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Is your child afraid to tell you about his mistakes?

February 22nd, 2024

Anger is a trap, after getting trapped in it, a person does not care about his own or strangers, good or bad. Therefore, the person who always speaks the truth does not get angry at every thing and also controls his anger. There is always peace in the life of such a person. By speaking the truth, the mind remains calm and problems also start going away. It is written in Mahabharata that what benefits a person gets who speaks the truth. Apart from this, all those things have also been mentioned in Mahabharata which help in living a high standard of life. By speaking the truth, troubles and tribulations start going away in a person’s life. Even God is pleased by speaking the truth. The person who always speaks the truth lives longer than others. Such a person has neither fear of anything nor greed. He always remains blessed by God and gets a long life. The habit of lying and cheating in every matter becomes the cause of sorrows in life. The life of a person who always supports the truth is full of happiness. There is no room for problems and tribulations in the life of such a person. A simple person easily finds solutions to all his problems without any deceit. Such a person gets happiness as well as respect in life. Therefore everyone should adopt the habit of speaking the truth.

How do children learn to lie?

No one learns to lie from birth, that is, it is not a natural tendency. Experts say that children learn to lie from their peers, society and media. And childhood is the right age when it is important to curb the tendency to lie. In childhood, children easily become victims of bad habits like lying. In such a situation, parents do not even know when innocent lying children become experts in lying. Therefore, it is very important to teach children to speak the truth right from childhood. However, it is also impossible to motivate children to tell the truth by reprimanding them for their habit of lying. In such a situation, parents can easily get rid of this habit of children by finding out the reason for lying. In childhood, children copy most of the good and bad habits from their parents. In such a situation, you can become a role model for children. For this, try not to lie in front of children and teach them to tell the truth. Children’s childhood is quite innocent. In such a situation, children are not able to understand the difference between good and bad. This is the reason why many children knowingly or unknowingly become victims of some bad habits. Lying is also one such habit. Children often start lying to their parents to hide their mistakes. It all starts from childhood. When a child starts going to school or play school, he comes back and happily tells his family whatever he did or learned in school. Then as he grows up, his habit changes. Because he sees that whenever he comes home and informs about any behavior done during school time, he gets scolded or sometimes even beaten. Therefore, gradually he starts telling something else instead of the truth for his own convenience or to please others. He feels that this is the right thing. This habit gradually starts getting stronger.

He does not know that relationships built on the foundation of lies do not last long. By the time we realize it, it is too late. If children gather courage and tell you everything truthfully after making a mistake, then do not forget to praise them for telling the truth. This will encourage children to tell the truth in the future and they will also reduce lying. Parents often find it better to punish their children to correct every small and big mistake. But, this creates fear in children and children often start lying to hide their mistakes. Also, if children are caught lying, instead of punishing them, try to find out the reason for lying. Many times the reasons are very small but due to the possibility of parents getting angry, children resort to lies. Therefore, always treat your children with love. Even if he has made a big mistake, try to understand it fully. Also keep your eyes on him in such a way that he doesn’t even know. But if he repeats the mistake again and again, you will have to take a strong decision. If you have laid the foundation of speaking the truth in your childhood itself, then you will not have to see this day.

Therefore we all should always practice speaking the truth. Along with yourself, you should also encourage your family and friends to speak the truth. If we want to live a life full of happiness, then we have to follow the path of truth. In today’s era, the most difficult thing is to hear and speak the truth. We all twist the truth according to our convenience and in such a situation the truth gets buried somewhere below. But today’s reality is that most of the people are living this kind of double life and hence are not happy. Because he can lie to everyone, but never to himself. Due to this habit of not telling the truth, we also become victims of stress and depression etc. To tell the truth, a big heart is needed, but to tell a lie, only one heart is needed. This person remains engrossed in his daily routine without making any noise. The scriptures say that one should always speak the truth. There is nothing greater than truth. But, the scriptures also say that such a truth which hurts someone should not be told. If anything has to be said, it should be said in such a way that it does not hurt anyone.

Parents are the first school of the child. The younger the children are, the more values they learn to adopt. Sometimes it becomes difficult to explain anything to them after they grow up. Therefore, give values to your children in their childhood itself. And do not, under any circumstances, take their first mistake lightly.
to exercise

February 22nd, 2024

What bores you?

I find exercise boring. Whenever I think that I will wake up tomorrow morning and will definitely do exercise, that day never comes. When I wake up from the alarm, I think that I will let it be for today, I will definitely do it tomorrow. I don’t know when that tomorrow will come.😔
Coconut water

February 21st, 2024

What is your favorite drink?

My favorite drink is coconut water. It helps me to keep fresh all the time.And also Coconut water is a treasure for health whose consumption maintains heart health, keeps kidneys healthy, reduces sagging skin, improves skin tone and proves to be very effective in controlling diseases that keep skin healthy. It happens. Coconut water is a powerhouse of nutrients containing electrolytes, lauric acid, potassium, magnesium and potassium.
my lucky shoe

February 20th, 2024

Tell us about your favorite pair of shoes, and where they’ve taken you.

My favorite shoe is a black ballerina. My best friend gifted it to me on my birthday four years ago. Since then I have worn this shoe very carefully, because I like this shoe very much. True If I say so, this shoe is also lucky for me. Whenever I wear it and give an interview, I have always got success. This proves that your positive thoughts towards something opens the way for your success. Like my Being for shoes. We all achieve some milestone in our life. So why don’t we associate it with something or the other which makes our thinking unfavorable.
The price of silence?

February 20th, 2024

If there is a danger of relationships getting cold, then there is no harm in covering yourself with the shawl of silence for some time for warmth. Because the lamp does not speak, its light introduces you. Similarly, do not say anything about yourself, keep doing good deeds, and remain calm. When we have enough energy and enthusiasm we are able to tackle any challenge, but the question is how to increase the energy?

What is the power of silence?

‘Nishabdha’ means where there is no word or sound – beyond body, mind and all creation. Beyond sound does not mean absence of sound, but going beyond sound.This is possible by doing spiritual exercises, meditation, yoga and pranayam. They take the person to the realm of silence. This area is full of energy. Inner silence is the source of all relaxation and all creativity. It is in this field of silence that great scientific discoveries have been made, path-breaking inventions have been made and wonderful poems and tunes have emerged. Silence does not merely mean keeping one’s mouth shut. It is more than turning the senses inward by removing them from external activities. The absence of involvement of the mind in any of the five senses provides a certain amount of peace within. This leads to a state of complete satisfaction. The virtues of silence are countless. From a source of enlightenment to a balm that heals cracks in relationships, silence can be used as a panacea for many of the worldly problems we face in everyday life. Silence makes thoughts more coherent, makes a person more intelligent. From talking face to face to addressing a huge group of audiences, an intangible quality affects people more than words. But the essence of all this lies in the inner silence. Real communication goes beyond words. If you are firmly situated in the field of peace, if your mind is at peace, you will suddenly find yourself able to influence individuals, groups and masses. A thousand conversations cannot express what just one look can express. When we go into the depths of silence we have a unified experience of communication without thoughts. It is when all questions disappear from a person’s mind that the supreme intelligence within begins to speak.It is a scientific fact that the entire existence is an echo or vibration of energy. Man is able to feel every vibration in the form of sound. There is a particular sound associated with every form of creation. We are experiencing this complex confluence of sounds as creation. The basis of all sounds is ‘Nishabd’. The very attempt to transform any part of creation into the source of creation is silent. Nishabd means emptiness. Sound is on the surface, silence is in the innermost. There is no sound at all in the innermost part. Absence of sound means absence of vibration and echo, life and death, i.e. the entire creation. The absence of creation in experience means moving towards the all-embracing presence of the source of creation. Therefore, a place that is beyond creation, a dimension that is beyond life and death, is called silent or silent. Man cannot say it, it can only happen.

Has science also acknowledged the power of silence?

If one becomes completely silent and eliminates the noise of the mind, that intelligence will never fail to reveal the best solutions to even the most serious problems. Meditate and remain silent for a short time every day. When you reach that place of silence through meditation, you will always be guided on what needs to be done. Silence increases the inner strength of a person and sharpens the intellect. The power of silence has been given great importance in religions. Now scientific evidence also shows that it has a deep connection with health. Amidst the increasing noise in the world, experts have discovered what kind of silence and peace has the most impact on the brain. This not only relieves problems like blood pressure, cortisol, insomnia, but also increases concentration, thought control and creativity. Many experts and research studies are confirming that amidst the increasing noise in the world, some Moments of peace can give us many health benefits. The absence of sound may seem like emptiness, but by reducing the sound, we can see very surprising results at the level of body, mind and mood. Moments of silence or peace are most beneficial in hypertension or high blood pressure. Are. Just two minutes of peaceful moments after listening to the song is very effective in reducing the heart beat rate and blood pressure in people. Even quiet moments reduce heart health problems compared to slow, relaxing music. Unwanted noise increases our stress levels. Silence reduces cortisol, the hormone responsible for stress. Not only this, silence can also improve our creativity, problem solving ability, and also relieve us from problems like insomnia.

Does silence increase speech power?

In today’s fast-paced world, our mind also seems to run fast. In this there is a continuous flow of thoughts which seems almost impossible to control. but it’s not like that. By learning to remain calm, we can stop our consciousness from wasting unnecessary energy and can also get rid of problems like restlessness. This helps us to be completely in the present. Being silent allows you to concentrate on thoughts and words and due to this whatever you say comes out absolutely accurate. By remaining silent we are able to control the thoughts of our mind. Remaining silent also makes the deceitfulness of the person in front clearly visible.

Can silence control anger?

The more you keep yourself silent, the more you will control your anger. By having control over anger, you will be able to solve the problem thoughtfully and you will be able to get rid of anger dominating your behavior. Remaining silent saves physical and mental energy so that you can use it later at the right place and in the right situation. Find. Besides this, this energy also boosts self-confidence in you. It is believed that if you observe a fast of silence for some time every day and sit in front of your Ishta Dev i.e. whichever God you worship, then your luck becomes stronger and Besides, there is increase in intelligence, strength and spirituality. Apart from this, one of the benefits of observing Maun Vrat is that it strengthens the planets.

difference between practicing silence and being silent.

There is a difference between practicing silence and being silent. If you are practicing something, you are definitely not it. If you try to enter silence with full awareness, then there is a possibility of you becoming silent. The human body and mind are also an echo or vibration. But body and mind are not everything in themselves. They are just the surface of a greater possibility. They are like a door. Many people do not look beneath the surface; they spend their entire lives sitting on the door frame. But the door is for going inside. The practice of remaining silent to experience what lies beyond this door is called silence. The English word ‘silence’ does not convey much. ‘Silence’ in Sanskrit and everything in existence that can be felt through the five senses is actually an echo of sound. Everything that can be seen, heard, smelled, tasted or touched is a game of sound.
my heartbeat my dad

February 20th, 2024

Who are your favorite people to be around?

I like all the people around me but the most important relationship is with my father. He is not only around me but he is the heartbeat of my heart. Because it is the father who instills dreams in my little eyes, fathers give their lives for their daughters. My dad comes home tired from work. Seeing my smile, he forgets his sorrows. Whenever I feel sad and dejected,He puts his hand on my head and encourages me. My father does so much for my happiness. He even forgets his status. My father is like this. He has taught me and brought me up with great love. Whenever I stumble, He is holding me in his arms. Salute to such a father!
How to please Mahadev as per zodiac sign?

February 19th, 2024

In Sanatan Dharma, the worship of Devadhidev Mahadev is considered very important. Whoever gets the blessings of Lord Bholenath, understand that all his troubles are gone. Monday is the day of Lord Shiva. If Lord Vishwanath was not there, this world would have become dark, because nature is inanimate and the soul is ignorant. Lord Shiva is called Devadhidev Mahadev. The person on whom his kind glance falls, all the troubles of his life go away in a jiffy. Lord Shiva is also known for his kindness and compassion. That is why he is also called Bholenath. He becomes happy just by offering water. Apart from this, if you want to get more blessings of Lord Shiva, then you can chant some mantras. By chanting these mantras, Lord Shiva not only becomes happy but also fulfills all the wishes of his devotees.

Which mantras of Mahadev should be chanted?

Om Namah Shivay, this mantra should be chanted 108 times daily. This keeps the person’s body and mind calm. Mahadev becomes very happy by chanting this mantra.
Om Trimbakam Yajamahe Sugandhi Pushtivardhanam. Urvarukamiv Bandhanan Mrityormukshiya Mamritat.
This is Mahamrityunjaya chanting. Its meaning is that we worship Trinetra, who is fragrant and nourishes us. Just as the fruit is freed from the bondage of the branch, let us also be freed from death and impermanence.
Om Namo Bhagwate Rudray Namah
This mantra is called Rudra Mantra. It is believed that this mantra conveys all your wishes to Lord Shiva. And Mahadev fulfills them.
Shiv Gayatri Mantra: Om Tatpurushaya Vidmahe, Mahadevaya Dhimahi, Tanno Rudra Prachodayat.
If you are in any kind of debt then chant 15 mantras while paying obeisance to Lord Shiva. With this mantra you become debt free.

It is said in Shiv Purana Samhita that omniscient Shiva has propounded this mantra ‘Om Namah Shivay’ for the fulfillment of all the desires of all the embodied beings. This Adi Shadakshar Mantra is the seed of complete knowledge. Just as a great tree is hidden in the banyan seed, similarly this mantra, despite being very subtle, is full of great meaning. Lord Bholenath bestows immense happiness and prosperity. Bholenath is such that it is very easy to please. One does not have to make any special efforts to seek the blessings of Mahadev, rather just by remembering Shiva, Shiva appears and fulfills all the wishes of his devotees. Today we tell you which zodiac signs should be offered to please Shiva?

Aries: People of Aries zodiac should anoint Lord Shiva with jaggery and curd to get the blessings of Bholenath. Also offer red gulal to Lord Shiva.Aries According to astrology, Aries
The lord of the zodiac is Mars. At the same time, Mars is considered to be a part of Bholenath. Therefore, the people of Aries zodiac sign receive special blessings of Lord Shiva throughout their life.

Taurus: To get the blessings of Lord Shiva, the people of Taurus zodiac should use curd, sugar, rice, white sandalwood etc. in the worship of Lord Shiva. Offer white flowers to Lord Shiva.

Cancer: People of Cancer zodiac should anoint Lord Shiva with ghee. Along with this, Shivling should be worshiped with raw milk, fig flowers and curd. Shiva is pleased by offering sweets made from mawa.

Gemini: People of Gemini zodiac should anoint Lord Shiva with sugarcane juice. People of this zodiac sign also benefit from offering Bilvapatra.

Leo sun sign,,
People of Leo zodiac should anoint Mahadev with jaggery water to get his blessings. Chanting Shiva Mantra is also beneficial.

Virgo sun sign,,
People of Virgo zodiac sign should offer Bhang and Paan to Lord Shankar to get his blessings. Offer Bilva leaves and fruits to Shivalinga.

Libra,
People of Libra zodiac sign can anoint Lord Shiva with curd, honey and perfume. Also, by chanting the thousands of names of Lord Shiva, you will get auspicious results.

Scorpio zodiac sign,
To get the blessings of Lord Shiva, anoint the Shivalinga with Panchamrit of Scorpio zodiac sign. Also recite Rudrashtak. According to astrology, the lord of Scorpio is also Mars. Therefore, the people of Scorpio zodiac are blessed with immense blessings of Lord Shiva. This zodiac sign should always offer a pot of water to Shivalinga every day to lead a happy life.

Sagittarius,
To get quick blessings of Lord Shankar, people of Sagittarius sign should anoint Lord Shiva with turmeric milk. Also offer sweets made from gram flour.

Capricorn,,
People of Capricorn sign should perform Abhishekam with water to get the blessings of Lord Shiva. Offer blue flowers to Shivalinga. Also worship Lord Shiva by lighting a lamp. According to astrology, Capricorn is very dear to Lord Shiva. Actually, the lord of this zodiac sign is Shani Dev, who is a great devotee of Lord Shiva. This is the reason why Bholenath’s special blessings remain on the people of Capricorn sign.

Aquarius,,
People of Aquarius zodiac sign should anoint Lord Shiva with sesame oil. You can also anoint Lord Shiva by mixing white sesame seeds in water. Aquarius is one of the favorite zodiac signs of Lord Shiva. According to astrology, the lord of this zodiac sign is also Shani Dev. Therefore, the people of Aquarius sign remain blessed by Lord Shiva along with Shani Dev.

Pisces,,
People of Pisces zodiac sign should perform Jalabhishek of Lord Shiva with milk mixed with saffron. You can also recite Shiv Tandav written by Ravana.
Miraculous benefits of betel leaf?

February 18th, 2024

You must have seen many people consuming betel leaf in India. Betel leaf was invented by the scholars of Aruveda with the help of Dhanvantari thousands of years ago by experimenting on rats. Although eating betel leaves is considered a bad habit, but eating betel leaves also has some benefits. In India, the tradition of feeding betel leaves to guests has been going on for centuries.

Benefits of paan leaf

Betel leaves are a bit astringent to eat. However, many types of nutrients are present in these leaves, which are beneficial for health. If we talk about Ayurveda, then all the natural plants or resources available around us have many benefits described in this medicinal science. The name of one plant from the same series is betel leaves. The benefits derived from these save us from many types of problems. If we talk about the benefits of betel leaves, they are also used for many religious purposes.
But the most common and public use of betel leaf is to consume it by applying tobacco, chuna, catechu and betel nut etc., there has been a long tradition of doing so. Many people believe that it provides many health benefits. Based on all the medicinal properties found in it, you can say that it is a wonderful herb. In which Vitamin C, protein and many beneficial substances are present. Due to the presence of all the essential substances, the benefits of betel leaf in many types of diseases are quite high.

In which diseases are betel leaves beneficial?

During cold and cough, there is discomfort in the chest and lungs. During this period, sometimes respiratory related problems may also occur. To deal with all these problems, you can apply mustard oil on betel leaf, heat it and then place it on the chest of the affected person. By doing this, you can get a lot of relief from cold and cough. If you eat betel leaf mixed with honey or grind it, you can get relief from cold and cough also. The specialty of betel leaf is that it helps in reducing the blood sugar level of the body. Keeps normal. Those who have diabetes can get relief by chewing betel leaves daily. Betel leaves have anti-hyperglycemic properties which help in controlling sugar. Betel leaves prevent the amount of glucose in the blood from increasing. People with type 2 diabetes are benefited by chewing its leaves on an empty stomach in the morning. Betel leaves also have some antibiotic properties. Therefore, these leaves are effective in protecting against even minor infections. Chewing betel leaves is considered very beneficial for digestion. To get rid of problems like constipation and acidity, betel leaves should be chewed. These leaves are also very beneficial in curing diseases like ulcers.
If a person has any problem like swelling or lump in the gums, then such a person should chew betel leaves. The elements found in these leaves reduce the swelling of the gums and also heal the lumps in the gums. If betel leaves are consumed properly, betel leaves can be very healthy for the body, especially betel leaves. Drinking water from leaves can provide many benefits to the body. It is said that drinking betel leaves boiled in water removes the Kapha defect in the body. It can relieve cough and respiratory problems. Betel leaves are rich in nutrients. It has more water content and less calories. At the same time, the amount of fat in betel leaves is also less. It also contains nutrients like iodine, potassium, vitamin A, vitamin B1, vitamin B2 and nicotinic acid.
Is Goddess Durga happy with betel leaf?

February 18th, 2024

In Hindu religion, offering betel leaves to Gods and Goddesses is considered very auspicious and the tradition of using these leaves in any worship has been going on for a long time. Betel leaf has been mentioned in Skanda Purana. According to which betel leaves were used during the churning of the ocean. Various gods and goddesses are believed to reside in its leaves. That is why it is used in worship. Especially in the worship of Lakshmi, Ganesh, use of betel leaves is considered essential in many types of worship. Betel leaves are considered a symbol of auspiciousness and profit. For this reason, if it is not included in the puja, the puja is considered incomplete. There are many mythological stories which further increase the importance of betel leaves. During the puja, betel leaves are kept in betel leaves and Akshat and offered to the Gods and Goddesses as per rituals. At many places, during puja, betel leaves are kept with camphor and burnt, which brings positive energy in the house.

Betel leaves are known for their fresh and aromatic nature, which is included in any puja. It is believed that it is a symbol of purity and this completes the worship. In many rituals associated with puja, offering betel leaves is tantamount to offering blessings of the Gods and Goddesses. The vibrant green color of these leaves is associated with new beginnings and rejuvenation of life. Betel leaves are often included in puja ceremonies to seek blessings of auspiciousness and prosperity. It is believed that the inherent properties present in the betel leaf attract positive energy and divine blessings to the worshipper. This helps you concentrate in worship. In Hinduism, the betel leaf is sometimes considered to represent the sacred trinity—Brahma, Vishnu, and Shiva. Offering betel leaves during puja is a simple way of expressing reverence towards these divine powers and is considered a symbol of acceptance of cosmic order by the worshipper.

Along with Lord Ganesha, Lord Shiva is also very happy by offering betel leaves. By placing gulkand, catechu, betel nut, cloves and cardamom in a betel leaf and offering it to Lord Shiva, he soon becomes happy and fulfills every wish of the people. Betel leaves are considered very auspicious in Hindu religion and the practice of using these leaves in any worship has been going on for a long time. Use of betel leaves is considered essential especially during Lakshmi puja. In worship, betel leaf removes negative energy and brings positive energy. Due to its effect, the worship is not affected by any bad thing.

It is told in the Puranas that sage Katyayan was a devotee of Mata. They did not have any child. He did penance to his mother and asked her for a boon that he would get her as a daughter. Meanwhile, the atrocities of Mahishasura were increasing. He had driven away the gods from heaven. Due to the anger of the gods, a light appeared which was in the form of a girl. That brilliance took birth as a daughter in the house of sage Katyayan. The sage knew that it was the mother who had appeared in his house in the form of a daughter because of a boon. The sage first worshiped the goddess and she was called Katyayani as she was the daughter of sage Katyayana. The original purpose of the appearance of Goddess Katyayani was to end Mahishasura. After being worshiped by the sage on the day of Ashwin Shukla Navami, the goddess said that she had appeared to end Mahishasura. After this, the Goddess fought with Mahishasura on Navami and Dashami Tithi. On Dashami Tithi, the goddess killed Mahishasura by eating betel leaves filled with honey. After this, Goddess Katyayani was also known as Mahishasura Mardani.

During Navratri, offering rose petals on betel leaves brings blessings of Goddess Lakshmi. This removes money related problems in life.
Betel leaf is an important ingredient in Havan puja. The gods used betel leaves during the churning of the ocean. Since then, betel leaves started being used in worship. Mix vermillion and ghee and write your name on a betel leaf, after which offer it to Goddess Durga. This will result in an early marriage. On Tuesday and Saturday, betel leaf should be offered to Lord Hanuman. With this, Hanuman ji will himself take the responsibility of the trouble that will befall the devotees.

The betel leaf should be complete and have a stalk attached to it. The betel leaf should not be torn anywhere. Use only green betel leaves for worship and worship. It is very auspicious to keep betel leaves in worship, keep in mind that along with betel leaves, cardamom, cloves, gulkand etc. are also offered. It is believed that if fully prepared paan is offered then the Mother Goddess becomes very happy and happiness and prosperity resides in the life of the person. According to the beliefs of Sanatan Dharma, various gods and goddesses reside in the betel leaf. The gods and goddesses of the universe reside in this one leaf. That is why betel leaf must be offered in the worship of Goddess Bhagwati.
my daughter my gift

February 18th, 2024

Share one of the best gifts you’ve ever received.

The process of giving and receiving gifts is a part of our daily life. It is not the size of a gift that matters, but it is just a way of expressing happiness. You are not measured by what you have received from others, but by what you have given to others. The true identity of a person is revealed by what he does for others.

Gifts are exchanged by humans every day. But the real gift is when God understands our needs. There is no doubt that children are a blessing and a precious gift from God. Some people get the happiness of having a child easily while some couples get to see the face of their child after a lot of difficulties. For such couples, their child is no less than a precious gift. Similarly, I too got my daughter as a gift from God in my life, whom I had imagined.