Solution is given before the problem. This is the law of nature. There is a solution to every problem. Perhaps there are not one but many solutions. The problem is that either we shy away from facing problems or when we face them, we do not face them with full concentration. It takes time to do any work with concentration, but we are so engrossed in other things that we are never able to give full time to the problem. Power is given to a person first, the problem is given later. This means that the law of thought is always working with you. Whatever problem you want to solve, whatever decision you want to take, solutions are available for it, that is why it is said to think a little, think in the right direction. Some people wish that I should first get such and such things, after that I will live life freely. First I should get all these things,
Some say that I will write something only if I get such a pen. On the other hand, there have been some writers who have written stories on waste paper. They did not think that first I should get a good notebook…. I should get a good pen… then I will write a good story. They started writing with whatever they got. Some writers started writing on the back of envelopes, on the back of bus tickets, wherever they found space. They kept collecting all the papers. Whenever you look in the pockets of their clothes, many papers will come out. They did not think that they will write only if they need all the comforts. They had this idea in their mind to create something, write such a story, which becomes famous in the world, which makes people readers.
It is not necessary that you will get a car or wealth only if you have a thought. You will get it automatically. The main question is what is your basic thought attracting – prosperity… divine plan… expression of God’s qualities… or love? Whether your basic thought attracts good things or bad things, this decision has to be taken by you. You have understood from the example that everyone has different choices. Choices are different and desires are also different. Someone wants to eat the most delicious thing first, that is, first of all he should get comforts and luxuries, rest of the things will be taken care of later. But there is a big danger in this. If the mind gets stuck in comforts and luxuries then the work of creation will remain incomplete.
Is there a finite period for every problem?
Every problem has a limited period, every mountain has a peak, every valley has an end. Similarly, everything has an end somewhere. Whatever has started, has an end too. So never think that a problem will break you completely or destroy you completely. Every problem is temporary, take it in a temporary way and keep the hope in mind that the problem will be solved soon.
Every problem definitely has some positive possibility. Every coin has two sides. What is a problem for one person, can be a profitable deal for someone else. Behind every problem, somewhere in some corner, there is a solution hidden. We see from only one lens, that is why we do not see the solution. Instead of spending too much time on a problem, take a pen and paper and start writing possibilities. Instead of thinking about such nonsense things like “why me, why me, why with me”, imagine a ‘life with problems, with solutions’.
Is the problem dependent on your perspective?
The only difference between the best and ordinary people is the way they look at their problems. Normal people turn a small problem into a big one. They think more about the problems and less about the consequences. Their entire focus is on what difficulties they will face in dealing with the problems and how those problems will break them, how they will harm them. On the other hand, the best people look at the problems in a logical manner. They take decisions based on the merits and demerits of the problems. They focus more on the solutions and less on the problems. Every living person has some problems. You cannot find any living person who does not have any problems in his life. The one who is unemployed has the problem of not having a job. If someone is at the top, he has the problem of not having time for himself. Every person has some problem or the other. How can a living person live without problems? So if you are alive, then accept that problems will come in your life.
When does the problem become prevalent
Problems will not change, but the way to solve them will change. You have to choose that way. No problem has the power to destroy a person unless the person allows the problem to do so. No one in this world can insult you unless you allow them to. No problem can defeat you unless you allow it to do so. We all have a lot of problems in our lives. The poor have their problems, the rich have their problems, bachelors have their problems, married people have their problems, young people have their problems, old people and children have their problems. No one is free from problems. Despite this, people in the world are at different levels because they have solved the problems in different ways. If you also have any problems in your life, then try solving those problems once from the perspective of all the above points. I am not only hopeful but also confident that you will find a solution to your problem. Even if you do not find the solution immediately, your disappointment will definitely reduce. Your stress will reduce. You will get new strength to fight that problem. Every problem brings a change in you. There is no problem that does not bring a change in you. Problems leave you strong and empowered. If you are a weak or negative person, then the problem breaks you and leaves. You will hear about many great people that when a problem came, they decided to fight it. At the same time, you will hear from some people that when a problem came, everything of a person was destroyed.
The problem that has destroyed some people, thousands of people have also found a solution by overcoming the same problem and have also achieved success. Every problem will leave after bringing some change. There is no greater teacher than problems. If there are problems in your life, then you will face them and emerge stronger.
The problem never decides what will happen to you. It is up to you to decide what will happen to you with the problem. You cannot change the circumstances but you can always choose how you will deal with those circumstances. Will you deal with the problem by smiling or crying. You will deal with depression for many days but on the very first day you will be ready to face it with courage.