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All leaders must also be follower

May 15th, 2024

Are you a leader or a follower?

Leaders are those who guide people to do good work. Followers are those who listen to a good leader. In my opinion, every person in this world is a leader as well as a follower. Some are leaders of their family, some of the society, and some of the country. But it is not necessary that a leader is not a follower. No matter how big a leader is, he must also include someone’s good things in his habits. Even the Prime Minister of the country does not do everything on his own. He also has to work after taking advice from four people. And doing so is in everyone’s interest. It is not necessary to be very intelligent to be a leader. Sometimes even less educated people can be good leaders.

I am also both a leader and a follower. I am the leader of my family. My children do as I say. The rest of the family members also do nothing without asking me. Whether they agree with me or not, but they definitely ask me. Similarly, I also take advice from everyone before taking any decision. Therefore, if any person considers himself only a leader, then it is his mistake. People who think like this sometimes commit a big mistake. A person may be a leader in the eyes of the people, but he should always be a follower of God and some people (who always give him good advice). Therefore, all leaders must also be follower.
5 fruits that I love

May 14th, 2024

List your top 5 favorite fruits.

Just like many other things are useful in our life, similarly the importance of fruits is very big in our life. These fruits provide many important substances to our body like vitamins and minerals, which are very useful for our body. Although I like all fruits, but there are some fruits which I like very much.

Strawberry is my favorite fruit. It is a sweet and juicy fruit because it has a high water content. I like cake, ice cream, yogurt, milk, shake, smoothie made from strawberries. Its most special thing is that it does not require any peeling to eat it. Strawberries are rich in nutrients.

I also like grapes a lot because grapes are very easy to eat. You don’t need to peel or cut them to eat them, just wash them and eat them. Like any other fruit grapes are full of minerals and vitamins. Grapes are an excellent source of glucose and fructose that is why they are sweet, tasty and juicy. The energy we get from grapes lasts longer because they are a good source of carbohydrates. Our body digests carbohydrates slowly. It contains various vitamins and minerals and also has anti-oxidant properties which make it suitable to eat.

My favourite fruit is ‘Mango’. It is a pulpy fruit which belongs to a species scientifically called ‘Magnifera’. Mango contains Vitamin A, C and D. It is also called the ‘King of Fruits’. Mango is also the national fruit of India.

My favorite fruit is avocado. It is one of the world’s most famous fruits. It is also called superfood because it is rich in both fiber and monounsaturated fatty acids. At the same time, the amount of sugar in it is very low, which is good for a healthy person. Avocado contains good amount of fiber, which improves the digestion process and helps in weight control. Fiber also promotes a healthy digestive system. This fruit also contains high amount of potassium which is essential for heart health and helps in controlling blood circulation.

My favorite fruit is also orange. Orange is a sweet-sour and delicious fruit. Orange is rich in vitamin C, fiber, potassium and iron.
Big improvements happen from small things

May 13th, 2024

What’s one small improvement you can make in your life?

Big improvements happen from small things. I can also bring improvements in my life by adopting many such things. Like many times we feel that we have no talent, we do not know anything. But by doing this we underestimate ourselves. I also feel like this sometimes. But now I want to change this habit of mine.

If we do not sort out the clothes in our wardrobe from time to time and keep adding new clothes, then a day comes when there is a pile of clothes and when we need the clothes we need, we cannot find them. The same is the condition of our mind. Good thoughts and memories should be written in a diary and kept safe. On the other hand, disturbing thoughts and bad memories should be written on a page and thrown in the dustbin. By doing this every few days, I will also be able to organize the wardrobe of my mind.

There is neither a specific age nor a specific time for learning. This year I have to learn that which I always wanted to learn or for which I could not steal enough time from my life. I had to learn Bharatnatyam in my childhood, even today my eyes light up on seeing that dance, so this year I can start learning it. Now online education is also available. This year no excuse will be accepted, I will have to take out some time for my hobbies. Last year I had a fight with someone, even today when I see that person, I remember all that, I burn my blood for hours. Who is at a loss in this? Therefore, all those people who have hurt me in the past years, I will have to forgive them. Forgiving, forgetting, is not easy, but if we start it, ignore the things that come to mind or replace them with new thoughts, then this task will become easy.

Responsibility comes from within and makes you mature and better. I have to give 2 minutes, 5 minutes or extra in a day to my soul. This is the time when I have to sit in a quiet environment with a calm mind, free from the world. During this time I have to feel that the supreme power which controls this world resides in my conscience and I am thanking that creator for my existence. By doing this I will be free from the turmoil of thoughts and will be able to give a positive direction to each day.

If we keep eating sweets all the time, we will get bored of it. But if we eat sweets after eating salty food, it will taste better. So accept the changes in life and enjoy the taste of life to the fullest. By bringing small changes in ourselves, we can change the direction of our life.

I have made myself very sad by listening to what people say. Now I will stop paying attention to people and try to make my life better.
I salute my mom

May 12th, 2024

Share a story about someone who had a positive impact on your life.

In my life, my mother is the biggest example of courage and fighting spirit. My mother taught me to face adverse circumstances by remaining patient. My mother instilled in me the confidence that I can be the best daughter. I have learnt the art of maintaining patience during times of crisis and maintaining balance in life from my mother. When all avenues are closed for a person to move ahead in life, then mother’s support shows a new path. To be honest, my mother is my entire happiness. She is a form of Goddess for me. My mother taught me how to solve my problems. She says that success and failure do not matter in life. What is important is your courage.

Whenever my mother used to go to the market, I used to be amazed to see her bargaining. She used to look at everything carefully, carefully and buy it at an affordable price. When I used to go out, I used to wonder how I would be able to do all this. Yes, but I still remember the grocery tips taught by my mother and I often remember those tips while shopping outside. I am proud of the fact that we get analytical thinking and the ability to solve problems from my mother. Every mother in the world wants the well-being of her children. She teaches us to be optimistic. Also, we learn from our mother how to win the tough battles of life. From taking care of everyone at home to suppressing our desires and being absorbed in the happiness of our loved ones, I have learnt all this from my mother.

When you are a bachelor, you buy small packets. But these things are expensive. I learned from my mother that it is always better to buy in bulk. Instead of buying small packets, it is better to buy in bulk and in big packets. This cuts costs a lot. The first lesson about money that we learn from our mother is to differentiate between needs and wants. Whenever we went to the grocery store with our mother, she would very carefully compare the prices of the things she bought from the store and prioritize the essentials. She would first buy what she needed and if some money was left, she would consider other things. This lesson stays with us as an adult, helping us to differentiate between unnecessary expenses and sensible spending. When growing up, our mother taught us to save the money we received from family members or relatives on festivals or any occasion by putting it in a clay piggy bank. Almost everyone’s financial journey begins from here.

She put her career at stake for my career. There are very few women who pay so much attention to their daughter’s career. When my mother used to be strict with me in childhood, I used to feel very bad, but now I understand that whatever I am today is because of her. In childhood, I always used to come first in the class, but she never praised me. She used to say that everyone praises their child, the real achievement is when other people praise our child. My mother raised me in such a way that I become a good person.That’s why I salute my mother, who showed me the way to live.
Freedom means equality

May 11th, 2024

What does freedom mean to you?

Freedom is to look out of the bars of narrow thinking while keeping your eyes open. If we try to protect our goodness in our own way and do not try to deprive others from protecting their goodness or do not create obstacles in it, then this is true freedom. The desire for freedom is common to all living beings. The caged cuckoo may be seen singing, but it wants to chirp on trees only, the caged chick wants to break the strong walls of the egg and come out, the little sparrow waits for its wings to become strong so that it can fly freely from branch to branch and see the world with its own eyes. The desire for freedom is present in humans from birth. A small child expresses this desire by crying or by being stubborn, many times he wants to walk leaving the fingers of his parents, even if he falls while trying to walk! This is freedom. To live with respect, self-respect and equality. Even if one has to face obstacles in living like this.

The meaning of freedom is different for every citizen. Some people consider freedom to be a liberty for themselves, in which they can do whatever they want, whether it is right or wrong. But freedom is only for good things. Freedom becomes a curse for bad things. Therefore, freedom has meaning only when there is a sense of dignity, character and dedication in freedom. If there is no dignity, character and dedication in freedom, then it is not freedom but a kind of openness. On which there is no control. This openness is responsible for the occurrence of incidents like rape, molestation, murder in the country and society. In India, on Independence Day, the youth of the country celebrate freedom by flying kites. The kites fluttering in the air give the message that we are residents of a free country. But does one feel freedom by hoisting the tricolor or flying kites? Has everyone in India got the right to live freely? People are cutting trees. Girl foetuses are being killed. Women are tortured on the streets. Elderly people living alone are murdered. People consume alcohol and cause road accidents in the country and kill other innocent people. What kind of freedom is this, where one person is violating the rights of another person.

Humanity is the greatest religion. Hurting someone’s feelings cannot be freedom of expression. Freedom of expression does not mean that you do whatever you want. Protesting is your right but the question is what should be the method of protest? Can we prove it right by killing or abusing someone? Along with freedom of expression, there are some responsibilities too. We should learn to respect the feelings of others.
Everyone is right in his own place and in his own perspective.

May 10th, 2024

What public figure do you disagree with the most?

When God created us with five fingers, he might not have thought that they can never be equal to each other. But they are definitely complementary to each other. Similarly, humans are also never satisfied with each other. Finding faults in each other is human nature. But there are some people with whom we are unable to agree. So it is not necessary that every person is according to us. There are different kinds of people in such a big world. Everyone is right in his own place and in his own perspective. It is not necessary that anyone likes me too. But I avoid those people who think only about themselves and their families.
Blog is my career

May 9th, 2024

What is your career plan?

Everyone wants to reach the peak of success, for this people also get education from good colleges of the country and abroad, but even after this, there are only a few people who are able to make their career according to the set goal. There can be many reasons for this failure, but one of the main reasons for this is not doing career planning in a systematic way. Career planning is a systematic process by which a person chooses his career goals and the path for these goals. If you are also confused about your career, then you can plan it through these tips. Career planning is a way to manage life well. Until someone plans his career, he remains troubled by disorganized thoughts, so career planning is very important. Understanding yourself is very important for career planning. So take some time for yourself and make a list of all the things you want to do. Then, make a list of things you do not want to do. In this way, by understanding yourself, you can easily find out your true passion.

I am a housewife. I was fond of writing since childhood, so I started writing blogs. Now this is my career. I write whenever I get time. And at the same time I help my children plan their career.
PM Modi’s address on 15 August 2023

May 8th, 2024

What was the last live performance you saw?

I last saw Prime Minister Narendra Modi’s address from the Red Fort in Delhi on 15 August 2023. PM Modi’s personality was worth seeing. PM Modi said – This India neither stops nor gets tired. Referring to the development works, Prime Minister Narendra Modi said that this is a new India. It is an India full of self-confidence, it is an India that is engaged whole-heartedly to fulfill its resolutions. That is why this India neither stops, nor gets tired, nor does it pant and neither does this India lose. We have to make the India that was the India of Bapu’s dreams (Mahatma Gandhi). PM Modi said that the biggest enemy of development is appeasement. Appeasement has caused immense damage to social justice. My family members have a huge responsibility. It is a crime to force our future generations to live such a life. Give such a country to our future generations so that they do not have to struggle to get small things. PM Modi said – We have to fight against 3 evils. He appealed to fight against corruption, nepotism and appeasement. He said that these are the things which raise a question mark on the aspirations of the people of our country. We have to take the fight against corruption forward. Today internet is reaching every village. PM Modi said that today the country is moving ahead with many capabilities. The country is working to move ahead towards modernity. Today the country is working for renewable energy and green hydrogen. The country’s capacity in space is increasing. And it is also moving ahead successfully in deep sea mission. Railways in the country are getting modernized and Vande Bharat train is also working in the country today. Pucca roads are being made in every village and electric buses and metro are also being constructed in the country today.

PM Modi said that when the country prospers economically, it does not just fill the treasury. The strength of the country increases, the strength of the countrymen increases. Prime Minister Narendra Modi said that the Vibrant Border Village was called the last village of the country. We have changed that mindset. It is not the last village of the country. What you can see on the border is the first village of my country. I am happy that the special guests of this program are 600 Pradhans of these border villages. They have come here to be a part of this program at the Red Fort.

PM Modi said that our policies are clear and there is no question mark on our intentions, but some truths will have to be accepted. To resolve these, I have come to the Red Fort today to seek your help. I have come to seek your blessings. On the basis of experience, I am saying that we will have to take those things seriously. There should be a tricolor flag of developed India in the world. We should not stop even a bit. For this, honesty, transparency, impartiality is needed. We should provide as much nourishment and water to this strength as we can, this should be our collective effort. In 2047, when the country celebrates 100 years of independence, India will be a developed country. On the issue of terrorism, PM Modi said that changes are visible in every field in the country. Now terrorist attacks have reduced and Naxalite incidents have also reduced. We have deposited Rs 2.5 lakh crore in the accounts of farmers through PM Kisan Samman Nidhi. We have spent Rs 2 lakh crore on Jal Jeevan Mission. We have spent Rs 70 thousand crore under the Ayushman Bharat scheme, so that the poor get medicines. We have spent about Rs 15 thousand crore for vaccination to save livestock. From the ramparts of the Red Fort, PM Modi said that we have been victims of unbalanced development, but now our goal is to promote balanced development. My family members, India is the mother of democracy. There are many languages but we have to move forward. It is our social and family responsibility that our daughters are not tortured. From the Red Fort, PM Modi announced that I will come again on the next 15th August.
My society is my pride

May 7th, 2024

What do you do to be involved in the community?

Community means coming together to serve. In other words, it is a group of individuals who have a sense of belonging and exercise their rights through mutual cooperation. Every community member has a sense of psychological attachment. Being part of an engaging community gives us a sense of belonging. It enables us to share personal connections and support the sustainable development of each other, ourselves, and our environment. Being part of a community also gives you a sense of purpose and duty. It is satisfying to work toward common goals and contribute to something larger than yourself.

I pay attention to the people around me and try to find ways to meet their needs. Such as investing in education, supporting charities, donating blood and protecting the environment. I plan many new programs for the children of my community. And I do things that benefit the children. Such as organizing matches, coaching, cooking lessons for girls, etc. Blood donation camps are also organized from time to time. On special occasions, food and clothes are distributed to the poor. All these works are done by taking children along so that the children of our society can become good people for their society in the future.

It is the duty of all of us to develop our society by contributing our part.My society is my pride
Becoming God’s messenger,and eradicated the sinners

May 6th, 2024

What’s a job you would like to do for just one day?

Everyone has a wish in their heart that if one day I get to do this, how good it would be. I also have a wish that if I get a chance to become God’s messenger for just one day, then I will wipe out the sinners from this world. This thought has come to my mind because if I get any other title, then I cannot change the world in just one day. But yes, if by becoming God’s messenger I can do good to the whole world in one day, then how good it will be. Peace and tranquility will spread in this world. Then no sinner will dare to commit sin. The whole world will be able to breathe in peace. We will all get freedom from the fights and quarrels happening everywhere. What can I achieve if I do any other job for one day? But the tyrants who will be wiped out in one day will not be able to take birth again. I wish God would give me one day’s time.