Doing evil has become a common belief. Nowadays, be it brothers or friends, everyone’s tongue is filled with evil. It is difficult to recognize a good thing. On the contrary, the bad thing is that bad habits are quite easy to learn or acquire.

We have to find the good in a person. But evil is found without even looking for it. Whereas we should know that every person in the world has been created by God. There is definitely some good quality in him. You just have to find it. When you hear bad things about yourself from someone else and this bad thing has been done by your special friend or colleague or family member. Both of them get hurt a lot. The most important thing is not to believe what you hear. First of all, let us know how much truth is there in that statement. Many times people spread rumors or create a ruckus over small matters. Therefore, it is important not to react without knowing the truth, because sometimes our small mistake separates us from the people close to us.

Long time ago, a farmer named Krishna lived in a village. He was very hardworking and honest. Due to his good behavior, people far and wide knew him and praised him. But one day when he was returning from the fields late in the evening, he heard some people talking on the way, they were talking about him. Krishna started walking behind them slowly without informing them to hear his praise. It seemed, but when he listened to them, he found that they were speaking ill of him, someone was saying that Krishna is arrogant.” So someone was saying that everyone knows that he pretends to be good. He had only heard his praise before but this incident had a very bad effect on his mind. And now whenever he saw some people talking, he felt that they were speaking ill of him. Even if someone praised him, he felt that he was being made fun of. Gradually everyone started realizing that Krishna had changed, and his wife also started feeling unhappy with the change in her husband’s behavior and one day she asked, why are you so upset these days, please tell me the reason.

Krishna felt sad and told about that day. The wife also did not understand what to do but then she noticed that a saint had come to a nearby village, and she said, Swami, I have come to know that a saint has come to the neighboring village. Let us ask him for a solution. Next day he reached the saint’s camp. Krishna narrated the entire incident and said, since that day everyone speaks ill and falsely of me, please tell me how I can regain my reputation. am ! ,
Saint had understood Krishna’s problem.
He said, Son, leave your wife at home and stay in my camp tonight. Krishna did the same, but when it was time to sleep at night, suddenly the sound of frogs croaking started coming. He said, why is there so much noise here? The saint said, son, there is a pond behind, at night. The frogs present in it start singing their song.

But in such a situation no one can sleep here, yes son, but you tell me what can we do, if possible you help us, said the saint. Krishna said, hearing so much noise it seems that the number of these frogs would be in thousands. Tomorrow I will bring fifty-sixty laborers from the village and catch them and leave them in the river far away. And the next day he reached there with the laborers early in the morning, the saint was also standing there watching everything. It was not big, 8-10 laborers cast a net from all sides and started catching the frogs. Within a short time, all the frogs were caught. When Krishna saw that in total only 50-60 frogs had been caught, he Asked the saint, there were thousands of frogs in it last night, where have they all gone today? There are only a handful of frogs left here. The saint said seriously, no frog has gone anywhere, you heard the sound of these frogs yesterday, these handful of frogs were making so much noise that you thought thousands of frogs were croaking. Have been. Son, in the same way, when you heard some people speaking ill of you, you made the same mistake. You thought that everyone spoke ill of you, but the truth is that the people who spoke ill of you were only a handful of frogs. So the next time you hear someone talking bad about you, just remember that there may be only a few people who are doing this, and also understand that no matter how good you are, there will always be some people who Will speak ill of you.

Now Krishna had realized his mistake, he had become the old Krishna again. We should also not consider the behavior of some people as the behavior of everyone and should live our life with positive thinking. No matter what we do, sometimes such a problem arises in life which in the darkness of the night sounds as if thousands of frogs are croaking in our ears. But when we try to solve it in the light of day, If so then the same problem seems smaller. Therefore, instead of panicking in such a situation, we should try to find a solution and never be afraid of a handful of frogs.

Understand the motive behind speaking ill of any person whether he wants to degrade you or make you better. Whenever someone speaks ill of you, you should not defend yourself. Rather, one should ask the person who does evil about his shortcomings and listen to him quietly and attentively. If the person in front of you tells you about your shortcomings and evils, then also ask him the solution to remove those evils. It is only through the way of giving this remedy that we can know whether the person in front wants to humiliate us or he really wants to make us better. If someone criticizes or speaks evil of you to humiliate you. So in such a situation, by making the person in front of you look high, you can make him look low. In this, the evil doer is punished.

Who speaks evil of you? There are three types of people who speak ill of you. First, those people who are not seeing your success. Secondly, those people who want to work like you but are not able to do it. And third are those people who cannot defeat you one on one. That’s why someone wants to defame you by doing evil behind your back. This question comes to your mind if someone does evil to you, then what should you do for him? The direct answer to this is that you should not do anything against him. Because when a person speaks ill of others, he makes his own character clear. He falls in everyone’s eyes.
He can’t do anything for you. You keep doing your work. Neither do you have to give an explanation nor do you have to waste your time arguing with him.
There is a saying that whoever does some work may also make some mistakes. How can a person commit any mistake by sitting idle and not doing anything? Therefore, encourage those who do good work and do not speak ill of them.