In my opinion, the definition of romantic is something different. When a child is born, he only romances with his mother. Gradually as he grows up, he romances with his friends, after marriage with his wife, and in old age with God. In all these phases, he starts liking the other person. Because love is blind. In my opinion, we should be romantic in every relationship. Because without romance, every relationship is lifeless.
Romance is a mind-satisfying sentence. Romantic love is the feeling of love or strong attraction towards another person, and the romantic behavior done by a person to express those overall feelings and resulting emotions. When you are in love with someone, you find every moment spent with them beautiful. You feel very good if your partner is with you on small occasions and moments, but it feels good only when your partner truly loves you. Sometimes it also happens that some couples cherish love for a special moment, but you should keep making them feel loved. Love brings a big change in life. When you are in love, you try to know the feelings, worries, likes and dislikes of each other. In love, no single day is special, but every moment spent together is close to the heart and very special. You like to spend as much time as possible with those whom you love. Both always want to spend quality time with each other. To make any relationship strong, it is most important to have love in it. If you also love your partner then these things must be there in your relationship. This makes your relationship stronger.
As human beings, we love to be appreciated or praised. Having words like thank you, kindness, shukriya, thank you in our lives is not a mere formality like expressing gratitude at the end of a function. Saying thank you makes us a little humble. Being grateful makes us more human. Gratitude makes us a little more fluid. Saying ‘thank you’ to someone openly not only makes you a happier person, but it can make you a much healthier and more energetic person too.
When I say ‘thank you’ to someone face to face, I do so with a smile and by making eye contact with the person I am thanking. This is because these small gestures add to the sincerity of the spoken ‘thank you’. There are many situations where just saying ‘thank you’ to someone face to face is not enough, like inviting me to dinner, giving me a gift, etc. When such situations arise, a written ‘thank you’ is more effective. A blank card works well for such situations, on which I can write my feelings. Because whoever has treated me so well and extra special, deserves something extra special in return, and a written ‘thank you’ note or card is the best way to express gratitude for the good deed done by them.
There are so many characters in our life, so many people we meet in a day, whose presence in our life brings meaning, ease, happiness, but even after knowing their importance, we fall short in expressing our gratitude for their presence. Sometimes in hesitation, sometimes in the belief that we will say it later. And if unfortunately we do not get a chance to express our gratitude, then the pain of being ungrateful comes with us. The answer to considering ourselves powerful is that our mind should be filled with gratitude towards nature. For the air due to which we are able to breathe. For the water which quenches our thirst every time. For the fire which cooks our food. For the sky which is the limit of our expansion. For the earth which is the basis of our existence. We should be grateful. For everything that we have got. For everything that provides facilities in our life. For every person whose presence makes our life easier. For every moment whose presence makes our existence meaningful. We are taught from childhood to be grateful. Spirituality also shows the same path which is the formula for stress-free life management. We are repeatedly told to express gratitude while sleeping that today was a good day. Wake up the next day with gratitude that we have got another day. But we are perhaps the most miserly in expressing gratitude. We are rarely grateful to nature. Those who bow their heads while making a wish at the temple often forget to express gratitude. There are many such characters in our life who silently make our life bloom, we forget to be grateful to them.Expressing gratitude is the test of a human being. And we should live up to it
There is a saying in Hindi that worry is like a pyre. Because if the fire of worry catches hold of it, it burns itself like a pyre.There is hardly any person who is free from anxiety. But some people think too much and some people take every problem lightly. Anxiety is a common mental health condition that can affect people of all ages and backgrounds. Experiencing some level of anxiety can be normal, however experiencing excessive and persistent anxiety can have a negative impact on a person’s daily and social life.
I am also not untouched by this. Sometimes I too worry that what will happen if only one of us, husband and wife, is left. I always tell my God that if God gives me pain then give me such strength to bear it that no matter what kind of pain it is, it does not affect me. A human being can only think but only what the God wants happens.so Leave everything to god
Good nature, tolerance and restraint can make not just a teacher but every person great. A teacher is the person who bears the most responsibility in our society. Because the responsibility of the future of children rests on the teacher. A good teacher can make every effort to create a bright future for children. Even if the child is not good at studies. But if the teacher wants, he can take him in the right direction. Good teachers are enthusiastic, friendly, easy-going, able to develop relationships with learners, committed to the development of their students, sociable, interested in learners as people and always conscious of their position as role models. This quality of theirs makes them great. Kindness, empathy and focus on community building are among the qualities of a great teacher. Being a great teacher means that he or she must possess all the qualities of knowledge, intelligence, and wisdom. Important skills for teachers include time management skills, leadership skills, strong work ethic, problem solving abilities, high emotional intelligence, and the knowledge and adaptability required to adopt different teaching methods and approaches. A teacher must be proficient in all four modes of communication – listening, speaking, reading and writing – and must know how to use this proficiency effectively in the school environment. A teacher must keep improving himself or herself according to the changing times. He or she must know about his or her subject, general knowledge, health, good communication, and the psychology of teaching children.
Great teachers are always learning. What makes them popular among their students is that they learn from their students and develop a broad outlook at the academic and social level. It is the teacher’s responsibility to promote good qualities and education in children to build the nation’s character. The future of the country emerges from school. Therefore, it is important that the primary school teacher himself should be of good character so that the children start considering him as an ideal. He should leave an indelible impression on the students. Children are not sent to school only for studies but also to develop their personality so that they do not remain naive or shy.
A teacher should not only have knowledge of his own subject, but also of all the subjects taught in school, and his level of general knowledge should be high, because today’s children have started knowing more than the teachers, so now teachers are facing challenges from their students. That is why there will always be a need to update knowledge, because today’s students know much more than before. Now they have mobile phones and Google in their hands. But a great teacher always wins the hearts of children with his behavior. A good teacher never talks to his students in a commanding language, rather he gives instructions politely and when needed, he also reprimands with love. His behavior is that of a friend with his students. Discipline is necessary between a teacher and a student, but now times have changed. Now friendship is also necessary, which will make it easier for you to understand and explain to the students. This will also help introvert students to open up and their fear will go away.
A good teacher is the one who treats all his students equally and works to increase the confidence of all. There are many children who are not as good at studies as other children. There can be many reasons for this, but instead of thinking about those reasons, the teacher should think that if attention is not given to weak children today, then these children will continue to struggle in their lives in the future. Whether parents pay attention or not, the teacher should pay special attention to every child. Every teacher does the work of imparting education, but children remember only that teacher throughout their life who does his work in an interesting way. Interesting things keep the attention of children focused on studies and they absorb any kind of knowledge quickly. One should keep doing something new every time. And children get bored with only studies, for this it is necessary to be humorous. The work of a teacher is not just to teach course books, he should also share his life experiences. This will help you to establish better coordination with them. A good teacher is the one who teaches his students to differentiate between good and bad in life, things necessary for a bright future, behaviour and humanity. A good teacher is the one who presents his point with examples and stories. With this, children learn quickly and also remember for a long time.
A good teacher should be punctual and disciplined because seeing him, children also start doing all their work on time and remain disciplined. He should go to school on time, attend the prayer meeting, go to the class as soon as the class starts and leave the class immediately after the class ends. Also, he should teach the children the lesson of discipline through his small actions. If the teacher does not have self-respect, what will the students learn by seeing him? A good and effective teacher is one who does not bow down to any wrong thing in front of the students, the principal and others. He does not tolerate any kind of injustice and does not compromise with any wrong thing. The teacher who is aware of his duties and rights is the one who can protect his self-respect. In the olden days, children used to be afraid of the teacher, but today’s children want the teacher to behave with them like a friend. Because nowadays even the parents do not talk to the children in a loud voice, let alone scolding them. That is why children do not have restraint. The teacher who understands this becomes great in the eyes of the children.Good behaviour makes a teacher great more than his knowledge.
Surgery is such a painful event that after it happens, it sometimes fills us with immense happiness. I too had to undergo C section surgery twice at the time of my children’s birth. But the pain caused by it was less than the joy of seeing my children’s faces.
I had my third surgery done for a tumor which was below my right ear. This surgery was very painful for me. But by the grace of God I am completely fine now.
Sometimes the injury to the heart caused by one’s own people is no less than a surgery. And probably everyone has to undergo this surgery. I have also undergone it, and that too many times. Now I have learnt to recover from this surgery. No matter what anyone says, do not let it reach your heart, this is the art to deal with it.
Every human being has certain daily habits. Routine is the ideal daily schedule that takes into account the cycle of nature. Ayurveda focuses on morning time as it is important in regulating the whole day. Ayurveda believes that Routine is the discipline of body and mind and it strengthens the immune system, simple healthy routine purifies the body and mind, balances the doshas, strengthens the immune system and starts the day with freshness.
My daily habits include 6 hours of sleep, walking 10000 steps, working for 8 to 10 hours, meditating for 1 hour, spending 1 hour with my God, spending 1 hour with family, and spending some time watching a movie or serial of my choice.I also have a hobby of watching the beauty of nature and gardening in our home garden. if I miss out on something in all these tasks, I don’t mind, but talking to my God is my daily habit.
Each night I take 5 minutes of evaluation to understand what I forgot today and try to do it the next day. Arranging the schedule for the next day is my habit. It helps us to use the time that is available to us. It likewise makes a person normal and reliable, it makes him more coordinated and stress-free. With the help of these things, one can get more chances to complete and finish his work on time.
Are there things you try to practice daily to live a more sustainable lifestyle?
Who does not wish to live a long life? But to live a long life, just eating, drinking, sleeping and daily routine work is not enough. Nor is it necessary to be very rich to live a long life. Even a poor person can have a good life by paying attention to many things.
I also pay attention to many things for this. A big difference can be made by making some small changes in the lifestyle. It is important to understand that there is no need to do any big or difficult work to get good health and long life. When it comes to the quality of life through mental health and physical fitness, we all start thinking about how to improve it. But if looked carefully, it is not that difficult. A big difference can be made by making some small changes in the lifestyle. Many times we think about the elderly in our homes and around us whether we will be able to live as long as them. Or whether we will be able to be as active as them at their age. But it is important to understand that there is no need to do any big or difficult work to get good health and long life, rather we can get a healthy lifestyle by making a little change in our daily routine.
I try to include some form of physical activity in my daily life to feel healthier, more energetic, or in a better mood. Regular exercise has many benefits for both my physical and mental health. It doesn’t necessarily mean I have to go to the gym. Brisk walking, dancing, cycling, or doing household chores are all examples of my daily activities. As long as you’re moving and not sitting still, it’s good for you.
Homemade food, whole foods are foods that have not been overly processed or altered. They tend to have a lot of added chemicals or artificial ingredients to make them taste good or to help them have a longer shelf-life. So I avoid these kinds of foods. Fresh foods provide your body with more vitamins, minerals and essential nutrients than processed foods.
Social work fills my life with new energy. Helping the poor, keeping my community clean, taking care of children and the elderly, doing all these works gives me a unique happiness. And I feel my blood is increasing.
I try to keep myself away from anger, negative thinking, jealousy etc. because these things never allow us to remain healthy. Keeping control over my speech is also one of my habits.
Spirituality,,Spirituality is the most important thing in life. We all should know how to thank God. Because all happiness can be achieved only by his mercy.
What’s the most delicious thing you’ve ever eaten?
Delicious food should be such that we can eat it everyday. Irrespective of your caste or religion, home made food is the best for you because you will keep on eating it from birth till death and still you will not get bored. And if we believe it then it is good for our health. People have invented millions of recipes in the world. Every province and every place has its own taste. I too like many dishes from different countries. But till date, the one I liked the most among the outside food is Turkish Baklaavah
I don’t know how it is made. But it is a very tasty sweet. It does not spoil for a long time. And nowadays, giving this sweet as a gift has become quite common.
If you were forced to wear one outfit over and over again, what would it be?
This is a very interesting question, this can only happen in some profession. Like student, doctor, nurse, pilot, army, and many places have rules to wear the same dress. But I am a housewife. No one forces me to wear what I should or should not wear. But yes, I am repeatedly forced to wear one thing and that is my kitchen apron 😂
Sometimes I get angry in wearing this kitchen apron, but that happens when I finish all my work and sit down to write a blog. And at this time my son says mummy please make something for me to eat. Although I like cooking. But sometimes I get angry at odd hours.
The true meaning of spirituality is to develop a personal relationship with God. It is that which connects our everyday life with the Brahma. Spirituality has the highest place in my life. Since childhood my parents have taught me that we are puppets made by God. Only that can happen to us which God wants. No matter how much we try, we get only what He wants. So always try to please your God, not the people of the world. My parents used to say that in this world people support you only till they have some benefit to you. Only God supports you without any benefit. That is why I never forget to thank God first in all the moments of my life be it defeat, victory, success, happiness, respect, sorrow or joy. Only God has given me the strength to fight every situation.
Spiritual life is a practical way to develop that relationship. Spiritual knowledge prevents man from moving towards degradation. The darkness that has developed inside man due to materialism can be dispelled only by the light of spirituality. Only spiritual knowledge can help him understand the dimension of God and the creation of man which is a creation of the universe. Spirituality is important to make a person more aware and healthy physically or mentally. Spirituality promotes knowledge and awareness of the surroundings. A person who practices spirituality is considered to be more calm and thoughtful than a person who does not practice spirituality. It can help you understand your experiences in life. When you are unwell, it can help you feel inner strength. Spirituality is the only solution to our suffering, it is important for our well-being and peace. We are so caught up in this world of illusion that we do not reflect on the one thing we should do.
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