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Are ants our teachers?

February 5th, 2024

We consider ants to be very insignificant and small animals, but ants are very hardworking and united creatures. Being a collective creature, ants do all the work by dividing them. Ants are called small teachers because they teach us hard work, sense of duty, discipline, cleanliness and taking care of our children. We learn something or the other from ants every day. Are. There are countless things around us from which we learn something or the other, like the ant teaches us to never give up. It is said in the scriptures that the one from whom we learn something is our Guru.

Is such a small ant a scientist?

Scientists have revealed many secrets about ants. Ants communicate with each other, they build cities and know how to make proper storage arrangements. Ants are much better than our engineers. The network of ants is much better than other networks in the world. Together, they have the ability to cut a mountain. Ants make an important contribution in keeping the city clean. Ants can lift 100 times their own weight. Humans need to learn a lot from ants. Even though ants are small, their impact on the environment is huge. They accomplish incredibly complex tasks through mutual cooperation. Ants find their way to Earth according to the Sun, which is billions of kilometers away. They can reach home comfortably even by walking backwards. Even science has been surprised by this small ant. When scientists did research on ants’ sense of direction, many shocking information came to light. For example, ants always take the help of compass route. If you place an ant in any direction, it will find a way. To put it in simple language, imagine that you reach your home even while walking upside down or going round and round. Ants can do this. According to scientists, the ant’s brain, which is smaller than the tip of a needle, is very effective. He always finds the right path with the help of light, environment and memory. The truth is that ants are incredibly strong. Some species of ants build houses underground, which have many rooms and separate tunnels to connect those rooms. To make these tunnels, ants dig a lot of soil out of the ground. Ants are engineers of our ecosystem, which means that they build their homes and also make changes in it.

How do ants help the environment?

Her residence is like a three-dimensional fort, which she usually builds underground. Soil and good soil health are both essential for crop production. Ants have a special role in this. These make soils somewhat more fertile than earthworms. Apart from these, they take part in decomposition and also disperse the seeds of plants. Many species of plants depend entirely on ants to spread their seeds. A world without ants wouldn’t be a very nice place to live.

Are ants also auspicious or inauspicious for us?

There are two types of ants: red ants and black ants. According to the scriptures, red ants are considered auspicious and black ants are considered inauspicious. The tradition of feeding flour to both types of ants exists since ancient times. By giving food to thousands of ants every day, those ants recognize the person and start having good feelings towards him and start giving him blessings. The effect of the blessings of ants can save you from every trouble. If you are troubled by debt, then give sugar and flour to the ants. By doing this the loan gets extinguished quickly.
One who gives flour to ants every day goes to Vaikuntha Dham.
If you see red ants with eggs in their mouth, it is also considered auspicious and happiness and prosperity increases in the family. Black ants are considered a symbol of prosperity. According to the scriptures, when ants come out of a vessel filled with rice, it is considered auspicious. This is a sign of increase in wealth.
ideal day of my life

February 5th, 2024

Describe your most ideal day from beginning to end.

There is a day in the life of all of us which we always remember and cherish as the happiest day of our life. It could be when we get first rank in the class or win a competition in school or anything else. The happiest day of life can be different for different people.

My parents celebrate their anniversary every year on 22nd June. This time it was different as they were going to celebrate their silver jubilee. I belong to a family where parents hardly give any importance to their birthdays/anniversaries but never miss an opportunity to celebrate any golden moment of their children. So, I, along with my elder sister and cousins, planned to throw a complete surprise party for my parents on their silver jubilee.

The challenge for me and my cousins was to convince our grandparents and uncles and aunts to allow us to have the party and at the same time keep it a complete secret from our parents. After requesting for two-three days, we got permission and we started preparations for ten days. All through these ten days we constantly kept an eye on all our elders so that they did not say a single word to our parents about the anniversary party.

Finally the most awaited date arrived, and at exactly 12:00 we wished our parents and gave them new mobile phones. In the morning we played Kirtan and then everyone returned to their daily routine.

In the afternoon my sister called my parents to get ready for her friend’s engagement ceremony, and said that he was forcing her to come with the family. My innocent parents believed it and agreed to go. After an hour we left, and my brother said we had to go to the market to get a gift for our friend. Actually it was a plan to waste an hour in the market so that all the guests could reach the venue before our parents entered.

I, my sister and our parents reached the venue, and when we opened the hotel entrance, they were completely surprised to see our entire family/relatives there. Everyone was congratulating in unison, “Happy 25th Marriage Anniversary, Happy Silver Jubilee. The faces of my parents were worth seeing at that time. I had never seen them so happy till date.

My parents’ reaction was priceless. His happiness at that moment cannot be expressed in words, and I could see tears of immense joy in his eyes. They exchanged their rings and we had many golden moments that evening. In the end we were successful in throwing them a complete surprise party. They looked exactly like a newly married couple. Thank God for his grace and blessings. I always pray to God that he may always bless us to be the reason for the happiness of our parents. Which gave us a chance to see this beautiful world. Who brought us up with so much pampering and gave us happiness by strangulating our happiness. Who become restless in every small problem of ours. If we can earn a little happiness for such parents, then it is the greatest good fortune for us. And it should be the duty of every child not to let tears come to his parents’ eyes because of him.
How can a disciple become a guru?

February 4th, 2024

‘Guru’ has been glorified a lot in Sanatan Dharmashastras. The position of Guru is considered greater than God. Therefore, the followers of Vedanta religion, whom people of the world call Hindus these days, give great importance to the Guru-disciple tradition. Because of this belief of ours, some people have monopolized this position. A child born in the house of a Guru is born a Guru by birth. The extent of misuse of religion and Gurupada that is taking place in this era has never happened before. There has been a kind of flood of gurus. In this era, the Guru-disciple relationship is completely based on economic basis. No one can fully describe the glory of a Guru. The glory of Guru is greater than that of God. But that glory is of truth, not of arrogance and hypocrisy. It is very important to have a good Guru for guidance in any field. This same formula applies in the field of spirituality also. ‘Spirituality’ is a subtle-level subject, that is, beyond the understanding of the intellect. Therefore, it is impossible to identify with certainty who is a spiritually advanced guide or guru. A Guru is completely different from a teacher or a preacher. The only conclusion that emerges from the above is that only the one who has the power to unite with Govind has the right to be called ‘Guru’, the one who cannot do this, at least does not have the right to be called ‘Guru’, the rest is something else. Can also be made.

Guru is a post. To reach this point several things are required. Just as physical knowledge is required for positions in the material world, similarly spiritual knowledge is required to reach this position, because this position is spiritual. Just as iron develops magnetic attraction after going through various processes, in the same way a man, after going through deep spiritual worship, goes to the refuge of his saint, Sadguru. If the Guru considers a disciple ‘worthy’, then He transfers his power to the disciple who has completely surrendered. In this way, he becomes entitled to the post of Guru, but he does not get that post as long as his Guru Pancha remains in the physical body. As soon as the Guru’s body becomes calm, all those spiritual powers enter the body of the disciple. Only the Guru has the knowledge of all these activities.

The disciple in whom Shaktipat is imparted remains ignorant while being with the Guru. As soon as the Guru’s body becomes calm, all the powers enter into him and start showing their influence in the physical world, then gradually he starts feeling it. In this way, the one who attains the position of Guru by the grace of God and the blessings of Guru due to the influence of Karma of many births is the true spiritual Guru. Just as one attains a material position after attaining special qualifications as per the results of one’s karma, in the same way one attains the position of a spiritual guru. The time of physical post is fixed but the Guru post of spiritual world is received for whole life.
The Guru was living with many of his disciples in an ashram. All the disciples respected their Guru and followed his every order. After many days had passed, one day a disciple said to his Guru – Guruji, I want to become a Guru like you, I also want to have many disciples and get the same respect as you. This is what the disciple said: Hearing the wish, Gurudev smiled and said that to achieve this goal you will have to work hard for many years and wait for the right time. After hard practice, your wish can be fulfilled with your ability.
The disciple said why do I have to wait so long? Why can’t I give knowledge to the disciples today itself? After this the Guru asked his disciple to get down from the throne and stand. The Guru himself stood on the throne. After this, the Guru asked the disciple to take me to the upper throne. Hearing this, the disciple started thinking how can this be possible? The disciple said to the Guru, Guruji, if I myself am standing below, how can I take you up? For this, I will also have to come up. After this, the Guru smiled and said that in the same way, if you want to raise any of your disciples, then your own level should also be high. From these words of the Guru, the disciple understood that He will have to wait until the right time comes with his sadhana.
Events teach the art of living life

February 4th, 2024

How do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life?

Life changing events look different for different people. An important event in my life was when I topped my exams for the first time. This incident gave me confidence and motivated me to progress even further in my studies. This incident created a feeling of happiness and pride in my family and among my friends. This incident proved to me that anything is possible with hard work and dedication. That day I learned that if you dream and work hard to fulfill those dreams, then dreams come true. That day I was a direct proof of this. From that day onwards I got a new energy to pursue further education and live life. There are some moments in everyone’s life which are very special for them. We should remember those moments and also learn from those moments. These special moments of our life are sources of happiness in our life. These moments have great importance in our lives. I hope that everyone in this world would not have thought that an unusual day will become the most memorable day of their life. This is such a moment of our life which remains with us in our memories as long as we are alive. It can be in the form of a good or bad memory. Whenever something good happens to us, it makes our way of life absolutely good. And if something bad happens to us then our perspective of living changes.

If it is in the form of a good and happy memory of life then we want it to remain with us throughout our life, and if it is in the form of a sad moment then we never want it to remain with us. In both such cases, the event becomes an unforgettable event for us. Nature made only those provisions for us which were appropriate for us. Whatever he has done till date, he has done it only for our welfare and welfare. In reality, we neither have any control over this life nor over our certain death. Nature itself has kept the control of when, where, how and under what conditions and circumstances someone will be born and will end and be destroyed. We have no control over the shape, type and color of our body. Whatever we have got is the best in every way, only by accepting this truth we have to perform our duties and fulfill our responsibilities fully. When the mind is weak, circumstances become a problem. When the mind is still, situations become challenges. But when the mind is strong, circumstances become opportunities. It is clear that the circumstances are the same, but their nature and their impact on us varies according to the state of our mind and brain. Therefore, the truth is that the direction and condition of our own life completely depends on our own state of mind. Always keep your mind and brain under your control. Stay positive, abandon negative behavior. Your circumstances will automatically come under your control.

If bad times do not come, the strangers hidden among our own people and the loved ones hidden among strangers are never seen. Good and bad times stay with everyone. But there is good in bad times too. In times of trouble we often need someone’s help, and this is the only opportunity which makes us aware of the truth of other people’s loyalty towards us. Those people who would support you only in your happy times, will try to stay away from you in your bad times on some pretext or the other. But those who will be your true friends, who want your best, will never leave you. He will stand shoulder to shoulder with you, not looking at your adverse circumstances, time and suffering, but keeping your needs in mind. The courage to see another dream even after failure is called “life”. Failing does not mean losing. Failure only indicates that the efforts for success were not made wholeheartedly, or there may have been a lack of confidence and determination. Welcome every new day with the belief that you will strive wholeheartedly for success and will never be disappointed or defeated by failures, nor will you ever accept defeat from anyone.

No one becomes great without struggle. To live life one has to struggle. Circumstances are not in our control but our mental state is in our control. There is a need to control the mental state. The one who has control over his mental state easily attains happiness in every situation. He who does not melt with praise and does not boil with criticism, attains the joy of living. Only the one who believes that “whatever is achieved is enough” remains satisfied.

Along with the normal incidents that occur in life, there are often hidden moral aspects of great importance in the accidents and incidents that occur. We should take those accidents as an education and life lesson and after taking lessons from them, we should redefine our future policies and goals. All these so-called accidents and incidents occur only to re-determine the direction of our life, and their purpose is to make life dynamic and active and provide the right direction by further developing our abilities. Any event that happens brings with it some reason or purpose, and leaves its impact in our lives. We have to learn something from every incident and make all our future plans accordingly. We have to learn a lesson from every incident that happens and also prepare for the future, so that we do not do any such negative thing again which may cause us any pain or loss again. On the contrary, pleasant events provide happiness, prosperity and happiness and the root causes giving rise to them are worthy of repetition in life. Therefore, respect every incident that happens equally, and take it with equal and positive feelings, whether it causes pain or loss, or gives respect and happiness.

In life, we should never give such a chance to anyone to snatch the smile from our face. We must remember that this world is for us, not we for the world. We must have control over our own actions and emotions. We should recognize the weaknesses and strengths of our heart and have control over them. Why give the key (control) of your mind to someone else? We have to face the different situations that come in our life. How to do this must be our own decision. Why and how can anyone else control them? We must have control over our emotions and actions so that we can remain self-reliant. Why become a puppet in someone else’s hands?

Therefore, the events happening in life are not so important that they affect our future life. Only the events that happen in life make us strong and powerful.
lazy to get up in the morning

February 3rd, 2024

Something on your “to-do list” that never gets done.

The only thing missing from my to-do list is getting up in the morning and exercising. Every night I promise myself that I will wake up tomorrow. But it seems that day will never come. When the alarm clock rings in the morning, I think leave it friend, I will wake up tomorrow. Then I also think that I will do exercise at some time of the day. But the whole day passes and even that cannot be done.

I have so much work that I don’t have time to breathe during the day, but I don’t feel like getting out of bed. Then I lie there wondering how people get up in the morning, why can’t I get up? I have read a lot that lazy people are not successful in life. But still I feel that I am lazy, I just don’t feel like getting up in the morning. Sometimes when I look out the window, I see people out for their morning walk. They are moving very fast. Even after seeing everything, I wonder what will be uprooted. And then I snuggle back into bed.

Sometimes I even think that I am gaining too much weight and my clothes won’t fit. And when I look at my clothes, I vow that now no one can stop me from getting up in the morning. And then when I remember those clothes when I wake up in the morning, I say to myself, leave it, I will buy more.

No one is as unhappy as I am every time I put myself on the weight machine. I also know that increasing weight is not good for me. Many diseases will occur due to weight gain. Still I can’t get up in the morning. Whenever I climb stairs, I feel like my breathing is getting heavy. All my friends wake up in the morning and exercise. It feels good to listen to them, I feel like I will be able to do it too. but when?
How supernatural is Rudraksh?

February 2nd, 2024

Rudraksha has great importance in Indian culture. It is believed that Rudraksha protects a person from all types of harmful energies. It is used not only by ascetics but also by people living worldly life. Rudraksha beads are often seen around the necks of common people as well as some ascetics. Wearing a Rudraksha rosary has religious significance as well as being scientifically beneficial and positive effects are seen on the body by wearing it. Wearing Rudraksha reduces the problems related to anxiety and stress, increases enthusiasm and energy. Increase occurs. According to scientists, Rudraksha has amazing power due to its electromagnetic properties. Its medicinal potential arises from the electromagnetic effect. Rudraksha has amazing ability to cure heart related disorders. Blood circulation and heartbeat brings a magnetic field around the body, especially in the heart area. Rudraksha is considered effective in controlling heart disease, blood pressure and cholesterol level and is effective in improving intellectual ability.

Where is Rudraksha found the most?

The most popular varieties of Rudraksha are found in the regions of Kullu and Rameshwaram in India. There are many Rudraksha trees found naturally in the alpine forests of Dhauladhar and the lower Shivalik ranges of the Himalayas. The country where Rudraksha is found the most is the Hindu nation Nepal. People of Nepal consider it auspicious to plant Rudraksha tree in their homes. And that is why Rudraksha tree is seen in every house there. It is said that one Mukhi Rudraksha bears only one fruit in a tree. And only very lucky people get it.

Is Rudraksha the water of Shiva’s eyes?

Regarding the origin of Rudraksha, it is written in the scriptures that ‘Rudra’ means Shiva and ‘Aksha’ means eye or soul. After burning Tripurasura to ashes, Bhole’s heart was onmoved and tears fell from his eyes. Wherever the tears fell, a ‘Rudraksha’ tree grew. Hindus consider Rudraksha to be very sacred. In the Upanishad, Rudraksha has been called the ‘eyes of Shiva’. By wearing these, all the sins committed during the day and night are destroyed and one gets hundred billion times the virtue. Wearing Panchmukhi Rudraksh is very auspicious. Rudraksh is considered a part of Mahadev. According to astrology and religious beliefs, Rudraksha originated from the tears of Lord Shiva. That is why it is said that wearing Rudraksha is very auspicious.

How powerful is Rudraksha?

The seeds of this tree were given special powers by Lord Shiva, which can aid in our spiritual growth. Rudraksha, the axis of Rudra provides us protection, security and helps us face obstacles in our spiritual journey. It is said in Shiva Purana that the wearer of Rudraksha gets identified with Lord Shiva. Rudraksha stores the charge of electrical energy, due to which it develops magnetic properties. These charges stimulate certain chemicals in the brain, thus therapeutically treating the body. Perhaps this is also one of the reasons why people feel better when Rudraksha comes in contact with their body.

Does old age go away by wearing Rudraksha?

Wearing Rudraksha reduces problems related to anxiety and stress, increases enthusiasm and energy. Blood circulation and heartbeat bring about a magnetic field around the body, especially in the area of the heart. Rudraksha is considered effective in controlling heart disease, blood pressure and cholesterol level. Rudraksha rosary helps in solving these problems by stabilizing our body and having a calming effect on our heart and senses. Wearing Rudraksha around the neck is considered best. Rudraksha having 108 beads is worn in such a way that it touches the heart place again and again. This improves heart rate. Kamal Narayan, author of the book ‘The Power of Rudraksha’, says that wearing Rudraksha around the neck also provides relief from diseases like tonsils, thyroid. Rudraksha acts as a protective shield for the body. Radiates special energy which has positive effects on body, mind and soul. It has therapeutic effect. Reduces negative energy. It has been proven that wearing Rudraksha regulates heart beat and has a positive effect on blood pressure, stress, anxiety, depression, nervousness and lack of concentration. It was also found that Rudraksha beads have anti-aging properties based on their electromagnetism.

How to identify real Rudraksh?

Nowadays, many fake Rudraksh are available in the market. It is very difficult to identify them. But in this way you can identify the real Rudraksh. The real Rudraksh sinks when put in water. Whereas fake Rudraksh floats on water. To identify the real Rudraksh, when it is scratched with a sharp object, a fiber comes out from it, then it is the real Rudraksh. Real Rudraksh has holes naturally. Whereas fake Rudraksh is given the shape of Rudraksh by making holes in it. If the real Rudraksh is dipped in mustard oil, it does not leave its color. Whereas fake Rudraksh loses its color.

What are the benefits of wearing which Rudraksha?

The smaller the Rudraksha, the more fruitful it is. The person wearing Rudraksha should not consume items like meat, onion, garlic etc. Mantras for wearing these Rudraksha have been mentioned in Shri Shiv Mahapuran. Rudraksh should be worn only after reciting mantras.

1: By wearing One Mukhi Rudraksha, a person becomes free from all obstacles. 2 – Two Mukhi Rudraksha is also called Ardhanarishwar Rudraksha. It provides mental peace to the person. 3 – Three faced Rudraksha proves the means. 4 – Four faced Rudraksha also removes the sin of murder. 5 – Panchmukhi Rudraksha is also called Kalagni. It fulfills all the wishes and provides salvation. Fulfills all wishes and grants salvation. 6 – Six: Mukhi Rudraksha is said to be the form of Lord Kartikeya. By wearing this, the sin of killing a Brahma also gets eliminated. 7 – Wearing Sapta Mukhi Rudraksha brings wealth. 8 – Wearing Ashta Mukhi Rudraksha brings longevity.
9 – By wearing Nine Mukhi Rudraksha on the left side one gets all kinds of luxuries. 10 – By wearing Ten Mukhi Rudraksha all the wishes are fulfilled. 11 – Eleven Mukhi Rudraksha is Aditya form. Wearing it on the forehead greatly increases a person’s radiance.
12 – 12 Mukhi Rudraksha eliminates the negative effects of Sun. That is, in whose horoscope the Sun is being harmed. They should wear 12 Mukhi Rudraksha. 12 Mukhi Rudraksha increases the brightness in a person’s personality. 13 – 13 Mukhi Rudraksha is Vishwadev. If one wears it, all the sins of a person are destroyed. 14 – 14 Mukhi Rudraksha is considered to be the symbol of Lord Hanuman. Wearing this increases courage in a person. Rudrakshas of 15 – 15 to 21 mukhi are sometimes found and a normal person is not able to wear them. Specially wearing rosary of 4 Mukhi, 6 Mukhi and 9 Mukhi Rudraksha. Confidence level increases. People who have restlessness and nervousness all the time. Rudraksh rosary is very beneficial for them also. It also has anti-inflammatory and antibacterial properties. Scholars often recommend drinking Rudraksh water. Doing this provides relief from diseases and also improves immunity.

In the beginning of the 25th chapter of Visheshwar Samhita of Shiv Mahapuran, Sut ji says that O Shaunak, Rudraksh is very dear to Shankar ji. By chanting this, all sins are destroyed. Those performing puja should wear white Rudraksha. Those doing manly work i.e. border guards should wear red Rudraksha. Those doing Vaishya profession should wear yellow Rudraksha. Other people should wear black Rudraksha.

What should you not do while wearing Rudraksha?

While wearing Rudraksha, you should stay away from smoking and non-vegetarian food, because by consuming it Rudraksha becomes impure, due to which you may have to face more troubles in future. Therefore, people who consume non-vegetarian food should not wear Rudraksh. It is believed that eating non-vegetarian food makes Rudraksh impure. If a person is wearing Rudraksh, then he should remove it while sleeping. You can take it off and keep it under the pillow while sleeping. Sleeping with Rudraksh under the pillow stops nightmares.
Onion Tomato Mughlai Paratha

February 2nd, 2024

What’s your favorite thing to cook?

I like cooking very much. I am making something all the time. But my most favorite food is Tomato Onion Mughlai Paratha. Which I like to become again and again. One is because it does not take much time to make. And secondly because, this recipe is my own preparation. Mughlai Paratha originated during the reign of Mughal Emperor Jahangir and was the creation of his chef Adil Hafiz Usman, who was originally from Bardhaman district of West Bengal of Hadrami Arab descent. There are many types of Mughlai Parathas available in the market. Are. Some make it with lots of vegetables. So it is made by adding egg. Often think of making something new for morning breakfast. Potato-onion parathas are usually eaten for breakfast. People in West Bengal like Mughlai Paratha a lot.

You must have tried many types of Mughlai Paratha. So today let us tell you my simple and easy recipe of Mughlai Paratha.

Ingredients: Flour 1 cup, Tomato 1, Onion 1, Gram flour 1 tsp, Ghee 3 tbsp, Salt half tsp

Method of preparation: First of all, add salt and ghee to the flour and keep it soft. Then grate tomato and onion and add gram flour to it. Then add salt to it and mix well. Your masala is ready. Now roll a very thin big roti of flour. Spread the onion tomato masala which is very wet inside it well with a spoon. After that fold the roti and give it a triangular shape. Then put it on the pan and fry it with ghee like a paratha. And enjoy hot roti with sauce.

Sometimes when vegetables are not available in our house, this paratha can help in controlling your hunger.
To whom should I share my pain?

January 31st, 2024

Although in this world everyone is sad about one thing or the other, in this Kaliyuga everyone is definitely troubled by some thing or the other, in such a situation, if you are thinking of sharing your sorrow with someone, then you too need something special. It is very important to keep things in mind. To lighten the burden of the mind, it is very important to release the sorrow. Expressing your feelings openly will make you feel much lighter. Using our natural desire to express grief with proper understanding will help us to have the right emotions.

It is true that not everyone’s way of expressing grief is the same. The depth of a person’s grief depends on certain factors, such as whether the loved one died suddenly or after a long illness. But one thing is certain: suppressing your emotions can have a negative impact on your health, and it is also emotionally damaging. Therefore, it is most beneficial to express your grief. But how to express grief? Buddha says that problems do not end by being sad, every person should think about the things related to sadness to get rid of it.
The teachings given by Lord Buddha are relevant even today. Gautam Buddha also talked about suffering in his first sermon given at Sarnath. Buddha has said that happiness can be attained only after knowing well about suffering. He told that every person is sad sometimes. Every person should know what is the cause of sorrow, why sorrow comes, one can get rid of every kind of sorrow. And what are the ways to end suffering? A person who understands these things does not get troubled under any circumstances. If you express your feelings to someone by talking or writing, it will help you in alleviating your sorrow. Misunderstandings can also be removed with this. Today every person is worried about something or the other or it can be said that he is sad. Lord Buddha says that problems do not end by being sad. To get rid of sorrow, every person should think about the things related to it. For this, the teachings of Lord Buddha help.

What do Buddha’s teachings say about suffering?

The first teaching of Mahatma Buddha says that there is suffering in the world. Buddha says that there is no creature in this world who does not suffer. According to him, sadness should be considered a normal situation. One should not let it dominate oneself. Therefore, every person should not be worried and upset when he is sad. On the contrary, one should try to keep oneself happy.
Mahatma Buddha has mentioned the cause of suffering in his second teaching. Buddha says that the cause of every suffering is craving i.e. strong desire. Therefore one should not have craving for anything. That is, it can be said that one should not have expectations from anything or any person. Mahatma Buddha has said in the third lesson that any kind of sorrow can be removed. He says that every person should understand that no sorrow lasts forever, it can be eliminated. Buddha says that there is a solution to every suffering. Prevention measures also exist.

What does Krishna say about sorrow?

Shri Krishna has said in Geeta that suffering ends only by changing the mind. Every person is the cause of his own suffering because there is ignorance within him. Ignorance is the cause of suffering. Ignorance is also the cause of happiness. Both happiness and sorrow arise from ignorance. If we look at the Bhagavad Gita, we find that the main reason for the suffering in the world is our ignorance about the nature of the soul. We become afraid at the thought of the death of our relatives. Whatever we have earned or received, even the fear of loss of it never allows our consciousness to be completely free. We do not know how many mistakes we make due to the fear of losing our name and fame. The biggest reason for man’s unhappiness in the world is his To be attached. If he has attachment towards anyone, be it brother-sister, parents, brother-in-law, daughter-son-grandson or any thing, he has to face sorrow when it gets separated or destroyed or lost.

What is the root cause of sorrow?

Not being happy with your achievements is the main reason for unhappiness. Not being happy with the happiness of others is the biggest cause of sadness. Not being satisfied with the work of others is also the root cause of sadness. Man should not share his pain and suffering with everyone. Because there are very few people in this world who will relieve your sorrows. Whereas most people will be happy to hear about your problem and will work to increase your suffering with their hurtful words. When a person is in trouble, his heart becomes heavy. He wants to ease his mind by telling his story to someone. But due to emotions, many times a person expresses his sorrow to a person who is not his well-wisher. Such people, after knowing about your problem, become happy and talk behind your back. In such a situation, before telling your grief to someone, you should know whether the person is your sympathizer or not. Grief should be considered a normal situation. One should not let it dominate oneself. Therefore, every person should not be worried and upset when he is sad. On the contrary, one should try to keep oneself happy. It is said that one should not be too attached to anyone, one day this habit can harm a person. A person should maintain his balance in every situation, whether happy or sad.

Can Bhagavad Gita solve all the problems?

If anyone has any problem then he should definitely recite Bhagwat Gita because it is believed that whoever recites Gita gets time to solve the difficulties coming in his life. Every verse mentioned in Gita can solve every problem of man. It is written in Bhagwat Gita that man’s body is just a piece of cloth. Just as man discards old clothes and wears new clothes, similarly the soul too. It leaves the old body and enters a new body, that is, a person is always identified not by his body but by his soul and mind, so a person should never mourn on someone’s death. Because the soul is immortal. Krishna also says that you have nothing here, because you have not brought anything with you and neither will you take anything back. Then what is there to be sad about?
What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it?

January 31st, 2024

What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it?

Betrayal……..this is one of the most touching things for me. I could never do this to anyone. Because even for myself I don’t want anyone to cheat me. If I love someone with all my heart, I can cross all limits of love for that person. But I can never think that I will betray her. If I am determined to betray someone, it means I am weak myself. First of all, why did I love her? I believe that love is not done thoughtfully. But love should not be so blind that this situation arises later. If it always happens in any relationship then it should be nipped in the bud. Even if it is a friendship relationship. There are times when even our relatives betray us. I say that it is our fault. If you don’t know how to judge people, you will keep getting cheated in life.

When we develop a relationship with someone, we get an impression of their behavior in some way or the other. It is our fault that we ignore it. Therefore, to take any relationship forward, it is very important to be an expert in vision. Sometimes it happens that we cannot break the relationship with those people who are doing wrong to us. We can maintain distance in a relationship, right?

But as far as I feel, I will never be able to deceive anyone. There have been many moments in my life when people have hurt my heart. I cried tears of blood, but still I did not think of teaching them a lesson. I believe that God is watching everything. Whatever you do to someone will come back to you. If I betray someone, how much his heart will be hurt. His spirit will always bless me. And the sigh emanating from his heart can spoil my happiness and can create obstacles in my success. Can eclipse my family’s happiness. And I too will always feel guilty that I cheated someone.

If I ever had to betray someone, I would probably have to be very strict about it. I have to change the principles of my life. You will have to see your mind moving on the wrong path. You will have to increase your ability to see and tolerate the stigma imposed on you. You will have to put your and your family’s happiness at stake. You have to be prepared to make yourself mentally ill. You will have to lose the courage to look eye to eye with your God. Maybe this won’t be possible for me. Oh God! Save me from these bad deeds. Stop me in advance from doing any action (which will not yield good results) that I am going to do.
What do you complain about the most?

January 30th, 2024

What do you complain about the most?

The biggest complaint I have against my God is that if He has sent me into this world then why has He deprived me of every happiness? Why has Rakhi given all the happiness to others and not to me? Do those people worship God more and I work?

The words of the scriptures are that everyone is responsible for their own deeds. So the person who is completely happy has never sinned? Then why were you so unfair to me? That is why I remember God every day that you did not do good to me. Should you give me some money also so that his income becomes less? What did he know that nothing in this world is important except money.

People say that God listens to everyone but where does he sit silently? And who do I even talk to? Because there is only one God who will ever listen. What are you going to do to make fun of me? Today I tell you all this secret that never express your sorrow in front of anyone else. As much as you need to speak, speak to God. Roj will teach you. Probably never heard of it.