The only way you can be more stable is to not care who likes or dislikes you,
Don’t go out of your way to please or offend, just be who you are going to be.  Those who wave, will wave.  Those who do not do so will be unsubscribed.
You have no control over the past and future and it is useless to torment yourself over it.  Surrender now and decide your next steps based on that,
Everyone talks about “keeping it real”, being authentic, and staying true to what matters.  The reality is that most people you meet are dependent on “something” to such an extent that complete honesty and sovereignty becomes impossible.  It is not good or bad.  it is what it is,
The same incident happens to two people;  Some call it a blessing and some call it a curse.  mentality matters,
Life is a continuous education and teaches beyond school.  In learning you find the courage and ways to fight the status quo and express your talents beyond conformity.  Free yourself to improve, explore, imagine and express your creativity.

Living a more stable life is a whole process.  Eat better, get enough sleep, write down what you feel and shout sometimes if you need to.  Work on your body, mind and spirit.  All jars must be filled,
It doesn’t matter if you are not getting love from others, what matters is that you are loving and nurturing yourself.  At the end of the day you are everything so make sure this is the best and most loving relationship of your life,
If you treat a woman as if she is more valuable than you, if you let her dictate the terms of the engagement, or if you prioritize her over your life’s purpose, she will come to hate you.  Be a “man” and raise your self-esteem to have a more stable life,
Don’t overreact to problems.  Solutions can be found even when there seems to be no way out.  Have faith that there is a way, refuse to compromise and you will be surprised by the results, it may sound strange but first you have to get your positive emotions under control as well.

You should avoid idealizing your relationships and your partners and only enjoy what is really there.  Don’t plan too much ahead of time or assume there’s no way to find happiness outside of that relationship.  This doesn’t mean that you can’t be happy in your relationship, it just means that you should take your happiness for granted and not take it for granted.
Another helpful way to handle these setbacks is to immediately find a new source of meaning – if you’re not ready for a new relationship, well, look for another challenge.  Find a problem that occupies your mind until enough time has passed for your wounds to heal.  Take responsibility for something or someone to take your mind off your loss.  If you are successful in some other area, such as work, sports or social life, that can give you enough self-esteem to radiate an aura of stability.
Always remember, you are in control of the events that happen in your karma-oriented life: the power to control the happenings of life is power, while the absence of such power and the state of helplessness is called weakness.  No matter what situation you are in, there are some things that you can control.  Yes, there are certain things that are beyond your control.  Focusing on the things you can control is the first step towards developing mental strength.  Make a list of the things that are bothering you.  Then list down the things that are needed to solve these problems.  Accept all the things in the previous list by heart, because this is the truth.  Then, focus all your energy on the second list you made.

Studies conducted on people who have the ability to fight difficult situations have made it clear that patient and courageous people remain positive in every situation.  In every situation, they pay attention to those things which they can control.  Even if their problem is caused by someone else, they consider it their responsibility to come out of that problem.  At the same time, for those people who get scattered in the slightest problem, it has been found that they run away from responsibility and ignore the steps to get rid of the problem.  Such people feel that they themselves are responsible for their bad situation, so how can they control it? Pay attention to your attitude: Sometimes we find ourselves in situations that we cannot change.  .  Although such situations are very painful, still you can handle yourself in this situation by keeping a positive attitude towards life.
 

No matter what is happening to you, it is wise to remain positive. Don’t allow the person who is making your life miserable to break your spirit. Be confident, be hopeful and always remember that no one can take away your determination and thinking from you. Eleanor Roosevelt said, “No one can make you feel like you are second-class without your permission.”
Do not let any one pain or problem in your life affect other aspects of your life. For example, if you’re feeling extremely frustrated at your job, don’t get upset and act mean to the important people around you who do nothing but try to help you. By controlling your way of thinking, you can reduce the side effects arising from your suffering. Determined people do not let every problem turn into disaster, nor do they keep the impact of negative events in their heart throughout their life.

Trust yourself, you have done so much in life, you can do it again. Will think of today’s today, tomorrow’s tomorrow – with this thinking you can overcome the most difficult situation. Developing such a mindset is not an easy task, It is so easy to say, so difficult to do. But, it becomes possible when you practice. Whenever you feel like everything is about to end, close your eyes and take a deep breath. You will definitely be successful in your endeavour.
Ignore the words of negative thinkers. Some people will habitually keep doubting you, your abilities. All you have to do is ignore them, ignore them and prove them wrong. Don’t let hopeless people make you hopeless and disappointed – you have to take care of this. The reality is that the world is asking you to come, change me, Then what are you waiting for?

Remember your successes. This will boost your confidence and bring enthusiasm in your journey. Be it success in your studies, a conversation you had with a famous person or the joy of the birth of your child – let all these good moments help you in your efforts to strengthen yourself. To be successful, it is important to be positive and our life is exactly what we think.
Don’t stop trying under any circumstances. There will be times when you will doubt your abilities, because there will be times when you will try but will not succeed. Keep in mind that this is a normal thing that happens in this process. Just because you have failed a few times in your efforts, don’t get discouraged and don’t stop trying. Take a long-term view and keep your thinking big. Try again. Remember, it is the stairs of failure that take a person to the pinnacle of success.

Identify your problems, try to understand that what is troubling you, is it really a troubling thing? A colleague asked a question, or a driver on the road ransacked your car, so see if it’s really worth bothering about? See what such things mean to you. Keep your focus only on those things which are truly important in your life and do not worry unnecessarily about anything else. Some people think that keeping things in the heart makes a person strong, but on the contrary, many times it happens by forgetting things. Make connections with people who are important in your life. Along with family and friends, spend time with people who are positive and supportive. If these types of people are not around you, make new friends. If you do not find such friends, then help those who need more help than you. Sometimes, when we are not in a position to improve our situation, many times doing something for others not only makes a person feel good, but it also makes him realize his inner strength. Doing this helps a person to recognize himself, his strengths.

Man is a social animal, there is no doubt about it. Various studies and science all show that a person’s social health is very important for his emotional and physical health. If you have trouble socializing, that’s a problem. You should find a cure for this. Have a great, positive, and thought-provoking conversation with someone
Forget the mistakes you made. Don’t let them make a home in your heart and mind. When a relationship breaks, take control of yourself and come out of this sorrow.
Get rid of shyness, reluctance and hesitation. Become an extroverted person. Maintain a balance between work and leisure, rest and work.
Be thankful for what you have, be grateful, life is hard, but if you look closely at life you will find that you have countless things for which you should be thankful. Remembering the things that made you happy in the past will make you feel good in the present too. The joy you get from the world around you is what gives you the strength to face difficult situations. So, focus on what you have and enjoy it to the fullest.

Life is a tragedy when seen closely, but if you try to understand it, it is a comedy. It is easy to become overwhelmed by the smallest of troubles. This circumstance subtly affects our every action and reaction. So just think and look at life with a little more calmness, joy and a little more love. Life’s unique variations, immense possibilities, as well as its inconsistencies are enough to put a smile on your face and make you realize how lucky you are.

Admit that life can be a lot of fun if it is not taken too seriously. Yes, life is not just about laughing and enjoying, but their place in life is definitely very important.
Always remember, nothing is permanent: if you are surrounded by some crisis or sadness that you cannot overcome, just be calm and let whatever happens happen. Even if your pain is dragging on for too long, remember that just as everything passes, this too shall pass.