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What to do if you get bad instead of good?

October 13th, 2023

Today’s world is very selfish. Here all relationships are meaningful. Except the parents, no relationship lives up to expectations. But there is no dearth of good people in this world. Even today there are many people who risk their happiness for others. But it feels very sad when the other person does not understand their value.

Helping someone selflessly is one thing but being selfless does not mean forgetting one’s own needs. You must remember that God has given every human being a body and mind, it is the responsibility of every individual human being to take care of its needs and happiness. You did not help someone so that he or she would help you in return or respect you. Or think about you. Your heart and mind believe it is right to do so, so you did it, then if later your work is not recognized or respected, then you should not be sad. If so, then it shows that you are also having some desire in return for those actions and this is the reason for your suffering in this place.

Once a disciple started asking his Guru, Guruji, even if I do good work, people criticize me and even if I do bad work, they criticize me. You tell me how to live in this world. The Guru asked whether I should tell by saying or by doing. So the disciple said, try it this time and tell me. The Guru had three identical girls. Gave one of them to the girl disciple and said, hook a hook into it and catch a fish. The disciple said okay and he walked towards the river. Guruji was also walking with him. As soon as the disciple threw the wood into the river, a fish got stuck in it. The Guru said, apply force and take it out. The disciple used his full strength. The wood broke due to too much pulling. Guruji gave him another stick and asked him to use less force this time. The disciple said okay. He threw the wood into the river and the fish got stuck again, but this time the disciple did not use any strength at all. Due to this the wood went into the water and the fish took hold of the wood. The Guru said now I will give you the third stick. This time neither do you use force nor too much. This time the disciple used as much force as the fish. And this time the fish was caught. Then the Guru said, did you understand anything from this technique? Then the disciple said, no Guruji, I did not understand anything. Then the Guru said to the disciple, the way of this world is exactly like this. If you want to ask for good in return for good, this world will never give it to you. You don’t need to force yourself too much with this world. You just keep doing good to everyone in your own way, with your body, mind, words. Then don’t expect what you get in return. Good deeds yield good results.

You need to understand that by doing something for someone while being capable, even if you make a sacrifice for someone with your conscience, that too you have fulfilled your moral duty and human dharma, it is possible that you will be rewarded in the future. You may get rewarded for it, but you should not expect any good results from it. Remember the saying of Geeta, do your work, do not worry about the results. This is the path that will not let you be sad in any situation.
What importance do trees hold for us?

October 13th, 2023

The place that trees have in Hinduism is not found in any other religion. In Hindu religion, Gods and Goddesses are considered to reside in trees. This is the reason why trees are worshipped. We all know that the scientific reason for planting trees is to keep the environment pure. But in Hindu religion there are some trees which are worshiped like God. Let us know which trees are worthy of worship and why?

Banana tree :

The banana tree is considered very sacred and is used in many religious ceremonies. Bananas are offered to Lord Vishnu and Goddess Lakshmi. Prasad is distributed in banana leaves. It is believed that worshiping the banana tree is good for prosperity. The leaf, fruit and flower of the banana tree are all used. A very tasty vegetable is made from the banana flower. Banana is easily available in every season. It is a very nutritious and tasty fruit. Banana is interesting, sweet, powerful, increases semen and flesh and is beneficial in eye problems. Regular consumption of ripe banana strengthens the body. It destroys the disorders of phlegm, dysentery, gas and leucorrhoea.

Ficus religiosa tree,

Ficus tree has great importance in Hindu religion. In Ayurveda, the medicinal properties of Peepal are described for use in many incurable diseases. Due to its medicinal properties, Peepal tree has been given the name of ‘Kalpavriksha’. Thirty-three crore deities reside in the Peepal tree from root to leaves and hence the ficus tree is considered to be worshiped in the morning. By offering water to the said tree, diseases and sorrows are eradicated. Every element of ficus like bark, leaves, fruits, seeds, milk, coir and copal and lac are useful in the treatment of all types of diseases. In Hindu religious texts, ficus is considered equivalent to nectar. Due to the maximum release of oxygen, it is called the storehouse of vital air. It has immense capacity to generate maximum oxygen and assimilate toxic gases. With this environment, Vata, Pitta and Kapha are mitigated and the balance of all three conditions is also maintained. This also provides mental peace. Ficus worship has been prevalent since ancient times. There is also many archaeological evidence of this. On Saturday’s Amavasya, worshiping the ficus tree and circumambulating it seven times by lighting a mustard oil lamp with black sesame seeds and offering it as shade, one gets relief from the pain of Saturn.

Banyan tree:

Banyan is called banyan tree. In Hinduism, a festival called Vat Savatri is completely dedicated to Vat. After Peepal, Banyan has the most importance. While Lord Vishnu resides in Peepal, Brahma, Vishnu and Shiva are considered to reside in Banyan. However, the banyan tree has actually been called Shiva. To see a banyan tree is to see Lord Shiva. According to Hindu religion, five banyan trees have great importance. It is said about Akshayavat, Panchavat, Vanshivat, Gayavat and Siddhavat that no one knows about their antiquity. The above five Vats have been kept in the category of sacred Vats in the world. There is Akshayavat in Prayag, Panchavat in Nashik, Vanshivat in Vrindavan, Gayavat in Gaya and the holy Siddhavat in Ujjain.

Mango tree :

In Hindu religion, whenever any auspicious function is performed, the atmosphere of the Manglik festival is made religious and pure by placing a garland of mango leaves on the doors and walls of the house or place of worship. Mangoes are often used for decoration in religious pandals and pavilions. Mango leaves are used. It is considered very important to have mango wood in Havan. There are thousands of varieties of mango tree and the fruit it produces is famous all over the world. Mango juice cures many types of diseases.

Shami tree,

The leaves of Shami tree are offered to Lord Shiva. It is believed that offering Shami leaves to Lord Shiva provides relief from bad dreams. According to Varahamihir, the year in which the Shami tree flourishes more, a situation of drought is created. One meaning of worshiping it on the day of Vijayadashami is that this tree gives advance indication of the coming agricultural disaster, due to which the farmer can make more effort than before to get rid of the coming disaster. Shami tree, on the Shami tree Lighting a mustard oil lamp every Saturday averts all kinds of troubles in your house. You attain happiness and prosperity and all evil forces are destroyed.

Bilva tree:

Bilva is a tree found in many parts of the world. In India, this tree is highly respected like Peepal, Neem, Mango, Parijat and Palash etc. trees. In Hindu religion, Bilva tree is an important part of the worship of Lord Shiva. Both the fruits and leaves of Bilva tree are very useful. Bilva leaves are very dear to Lord Shiva. Bilva fruit is considered very useful for the stomach. It is consumed extensively in India. Due to its religious importance, it is planted near temples. The nature of the Bilva tree is very cool. To avoid the heat of summer, the juice of its fruit is very beneficial. This sherbet is best to get relief from problems like indigestion, poor eyesight, stomach worms and heat stroke. Chemicals like tannin, iron, calcium, potassium and magnesium are found in the leaves of Bilva, which are full of medicinal properties. Regarding the origin of the Bilva tree, it is said in ‘Skandapuran’ that once Goddess Parvati wiped the sweat from her forehead and threw it, Some drops of which fell on Mandar Mountain, from which the Bel tree was born. Girija resides in the roots of this tree, Maheshwari in the trunk, Dakshaayani in the branches, Parvati in the leaves, Gauri in the flowers and Katyayani in the fruits. It is said that the thorns of the Bel tree also contain many powers. It is believed that Goddess Mahalakshmi also resides in the Bel tree. Those who worship Shiva-Parvati by offering Belpatra, they get the blessings of both Mahadev and Goddess Parvati.

Ashoka tree:

Ashoka tree is considered very sacred and beneficial in Hindu religion. The literal meaning of Ashoka is – no sorrow of any kind. Ashoka leaves are used in auspicious and religious activities. It is believed that by planting the Ashoka tree in the house or wearing its root at an auspicious time, a person gets freedom from all sorrows. Ashoka tree destroys the disorders like gas, bile etc., indigestion, thirst, burning sensation, worms, inflammation, poison and blood disorders. These are chemicals and stimulants. Skin diseases are also cured by its use. Ashoka tree should be planted in the north direction of the house so that positive energy continues to circulate in the house. Having Ashoka tree in the house ensures happiness, peace and prosperity and prevents untimely death.

Coconut Tree:

In Hindu religion, no auspicious work can be accomplished without coconut. The coconut tree lives for about 80 years. The tree bears fruits after 15 years.
During the puja, the Kalash is filled with water and a coconut is placed on top of it. This is a symbol of Mars. Coconut is offered to God. Every part of the tree is used for some purpose or the other. These parts have proved very useful for the farmers. House floors, furniture etc. are made from it. Fans, baskets, mats etc. are made from leaves. Many items like rope, mats, brushes, nets, bags etc. are made from its coir. It is also filled in mattresses. Coconut oil is most beneficial. Coconut water contains high amount of potassium.Coconut pulp is used for the treatment of nerve problems, weakness, memory loss and pulmonary affections. It also removes skin related and intestinal problems. People suffering from asthma are also advised to drink coconut water.

Pomegranate tree :

While the pomegranate tree produces positive energy, this tree also has many medicinal properties. Pomegranate is counted among the five fruits during puja. Pomegranate tree is also very beautiful which can be planted to beautify the garden. Its buds, flowers and fruits are no less beautiful. Using pomegranate increases the blood count. This makes the skin beautiful and smooth. Drinking pomegranate juice or eating pomegranate daily improves the complexion of the skin. Pomegranate is beneficial in diseases like indigestion, diarrhea, dysentery, asthma, cough, bad breath etc. By consuming it, wrinkles or looseness of flesh in the body gets eliminated. It is believed that planting a pomegranate tree in the house is very auspicious.

Neem tree:

It is considered a miraculous tree. Neem, which is a generally available tree, is easily available. Due to its medicinal properties, this tree is proving to be very useful in traditional treatment. Neem tree has medicinal as well as religious importance. This tree is worshipped. It is said that the smoke of neem leaves protects from evil and ghost spirits. In Misreals etc. the body is washed with neem water. Many types of soaps and face wash oils are made from Neem. Neem is very good for our skin. Neem is of two types: sweet and bitter. Tita Neem is used in making medicines. Sweet neem is used in many dishes. Eating this also removes blood deficiency in the body.

Amla tree,

By worshiping Amla, one gets the blessing of health and happiness and prosperity. It is believed that Lord Vishnu and Lord Shiva reside in the Amla tree. The more we describe the properties of Amla, the less it is. Amla is rich in Vitamin C. Many types of medicines are also made from Amla. Amla pickle, chutney, murabba are very popular in all forms. The oil made from it is beneficial for hair. Amla Navami is a festival in Hindu religion. Amla is especially worshiped on that day.

Doob grass,

It is said that Doob grass is most loved by Ganpati Bappa. By applying turmeric and offering grass to Lord Ganesha every Wednesday, all kinds of obstacles in your work are removed and you get auspicious benefits. If Doob juice is given to cancer patients, the spread of the disease can be prevented to some extent.

kadamba tree

Mother Lakshmi is believed to reside on the Kadamba tree. It is believed that by performing Yagya sitting under the Kadamba tree, one gets the special blessings of Goddess Lakshmi and brings happiness in the family.

Talking about trees and plants, their qualities cannot be described. Man cannot survive without nature. Every plant is a medicine in itself. Our ancestors have been curing their diseases with these. Therefore they have great importance in Hindu religion.
How to brighten a sad and restless mind?

October 13th, 2023

Are you also looking for the key to happiness? Who locked your happiness? Not anyone but you yourself. Because we keep getting frustrated by small incidents. Do we know that the sandalwood which is rubbed more is the same which affects the mind of God? And the sandalwood which is not ground i.e. is not used for worship, is only used for burning. It often happens in life that we do one thing, say something else, see something else and hear something else. And something else is going on inside our mind. So how can we imagine that we will be happy in life with so many faces? We spend our entire childhood and youth in these things. But as we grow older, we realize that the people for whom we wasted our lives had no contribution in our lives. When the mind is not calm, then despite being skilled, you can do your best. Can’t give. Be it the professional front or your personal relationships.

To understand yourself, the most important thing is to keep your mind and brain calm. Keeping the mind calm is not an easy task, but it is not impossible either. When the mind is disturbed, we are not able to take big decisions and make mistakes even in taking small decisions. Our mind also agrees to do the work which we do not want to do. And they don’t do what we want. This happens because our mind is troubled and does not know what it wants. Therefore, it is important that we keep our mind and brain calm and try to know ourselves what we want. And what is right for us? In today’s busy lifestyle, a person has time to do all the work, but when it comes to giving time to oneself, talking to oneself, calming the mind and understanding it, no one has time. There is no time. People are working like machines. Due to which they feel stressed and remain worried. Therefore, it is important that they understand what they want and for this it is important to keep the mind calm. Whenever your mind is disturbed, negative thoughts start dominating your mind. Therefore it is important to always focus on positive thoughts. By doing this your mind will calm down and you will get good results. When you always remain positive and have positive thoughts towards life, you also achieve success and when this happens, your mind becomes happy and remains calm.

What is the reason for sadness in life?

Half the sorrow in life comes from expecting from wrong people and half from doubting the true people.
The best thing for peace of mind is to love yourself. Unless you are happy with yourself or the work you do, you cannot control your mind. You think that whatever task you are doing, you will not get good results and no one will love you. Love your work and have passion for it. This will improve your work and your mind will also remain calm.Try to be happy by looking at the small things around you, stop thinking about people. Instead of seeing evil in everyone, look for love. Due to which they will also look at you with love. Will talk lovingly. This will give peace to your mind and you can enjoy life.

How to know the extent of your suffering?

Buy a diary that you use only to write down your thoughts and feelings. It often helps to understand your feelings of sadness by writing them down. If you journal, even for 20 minutes a day, it will help you understand and clarify your sad thoughts. With the help of which you realize the real reason behind feeling sad. Along with this, it also keeps an eye on the pattern of your behavior and emotions. Additionally, according to some research, journaling reduces stress, improves your physical health, and strengthens your immune system. You may be trying to feel better and be happy again. And because of this, you may not want to cry, but sometimes crying openly can make your mood better. If you feel like you should cry, then don’t suppress it at all and let your tears out whenever you feel like it. When tears come out due to crying, you feel like all your sadness has come out, which will make you feel better and more relaxed. Consider your feelings: Has something like this happened in your life recently? What has happened that can explain this feeling of yours? For example, have you just gone through a breakup or lost someone in your family? Identifying the real reason for your sadness will go a long way in helping you understand it and overcome it. Considering external factors in this way will also confirm that you are feeling normal sadness due to some event and not a chronic depression.

Additionally, knowing what is making you sad will help you find the right process to deal with your sadness and reduce it. Talk to a good friend. Meeting people, talking and staying in touch with them plays a very important role in keeping you happy. Talking to a friend about your sadness or the reason behind your sadness can help reduce your pain, because doing so will make you feel that there is someone who can help you. Cares about your feelings. Talking out loud helps you get your emotions out and it also makes it clear how you’re really feeling. . By expressing it in words, your sadness is no longer just about you, it becomes a truth that you can discuss. Friends can make you feel there in your time of need. And can also help in reducing the feeling of loneliness within you. They will listen to you, share their views and understand you too. Also, while talking to your friends, you might laugh at something and feel happy, so just talking to them might change your mood! Do not try; This will not improve your situation. Talk through your feelings with a trusted friend or family member who can help provide social support. If you need more support, consider consulting a counselor or other mental health professional. These people will at least help you in preparing a plan to deal with your sadness.

It is a rule of nature that first man is given power and then he faces problems. Whatever problem God gives us, the solution is already there, we just need to have a little patience. That’s why never give up after seeing a problem, who knows, there may be some new beginning hidden in this problem. The greater your suffering, the greater your success.
What is the difference between science and religion?

October 11th, 2023

There is such a relationship between science and religion that it is essential for science to grow to remove the conservatism and superstition of religion. Similarly, development of religion is also necessary to end the monopoly and autocracy of science and to determine the goal of human life. It is also important that there is wisdom with science, otherwise there will be less development and more destruction. The coordination between religion and science is seen nowhere else as much as in India. Only this balanced and judicious coordination of the two can benefit humanity. Our sages years ago not only linked science with religion but also explained its practical knowledge. According to him, if science is organized and used for the welfare of human beings then it becomes a religion. This is the reason why all our religious scriptures like Vedas, Upanishads, Darshan etc. have science embedded in them.

A section of people who consider religion as pomp and science as a miracle have come to believe that science and religion cannot co-exist, whereas the objective of both science and religion is the welfare of mankind. Then how can both be against each other? The difference is that the nature and scope of work of both are different from each other. Religion provides the path to salvation for the purification of the soul. Science facilitates all the concerns of the concept and facilities of evolution for living. Science alone is only half and cannot give satisfaction to man. It can give a better body, good health, longer life, more material comforts, but that is not all. This is just the surface of life, not the center point. Religion illuminates our soul and transforms us from soul to God. Science without religion can provide happiness to man, but it also brings him to the brink of destruction. People feel that religion is based on traditions and beliefs and science gives clear proof of everything, hence many people It seems that these two are opposite to each other. Let us understand what is the difference between religion and science?

Science has the ability to deeply study all the living and non-living things present in this world and reveal their characteristics, shortcomings and evils. In short, science gives every small and big explanation about the objects, on the other hand, religion gives us subjects. Helps in knowing. Actually there is no reason for difference between religion and science, if any religion in the world refutes science, then understand that it is not a religion at all, because science aims at telling the truth of any object. And by breaking the old beliefs and superstitions of man, the truth is brought before the eyes. And as we know that religion is a thing beyond science, hence science is a branch of religion, religion is a big tree and science is a small branch of it. . Therefore, there can be no reason for differences between the two.

Science is the study of things that can be perceived by our senses, while religion is the study of that which cannot be perceived by our senses. Science works on logic and evidence whereas this is not necessary in religion. Science is not a modern knowledge, nor is it a modern subject. Science is a physical subject, which searches for truth on the basis of materiality. Science is to know the truth of what we see and feel with our senses and how it works. It is like weighing and considering every thing in depth, there is very little amount of spirituality in it. Science rejects everything which it either does not understand or has no proof. While on one hand religion believes in God and goes in search of Him, science denies the existence of God. Science finds the reason behind every object and action, before modern science, there was science of sages in India, their research works are found in Vedas and Puranas, even today many things are absolutely accurate. Ancient science went beyond the senses and explored through meditation, so its results are still useful today. The points of science have also been considered in Yogavishistha and many religious texts.

Modern science stops short here, its belief is like finding truth only through senses. Whatever our ten senses saw, felt and understood is the truth and what we could not understand and did not see is rejected by science. Science cannot think beyond meditation yet, in fact it is too late.
What to do and what not to do on which day?

October 8th, 2023

In astrology, all seven days of the week are considered auspicious for starting different works. It is believed that keeping this in mind increases the chances of getting positive results. So let us know which work should be started on which day. Hinduism is a religion where many beliefs and traditions are prevalent. All these beliefs have their own importance. Many of us must have heard that any auspicious work should not be started on a particular day. Along with this, you must have also heard that auspicious work is not started on any special day. Actually these beliefs are related to astrology. According to the details given in it, an auspicious day is given to start every work. It is said that if any work is not started on an auspicious day then there are more chances of failure instead of success.

sunday,

In Hindu religion, Sunday is dedicated to the Sun God. It is believed that work related to power, governance, wood, use of weapons, war and fire is more auspicious. According to astrology, one should not argue with anyone or pluck basil leaves on Sunday. Astrology believes that work related to medicines, vehicles, animals, jobs, weapons, metals, debates etc. always starts on Sunday. Should do.

Monday,

In Sanatan tradition, Monday is dedicated to Lord Shiva and Moon God. According to astrology, Monday is considered very auspicious and fruitful for transactions, planting trees, animal husbandry, purchasing goods related to farming, art, jewelery etc. One should not displease the Mother Goddess even by mistake on Monday and one should avoid traveling towards the east on this day. It is said that if Monday is of Shravan month then breaking Belpatra is also prohibited.

Tuesday,

Tuesday is dedicated to trouble-shooter Shri Hanuman ji and Bhoomiputra Mangal Devta. In such a situation, this day is considered very auspicious for buying, selling and construction of land etc. It is believed that Tuesday is auspicious for dividing enemies, exercise, war, use of weapons etc. One should not take loan from anyone nor should pluck basil leaves on Tuesday. One should avoid traveling towards the north on this day. Hair should not be cut on Tuesday. Cutting nails should also be avoided on this day. Tuesday is considered a bad day for worldly pleasures. Therefore, one should stay away from any such work on this day. Avoid having physical relations on this day.

Wednesday,

According to astrology, Wednesday is dedicated to Lord Shri Ganesha and the prince of planets, Mercury. Wednesday is considered auspicious for studies, art, business etc. One should avoid eating paan and traveling towards the North on Wednesday. Loan giving, education, book keeping, craft work, politics, house warming etc. should be started on Wednesday. It is believed that those born on Wednesday The son is very lucky.

Thursday,

Thursday is dedicated to the worship of Lord Vishnu and Lord Jupiter. According to astrology, religious and auspicious activities like Yagya, knowledge practice, travel, ride, medicine, jewelery etc. are considered very auspicious on Thursday. One should not cut hair, nails etc. on Thursday nor should one remove cobwebs from the house on this day. Many people do not wash clothes on Thursday. Lord Vishnu and Mother Lakshmi are pleased by worshiping the banana tree on this day.

Friday,

In the Sanatan tradition, Friday is dedicated to the worship of Devi Devi and Shukra Dev. According to astrology, on Friday, it is very auspicious to listen to music, man-woman relationship, love affair, purchase of new clothes and wearing it. According to astrology, husband and wife should not quarrel on Friday nor should they insult a blind person.

Saturday,

In Hindu religion, Saturday is considered dedicated to the worship and worship of Lord Hanuman and Lord Shani. It is believed that on Saturday, activities like Uchchatan, Maran etc. are considered auspicious. One should avoid buying iron on Saturday. One should not buy urad dal, salt, shoes and slippers etc. on this day.
can happiness be bought?

October 8th, 2023

How can one find happiness in life?
Happiness is not something to be found anywhere or in the market. It is within you and us. Recognizing the source of happiness is the pinnacle of spirituality. There is musk inside the deer itself, but its fragrance seems to come from outside and the person searching for it in the forest finds happiness either in his work or in relationships or external things. Some people find it impossible to live without drugs, while others hate drugs. It simply means that a person takes drugs only to feel stress-free. Some people can get relief from stress through music and some people can get relief from other things. Someone may also be addicted to accumulating money. In this way, a person keeps doing different types of purposes to get happiness.

Actually, the person keeps running away from himself. He doesn’t want to know his truth. He considers only the pleasure he gets from material things as real, even though it is temporary. This is not happiness, but an illusion of happiness. After some time the person starts getting bored of it. We should not depend on any material thing to get happiness. Be it happiness or sorrow, we should remain happy in every situation. Although it is easy to say, it is very difficult to try. A person always tries to be happy, but after seeing the neighbor’s son getting higher marks in the examination, he starts feeling sad for his son. The mere mention of a person’s promotion in the office would send a shiver down his spine. After a long time, a Seth was walking towards the backyard of his garden, when he saw that the whole garden was looking sad and sad. All the trees and plants looked withered and withered. The Seth got worried and to find out the reason, he examined each and every tree and plant. He started asking different questions. The oak tree said, he is dying because he is not as tall as the cedar. Seth looked at the cedar, he was also sad and silent, his branches were also bent, he said, what is the point of being tall? It happened that I am not able to give fruits to the grapes like the vines. Children would come to him, caress him, play with him, and he would give sweet grapes in return. But when Seth turned his eyes towards the grape vines, his face was also sad. Seth said why sister Lata, what complaint do you have.
Lata burst out and said, Do I have beauty like a rose? Nor do I have a fragrance like that. Then you tell me, what should I do if I do not remain sad. But rose also had a complaint, why there are thorns in its body..?
Seth moved ahead with a rejected heart. Then he saw a Gulmohar tree standing proudly, looking proud, he saw that its yellow leaves were flaunting from its branches swaying in the wind. It was shining distinctly from the rays of the sun from above. It seemed as if he had no scope for Ranjo’s sorrow. Seth asked him, This is a very strange thing, Gulmohar, each tree is different from the other, the plants are sad, silent and full of complaints, how are you so happy? Gulmohar said, Seth ji, all the other trees and plants are unhappy by comparing Sanvay with others instead of seeing their own merits. Whereas I believe that if you have given me a place in your garden, you must have given some thought. You must have impressed me by my qualities. I do my work well. I am not jealous of anyone. I am happy in my abilities and qualities. Others may have something unique, but what I have, others also do not have. And this feeling is the reason for my happiness. , I walk thinking that there must be something special in me that Seth ji has selected me. I do my best work, I keep making my presence felt well. That’s why I am happy. That’s why I also look fresh.
Seth saw great wisdom in Gulmohar’s words. Why is the world not being satisfied with itself and burning in jealousy and hatred? Why don’t people become elevated by further enhancing what is within them?

Actually, happiness does not come from external things, it is not easy to assimilate this fact. The importance of spiritual practice has been explained in our religious philosophy only to make the encounter with the truth easier. The impurities within are gradually eliminated through this. The misconceptions that have been formed about God that God is responsible for our happiness or sorrow, are also proven wrong with time. Meditation, bhajan, satsang – all these are the paths of spiritual practice. If a stone is continuously thrown in a lake, waves keep rising. In such a situation there is never a chance to see the bottom. Human nature is made up of Satva, Raja and Tama gunas. When a person is busy in lust, virtuous thoughts cannot come to his mind. You will have to give yourself time for this
Why are the 12 months of Hindus special?

October 8th, 2023

Every day of the year is a festival in Hinduism. Sometimes it is a festival of some caste and sometimes of another caste. According to the Hindu calendar, every month has its own specialty and every month is dedicated to the special worship of some deity or the other. Even in Hindu religion Every day is also dedicated to God. Like Sunday is of Sun God, Monday is of Shiva, Tuesday is of Hanuman ji, Wednesday is of Ganesha, Thursday is of Vishnu, Friday is of Goddess, Saturday is of Shani Dev. Such religion will not be found in any country in the world.

Chaitra month-

According to the Hindu calendar, the new year begins with the month of Chaitra. Therefore it is considered the first month of the new year. Chaitra month has special significance in Hindu religion. Because Lord Brahma started the creation of the universe with the Pratipada date of Shukla Paksha of this month. Performing religious rituals and worship during Chaitra month is considered auspicious. The Hindu year begins in this month. Chaitra Navratri starts from the Pratipada date of Shukla Paksha of this month. According to the scriptures, the full moon of this month occurs in Chitra Nakshatra, due to which this month is named Chaitra. According to Hindu calendar, this month includes fasts of Hanuman Jayanti, Chaitra Navratri, Ram Navami, Papmochani Ekadashi, Sheetala Ashtami, Gudi Padwa, Gangaor, Hanuman Jayanti.

Vaishakh month-

Due to the relation of Vishakha Nakshatra in this month, the name of this month is called Vaishakh. This month includes the fasts of Parshuram Jayanti, Akshaya Tritiya, Mohini Ekadashi, Vaisakhi, Guru Purnima, which is very important. According to the Hindu calendar, the month of Vaishakh begins fifteen days after the beginning of creation. This holy month inspires a person to orient himself from the individual to the collective. In the Puranas, this month has been called the month of chanting, penance and charity. As soon as the month of Vaishakh begins, an atmosphere of heat is created, hence from the religious point of view, Lord Varun has special significance in this month.

Jyeshtha month-

It is more hot in this month. Due to the seniority of Sun God, this month is called Jyeshtha month. Water has more importance in this month. It is believed that the festival of Vat Savitri, Ganga Dussehra, Nirjala Ekadashi falls in this month. Due to extreme heat in this month, there is a great tradition of giving water or sherbet to the thirsty people.

Ashadh month-

This month is dedicated to Lord Vishnu. The most important festivals in this month are Gupt Navratri, Devshayani Ekadashi, Jagannath Puri Yatra. It is believed that bathing, donation and worship have great importance in this month. The fourth month of the Hindu calendar is the month of Ashadh. This is the month of sandhi period, rainy season starts from this month. The incidence of diseases is highest in this month. From this month, a little moisture starts coming in the atmosphere. This month is also called the month of wish fulfillment. According to Hindu religion, no marriage takes place from Devshayani Ekadashi till Tulsi Vivah.

Sawan month-

Lord Shiva is worshiped throughout this month. People keep fast on every Monday of this month, because every Monday and Tuesday in this month have special significance. Festivals held in the month of Sawan are Nag Panchami, Teej, Raksha Bandhan etc.

Bhadra month-

According to the scriptures, on the full moon day of this month, the constellation Purva or Uttarabhadrapada is formed in the sky, due to which this month is known as Bhadrapada. Worshiping Shri Krishna and Ganapati in this month brings happiness and wealth. In Hindu religious traditions, the birth anniversary of Lord Shri Krishna, who gives the message of karma, is celebrated on the Ashtami of Krishna Paksha of this month, while the Chaturthi of Shukla Paksha is celebrated as the first day of worship. It is the birth anniversary of Lord Shri Ganesh. In this way, this month also brings the message of achieving success in life through balance and sadhana of deeds and intellect.

Ashwin month-

Many big festivals like Vijayadashami, Sharad Purnima, Jeevitputrika Vrat, Sharadiya Navratri, Onam come in this month. Pitru Paksha also comes in this month, in which Shraddha is performed for the peace of the ancestors.

Kartik month-

According to the scriptures, the month of Kartik is considered very inauspicious for worshiping the gods. Taking bath in the month of Kartik has special significance. There are many festivals in the month of Kartik like Dhanteras, Diwali, Bhai Dooj, Devuthani Ekadashi, Tulsi Vivah, Dev Diwali, Karva Chauth, Govardhan Puja, Gau Ashtami, Chhath Puja,

Margashirsha month-

It is believed that worshiping Shri Krishna in this month brings success in every work. After the end of Kartik Purnima, the month of Margashirsha begins. It is also called the month of Aghan. According to the Hindu calendar, it is the ninth month of the calendar. Actually, this entire month is good for worship, fasting, festivals and auspicious works. But especially the month of Aghan is fruitful for the worship of Lord Ram and Shri Krishna. Because many festivals related to Lord Ram and Shri Krishna occur in this month. Therefore this month has special religious significance. The importance of Margashirsha month has also been mentioned in the Puranas. The marriage of Lord Shri Ram and Mother Sita took place in this month.

Paush month-

The month of Paush is the tenth month in Vikram Samvat. The names of Indian months are based on constellations. In fact, the name of the month is kept on the basis of the constellation in which the Moon is present on its full moon day. On the full moon day of the month of Pausha, the Moon remains in Pushya Nakshatra, hence this month is called the month of Pausha. The entire month of Pausha is considered very important from the religious point of view, but there are some major fasts and festivals. Paush Amavasya and Paush Purnima are also considered very important. Along with fasting, special worship is also done on this day to get relief from Pitradosh and Kaalsarp Dosh. It is said that worshiping the Sun in this month is very beneficial.

Magha month-

In this month a fair is organized on the banks of holy rivers. From this month, when the Sun starts turning Uttarayan, the cold gradually starts reducing. In this month, Shishir season starts after Hemant season. Spring season starts from Shukla Panchami of Magh month. Due to Magha Nakshatra, this month was named Magha month. Some important fasts in the month of Magh are Shattila Ekadashi, Til Chaturthi, Rathasaptami, Bhishmashtami, Mauni Amasya, etc. Kalpvas has special significance in the month of Magh. During the Magh period, residence on the banks of Sangam is called ‘Kalpvas’. Wherever there is water in the month of Magh, it is believed that it becomes as pure as the water of Ganga. Whoever takes bath in Ganga in the month of Magh receives the blessings of Lakshmipati Lord Vishnu. Taking bath in the month of Magh brings happiness, good fortune, wealth, children and salvation.

Phalgun month-

The month of Phagun is very dear to Lord Krishna. In this month, the beauty of Mathura Vrindavan is worth seeing. The festivals of Mahashivratri, Holi, Phulaira Dooj are celebrated in this month.

Mal Maas,

In religion, Malmas i.e. Adhikamas is considered very special. This special month comes once every 3 years. Special importance is also given to worship in this month. Malmas or Adhik Maas is given very special importance in Hindu religion. This is also known as Purushottam month.
Just as there is a leap year in the English calendar, in the same way there is a leap year in the Hindi calendar which is called Malmas or Adhikamas. Lord Vishnu is worshiped during Malmas. It is said that by worshiping Lord Vishnu in Adhik Maas, all the wishes are fulfilled.
During this time, along with Lord Vishnu, Lord Satyanarayan is also worshipped. Because, it is said that worshiping and worshiping God in Malmas is very fruitful.
However, no auspicious or auspicious work like marriage, mundan and house warming etc. is done during Malmas.
According to the scriptures, donating in Adhik Maas is also auspicious.
It is said that donating a lamp during Purushottam month brings blessings of all the Gods and Goddesses.
Why do people born at the same time get different destinies?

October 8th, 2023

People often ask a question to scholars that why do not all people born on the same day and at the same time have the same fate? Some are born in a rich family and some are born in a poor family. Some are born healthy and some with serious diseases in their body. Some live long and some live short.

The answer to this question has been presented very beautifully in the illustrations through the story of a king. Every living being’s destiny i.e. the karma of the previous birth is different and he has to suffer the effects of the same in his next birth. To check the truth, a king called a meeting of learned astrologers and asked – According to my horoscope, I have a chance of becoming a king, but at the same time and moment in which I was born, many people would have been born who would have become kings. Couldn’t make it. Why? What is the reason for this? No one had an answer to this question of the king. There was silence in the assembly. Then an elder stood up from the middle of the gathering and said – Maharaj, no one here has the answer to your question but I will tell you how you will get the answer to your question. The king started listening carefully to the old man. The old man said – If you go alone to a dense forest far away from here, you will meet a Mahatma, he can answer your question. The king, filled with curiosity, went into the dense forest alone as per the advice of the old man.

After traveling for hours, he saw a Mahatma in the forest, who was sitting near a pile of fire and eating embers. As soon as the frightened king reached the Mahatma, the Mahatma scolded him and said that I do not have time to answer your question, I am forced by my hunger. There is another Mahatma ahead of here among the hills, you can get the answer from him. The king’s curiosity increased further. The king moved towards the hills. It became quite dark while walking. After walking for miles on the hills, the king saw the Mahatma. Mahatma was eating his own flesh by scratching it with tongs. As soon as the Mahatma saw the king, he scolded him and said – I am restless due to hunger. I don’t have time to answer your question. Go ahead, on the other side of the hills, among the tribals, a child is going to be born who will live only for five minutes. Reach before sunrise, the boy can answer. The king quickly moved towards the village. The king reached the tribal couple’s house before sunrise and ordered that as soon as the child was born, he should be presented before me along with the umbilical cord. After waiting for some time the child was born and he was brought before the king. As soon as he saw the king, the child said laughingly – King, I also do not have time, but still listen to your answer.

You, I and the two Mahatmas with whom you have come, all four of us were brother princes seven lives ago. While hunting, we got lost in the forest. After wandering hungry and thirsty for three days, we suddenly found a bundle of flour in the forest. Somehow we baked four chapattis with that flour and were about to take our chapattis and sit down to eat when a Mahatma arrived there suffering from hunger and thirst. He said to the brother who was eating embers, Son, I have been hungry for ten days. Give me some of your bread so that my life can be saved. On hearing this, Bhaiya said angrily – If I give it to you, will I eat fire? Let’s run away from here.

After this, when the Mahatma asked for bread from the meat-eating brother, he also scolded the Mahatma and sent him away saying that if I give you my bread, will I tear off my flesh and eat it?
The Mahatma, helpless due to hunger, came to me. Begged for bread, but I also chased them away and said that if I give you my bread, will I die of hunger? Mahatma reached to you with the last hope. I also appealed to you for mercy. With a very happy heart, you gave half of your bread to the Mahatma with respect. Mahatma ji was very happy after getting the bread and while leaving he said – May your future flourish with your actions and behaviour. The child said – On the basis of this incident, today all four of us are suffering our respective karmas. Many creatures are born on earth at one time, but everyone has a different destiny which shapes their fate. Saying this, the child’s breathing stopped.

The king proceeded towards his royal palace and became convinced that astrology is basically the science of duty and behavior. Hence, the fate of a person is different. Here the logic that cuts against it arises that the planetary positions of birth are based on the accumulated karmas only. And in those circumstances, the fate of the person born is determined. When our karma itself is not the same, then how can our fate be the same. Every human being is different in himself. The experiences of every person born in his previous births are different. Their memories are different, their struggles are different, their marriages are different, even if they are the same in this birth, on the basis of which their concept and personality are different. According to those personalities, the memories stored in their subconscious are different. The functioning of the subconscious is different. As Hindu followers know that the soul is immortal, it never dies, the body changes. So, when the soul gets separated from the body, the memories of the soul do not disappear completely. Memories of the subconscious soul. If the memories of the soul had ended then there would be no ancestors, nor would they remember their clan. There would be no memories of ghosts and they would not be reacting separately. Had he not been guiding the followers and disciples, no child would have told about his previous life even after leaving his body. In this way, these memories remain connected with the person’s soul and remain safe in the subconscious after birth. Sometimes a dream occurs. They show some place or scene and after a few days the person realizes that hey, I have been here before in a dream. Or suddenly he feels that hey, I have been here before, even though I had never had a dream. This is from a previous life. There are memories which are safe in the subconscious.

It is said that due to the principle of karma there is a difference in the fate of twins. Because a person has to suffer the consequences of his deeds in the next life. The same thing applies to twins also. Even though there is a difference of a few minutes in their birth time, the actions done by them take them in different directions. In the horoscope of twins, especially the place of birth, date of birth and day are similar. But there is a difference in appearance, ideologies, desires and incidents happening with children. Not only this, the personality of both is also different.
What are the characteristics of Lord Ganesha’s body parts?

October 7th, 2023

Shri Vinayak, Gajanan is described as Adi Dev, similar to all the three gods Brahma, Vishnu and Mahesh. Before worshiping any god for any successful work. There is a mythological tradition of worshiping Shri Ganapati i.e. worshiping Ganapati. Ganapati is called Mangalmurti because blessings and boons are present in every part of his body, which gives the message of living life in the right direction. Lambodar showers blessings on the devotees from every part. That is why he is called the God of auspiciousness. Let us tell you the importance of different parts of Lord Ganesha.

Ganesh ji’s ears are big like soup, hence they are also called Gajakarna and Soupkarna. Gaja’s ears are huge, exactly the size of soup. One special thing about these is that the elephants keep moving their ears in the air. There is a deep science behind this. The elephant’s skin is thick due to which the blood is not able to be cooled by the outside air and Gajraj cools his blood by passing it through the fine veins of his ears and stirring it. This creates prudence and patience in them and prevents them from getting angry. That’s why Shri Ganapati is the god of discretion and does not get angry very easily. Moving the ear of the Lord of Wisdom means that you concentrate on listening. It also means that Ganapati is always eager to listen to his devotees. According to organ science, people with long ears are lucky and long lived. One of the secrets of Lord Ganesha’s long ears is that he listens to everyone.

big head of ganpati,
Lord Ganesha takes decisions with wisdom and discretion. By seeing the head of Ganapati, Gajvinayak gets the boon of being intelligent and prudent. Besides this, it also creates the feeling that the devotee can take correct decisions between right and wrong using his logical power. There is an example of this in the stories of Ganapati also.

The beneficial trunk of Lord Ganesha,
Gajanan’s trunk always keeps shaking. The trunk always indicates to be active every moment. One never has to face sorrow and poverty by seeing the trunk of Lord Ganesha. The sight of Gajanana’s trunk gives the devotees the boon of always being alert and active. The trunk of Lord Ganesha is sometimes on the right and sometimes on the left.
In the scriptures, the direction of Lord Ganesha’s trunk has also been given different significance. It is believed that those who want happiness and prosperity should worship Ganesha with the trunk on the right side. To defeat the enemy and attain wealth, worshiping Lord Ganesha with the trunk turned towards the left is beneficial.

Big belly of Lord Ganesha,
Ganpati’s stomach is very big. That is why he is also called Lambodar. By seeing the big stomach of Ganapati, devotees develop the quality of digesting every good and bad thing. The huge stomach tells that every good and bad thing should be digested by keeping it in the stomach itself and should not spread animosity on any subject. A sense of wisdom is established in taking decisions. According to organ science, a big stomach is a symbol of happiness.

small eyes,
Lord Ganesha’s eyes are small. It is said that a person with small eyes is of contemplative and serious nature. That is, the eyes of Ganapati give the message that everything should be studied deeply. By doing this you are able to take the right decision.
Elephant’s eyes are small, it means being introverted. To be intelligent it is necessary to be an introvert. Another meaning of the small eye is that it keeps an eye on everyone but it is not easy to know where one is looking. Therefore, Ganpati ji’s eyes remain on the deeds of all the devotees.

Four arms, Lord Ganesha has four arms. Out of his four arms, he has a hook in one hand, a noose in the second hand, a modak in the third hand and a blessing in the fourth. The first arm tells us that the hook in his hand is an indicator of That restraint on desires is necessary. The loop in his other arm is an indicator of the fact that it is necessary for every person to have so much restraint and control in his conduct and behavior, so that the balance of life is maintained. The noose is a symbol of control, restraint and punishment. There is a modak in his third arm. The meaning of Modak is that which gives pleasure (pleasure), which gives pleasure and satisfaction. It is important to be content in body and mind, only then you can get the real joy of life. For example, if you eat Modak little by little and slowly, its taste and sweetness give more pleasure and finally after finishing the Modak, you feel satisfied. Similarly, superficial and external knowledge does not give happiness to a person but the sweetness of happiness and success is hidden in the depth of knowledge. He blesses the devotees with the fourth arm. The Lord blesses the one who places the fruits of his actions in the hands of God. This is the message of the fourth hand. Its four arms symbolize omnipresence in all four directions, and while giving the message to man to be active, it tells that the work should be completed on time by using two hands like four arms. The entire living creation roams in his stomach, that is why he is Lambodar.

monodentate
In the fight between Lord Ganesha and Parashuram, one of Lord Ganesha’s teeth was broken, hence he is called Ekadant. Lord Ganesha converted his broken tooth into a pen and wrote the entire Mahabharata with it. His broken tooth shows that we should use everything properly.

Not only the body of Lord Ganesha, his vehicle and favorite food also have their own distinct characteristics. Just as their vehicle is unique in itself, the mouse does not at all suit their physique and uniqueness but there is a special secret hidden behind it. Mouse is considered a symbol of playfulness, from this point of view Ganesh ji rides on playfulness and keeps it under control.

Shri Ganesha is the first revered god in Hindu religion, he is included in the five daily worshipable gods along with Shri Vishnu, Shiva, Surya and Maa Durga. No puja or religious and social rites is successful without Ganpati worship. When they are happy, they destroy all the sorrows and when they are angry, they create obstacles in every work.
Are the seven vows of seven rounds of Hindu marriage minor?

October 7th, 2023

According to Hindu religion, the marriage ceremony is completed only after seven rounds. In seven rounds, seven promises are taken from both the bride and groom. These seven rounds bind the relationship between husband and wife for seven births. Under the Hindu marriage ceremony, the bride and groom take the fire as a witness and go around it and take a vow to live a happy life together as husband and wife and in this process both of them take seven rounds, which is also called Saptapadi. And these seven rounds or verses are taken with seven words. Every round has a promise, which the husband and wife promise to keep throughout their lives. These seven rounds are the main pillars of stability of Hindu marriage. In other religions, marriage is a kind of contract between husband and wife which can be broken in special circumstances, but Hindu marriage is a contract between husband and wife by birth. There is a relation between births which cannot be broken under any circumstances.

After marriage, the girl takes seven vows before sitting on the left side of the groom. But today’s youth take marriage as just an event. If someone tries to understand these seven words then there will never be any conflict in his life. Marriage is not just an alliance but a union of two souls. And in that both should consider each other equal. That is why only these seven words are asked to be followed in Hindu religion. In a Hindu wedding, before taking the rounds, the bride has to sit on the left side of the groom, only then the rounds start. And before the wedding, the girl formally puts forward her proposal. The seven promises that the girl takes from the groom are as follows.

In the first verse, the girl says to the groom that if you ever go on a pilgrimage, then take me along with you. If you do any fasting or any other religious work, then like today, please give me a place on your left side. If you accept this then I accept to come to your request.

Second promise: The bride asks the groom for the second promise that just as you respect your parents, respect my parents in the same way. And if I remain a devotee of God while performing religious rituals as per the dignity of the family, then I will accept your I accept coming to Vamang,or left side.

third verse

In the third verse, the girl says that you promise me that you will follow me in all three stages of life (youth, maturity, old age), only then I am ready to come to your wish.

Fourth verse, Virgo: Fourth verse demands that till now you were completely free from the worries of family. Now that you are going to get married, the responsibility of fulfilling all the needs of the family in future lies on your shoulders. Only if you promise to bear this burden, I am ready to come to your request. After marriage, sufficient money is required for the maintenance of the family. It is clear from this verse that the son should be married only when he stands on his own feet and starts earning a sufficient amount of money.

Fifth verse, what the girl says in this verse is of utmost importance in today’s context. She says that if you seek my advice while spending money on household work, marriage etc., transactions or anything else, then I will accept your wish.

Sixth verse: The girl says that if I am sitting among my friends or other women, then you will not insult me there in front of everyone for any reason. Only if you keep yourself away from gambling or any other kind of addiction, I will accept your request.

Seventh promise: As the last promise, the girl asks for this boon that you will treat other women like mothers and will not make anyone else a partner in the mutual love between husband and wife. Only if you give me this promise, I will accept to come to your request.

In today’s times, people get married as per the rituals, but being blinded by the western culture, they have forgotten the dignity of marriage. In Hindu society, marriage is a sacred bond, not a game. How can anyone torture a girl by marrying her after obeying so many promises? That is why women sometimes have to assume the form of Maa Durga.

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Monday,

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Chaitra month-

Vaishakh month-

Jyeshtha month-

Ashadh month-

Sawan month-

Bhadra month-

Ashwin month-