Many times a man does such a thing for his selfishness, which he regrets for the rest of his life. We can never be happy by making others sad. In reality, if we want happiness, then we have to wish for the happiness of others. Because whatever we do, it comes back to us. The person who talks to someone for his benefit or work, and when his work is done, he turns away, and then remembers him when the work is done again. Let us call it selfishness in simple language. A selfish person can also harm someone for his work and benefit.



God has made human nature different from animals. And man walks according to his nature. Just as all five fingers of a human being are not the same, his desires are unlimited. Similarly, the nature of every human being is not the same. Because we humans are like this. A man never sees shortcomings in himself but very quickly finds shortcomings in others. Similarly, a man does not consider himself selfish but he always finds other people selfish.

Work done selflessly always brings happiness whereas selfishness makes a person weak. The one who does not have a sense of self-interest will be loved by everyone. With true feelings the whole world can be yours, but due to selfishness your world also becomes narrow. Selfishness goes beyond limits. The word selfishness is not bad in itself, but it is completely inappropriate to think of one’s own interests by harming the interests of others. It is necessary to know myself, who I am and why I am there. Who is it in me? Living a selfless life is equivalent to dying, be it through mind, speech or action. But live as if you have to live forever and live as if you have to leave this world tomorrow itself. We cannot help ourselves without helping others. We cannot be happy without giving happiness to others.

Whenever we use the word ‘selfish’, its meaning is full of negativity. In such a situation, we start thinking wrong about ourselves or our own needs or hobbies and first consider it right to do those things which are good for every human being. But this thinking of ours is not always correct. However, the reality is that whatever we do, we do it for one of two reasons. The first is to ‘obtain’ happiness and the second is to avoid ‘sorrow’.

Everyone is sometimes forced to think about themselves first. A selfish person often ends up losing all his friends or people close to him, because no matter how charming or interesting a selfish person is, it is very difficult to maintain a relationship with a selfish person. It is difficult. A very selfish person never thinks about the possibility of himself becoming a selfish person. Many people think that thinking about yourself first and being proud is a good thing. And people who fulfill the needs of others before their own are brainless.

You have to practice putting yourself last. If you’re a selfish person, chances are you always expect yourself to do everything first. Once you learn to live your life happily and without the slightest bit of selfishness, you’ll learn to change yourself the next time you do something, whether it’s standing in line at the store or taking a seat on the bus. Waiting to meet, take a break and try to give what other people want, first of all. Be it food, rest or anything else. Don’t be that person who always thinks only about me, me and me and wants everything first. Remember that other people are just as special as you are and that other people deserve to get what they want, too.

Putting yourself in another person’s shoes can make a big difference in your life. Of course, you probably won’t actually be able to do this, but it can help you to change the way you think about other people and to feel the feelings they’re going through in a given situation. Thinking before you act See how your mother, your friend, your boss, or just about anyone else feels, and you’ll know that the world isn’t what you think it is. The more practice you get at empathizing and understanding what people are going through, the sooner you’ll be able to let go of your selfishness.

Selfish people constantly think that they are the center of the whole world and the whole world should revolve around them. You will have to leave this thinking of yours like a bad habit. No matter how big of an executive you are, you should treat yourself just like everyone else, not because you get paid a little more, look better, or because of the other people around you. Are more talented than.

Selfish people constantly harp on “I want, I want”, thinking that everything in the world should be theirs and that they are entitled to everything they want. He dreamed If you think a little more, you’ll realize that some of the things you thought were important to you are actually easier to live without.

Helping your friends just so they can help you is selfish. Helping your friend simply because he needs help or because it feels good to help someone else is the right way to do it. If you want to stop being selfish, look for opportunities to help your friends only because they need help, not because you have some ulterior motive. You don’t have to be that person who only helps someone when they need help themselves; This behavior does not seem like helpful behavior at all. When your friends, family or even your neighbors are in trouble, you should stand by them.

You should not keep selfishness far and wide even in your married life. Selfish people in relationships never consider themselves wrong. They place the blame on their partner and think that they are always right. If you never apologize even when you are wrong and only try to blame your partner, then it is a sign of your selfishness. One should respect each other’s wishes and feelings. But if you are one of those people who are not interested in listening and understanding anything of their partner and want to do their own thing in the relationship, then you should avoid this selfishness. Also this habit can destroy your relationship. Selfish people only put their needs first. More than this, if after fulfilling your needs, you do not think of meeting the needs of your partner or you do not support them in this, then you should avoid all these habits of yours. Because it will affect your married life.

That’s why don’t be selfish, always think of others, and do good to others as much as possible. When you leave the world, only your desires will be left behind. Selfishness cannot make life safe, charity, charity is the biggest religion. You should not give importance to your personal interest, work for good and charity towards everyone in the society, only then everyone will be well.