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Do you know how to talk to people?

November 7th, 2023

Communication is an important part of our life. Dialogue means talking to someone and expressing your thoughts. We talk to many people in the society every day. That’s why sometimes we feel uncomfortable talking to someone and sometimes we think about the way to talk to impress someone. Many times we see a decrease in our self-confidence, we do not feel confident in talking in front of anyone. This question always remains in the mind of all of us that how should we present ourselves in front of someone, how should we present ourselves to someone? How to start talking to a new person or what should be our way of talking? Before talking to someone, it is very important to know that in order to talk to someone, it is necessary to listen to him well first. Many times we talk to someone but it is difficult to understand what the other person is interested in and we end up saying something to ourselves.

Any relationship is built on words. You must have seen many people in the society who are very good looking but people do not like them because they do not know how to talk to people. In today’s time, class and color do not matter. If you know the right way of using words and talking, then you can talk to someone for hours and impress the other person and make him/her agree to your point. In the way of talking, it is not necessary that you convey something through words only. saying. Your expressions, gestures, body language, style also prove that you are a good person. Only with these things you can attract a stranger towards you. And if you know how to talk properly along with expressions, gestures, body language, style, then you can build a good relationship with anyone. Many times our voice becomes loud or we start talking loudly, due to which the other person does not like to listen and he also does not show interest in talking. Therefore, before starting a conversation with someone, we need to improve our way of speaking.

Whenever we go to talk to someone, we should talk slowly, but you also have to take care that your voice does not become so low that the person in front of you cannot hear it. If this happens, you will feel confident in yourself. Will see the shortage. To talk, the voice should be according to the place. If there is not much noise around then you should speak softly and sweetly but your voice should be such that your voice can reach the person easily. Keep this in mind. The first thing is that if you lack confidence then first Bring confidence that, “I can do this”. Only then will you be able to present yourself in front of others. Without self-confidence, you will not be able to talk to people well, so it is important that you inculcate in your mind that you can talk to anyone easily.

Your confidence will increase only when you start talking to someone, admittedly you may face some difficulty in the beginning but gradually you will be able to easily talk to anyone with confidence. Many people are such that they do not want to finish what the other person is saying. Don’t let that happen, read the lyrics before that. Such people should stop their words. If you don’t listen to the other person, he will also feel bad. There are many people who want to say one thing and say something else. He talks so much that he doesn’t know what to say about whom. Avoid such habits. Many people have the habit of cursing while talking, this is absolutely wrong.

Many people impress everyone with their art of talking. Such people leave their mark in everyone’s heart. One quality of the most successful person is that he speaks exactly the right thing. And his reactions, emotions, conduct, ideology, Behavior doesn’t hurt anyone. That is why if you also get a chance to sit in a high level meeting, then express your views but do not hurt anyone. In today’s world, only that person is successful who knows how to communicate well. Speaking is not a big deal, and it is not taught to us in any curriculum. A person’s inner culture is reflected in his communication. Therefore, whenever you speak, speak on time. Don’t croak like a frog all the time. And don’t hijack anyone’s honor. Never break anyone’s self-respect with your words. Don’t disturb anyone’s concentration with your voice. Never make anyone feel inferior, poverty and insignificance through your words. Rather, your words help someone and give them a solution. If your words are giving comfort to someone, then there is certainly truth in your words. You must have seen how subtly a crow signals the arrival of a guest at your house. But he doesn’t speak sweetly, that’s why you don’t pay attention to what he says. And on one side there is the cuckoo which always sings songs of separation. But she sings sweetly, that’s why you like her voice. Therefore, in life, learn to speak like a cuckoo and not like a crow.
Does our thinking determine our success?

November 6th, 2023

Man’s life depends on his thinking and behavior. Many times we assume that we cannot do it, then we are not able to do all that because our mind starts working on our orders. Therefore, we should move ahead in life by adopting positive thinking. How successful we are in life or whether we are able to achieve our goals or not depends entirely on our thinking. In fact, our thinking is our real personality and behavior which comes out in physical form and comes in front of people and in the same way we get respect in the society. What we say, what we do and what reaction we get from the other person depends on our thinking. In fact our thinking is a reflection of our personality.

Our positive thinking is the belief that we can solve even the most difficult situations of life. Maintaining courage even in difficult times is the power of our positive thinking. We get the courage to do any difficult task only through our positive thinking. The more positivity we do in any work, the more accurate and successful the work will be. Due to lack of positive thinking in difficult situations of life, many people lose their mental balance and cause huge loss to themselves. The secret of success of all successful people till date is their positive thinking. Positivity is the key not only to our success but also to our good health. The thinking of “I will not be able to do it” even before doing any difficult task is called negative thinking. The work done by people having negative thoughts starts getting spoiled and negative thinking also has a very bad effect on our health. Negative thinking pushes us into the abyss of failure and makes us an example of a loser in the society. Sitting idle and running away from situations without facing the difficulties of life is a symbol of negative thinking. Anticipating the bad outcome of any work without seeing its result is also an example of negative thinking. In any society, the position of people with positive thinking is always higher than the people with negative thinking. A person with positive thinking Is free from fear and despair. He is always ready to do the most difficult task without worrying about its consequences and the effect of his positive thoughts is clearly visible in his life.

The thought of “I can’t do it” even before doing any difficult task is called negative thinking. The work done by people having negative thoughts starts getting spoiled and negative thinking also has a very bad effect on our health. Negative thinking pushes us into the abyss of failure and makes us an example of a loser in the society. Sitting idle and running away from situations without facing the difficulties of life is a symbol of negative thinking. Anticipating the bad outcome of any work without seeing its result is also an example of negative thinking. In any society, the position of people with positive thinking is always higher than the people with negative thinking. A person with positive thinking Is free from fear and despair. He is always ready to do the most difficult task without worrying about its consequences and the effect of his positive thoughts is clearly visible in his life. Difficult situations definitely come in everyone’s life one day or the other, but It depends on our thinking that how we get ourselves out of that situation. If our thinking is positive then it is possible that we will find the solution to that problem as soon as possible but if we have negative thinking then hardly we will be able to save ourselves from that problem without the help of a positive thinking person. How we will be seen, how much respect we will get in the society, all these things depend on our own thinking and thoughts. When we present our views in the society, what will be the reaction of the people on it and how much the people of the society agree with our words, all these things depend on our thinking only.

Once upon a time, two friends were returning home through the forest. As soon as they reached the middle of the forest, they saw the bushes in front of them moving. They talked among themselves, “It must be a man-eating wolf, I have heard that it has killed many people.” Hearing the friend’s words, the other friend said, without seeing, how can you say that it is a wolf, the bush can move even with the wind or it could be some other animal, don’t think too much and keep moving forward. After some time we will also reach our village.

The first friend says, “No, no, I don’t want to become a victim of that wolf, I will go home via the road.” Saying this, he goes away from there. The second friend moves ahead towards the bush, as soon as he removes the leaves from his hands to go across the bush, a baby goat comes out and stands near him. He picks up the baby goat in his lap and goes home with it.

Next day, when the friend who had run away reaches home tired, the other friend points towards the goat and says, ‘Look, your man-eating wolf is eating grass and you are afraid of it and are coming back after covering double the distance. Hearing all this, he starts regretting his thinking and out of shame he looks away and walks away. So the lesson we learn from this story is that we will be able to surpass others in any situation only when our thinking is positive and good.

If we want to be successful in our life or keep ourselves as an ideal person in the society, then we should always keep our thinking positive. With negative thoughts you will lead yourself and others towards despair. Every person who wants success in life should complete his work with positive thinking. We should always try to be friends with a person with positive thinking so that his thoughts impact us and we too move towards success like him. As is the thinking of a person, so is his personality. That is why it has been wished that my mind should be of good intentions. The mind is full of determination and options. Contradictory feelings keep arising in him. When good thoughts come to mind, bad thoughts also come. When bad thoughts arise, opposing thoughts i.e. good thoughts also arise. By controlling the thoughts that arise in our mind, we can give life the desired shape.

Life can be improved by choosing good thoughts and life can be degraded by choosing bad thoughts. It is often said that work is accomplished only through efforts. Not by heart’s desire. This is absolutely correct, but when does a man make efforts and what is called effort? The first thing is that without desire, even effort is impossible. The desire to make efforts in humans also arises from some emotion or the other and emotions are generated and controlled by the mind. Therefore only positive thoughts make efforts possible. The catalyst for effort is the mind itself. Many people make so-called efforts, yet remain far away from success. Achieving the goal depends not on effort but on the will of the mind. Kalidas says that nothing is unattainable for the aspirant. Desires are what motivate us to move forward. Positive wishes prove to be effective in providing success. In fact, the result will be as per your wishes.
Do you know the talents within you?

November 6th, 2023

Sometimes you never know that you have extraordinary qualities that you never realized. That is, we never considered this quality of ours as a quality. But then others tell you what qualities you have. You just wonder what it is that makes you so unique. Whereas you are an ordinary person who wants to live a normal life like others. This happens to all of us. But deep in our hearts, these soothing words reassure us that we too have some special talent. This talent defines our personality and character traits. It is important to know that no two people are ever the same. Although sometimes they look alike, everyone is different in terms of character, style and qualities. People with supernatural abilities are seen only in films and television dramas. Although it may not be a big deal, you can become a superhero to your parents and loved ones, and vice versa. Because your character holds a special place in their hearts. And you are undoubtedly the apple of their eyes. It means that you are very special to them because your parents and loved ones see some special qualities in you that others do not have.

You often limit your thinking, whenever you try to understand yourself you consider yourself an ordinary person. Every person is born in this world with different intelligence, consciousness, behavior and values. If you learn the art of awakening the positive energy and positive power within you, then you will be able to recognize your qualities. When it awakens effectively from within you with power and energy, it is as if your entire life, your mind, the events around you come under your control.

This is the path through which you learn more about yourself, and discover what brings betterment to your life. When you create a garden within yourself. Like, you are a gardener yourself and after becoming a gardener, you want beautiful, attractive, attractive, fragrant flowers in that garden, then what will you do? What do you need? Think about what you will need. If we have light, we also have water. What else do you need? Do you know that the first seed is there? A land is needed for the seeds. Land means land which is fertile. Where those plants can grow, those flowers can grow. There is a need for such land. And that land is not anywhere else but within you.

There is some talent hidden inside every person. We all need to recognize that. Many people are not at all aware of their talent. Such people are not able to achieve the status in life that they deserve. We should never hide our talent, but should bring it out. Every person has some hobbies. This hobby is a hidden talent. You can achieve success by learning its intricacies deeply. The work in which our mind is completely engaged or it can also be said in this way that the work which we do wholeheartedly and never gets tired. This is our hidden skill. A person always gets happiness by working as per his wish. Provided that it is such that more money can be earned. One should not have to do any other employment due to lack of money. A person can never achieve success in life by hiding his talent. His mind is always distracted.There is some art hidden within every human being in this world. We have to make our career by exploring this art. This skill of ours can take us to great heights.

It becomes difficult for us to know ourselves when we either have negative thoughts or our self-confidence is negligible. If a person is satisfied with his life or his life is going smoothly then in such a situation that person can never find his talent. It is possible that along with yourself, you help people who also know you. If not, it shows that you are a helpful person.
It is also possible that you listen to everyone’s problems and give the right advice, in such a situation you can be a good advisor. It is possible that you like some sport and you are good at that sport, in such a situation you can become a good advisor. There can be the ability of a good player. Similarly, you will have to search your life deeply and know what kind of qualities you have because everyone has some quality inside them.

The blade is very sharp but it cannot cut trees. An ax is very strong but it cannot cut hair. Everyone has their own different talent. There is a need to recognize that talent and give it dimension. The day you recognize your inner talent and learn to channelize it in the right direction, no one can divert you from the path of success.
Do you get nervous at the slightest trouble?

November 6th, 2023

Often people get nervous in the slightest trouble. The mind becomes disturbed and things become disorganized. It is not easy for everyone to come out of such situations. The nature of today’s people has become such that they get upset over small things. We need to be a little patient. Any calamity comes and goes, never think that the problem will destroy us. If we suffer any loss today, we can get even bigger benefit tomorrow. We should not be afraid of trouble, but should face it boldly. One should act with courage in times of trouble. Those who have courage even in difficult times can overcome even the biggest problems.

This is the story of three friends who lived in a small village. Once those three friends went to the city for some work and were returning back to their village. To reach their village they had to pass through a dense forest. When he was passing through this forest, a friend felt thirsty and went to search for water and lost his way. After some time it became evening and it was about to fall, his eyes fell on a cave. Because the cave was surrounded by trees on all sides, they thought that this was a good place to spend the night. So both of them collected some wood, went inside the cave, lit a fire and sat there. It was night time and the fire was burning inside the cave. It was completely dark outside and the sounds of some animals were coming outside. Among those three friends, one friend was of a carefree nature. So he slept there while warming himself by the fire. Now one of the two remaining friends starts feeling scared inside. He began to realize that he was seeing a scary shadow.

Because he had heard many stories of ghosts that some terrible spirits wander in the forest at night and if they find such a lost person, they do not leave him. So when he started talking about ghosts, His third friend laughingly asked him, have you ever seen a ghost? He said – No, I have not, but I have some acquaintances who have. So his third friend tried hard to convince him. Tried and explained that man, we don’t believe in such hearsays. Now it is very late in the night, so go to sleep and let me sleep too, I am feeling sleepy.

In this way, two of the three friends had fallen asleep. Now the remaining friend who was talking about ghosts was not able to sleep. After some time, he started seeing the shadows of ghosts on the stones there and he started getting scared after seeing those shadows. This continued for a few hours and then later, because he was tired, he also fell asleep. But shortly after falling asleep, he had a dream. In the dream, he saw a very scary shadow moving towards him. Then he looked at his friend who was sleeping, held him and picked him up, then he told his friend what happened to him, his friend started laughing again, then his friend said to him – “If again If you see that shadow, you just say what I am telling you. You have to say within yourself, “I am not afraid of you, if you have the courage then come forward.”
Then let’s see what the shadow does to you. You just have to say within yourself, “I am not afraid of you, if you have the courage then come forward.” So his friend did the same. After some time again he saw a shadow in his dream and he did the same. After some time again When his shadow came into view, he started repeating in his mind – “Wherever you are, I am telling you that I am not afraid of you. If you have the courage, come forward. I am telling you that I am not afraid of you.” , If you have courage, come forward. As he was speaking, the shadow started getting smaller and started moving away from him. It kept getting smaller and smaller and gradually the shadow stopped.

Exactly the same happens in our lives too. The more we fear all the fears within us, the smaller we become and the bigger those fears become, but if we are not afraid of the fear within us, we can face it. So there is no fear or problem in the world that we cannot face.

No matter how big the problem is, do not be afraid of it, rather face the problem. There is no fear or problem in the world that we cannot face. There is no such problem in the world which we cannot face. At some point of life, suddenly such a critical situation arises, which a person finds himself unable to overcome. Although some people face difficult times with patience, others get nervous. In difficult times most people’s conscience does not work. Due to this, a person has to face loss of life and property.

A person needs a solid strategy to come out of the crisis. When a person makes a strategy to get out of the crisis, he works step by step and ultimately achieves victory. It is very important to be careful in times of trouble, because during times of crisis, a person has limited opportunities and The challenges are big. In such a situation, a small mistake can cause huge harm, hence it is very important to be careful in advance. A person should keep positive thinking even in adverse circumstances. Whatever the situation may be, do not lose patience. If you do this, you will win half the battle without fighting. In times of crisis, fulfilling the responsibility towards the family should be the first duty of a person. Special care should be taken for the safety of family members. One should support one’s family members in times of crisis. If any kind of trouble has befallen the family members, then you should help them out of that trouble. A person should always save money. If you have good financial management then you can be successful in getting out of the biggest crisis. In fact, in times of crisis, the true companion is money. It becomes very difficult for a person who lacks money at the time of crisis to overcome the crisis.

Therefore always be careful of your conscience. So you can never face any problem in life. Always live in today, do not create problems within yourself by worrying about tomorrow. If you ever get more happiness in life, don’t be proud of yourself. If you suffer more, don’t extend your hand to anyone. Rather, manage to deal with your problem yourself. Because the lion cub remains weak as long as it cannot speak. The day he learns to roar, he becomes the king of the jungle.
Why does man become poor?

November 5th, 2023

To a great extent, man himself is responsible for his happiness and sorrow. God may send you wealth and happiness in your destiny, but God keeps an eye on everything you do. And according to your deeds your destiny also changes. That is why it is seen that many people die untimely death even if they have a long life line in their palm and live in poverty even if they have a good fate line. Lord Shri Krishna’s friend Sudama is also considered an example of this, who had to face extreme poverty due to his mistake. However, later by the grace of Shri Krishna his poverty was removed. Sudama, out of greed, ate the food given by Gurumata alone, even though Shri Krishna also had a share in it. Sudama had to face poverty because of eating someone else’s share. Therefore, the rights of others should not be snatched away.

In today’s era, everyone considers only filling their stomach as success. Whatever wealth, wealth, prosperity and respect we have in our life has been given by the Lord. It is said in the Gita that those who eat food without offering it to God commit the mistake of eating stolen food. One has to suffer the punishment for this in both this world and the next world. Lakshmi gets angry in a house where God is not remembered before eating.

If you have enough money then you must help a poor person. You get pleasure from generosity.
A hungry and poor man came to the door of the house to ask for food and it was considered a great sin to scold him and send him away. There are no blessings in the wealth of such a person and Goddess Lakshmi gets angry with him and goes away. It is said in the scriptures that whatever charity you do, you get it double. And not only you but many of your generations enjoy the fruits of your good deeds.

In today’s era, there is a competition between husband and wife as to who is the best. It happens in many homes that husbands do not give any respect to their wives. Women are Sri i.e. Lakshmi. Those who want wealth should respect those men who misbehave with their wives. They speak harsh words and beat them; Lakshmi does not stay in those houses for long. It is written in the Puranas that where Grihalakshmi i.e. the woman of the house is disrespected, Goddess Lakshmi does not remain there for long, that is, poverty does not take long to arrive there.

Drinking alcohol is a common thing in today’s era. But there is a limit to anything. If anything is excessive, it causes destruction. Alcohol and gambling have been considered the causes of destruction. An example of this is directly shown in Mahabharata. Chakravarti emperor Yudhishthir had to lose his kingdom due to gambling and in the end even his wife had to be put at stake. Yudhishthir had to wander from forest to forest with his brother and wife for years.

According to the scriptures, adultery is considered a great sin. There are many examples of this, from Bali to Ravana and from Ramayana to Mahabharata, in which even rich people became poor due to evil eyes on other women. Due to casting evil eye on Ahilya, even Indra, the king of gods, had to lose his kingdom and wander like a common man. Therefore always keep yourself within limits.

Serving the elders at home is the biggest service. It happens in many homes that the elders remain very sad. They are not given food, clothing and even a proper room to live. In such a situation his soul always remains sad. And when someone’s soul is sad then where will we get blessings from. There is never any blessings in such houses. People of such houses have to face a lot of problems.

Cow is considered to be the form of Lakshmi. One of the gems that came out of the churning of the ocean is the cow. If a person keeps cows in his house and does not take proper care of them, then poverty comes to that house.

A person should always be honest and should also teach honesty to his children. Lakshmi has no place in the life of a person who commits despicable acts like cheating others and embezzling others’ money. We should always consume our share only.
How to beat stress?

November 5th, 2023

Most of the times we stress without any reason. When the pressure is on, it’s easy to feel stressed, even if you’re well prepared and following your schedule. Thus, to begin with, you should start eliminating all the factors that cause unnecessary stress before it gets worse. The best way to deal with stress is not to defeat it but to approach it with a different perspective. Have to see from. View stress as a good thing that motivates you to study harder. Use this to your advantage and you will be able to perform better in your field. Too much stress and no stress at all are both bad for you. It is not the burden that breaks you, but the way you perceive it, your shortcomings.

Thus, healthy stress seen from a positive perspective is all that you need. Everyone struggles with stress. This is a disease related to our mind. Stress arises due to imbalance and lack of harmony between our mental state and external circumstances. Due to stress, many mental disorders arise in a person. He is always restless and unstable. Stress is like a conflict which creates instability in a person’s mind and emotions. A person suffering from stress is never able to concentrate on any work, which has a negative impact on his efficiency. Having a small amount of stress in normal routine is not a matter of concern because this much stress is necessary for normal personality development, but if it becomes a part of our emotional and physical life then it can prove to be dangerous.

There is no need to do much to relieve stress, you just have to spend time in a green place for a few minutes every day. Any green place can be a park. In this research on stress, it has been found that people who spend just a few minutes in the park, their mental stress level drops by several percent. If you try to find the reason behind your tension, you will find no solution. Some reason will definitely be found. People working are worried about work, parents are worried about their children’s education and children pursuing higher studies are worried about achieving something big. Try not to worry about every small and big thing. This will reduce your stress. It is a little difficult to always be happy but it is not impossible. Try to keep the environment around you calm and cheerful. By being happy, many of your problems will go away.

Always stay away from fights.
Our stress increases a lot during fights. In such a situation, try to avoid every reason due to which you fight. Also, try to think and understand calmly even during a fight. After doing some work, we feel very good. In such a situation, do whatever work makes you feel good. If you like, watch TV and relieve stress while also enjoying movies.

Try to enjoy what is going on in the present without thinking about what will happen next. This is considered the best way to relieve stress. Not every person gets everything in life. If you think that the other person is very happy, then it is absolutely wrong. Every unpleasant event that happens to you is already determined in your actions. No matter how hard you try, it will happen. Stress is like a surge in the sea which calms down after a few moments. You just need to understand whether you get swept away with the waves or the waves touch you and turn.

Stress is natural, but holding on to it is foolish. Just as we cannot hold on to happiness, similarly it is not necessary to hold on to stress. Whenever you are under stress due to any reason, think about it peacefully and find a solution. Don’t let stressful situations worsen. If there is any tension regarding family members, call a family problem-solving session. The solution should be found only by talking and not by taking tension. There is no person in today’s world who does not feel stressed. Having stress is a good thing, but it can be dangerous if it goes beyond limits. When this stress starts troubling us in our everyday life then only the problem arises. A person who is always stressed should consult someone for treatment. Remember that this is nothing to be ashamed of. This is not madness or any disease but it can happen to any person at any time. To reduce stress, Vaastu recommends using lavender color. If you are stressed then you should wear lavender colored clothes. This will give you peace and bring happiness in your life.
What is the reason for suffering in our life?

November 5th, 2023

Like happiness, sorrow is also a gift given by God. But many people make the mistake of understanding sorrow. Suppose they have some problem whose solution is in their hands, even then they call that thing sorrow. Generally sorrow is disliked. People think that suffering comes as a result of sin or because of divine anger, but this is not completely true. Sin is also a reason for suffering. This is right, but it is not right that all sorrows come due to sins. Many times it happens that a person becomes unhappy because of his destiny. Prarabdha includes all those deeds by which we have caused pain to someone in our previous birth. The second reason is action. These are the reasons whose consequences a person often has to suffer simultaneously or in this very birth. The third and most important reason for this is that when God has to take pity on any creature and take him under his shelter and take him on the path of welfare, then in order to free him from the bondage of life and evil tendencies, such painful opportunities are created, whose stumbling blocks are After eating, man should understand his mistake and become his true devotee.

Not everything in the human world is as desirable. Every day the newspapers seem to scream and cry out about human suffering. Perhaps not even ten percent of the world’s population can say that it finds itself completely satisfied. The question arises why is there so much suffering in the world? Why is the nature of the world the way it is? There is hardly any religion in the world which is not seen grappling with this question and there is hardly any genre of philosophy which does not assimilate this question in some form or the other. If we look at the Bhagavad Gita, we find that the main reason for the suffering in the world is our ignorance about the nature of the soul. We become afraid at the thought of the death of our relatives. The doubt of loss of whatever we have earned or received never allows our consciousness to be completely free. In the Gita, Krishna teaches Arjun that the events of birth and death are nothing more than the soul shedding its old clothes and donning new clothes. Since the soul is the only eternal element in the world, whatever we acquire is stored with us only due to external reasons and can also be taken away from us due to other external reasons. Geeta tells us the causes of suffering and shows us the direction to get rid of them.

The allure of worldly attachment, affection and lust is so tempting that it cannot be forsaken by mere desire. A faint thought comes that a thing like life should be used for some good work, but in the next moment such tempting circumstances come to the fore due to which that thought gets blurred and the person comes back to where he was. . To come out of this kind of mud, God shakes his devotee with great force to wake up the sleeping person. This shock itself seems like sorrow to us. Heart-wrenching events like serious illness, death of loved ones, insult or betrayal by trusted friends occur so that a person gets shaken by their tremendous blow and becomes alert and gives up his attachment to this world. God gives trouble to His devotees so that they can understand who are His true devotees.

Happiness and sorrow keep coming and going in life. Time never remains the same. Life is about walking, so life goes on. But these coming and going happiness and sorrow leave a deep impression on the mind and brain of a person. A continuous series of sorrows one after another fills a person with despair. A person starts feeling that nothing good will happen to him, his fate is like this, it is written in his destiny like this. Due to all this, an attitude is created in the mind of a person which fills him with despair and sadness. This viewpoint is called pessimistic thinking. This pessimistic thinking is a major reason for unhappiness in life. Accept firmly that you are healthy.
You should maintain an image of yourself as a good person in your mind. You should thank God again and again for whatever you have received. You should make every possible effort to keep your mind free from unnecessary worries and troubles. Hatred, enmity, remorse, inferiority, despair etc. should be removed from the mind and replaced with good healthy thoughts.
We should not bring in anything that weakens the various systems of the body. Our body weight should be kept balanced.
One should not try to heal the body without healing the soul or mind. The root of man’s sorrow lies in his negative thoughts which gradually come to fruition and spread all around him in the form of despair. These negative thoughts, like negative people, work to create a negative environment around the person. A person becomes what he thinks. The reason for sadness in a person’s life is his pessimistic thinking. History is witness to the fact that a person who wished for good in the worst of times, even the worst of circumstances could not do any harm to him. In the mythological incident, despite the certain death of Savitri’s husband Satyavan at a young age, Savitri’s positive efforts even snatched her husband’s life back from Yamraj. If you want to change your life into happiness, then get rid of negative thoughts and negative people immediately.

The person who has changed his steps in life due to fear of sorrow, is surrounded by more sorrows. The person who has survived the gusts of sorrow and carried himself forward has become great in the world.
What to do with a broken idol or photo of God?

November 5th, 2023

Many of us throw away old idols while cleaning the house during Diwali or after Diwali puja. Which is absolutely wrong if seen from a spiritual point of view. As long as God lives in our house and we worship him, he becomes like a member of our house. Are we just thrown out after we die? No, that is why even old idols should be immersed somewhere else with great respect. Be it any pilgrimage site or holy river, go there and immerse the idol. Give them a place in your home until you find such a sacred place. Similarly, idols kept under a tree give us bad results.

On Diwali, the destroyer of obstacles Ganesha and Mother Lakshmi are worshiped for happiness and prosperity. On this day, worship is done after installing a new idol of Lakshmi-Ganesh in the house. In such a situation, people are very careless about those idols of Lakshmi and Ganesha which have become old. According to astrology, there are some special rules for bidding farewell to old idols. If this is not done, the auspicious results of the puja performed throughout the year will not be achieved. Many people get pictures of God printed and distributed in wedding cards and on any other papers. What they don’t know is that after reading the cards given by them, they are thrown in the dustbin, which creates a huge waste. It is also important to have God’s photo printed in wedding cards. But if we have received someone else’s card, then do not throw it in a dirty place after reading it. Nowadays it has become popular to send wedding messages online. The best thing about this is that we do not have to pay the cost of printing taxes. Nor does it need to be thrown away after reading. In today’s busy life, no one has enough time to go door-to-door and give invitations.

If any idol or photo of God in our house is broken then replace it. A broken idol or photo of God should never be placed. If any idol of the home temple gets broken, then whose life has been consecrated and which you worship daily, then after paying obeisance to the idol, immerse it in a river or flowing water. Should be done. If it is not possible for you to immerse the broken idol in a pond or river, then the broken idol should be handed over to a guru or a temple priest. But the broken idol should be immersed with full devotion and respect and not kept abandoned at any crossroads or under a tree. Like many times we find torn pictures and broken idols of God on the roadside or under a tree. lets see. One feels extremely sad after seeing them and a question arises in the mind that ‘how can anyone insult these idols of God. So in such a situation, do not make this mistake by mistake.

If God’s picture is in a photo frame and it breaks, then do not tear that photo and throw it away. Rather, immerse the photo by separating it from the frame and glass. If you do not remove the torn photo of God, it has a bad effect on your family members.
Don’t panic if the idol in your house breaks on its own. According to astrology, the breaking of the idol on its own is not inauspicious, rather it is a sign that God has taken upon himself some major crisis that may befall your family. Yes, the self-disintegration of the idol is a sign that some disaster was about to befall you and it was averted. It is believed that the broken idols absorb the untoward incidents of the house within themselves, thereby reducing the consequences of any evil happening.

Those people who have ancient and very old idols in their home temple which have been there for centuries and which you worship even today, then these idols give other indications. If one day such an idol in the temple suddenly falls and breaks on its own. So this is an inauspicious sign. If the idol has merely fallen and is not broken, then you should not immerse it, but wash it with clean water and reinstall it after worshiping with full rituals. According to the scriptures, while worshiping, your entire attention should be on worshiping God. . It is believed that if you keep a broken idol in the worship place then it creates a hindrance in your concentration on worship. If you worship a broken idol or picture, it may bring bad omens for you. While worshiping the broken idol, the person’s mind remains disturbed and hence the disturbed prayer does not yield any positive results.

Friday is the day to bring Goddess Lakshmi home forever, she should not be bid farewell on this day. If you immerse any old or broken idol of Mother Goddess on this day, then it is a bad omen because immersion of the idol is considered as the farewell of the Goddess. Never leave even an old idol out of the house on Friday. There is a rule to burn wooden idols and immerse stone idols in water. There is a law to immerse idols made of gems and metals in the sea. At the same time, there is a rule to keep the idols made of clay and sand for one day to seven days. These idols should be immersed in the river with the sound of Om.

If you feel that the photo kept in your house has become old and should be changed, then try not to change the photo but change the frame. And give it a new look. Because as we grow old, no one changes us. Similarly, these idols are also members of our house.
Why does your child hurt you?

November 4th, 2023

Some people are very good people in life. He always does good for everyone. He thinks more about others than himself. He always takes care of the needy. Even in the life of such a good person, sometimes it happens that they get the happiness of having children, but their children always keep giving them sorrow. His children do not respect him. There are many people who crave for food. Do you know why this happens? Why are such children born in the homes of people who do so many good deeds?

To make a child well-mannered, it is important to first have good values in oneself. If we just say with our tongue, son, lying is a sin and if we keep telling lies in front of him, then he will lie more than us. And on top of that, you will also start understanding that there is no sin etc. Children are the biggest asset for any parent. We should impart good values in our children. The wealth will remain here but only the good values imparted in children will make our life easier to live. Good values will continue to inspire our future. There are three types of children through whom parents have to suffer the punishment of their deeds. The law of nature is that what we give comes back to us.

Loan Agreement:

If you have taken a loan from someone in your previous life and are not able to repay it, then in this life that person will come into your life as your child and your money will be useless until it is fully accounted for. If you have selfishly reared a cow and thrown it out of the house after it stops giving milk, then it will be born as a son or daughter in debt.

Enemy’s Son:

If someone was your enemy in your previous birth and he was not able to take revenge from you, then in this birth he becomes an important part of you in the form of your child. After which, because of that, you have to remain troubled throughout your life. If you have tortured any innocent creature, then he will come into your life as an enemy, so never do bad to anyone in your life.

Servant Son:

If in your previous birth you have served someone a lot without any selfishness, then that person comes as a son in your present birth to repay your debt. And such sons serve their parents whole-heartedly.

Neglect of parents in the family can spoil the future of children. Good values are more important for children than comforts and facilities. We can learn from Mahabharata what things should be kept in mind in the family. Provide comforts and facilities to the children in the family, but special attention should be paid to their values. Only then can their future be happy and successful. The future of their parents is also linked to their future. Therefore, it will be beneficial for you to give them good values.
Every person loves his children very much. Just how you raise them is important. Especially in today’s time when there are many things to distract them. If you remain busy in accumulating wealth for the children and fail to impart values to them, then it is possible that in the future, they may hesitate in giving a room to their parents in their big palace and they may have to go to an old age home. Therefore, while giving time to children, also give them life useful values. Such children will never throw their parents out of their home. They will serve their parents with the feeling that their parents are direct gods, they are Gods.

Today we need to pay special attention to children. Pay attention to children from the time they are small. It is a tender plant. The direction we want to give to him is possible only in childhood. At that time they also agree with you but do not force the children to do anything. If you do this, children will develop disinterest towards that thing. It is such a nature of a child that he imitates whatever his elders do. This verse of Geeta applies to adults as well as children – Yadyadacharati shresthastattadevetaaro janah. That is, the way great men behave, other men also behave in the same way. All this is possible only through the values given to children. Not only inculcate the habit of worship in children, but also teach them to love nature. Take the children along and get the trees and plants watered. Teach children to have love and affection for the environment and nature. If you keep your house clean, your children will also keep it clean. That will become their lifestyle. When you salute your parents, elders, sages and saints, this quality naturally develops in the children too. This is how values are formed. Practical qualities develop in children. Make the environment of your home such that children learn and get good values. When they grow up, they should be treated in a friendly manner. Discuss with them with an open mind. If they ask why this should be done, then you should have the answer and you will have the answer only when you do satsang and self-study.

If you want your children to respect you, then first of all you should respect your parents. Because children learn what they see. And if the elders of your house bless you, then it will definitely be fruitful.
What are people born in which month like?

November 4th, 2023

We all know that children are the form of God but often some children are born with unique characteristics. In Hindu religion, every day has its own special significance and every date of the month is considered special in itself. It is believed that the month of birth of a person can determine his behavior. Even though different people display different personalities, there may be some similarities in the personalities of people born in a particular month.

people born in january,,

People born in January are very militant and do not get distracted much by adverse circumstances. Work with patience and reach the end of the problem. Many times you will notice rudeness or drama in their behavior. However, at times they appear to be caught in conflict. They always strive for the happiness of their family and loved ones and in their career, they travel from high to high and achieve success. People born in January are very talkative and like to experiment with new things. Their hearts are like children and they mature only when the situation demands it. These people love to party and love music. It doesn’t take time to develop a rapport with a stranger. Once they set their mind on something, they achieve it. People born in January are blessed with good fortune and are fond of good and expensive things. People born in the beginning of January are under the sign of Capricorn and those born after January 19 come under the sign of Aquarius. In both cases, we can see that Capricorn and Aquarius have many common character traits. They never shy away from working hard and take care of every need of their family. The love life of people born in January is very romantic and they completely trust their partner. They may have as many light affairs as they want, but once they fall in love with someone, they become completely devoted and caring partners for them. Although many times they take wrong decisions, but seeing their character people forget their decisions.

People born in february,,

Children born in the month of February are very unique and have some special qualities that make them different from others. They appear very strong emotionally during any difficult situation. It is not easy to defeat their mind. Along with this, they are strong-willed. Children born in February are sympathetic and have compassion for others. They are thoughtful and kind and can be very attached to their family and friends. Since childhood, they think of doing something for others. Children born in February are said to be very creative. Their creativity can be seen in music, dance, art or any other field. These children can also become inventors and scientists. You will always like his ideas. They may also be interested in science and you will start seeing signs of this in their childhood itself. Encourage the child to follow his passion. Children born in this month are very stubborn and rebellious. Their behavior is not stubborn, rather they have this kind of behavior while solving any problem or question. You cannot say that the stubborn and rebellious behavior of these children is bad, rather they benefit from it.

People born in March,,

People born in the month of March are fond of travelling, they like traveling as well as watching movies. People born in the month of March are friendly as well as have attractive personality. Their circle of friends is very large. They like to meet people very much. People born in this month are rich in versatile talents. Attains good popularity at a very young age. They demonstrate their ability by holding many important positions.

People born in April,,

According to astrology, people who are born in April show a lot of passion. This passion in them is both negative and positive. People born in April are considered successful in advertising, sports, media and politics. Apart from this, every person likes to be with them. People born in April are very brave and fearless. They never shy away from taking any kind of risk. These people have a special quality of finding success in adverse circumstances. People born in April do difficult work with a lot of enjoyment. People who are born in the month of April. They are dear and very special to their friends, they receive immense love not only from friends but also from their family members. Their nature is full of romance, hence they know how to woo their partner very well. People who are born in April are art lovers. These people have a great desire to know new things. They have a curious nature and are involved in some art or the other.

People born in may,,

People born in the month of May are art lovers. Apart from this, people born in this month also get angry very quickly. People born in the month of May are attractive and popular. Also, if they decide to do anything in their life, then they end up completing it. If we talk about the business, job or in simple words, the future of the people born in the month of May, then the people born in the month of May are computer engineers. , Journalist, Pilot or Administrative Officer. Girls born in this month have good knowledge of fashion. That is why they are successful in fashion related industries. People born in the month of May have amazing imagination power. They are enthusiastic by nature and are the center of attention. People born in this month also have very sharp intelligence. They can easily solve any task with the help of their intellect. People born in the month of May are lovers of literature and art. They also try their best to do their work artistically. They have special interest in painting, dancing and singing. People born in the month of May are romantic in life. People born in this month are influenced by the planet Venus.

People born in June,,

People born in the month of June have a very good personality. His personality makes him very popular among the people around him. These people are very talented in many things. Along with academics, they also perform in sports, singing and dancing. People often want them to be their friends and want to learn from their personality. It is the excellent and attractive personality of these people that everyone wants to have good relations with them. There is no dearth of ideas among the people born in this month. Their mind is always full of cool and crazy ideas. Such people like to do every work with planning. These people do any work only after thinking. So you can always trust the thought process of these people because they know what they are doing. People born in June have a very good fashion sense. Such people are very cautious about what to wear according to the occasion. These people are very conscious about their clothes and accessories. They mostly like to wear luxury brands. People born in June are masters of their own will. These people like to work as per their wish. These people like to do everything in their own way. If you stop them from doing something as per their wish, then these people may hate you.

People born in July,,

People born in the month of July are very kind. They know how to take care of others well. Along with this, due to their positive thinking, they overcome every situation with patience. People born in this month understand every situation with patience and instead of losing their morale in even the most difficult situations, they find solutions to it.
They are very sensitive about their family. Leave no stone unturned in taking care of them.
People born in July have a very good financial condition. But they do not hold back in spending money on their needs and desires. People born in July perform better in education and banking sector. These people are quite kind. In the name of doing good to the people, many times they invite problems themselves.People born in July have a great desire to learn anything. They keep trying to increase their knowledge in some way or the other. Talking about love life, they are a little cautious in matters of love. It is not easy to get entangled in these matters. If they love someone truly, they never leave their partner and always remain loyal.

People born in August,,

People born in the month of August are masters of their own will. They are a bit stubborn in nature and their ego is also big. People born in the month of August know how to maintain relationships well. They are honest in their relationships and like to hear and praise themselves. People born in the month of August are considered talented. Whatever field they are in, they prove their talent there. They get good success in creative fields. People born in the month of August have a high and luxurious lifestyle. These people have faith in religion, and are engaged in serving their parents. People born in the month of August have compassion towards others. These people know very well how to help others. People born in the month of August look for different ways to earn money. According to astrology, the guru of people born in the month of August is Sun. That’s why sometimes they get troubled by their aggressive nature. People born in this month have a strong desire to live a life of luxury. People born in the month of August get quick success in administrative jobs. They know very well how to turn anything into their side.

People born in September,,

Children born in September are very successful. They reach the heights of success at an early age. Children born in September are very hardworking. They do not rest in peace until they complete the work they have started. Children born in this month neither tolerate cheating nor do they ever cheat anyone. They believe in finding solutions to every problem together.The specialty of children born in September is that they keep a close eye on even the smallest things happening around them. Children born in the month of September always stand with the truth. These children do not like liars at all.

People born in October,,

People born in October grow up to be quite charming. Very few people can match his charm and intelligence. People born in October are also ahead in making connections and talking to others. Every person wants to befriend them because of their way of speaking and living together. They are optimistic and their positivity draws people closer to them.
Children born in this month are very calm by nature. They keep their emotions within themselves and rarely show them. They have more friends than enemies. They try to stay away from negative people. They themselves do not like to talk to many people or make many friends. People who are born in the month of October are very optimistic and have positive thinking towards life. These people never give up and if they decide to do something, they never stop until they achieve it.
Even if you lose in something, you do not step back from trying. It may not seem so after looking at them, but they are very stubborn and remain steadfast in achieving their goals. For this reason, these children also work to motivate others. People born in October are very spendthrifts and this habit does not go away even after growing up. They like to spend on luxurious things. If they have money, they do not delay in buying their favorite thing. They like to spend not only on themselves but also on the people close to them. These children are also very powerful emotionally. Not only this, these people believe in close relationships, which bring them happiness. Their charm is different and they gain fame among people due to their skills.

People born in November,,

A child born on these dates of November is born with a unique quality. A child born on this date tries to find his own advantage in everything. Such children have a strange curiosity about work, which makes them different from others. If your child is born in November, then he has a different sense of attraction. These children are more attractive than others and are born with the amazing art of attracting people towards themselves. This quality makes them different from others. A child born in November is born with the qualities to deal with challenging obstacles. These children not only overcome challenges but also face every challenge that comes their way. These children have the ability to deal with every challenge, hence they become habituated to deal with every situation. They like to meet new people. They are successful in creating their own identity in the crowd. They may feel bad about small things but they are happy-go-lucky. Reliability is their identity.

People born in December,,

People born in this month are more beautiful than people born in any other month. These people are honest and kind. These people are patriots. There is a lot of sense of competition among them. They perform very well in sports. They lack patience and do everything in a hurry. They leave their impact easily. It is nice to spend time with them but it is difficult to understand them. Their behavior is very good with everyone and this reflects their closeness. They like to keep the atmosphere light and hence they like to joke a lot. They make friends very quickly.

The article written above is based on ideas. It is not necessary that the person has the qualities that have been written. But some things are definitely found.