There will be a very rare person in this world who considers himself to be the happiest. Every person faces some kind of sorrow. But we don’t even know exactly why we are sad. Because we don’t have a single sorrow to express, there are thousands of things that we are sad about. Like someone’s failure in love, someone not getting a job, discord in someone’s family, death of someone’s family, not being successful in the exam, etc. All this is a big reason that makes us sad for a few days or years. When we overcome these sorrows, then the track of our life starts running. All these sorrows are momentary, sorrows and happiness keep changing like sunshine and shadow in life.

But the real cause of our unhappiness is our nature. God has made man’s nature such that he always sees more ghee in the plate of others. This is the biggest reason for human suffering. A person used to pray to God everyday. One day God was happy and said what do you want? The person said, God, grant me such a boon that I can have whatever I desire. God said, I will give you a groom, but whatever you ask for yourself, the same thing will be given to the neighbor. He thought okay, what do I have to do with the neighbor, I will get that thing right? He said to God it is okay.

Now the man would get whatever he asked for. He said to God, God, give me a good house. God gave it to him and also built two houses for the neighbor. He asked God for a son, God gave him, and gave two sons to the neighbor. He asked God for a car and God gave it to him. But gave two vehicles to the neighbor. Now that person’s mind was shocked. He started thinking that I got a boon from God by doing so much devotion, and this neighbor is getting everything for free. Now he was jealous of his neighbor. One day he said to God, God, cut off one of my hands. God cut off one of his hands and cut off both of his neighbor’s. He felt that the person’s mental condition was deteriorating. That person started feeling sad because of his neighbor. In the process of causing harm to his neighbour, he was also suffering harm to himself. Even when that person was in need, he was not as unhappy as he considered himself to be now. That is why it is said that today’s man is unhappy by nature, not by lack.

Happiness and sorrow in life are like gusts of wind that keep coming and going in our life, sometimes we have to face such situations which are not even expected. We are happy at the time of happiness and become sad when unhappiness comes. There is no single reason to be sad. A person becomes sad on small things. I always keep myself sad because of thinking. Everyone has his own sorrow and by narrating his sorrow to others, he tries to show that his sorrow is the biggest while no one person in the world is unhappy. Yes, we all are sad for one reason or the other.

Most of the people are unhappy because of their desires, often we have high expectations from others, besides, we are worried about getting the result of our efforts quickly and getting more. If we do not get the desired result, then our mind becomes sad. goes and life seems miserable so it is important that we remember this. That we can reduce our sufferings only by reducing our expectations. In today’s time, sadness has become such a disease that almost the entire world is affected. No one is able to feel true happiness. Most of the people are sad. Because people have become slaves of their habits, the habits of a person decide his future, if the habit is good then the future becomes better and if the habit is bad, the future also becomes bad.
Every human being lives a life of both sorrow and happiness, but man himself increases his sorrows and gets trapped in small sorrows and is unable to open the web of his sorrows.

But a person can take happiness only from his good deeds if he chooses the right path by following the ideals. The path may be difficult but when a person is on the right path, he is always happy internally. Happiness can never be achieved by anything external. A person can achieve true happiness only from his inner self, for that he has to feel the happiness of his mind. This can happen only when a person always chooses the right path, even if it is difficult. Always pay attention to the awakening of your life and instead of getting trapped in worldly affairs, focus on giving a new perspective to your life. Seeing others sad and disappointed, you yourself They are really making someone sad. Before thinking bad about someone, think about yourself that it will affect you first, maybe you may not feel that effect immediately but it will definitely come to you at the right time.

When you try to boast of yourself in every matter, show yourself as superior and try to humiliate others. By not accepting their mistake and going back on their words, they turn anything into truth by calling it a lie. If you develop a bad habit of arguing with others, then people soon become unhappy with you and start looking for excuses to stay away from you. Never do the things that you find bad to others. If you do something to someone that is bad for you, then do not expect generosity from anyone.
Putting someone down is a way of making yourself miserable. Some people think that doing this will make them happy, but by doing this you do not become happy but rather feel embarrassed in your mind. When we lose to someone, our mind becomes sad, we become sad, why does this happen?
This happens because our expectations are not fulfilled, the reason for that is no one else but us because we give up.No one can defeat you until you give up. You may lose in many things but you should try again. Instead of worrying, keep moving forward because winning in life is certain if you try with a true heart. A person only concentrates on winning and is afraid of accepting defeat. While it is necessary to understand defeat along with victory. Win and loss are two sides of a coin. You may have lost now but there are chances of winning too. Instead of thinking that we have lost, try again to win. Success is not achieved by the one who does not lose, but success is achieved by the one who does not accept defeat.