. He asked many people, but no one could tell. One day a sage came to the king’s house. The king showed him that tree and asked what kind of tree was it? The sage looked at it, then laughed and said, ‘King, this is the poisonous tree of ego.’ There is no need to apply it. It sprouts on its own and grows rapidly. Its flowers are very attractive, but their smell is so strong that it makes other flowers mix with the soil. Whatever does not survive, its condition is similar to that of your garden. Ego is a small worm that eats even the biggest creatures.

    Man keeps wandering here and there to find happiness, whereas happiness lies within him. To be happy, it is important that we remove dull colors from our life and fill it with bright colors. Success and failure are part of our life. Therefore, a person should neither be too proud when he gets success nor should he be disappointed when he gets failure. In both the situations man should remain normal. To be happy, it is most important that we should remove negative thoughts and keep positive thoughts with us. Positive thoughts give us energy and with this we can deal with our problems. When we don’t have problems we will always be happy. There is no direct relationship between our happiness and our achievements. That means it doesn’t matter what or where you are. Only through our thinking can we feel happiness. If the thinking is negative, then even a king living in the splendor of a palace will consider himself unhappy, whereas with positive thinking, even a laborer living in a hut will consider himself no less than a king. By making a little change in your behavior you can achieve many happiness.

    There was a close friendship between a gardener and a goldsmith. The gardener used to work hard day and night to grow fragrant flowers in his garden and produce different types of fragrances. Was proud of his garden. It is human nature that we desire to show our venture to our relatives and friends and earn their praise and get happiness by satisfying our ego. So the gardener asked his friend the goldsmith, do you keep knocking while sitting in your shop? Come to my garden one day. If you experience different types of fragrances, your health will improve. everyone has their own qualities
    The goldsmith said, “My friend, I will definitely come.” One day he reached the garden. He had a gold measuring stick in his hand. He would look at each flower carefully and then turn towards another plant with a frown. The goldsmith did not enjoy the garden. The gardener also did not like it. He wondered which madman I had invited. After this the goldsmith invited the gardener to come to his shop. The gardener accepted the feast. He reached his friend’s goldsmith’s shop. He would pick up each piece of jewelery and smell it and then put it away in disappointment. Probably he was searching for fragrance in gold also. He too was as disappointed as the goldsmith was in the garden.So try to be happy with whatever you have

    Most people, despite knowing this, remain unaware of it. Our happiness is directly related to satisfaction and contentment and it is our inner attitude that makes us feel the true feeling of happiness. Some people keep thinking that if they get a particular thing, their life will be filled with happiness, but even when they get that thing, they are not happy.
    In fact, such a person can never be happy, who is not satisfied with his present and always searches for his happiness in the future. At present they wish for one, in the future they wish for two-four. That’s why they are never able to feel happy. Who does not want progress or success, but only that person remains happy in his life, who is proud of his small successes. A person who finds his present success smaller than the success he has achieved in the past and wishes for greater success in the future. He is never satisfied with his work. Therefore he is always deprived of happiness.

  • Do we have to bear each other’s sins in relationships?

    December 18th, 2023

    People think that suffering comes as a result of sin or because of divine anger, but this is not completely true. Sin is also a reason for suffering. This is right, but it is not right that all sorrows come due to sins. Many times it happens that a person becomes unhappy because of his destiny. Prarabdha includes all those deeds by which we have caused pain to someone in our previous birth. The second reason is action. These are the reasons whose consequences a person often has to suffer simultaneously or in this very birth. The third and most important reason for this is that when God has to take pity on any living being and take him under His shelter and take him on the path of welfare, then to free him from the bondage of life and bad tendencies, such painful opportunities are created, whose stumbling blocks are After eating, man should understand his mistake and become his true devotee.

    Even bad people are unhappy; the same things happen to them that happen to good people. Good people may appear sad on the outside but are strong from within. Bear sorrows with patience. Do not panic all at once. The consequences of wrongdoing done in this world do not happen at the same time, just as by serving a cow one does not get milk immediately, but one has to wait for it to be ready to give milk. Then gradually, by surrounding the doer, his misdeeds cut off his very roots, that is, destroy his happiness. The consequences of wrongdoing are also not immediate, but gradually it stops the happiness of the wrongdoer and cuts off the roots of happiness. After this, only the unrighteous person suffers sorrow. That is, the work done by the doer never goes unfruitful. If that fruit is not obtained in him, then it is obtained in his sons, that is, in his children, or in his grandsons and their children too. But it can never happen that the work done by the doer becomes fruitless. If not completely, then at least to a small extent, sometimes the family experiences so much pain that they become ready to die together by making a suicide pact. In another way also we suffer from our children, when they are useless. In this, the child does not suffer any problem, but we suffer a lot.

    The meaning of suffering the consequences of karma in sons and grandchildren is that sometimes our children are handicapped, or mentally underdeveloped, or suffer from some weakness or sorrow. Their suffering is caused by their actions. However, their association with us makes us partakers of their sorrow. In fact, the results of our own actions are appearing before us in the form of their parts. Similarly, when they do not utilize their qualities properly, that sorrow is also the result of our bad deeds, which they are receiving. Man should not think that the story has ended here due to his unrighteous destiny. The sorrows of his family members can also engulf him, and thus he and his family can be destroyed. The fates of family members are interconnected. Even in the world we see that when a father is accused, a little dirt is also put on the son, and when a daughter is insulted, the mother is also accused. Similarly, they also share their joy and pain. So, while the action of one person is reflected back to him and not to others, yet that result also arises in the form of parts of his family members. Sometimes this form of result is even more painful.

    The allure of worldly attachment, affection and lust is so tempting that it cannot be forsaken by mere desire. A faint thought comes that a thing like life should be used for some good work, but in the next moment such tempting circumstances come to the fore due to which that thought gets blurred and the person comes back to where he was. . To come out of this kind of mud, God shakes his devotee with great force to wake up the sleeping person. This shock itself seems like sorrow to us. Heart-wrenching events like serious illness, death of loved ones, insult or betrayal by trusted friends occur so that a person gets shaken by their tremendous blow and becomes alert and gives up his attachment to this world. God gives trouble to His devotees so that they can understand who are His true devotees.

    Even though one does not invite sorrows, sorrows still come uninvited. Before attaining God, every living being suffers from the disorders of Maya like Panchaklesha, Tritapa etc. These sorrows come due to many reasons. In Sanskrit these sorrows are also called klesha. Devotion burns away these troubles. Devotion begins with devotion. The moment one starts doing devotion with devotion, devotion starts destroying the sufferings and this process ends with God-realization. In each of our previous human births, we had performed kriyaman karmas, the results of which were accumulated. Remain accumulated in the form of karma. Some of those accumulated karmas are destined to be enjoyed by the Lord in the present birth. This is called Prarabdha Karma. As a result of past sinful actions, the soul is born in a family where sinful actions are prevalent, hence, from childhood itself, it sees and performs those sinful actions, which leads to greater suffering in the future. Thus it becomes a vicious cycle.

    Sadna was born in a butcher family, hence he did not hesitate at all in killing animals. Meat was his main diet. One day, fortunately, this divine voice of a saint came to his ears, that “To attain eternal happiness, before eating food, first offer it to Shri Krishna and only then take the prasad.” This thing touched his heart and from that very day he started offering bhog. Since he did not know any other food other than meat, he used to offer meat to Shri Krishna every day. But God does not offer food items. Their food is love and only love. He accepts only that which is filled with love in the food offered. So Shri Krishna was moved by Sadna’s sincere devotion and love. This proves that due to his destiny he was born in an environment where violence against helpless animals was a daily occurrence. But Sadna’s devotion cut him off the troubles caused by destiny and made him reach the category of a God-realized saint. Sins committed due to personal interest are sins born out of destiny. As if the living being had committed such sins in his previous birth due to which he was born in a lower caste. But due to falling into bad company in this birth, he may develop a tendency to commit sinful acts. One does not have to suffer the punishment for such sins in this life, they will have to bear the consequences in many future lives. Devotion also destroys these sins. Just as the germination power of a seed gets lost after being roasted in the fire, in the same way the ability of the mind purified by devotion to form material desires also ends. That is, devotion destroys forever the tendencies of the “lust-filled mind”, the seed of sin. Devotion to God is the only thing that frees us from all sins. Everyone has to suffer sins but if we can do devotion then maybe some work can be done.

  • Should we always keep asking from God?

    December 18th, 2023

    One should not ask from God and if one has to ask, one should know how to ask. We should consider God as God. He knows what is in our hearts. We should pray only those prayers which are true and come from the heart. To achieve any goal in life, trust God that your hard work will not go waste. By the grace of God you will achieve everything that you desire and want to achieve. In the Bhagavad Gita, Lord Krishna explains to us that our value does not come from any external thing, reason or condition. We are precious to God just as we are. Therefore, we too should not value ourselves on the basis of any external object, situation or person. Think, how many times we concentrate our entire mind on a promotion at a job or on a relationship. Our desire becomes so strong that we start feeling that only when we get that thing, we will be successful. In this way, there is no difference between us and our desires or our goals. Lord Shri Krishna explains to us that this is wrong, because it is inevitable that many desires and goals come in the mind of a human being. But there is no human being whose all desires are fulfilled. Remember, even Lord Krishna could not fulfill all his desires in human life. He too had to leave Gokul and Yashoda Maiya and go to Mathura. If he does not differentiate between his desire and his existence in this spontaneous act, then he would not be able to take important decisions of life. The same thing applies equally to us humans. If the desire is not fulfilled or the goal is not achieved, it does not mean that we are unsuccessful or that we do not have the ability.

    It just means that what we want may not be right for us at this time. When we lower our mind for any external thing and feel sad on not getting it, then we should understand that by doing so we are insulting God in a way, because we believe that getting that thing or achievement will We are valued. This idea itself is wrong, because God has created us all and whatever way He has created us, He must have created us after thinking something. Whatever we do has His will in it and by doing it well and with all our heart, we are fulfilling His thought. Always believe that if the wish is fulfilled then it is good and if it is not fulfilled then it is good. Also good, because there is God’s play in it somewhere. Therefore, we should not be sad leaving everything at the dignity of God’s play. He will never wish bad for you. This does not mean that you are not ambitious or do not wish to move forward in life. Not at all like that. What God has said means that we must make whatever efforts we can to move forward. But we should not blame ourselves when the results of our efforts do not turn out as we want. Whatever result comes, it is influenced by different people and circumstances. We have no control over them.

    If we talk about relationships, the person we love does not necessarily have the same feelings for us. What can you do in this thing? Therefore, do whatever feels right to you and have the firm belief that whatever happens, will be for the good. There is no other way, when God himself is with you. Say to God, O Lord, I ask that my desire to ask should end. O Lord, give me trouble again and again so that I remember you. O Lord, I would like ten thousand Give me your ear so that I can enjoy your sacred praises as much as possible. Often people pray to God, O God, please give me wealth or happiness or I may have a child etc. I think God will fulfill our wish or He would be laughing at this demand, saying that even after giving the best thing in the world i.e. brain and hands, feet, body, resources etc. to do things, man still did not leave his habit of inaction. It is said that whatever we ask for after going to God’s temple gets fulfilled, then why is this demand not fulfilled. By creating man, God has not made him a toy but has given a mind which if used properly, man can do many great things, can find satisfaction and can achieve everything which is available to many people. But many people do not work honestly or even if they do, they keep doing something wrong knowingly or unknowingly. There is nothing impossible if you work with discretion, keep gaining proficiency in your hobby or work, and keep working honestly. In my opinion, I should ask this from God: O Lord, if I am on the right path, if my mind starts wandering, then I should have my companions with me to help me walk on the right path. If I start lacking patience, please give me the strength to be patient. If all this is possible, then believe me, your life will be a good life and if the spirit of charity is also attached to it, then it will be blessed.

    I believe that living life is very simple. Difficulty is caused by our inaction, crookedness or doing work without thinking and understanding. Therefore, first of all learn to be simple and learn to have kindness in your heart. Keep improving yourself continuously and learn to live life normally in every situation. Even if there is any problem, then learn to live comfortably in that situation because even in that situation you cannot achieve anything by being sad or crying. But by living with simplicity and normality, we can definitely find God.

  • What is the scientific reason for no auspicious work happening in Mal month?

    December 18th, 2023

    There is a belief that has been going on since ancient times that in Malmas, God leaves his temple and goes somewhere else. Due to which people stop worshiping in Malmas. Sun God keeps changing his zodiac sign almost every month but Malmas is the month in which the Sun’s zodiac sign does not change. For this reason it is called Maalin month or Malmas. During this time, no auspicious activities like marriage, Upanayana Sanskar, Mundan and buying new clothes and jewelery are done. During this month, all the devotees get absorbed in the worship of Lord Vishnu. This month has great importance. In this, by worshiping God the pending work gets completed. There are more months in it, hence it is called Malmas. This month is about changing oneself. It is meant to be molded into devotion. Doing auspicious work in this month leads to untoward things. In this month, marriage, construction of a new house, repair of an old house, or any other auspicious work should not be done with the sacred thread. This can cause bad things to happen to you.

    Adhik maas is a month which occurs randomly between any two months. It is not fixed. It occurs once in every three years approximately. This month is special and marked with high importance of praying Shri Vishnu.This 13th extra month is called as Adhik Maas. Adhik maas is added to the calendar when the Amavasya and Surya Chalan ( Sankranti) coincides. This month adopts the name of month which follows.

    As soon as Malamas occurs, things like honey, amaranth, mustard, onion, garlic, urad, cabbage, carrot, radish, lentils and nagarmotha etc. should not be consumed. It is believed that consumption of these things is not only harmful for health. Rather, your good deeds also come to an end due to this. Stay away from bad deeds and bad thoughts in Malamas. Do not bring bad thoughts in your mind for anyone. Remember God as much as possible at this time. Malmas is considered important in Hindu religion. But this time is not favorable for auspicious works.
    The month of Malmas is dedicated to the worship of Lord Vishnu and Tulsi is very dear to Lord Vishnu. Worship of Lord Vishnu is considered incomplete without Tulsi. Therefore, do not make any mistakes related to Tulsi in Malmas. Malmas is considered very special for worship and fasting. Therefore, one should avoid sensual food this month. Do not consume things like garlic, onion, meat, fish, alcohol in Malamas. The time of Malmas is not considered appropriate for auspicious work. Therefore, do not start any new work or new business at this time. This may cause harm. Also avoid making any big investment in Malamas. Do not sleep till late morning in Malamas. Rather, wake up early in the morning and do the puja first after taking bath. During Malamas, one should sleep on the ground instead of bed. Donating in Malamas is considered very auspicious. Through this one receives God’s blessings. At this time you can donate food, banana, yellow clothes, book, coconut and lamp.

    In Malmas you can do puja, fast etc. But one should not start any new fast at this time nor should one observe any fast. But you can do whatever you are doing by observing fast. Malmas is the month of Lord Vishnu. During this period, worship Lord Hari and chant his mantras daily. During this time, performing Havan in the name of Lord Hari is considered very auspicious. Although no auspicious work is done in Malmas, you can worship Lord Vishnu and Mother Lakshmi. By reciting Shrimad Bhagwat Katha during Malmas one attains salvation. This spreads positive energy in the house and brings happiness.
    Along with worshiping Lord Vishnu, chanting Vishnu Sahastranam during Malmas is also considered very auspicious. Also, during this month, mix milk in water and offer Arghya to Tulsi Mata every day. By doing this all the wishes of the person are fulfilled. During this entire month, after worshiping Lord Vishnu and Mother Tulsi, apply a tilak made of Tulsi soil. Tulsi is very dear to Lord Vishnu and without Tulsi the worship of Lord Vishnu is considered incomplete. Applying Tulsi soil tilak daily opens the way to wealth. According to astrology, Malmas is considered auspicious for worship. The results of worshiping Sun God during this entire month have been described. During the entire month of Mal month, Arghya should be offered to the Sun God in a copper vessel. Surya Path and chanting mantras of Surya should be done. Do not consume tamasic food during the month of Mal. Alcohol etc. should also not be consumed. One should not drink water kept in copper vessels.

    Guru Dev Jupiter is the lord of Sagittarius. The entry of Jupiter in its own zodiac sign is not good for humans. When this happens, the Sun becomes weak in the horoscope of people. Due to Sun being weak in this zodiac sign, it is called Malmas. According to the mythology, Lord Suryadev revolves around the universe riding on his chariot of seven horses. Suryadev is not allowed to stop anywhere, but the horses attached to the chariot get tired due to continuous running and no rest. Seeing such condition of the horses, Sun God’s heart was moved, after which he took the horses to the bank of the pond. They realized that if the chariot stopped, disaster would happen. Then Suryadev left the horses there to drink water and rest. He added donkeys to the chariot. The donkeys had to work hard to pull the chariot of the Sun God. During this time the speed of the chariot slows down. Sun God completes the cycle in one month. Meanwhile the horses also took rest. After this the Sun’s chariot again returns to its speed. In this way this sequence continues every year.

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