Some people in life are such that wherever they go, they gather a crowd of people. People yearn to talk to them and befriend them. On the other hand, there are some people whom no one respects at home as well as outside. People always insult him when he sits in the middle of four people. No one sees any power in his words. He gets frustrated with people’s behavior.

To increase our value, we must first increase our own value in our own eyes. Because as long as your value is not high in your own eyes, its value will remain small in the eyes of others as well. For this you have to know what is your worth. Till now people have made an image like you, you are walking with the same. When people called you a fool, you never thought that they were speaking wrong. You became the way people made you.

First of all, we must stop considering ourselves unworthy. Once upon a time a king went to his garden. He asked all the big trees, tell me what do you do for me. The mango tree replied, When the mango season comes, I am at your service with beautiful fruits. Asked the neem tree, tell me what do you do for me? Nim replied, I am used for the medicines that are made in the Raj Darbar. There was a big banyan tree, the king asked what do you do? Banyan replied, when the gardener and the people of your royal court get tired, then they come and sit under my shade. The king asked the grass what do you do? The grass replied, I am useful in the food of all the cows here. Then the king picked up a small flower while roaming around, asked the flower, tell me what use are you? The little flower said that I am of no use here, the gardener does not break me even for your worship. Because I’m small But I have this desire of my mind that I should be in front of your eyes. May the atmosphere around you be fragrant. The king was very happy with his words. Because despite doing nothing, he had demanded a lot from the king with his cleverness. The king picked it up and decorated it in a vase in his room. The king said to the flower, today you have given me great knowledge. Whenever I see you, the feeling of being the best will awaken in me. Today you have given me a lot of inspiration.

Positive thoughts are very important to increase your value in life. Like the flower said to the king that I am of no use but I am fond of being in front of your eyes. Our spirits should also be equally high. God did not create everyone by giving them all the qualities. At the time of birth, we were mere figures of flesh and bones. Gradually, we started taking education from home, family, society, school etc. The more knowledge one gained, the further he went. Someone’s share also came less, and he made himself sad. It is not necessary that only very educated people can do something in life. People who have common sense also make their name famous in the world with their power. You just need to prove yourself to be the best. To take care of your morale. To have power in your words.

Never let your head down in life. Whether you have wealth or not. Whether people ask you or not. Whether you are good looking or not. Never let your self esteem fall. Never take sympathy from people. People will make you weak by giving their sympathy. Never show your helplessness in front of people. For example, when a beggar sits with a bowl, everyone puts money in his bowl. In the same way, if you show your helplessness to people, then everyone will show kindness to you. Never be an object of people’s kindness. This will weaken your mind. You will start thinking of yourself as small. You will start comparing yourself with others. Will be filled. That’s why make yourself strong by avoiding all these things.