I like shopping the most in Kolkata. Because Kolkata is a place where everything is available. Full of colors, sounds and smells of tempting food, the streets of Kolkata give a different experience in itself. From cheap clothes to cheap take-home souvenirs, these places will give you good bang for your buck along with the good stuff. Kolkata, the capital of West Bengal, has a lot to offer to shopaholics. Whether you are fond of branded or funky street stuff, you will find a lot in Kolkata. Therefore, if you are planning a trip to Kolkata, then definitely enjoy shopping from these special markets of this city.
Not only shopping, here you can enjoy different types of cuisines. You don’t need to go to any big restaurant. The street food here is so delicious that you will never forget its taste.
What is your middle name? Does it carry any special meaning/significance?
Pushp means flower and Anjali means means gift, offering, tribute.
My middle name is Pushpanjali. Its meaning is Anjali full of flowers or Anjali full of flowers which are offered to any deity or a worshipable person. Girls named Pushpanjali are of very religious nature. Girls named Pushpanjali are full of charitable and cheerful nature. Girls named Pushpanjali do not allow their mind to take rest. Always thinking about something or the other. In matters of career, girls named Pushpanjali prefer the fields of writing, music, media and communication etc. Women named Pushpanjali move forward only after achieving the things of their choice. Girls named Pushpanjali do not follow discipline and achieve success without any plan. Girls named Pushpanjali with lucky number 5 like to work as per their wish and decide their own goals. Girls named Pushpanjali have amazing mental strength. They are of very interesting nature. Girls named Pushpanjali like to gain knowledge from everywhere. Girls named Pushpanjali do every work with full enthusiasm. You don’t hesitate in any new beginning.
Circumstances, whether good or bad, are a part of our life. It is just like happiness and sorrow in our life. The vehicle of life is moving, sometimes the wheel of happiness comes up and sometimes of sorrow. Life keeps moving continuously in these ups and downs, we never run away from the car of life. There is a definite philosophy of life, in that philosophy, keeping our feet on the ground and flying high helps us achieve success in every situation.
Similarly, I also had a shortcoming, I never accepted my mistakes. I had to repent for this many times. It is never easy to accept your mistakes, but learning something from your mistakes is one of the most important elements of life. Actually, mistakes help a person to move forward, learn and improve himself. However, this is possible only when you accept your mistakes. The best thing about accepting mistakes is that it helps us to know our fears and get courage to fight them. So, to improve yourself, accept mistakes and move forward. Mistakes teach us to be more responsible. Are. When you admit your mistake, understand that you are very responsible. This will not only help you in your current situation but will help you throughout your life. Once you start accepting mistakes and the truth about yourself, you won’t get stuck searching for opportunities. Welcome challenges with a smile.
The life of a person who accepts his mistakes becomes more beautiful than before. They develop self-confidence and virtues. People who do not want to accept their mistakes gradually start developing negative qualities. To hide a mistake, a person often has to say untrue things. These untruths become a part of the life of such people. Admitting a mistake is a courageous act. Such a person comes closer to God. Those who do not have the courage to admit their mistakes, love, kindness and duty disappear from within them. Such people become indifferent towards themselves and their needs. An emotional emptiness is created inside them. This emotional emptiness happens because they keep their mistake hidden from everyone. Do not share it with anyone. Every mistake can be corrected. Man moves forward only by learning from mistakes and achieves success in life.
What is one question you hate to be asked? Explain.
Question and answer are a part of our personal life. Sometimes we also ask some question to someone else which perhaps the other person does not like. It often happens that people keep asking anything knowingly or unknowingly. I also don’t like one such question, when people ask me again and again, why are you becoming so thin? Hey brother, anyone can have health problems. But it is not necessary that this question be asked every time we meet.
There are some people who after meeting me seem as if they have nothing to do. But they upset me by asking the same thing again and again. Maybe their desire is to make me more worried. And while they know I am facing some health problem. Here I am remembering a song from a Hindi movie, Kuch to log kahenge logo ka kaam hai kehna!
I remember a poem from my school days on this topic.
Some people will say that it is the job of the people to speak. If no one says anything then you should also not remain silent. This habit of remaining silent will become a disease. When you want to speak, no voice will come. Recognize your voice in those silent screams. Only you know when to silence the silence.
How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success?
बचपन में मुझे याद है मेरा पढ़ने लिखने में बिल्कुल मन नहीं लगता था।पर दूसरों के जब अच्छे परिणाम आते तो मुझे दुःख लगता की मेरे अच्छे मार्क्स क्यों नहीं आते।प्रारंभ में मैं अपने जीवन में सफलता प्राप्त करने में बहुत पीछे था। मेरे अंदर निराशा की भावना स्थान बनाने लगी थी। फिर मैंने सोचा कि मैं क्यों नहीं सफल हो सकता हूं। यह प्रश्न मुझे झकझोर गया और मेरे अंदर उत्साह का भाव संचारित हुआ। मैं लगन और परिश्रम से अपनी पढ़ाई में लग गया। परिणामस्वरूप मुझे क्रमश: सफलताएं मिलने लगीं। उत्साहवर्धन हुआ और मैं अपने जीवन में एक सफल व्यक्ति के रूप में उभरा। प्रारंभिक असफलताओं के आधार पर किसी को भी अपने भविष्य का निर्धारण नहीं करना चाहिए।हमारे अंदर क्षमता की कमी नहीं होती है। आवश्यकता होती है उसको समझने की, उसको प्रोत्साहित करने की तथा मार्गदर्शन की।जीवन के प्रारंभिक चरण में असफल होने से निराश नहीं होना चाहिए। उसे चुनौती के रूप में लेना चाहिए क्योंकि असफलता भी सफलता का मार्ग दिखा सकती है तथा एक सीढ़ी का कार्य कर सकती है। प्राय: हम यह अनुमान लगा लेते हैं कि प्रारंभ में यदि विद्यार्थी पढ़ाई में कमजोर है तो वह भविष्य में सफल नहीं हो सकता लेकिन हमारी यह अवधारणा निराधार है। इस बात का उदाहरण मैं स्वयं हूं।
असफलता हमारे व्यक्तिगत स्तर पर, व्यावसायिक स्तर पर या किसी प्रतियोगी परीक्षा मे विफल हो जाने की वजह से प्राप्त होती है । जिसकी वजह से हम निराश हो जाते है और हमें अपने आप पर गुस्सा आने लगता है | मगर हमें अपने गुस्से को शांत करके विफलता के कारणो पर ध्यान देना चाहिए |असफलता का एक चुनौती की तरह सामना करो और जीवन मे सफल होने के लिए जिन कार्यो की जरुरत है उन पर अपना ध्यान केंद्रित करे। क्योकि जब तक हम जिन्दा है तब तक कुछ कार्य में हम सफल होंगे और कुछ मे असफल भी होंगे | लेकिन हम अपनी सफलताओ को भूल कर अपनी असफलताओ पर ही ध्यान केंद्रित कर दुखी होते रहते है |हम मे से अधिकांश लोग हमेशा अपने आप की तुलना दुसरो से करते रहते है अगर हम तुलनात्मक रूप से उनसे आगे है तो खुश हो जाते है और अगर उनसे पीछे है तो दुखी हो जाते है | हम अपनी सफलता की भी तुलना दूसरे की सफलता से करने लगते है जिसकी वजह से हम कभी खुश नहीं सकते है | हमें अपने मन को शांत करके ठन्डे दिमाग से काल्पनिक दुनिया से बहार आकर वास्तविकता को स्वीकार कर असफलता के कारणो पर विचार करना चाहिए ताकि हम अगले प्रयास मे सफलता को पा सके | इसलिए हमें अपने आप को पहले ही हर परिस्थिति के लिए तैयार करना चाहिए ताकि असफलता हाथ लगने पर भी हम हिम्मत न हारे और फिर से उठ कर सफल होने की राह मे आगे बढ़े।
You’re writing your autobiography. What’s your opening sentence?
Me and my God. First of all, I would like to thank God and my parents who gave birth to me on earth. Because without the will of God, not even a bird can take birth.
Being a daughter, I got a lot of pampering from my father. Among the five siblings, I was the one who received the most love. In no time, childhood passed, adolescence arrived, and marriage took place. After marriage, I crossed a large part of my life thinking about joint family, children and all this. Now I started to feel that I had never fulfilled my hobbies. Because since childhood I was fond of writing.
Many friends have come and gone in my life and there are still many. But life is not complete with all these things. I came to know this now. Unless you give dimension to your desires and hobbies, life is incomplete. The definition of life is different for everyone. But whatever the situation, it is very important to create your own identity.
Actually, a human being needs only food, clothing and house to survive. But there are many such things in daily life without which we cannot imagine living. What someone likes, what someone dislikes. But there are some things without which we cannot live. It seems like I have also become a habit of some things.
1. Tea:
Tea is something that starts most people’s morning. Similarly, I am also very addicted to drinking milk tea early in the morning. Sometimes I think that I will stop drinking tea now. And on my part, I often start giving up on it. But after a few hours I have to drink tea. Otherwise it seems as if my brain will no longer work.
2. Mobile:
In today’s era, everything is incomplete without mobile. I also think this is true. From early morning good morning messages to nightly news, it can be seen. There is good and bad in some things. This is a dangerous thing for people who misuse mobile. But if seen, mobile is a big achievement in itself. Through mobile we are able to know about the news and condition of people. Sometimes, if we don’t see anyone’s messages for a few hours, we start getting calls from friends asking if everything is alright?😂
3, My specs,
without them I have no existence. Because these are my eyes with which I use my gadgets. The biggest thing is that without them I cannot look into the eyes of my God and have a silent conversation with him. I could do it. And if I don’t do it even for a day, I start feeling that my God will ask me if everything is well?🙏
What experiences in life helped you grow the most?
Every person has some experience in life which he remembers throughout his life. Such a time came in my life also.
I was of introverted nature since childhood. I never believed in God. I was not in the habit of completing any one task easily. Like I used to do the same in matters of studies also. Due to this nature of mine before the exams, I could not complete any subject.
Once my father made me read Ramayana. Many ways to be successful have been mentioned in the Hindu scriptures also. Goswami Tulsidas writes in Ramcharitmanas, just as the fishes of a big reservoir always remain happy, in the same way a person in the shelter of God also remains free from all problems. Therefore, concentrate on God to do your work. God will help you every step of the way. After reading this, my life changed completely. I became a believer from that day. Then I saw that there was a stability in my nature. And whatever I did, I put my heart and soul into it. Although, due to some family problems, I could not study much. But even today, when I do something, I do it with all my heart. Therefore, one should always learn to control the mind. A person who learns to control his mind and desires can be successful in any work. Because if your mind is not under control, you will always deviate from your work or goal. It is said in the scriptures that, control the mind and use the mind more than the heart to achieve success.
Offcourse! No one can ever get anything less than luck or more than luck. But nothing is achieved by relying only on luck. A person should do his work with full hard work, but sometimes the results are not in our hands. At that time, after doing all the hard work, we have to leave the result in the trust of God.
Every human being is helpless in the hands of his fate, and the pen of fate is in the hands of the Creator. This pen of God which determines man’s destiny is determined by man’s own deeds. By doing right deeds in the right direction, destiny starts changing, we just need to know the way to do the right deeds, the right way, the right method, the right Must know the time. Willpower and determination can transform a person from a pauper to a king and an ignorant person can become a great person. Therefore, if you want to change your destiny, then first of all strengthen your will power and determination and work in the right direction under the guidance of a qualified Guru, you will definitely get success.
Shri Krishna says in Geeta that God never writes anyone’s fate in advance. The fate of any person is determined by his thoughts, behavior and actions. It is written in Geeta that no one can take away whatever is in your destiny, if you have faith in God then you will get everything that you want. Are entitled.
I have heard many people saying that it was I who did this, otherwise who had the courage to do this? But perhaps man does not know that whatever good or bad work is done by his hands, there is also the will of the Creator. God alone decides what our actions are and makes our hands do the same. The present condition of man, happiness and sorrow, rich and poor, all this is the choice of fate. If luck had no role then all the hard working people would have been reaching great heights. And people who do not do many deeds also do not reach high heights.
That’s why luck is very important in my eyes. But don’t rely on luck.
Apart from WordPress, I don’t have any other job. I like writing, so I decided to do it. But I don’t get paid according to my hard work. So should I talk to WordPress? Your opinion?,😂
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