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How to identify a characterless woman?

June 25th, 2024

It is said that it is not easy to recognize a woman. According to Chanakya Niti, no one can understand a woman. In India, women have been given the status of goddess, but this goddess is mistreated by the society from time to time. Nature has given a woman the quality of tenderness, gentleness and affection in abundance. All these qualities are seen in every woman. But it is said that all the five fingers of the hand are not equal, similarly it is not necessary that every woman is an embodiment of affection. Our society considers women as the pride of the family. The woman is also given the responsibility to ensure that the family’s honor is not harmed. Acharya Chanakya has told many such things about characterless women in his book Chanakya Niti. A person who thinks about these things and follows them never feels sorrow and betrayal in his life. Acharya Chanakya has written about such situations in his book which can be seen even today. Similarly, Acharya Chanakya has told some such things about women, knowing which you will not fall in love with any characterless woman.

According to Chanakya, stay away from such women but according to India’s famous text Chanakya Niti, there are many ways by which the nature of a woman can be found out by looking at her face, conduct, and behavior. There are some such signs on the face and body of a woman, which on one hand give her the status of Lakshmi but on the other hand such signs are considered inauspicious. These behaviors become the reason for the destruction of the entire family. This question must always be coming in the minds of people that how to identify a characterless woman, so complete information regarding this is given below which can help you.

It is not possible to identify such women unless you get to know them well. Women work to protect the honor of their family. They keep their moral and social conduct pure. But there are some women who, because of their bad character and immorality, have a negative impact on the lives of people related to them. Such women do not know how to love just one man. These women are unable to make a balance between their heart and tongue. Something else is going on in their mind and something else is going on in their tongue. Immoral women do not feel ashamed of having relationships with more than one man. Such women have many male friends. And they keep everyone trapped in their love trap in a cunning way. There is someone else in the heart of these women and they are having a relationship with some other man. Such women express their love to someone else and love another man. Such women can often be seen luring people. Such women try their best to get people to see them. For this, they can go to any extent. Characterless women do not belong to any one man. Their lover, their partner keeps changing according to their need. Such women are called inauspicious or bad in social language.

The women whose back part of the leg is very thick are considered inauspicious for the house. On the contrary, if the back part of the leg is very thin or dry, such women face different kinds of pain in their life. According to Chanakya Niti, whose finger next to the little finger does not touch the ground and the finger next to the thumb is much longer than the thumb, such women change their character according to the conditions and circumstances. Such women are fortunately very short-tempered. It is very difficult to control them. Their character can never be trusted.

Women whose forehead is too long are considered inauspicious for their brother-in-law. Women whose belly is long are considered inauspicious for their father-in-law and those whose lower part of the waist is heavy are considered inauspicious for their husband.Women whose belly is too long or padded are signs of bad luck. Women who have more hair on the upper part of their lips and are very tall are considered inauspicious for their husband. Women whose ears have a lot of hair and their shape is not the same, such women become the reason for sorrow in the house. Thick, long and wide teeth which seem to be protruding, such a woman’s life is always clouded with sorrow. Women whose gums are black are also signs of bad luck.

If a woman has any such mark on her palm which looks like any carnivorous bird or animal such as crow, owl, snake, wolf, such women become the cause of sorrows of others. Women whose veins on the hands have difference in the size of the palm or whose palm is flat, such women remain devoid of happiness and wealth throughout their life. A woman whose eyes are yellow and scary does not have a good nature. Women whose eyes are playful and of grey colour are considered to be very good. It is also mentioned in Chanakya Niti that women who have a short neck, such women depend on others for any result. Women whose waist is very thick, such women are considered to be inauspicious for the house. On the contrary, if the back part of the leg is very thin or dry, such women have to face all kinds of pain in life.

A woman who does not respect men and tries to humiliate them all the time is not capable of any kind of relationship at all. Such women go to any extent in their desire to humiliate men and fail to maintain the respect of their husbands. Many women try so hard to compare themselves with men and degrade themselves that they end up ruining their relationships.

Women who will do anything for money

Some women give too much importance to money and jewellery and in their greed for money, they indulge in such activities which do not suit them. Such a woman is called characterless and a woman who is greedy for money should never be given importance.
That outfit is my kitchen apron 😂

June 25th, 2024

If you were forced to wear one outfit over and over again, what would it be?

This is a very interesting question, this can only happen in some profession. Like student, doctor, nurse, pilot, army, and many places have rules to wear the same dress. But I am a housewife. No one forces me to wear what I should or should not wear. But yes, I am repeatedly forced to wear one thing and that is my kitchen apron 😂

Sometimes I get angry in wearing this kitchen apron, but that happens when I finish all my work and sit down to write a blog. And at this time my son says mummy please make something for me to eat. Although I like cooking. But sometimes I get angry at odd hours.
How was Shiva born?

June 24th, 2024

The Vedas say that one who is born will die, that is, one who is created will perish. According to the Vedas, God or the Supreme Being is unborn, unmanifested, formless, attributeless and without any vices. Unborn means one who has never taken birth and who will never take birth in the future. Manifest means one who is not born from any womb and has manifested on his own and unmanifest means one who is not self-manifested. Formless means one who has no shape, nirgun means one who does not have any quality of any kind, nirvikaar means one who does not have any vice or defect of any kind.

Now the question arises that what is Shiva? He was born or appeared in some form or the other, that is why he got married. That is why he gave blessings to many demons and also killed many demons. Actually, when we say ‘Shiva’ then it is about formless God and when we say ‘Sadashiva’ then it is about the great soul of God and when we say Shankar or Mahesh then it is about Mahadev, the husband of Sati or Parvati. Hindus are unable to differentiate here and consider everyone as the same. Often Lord Shankar is also called Shiva.

According to Shiv Puran, Lord Shankar is believed to have originated from Lord Sadashiv and Parashakti Ambika. That Ambika is also known as Prakriti, Sarveshwari, Tridev janani (mother of Brahma, Vishnu and Mahesh, That Shakti manifested by Sadashiv has 8 arms. Parashakti Jagatjanani, that Goddess is endowed with various kinds of movements and holds many kinds of weapons. That Goddess of Shakti is Durga, the better half of Sadashiv in the form of time. Durga manifested from that Sadashiv. While enjoying in the Anandroop forest of Kashi, once both of them desired to create another man, on whom they could place the responsibility of creation i.e. procreation and attain Nirvana. For this, they manifested Vishnu from their left side. Thus, the mother and father of Vishnu are Sadashiv in the form of time and Parashakti Durga. After creating Vishnu, Sadashiv and Shakti made efforts as before and created Brahmaji from their right side and immediately placed him in the navel lotus of Vishnu. Thus, Hiranyagarbha (Brahma) was born as a son from that lotus.

Once Brahma and Vishnu fought over supremacy, and a pillar in the form of Kaal stood in the middle. Then Kaal in the form of Jyotirlinga said, ‘Sons, by performing penance, you both have received two actions from me, namely creation (birth) and sustenance (maintenance). Similarly, my manifestations Rudra and Maheshwar have received two other great actions, destruction and disappearance (non-action), from me, but no one can get another action called anugraha (mercy). Both Rudra and Maheshwar have not forgotten their actions, so I have given them my similarity.’ Sadashiv says, ‘They (Rudra and Maheshwar) have the same vehicle as me, wear the same dress as me and have the same weapons as me. They are similar to me in form, dress, vehicle, posture and action.’ Now there are 7 souls here – Sadashiv from Brahma (God), Durga from Sadashiv. Vishnu, Brahma, Rudra, Maheshwar from Sadashiv-Durga. This proves that the parents of Brahma, Vishnu, Rudra and Mahesh are Sadashiv and Durga in the form of time.

That time-form Brahma Sadashiv had created a region called ‘Shivlok’ with Shakti at the same time. That great region is called ‘Kashi’. It is the place of salvation. Here Shakti and Shiva, that is, time-form Brahma Sadashiv and Durga live as husband and wife. It was here that Jagatjanani gave birth to Shankar. This beautiful place Kashipuri was never freed from the proximity of Shiva and Parvati even during the time of deluge.

According to another Purana, once the sages and munis became curious as to who is the father of Lord Shankar? They asked this question to Shankarji himself that O Mahadev, you are the creator of all but who is your creator? What is the name of your parents? Answering this question, Lord Shiva said- O Munivar, my creator is Lord Brahma. I have been born by Lord Brahma, the creator of this universe. After this, the sages once again asked Lord Shankar that if he is your father then who is your grandfather? Then Shiva replied that Lord Shri Hari, that is, Lord Vishnu, who nurtures this universe, is my grandfather. Unaware of this divine play of God, the sages again asked another question that when your father is Brahma, grandfather is Vishnu, then who is your great grandfather, then Shiva smilingly replied that Lord Shiva himself.
Spirituality is everything to me

June 24th, 2024

How important is spirituality in your life?

The true meaning of spirituality is to develop a personal relationship with God. It is that which connects our everyday life with the Brahma. Spirituality has the highest place in my life. Since childhood my parents have taught me that we are puppets made by God. Only that can happen to us which God wants. No matter how much we try, we get only what He wants. So always try to please your God, not the people of the world. My parents used to say that in this world people support you only till they have some benefit to you. Only God supports you without any benefit. That is why I never forget to thank God first in all the moments of my life be it defeat, victory, success, happiness, respect, sorrow or joy. Only God has given me the strength to fight every situation.

Spiritual life is a practical way to develop that relationship. Spiritual knowledge prevents man from moving towards degradation. The darkness that has developed inside man due to materialism can be dispelled only by the light of spirituality. Only spiritual knowledge can help him understand the dimension of God and the creation of man which is a creation of the universe. Spirituality is important to make a person more aware and healthy physically or mentally. Spirituality promotes knowledge and awareness of the surroundings. A person who practices spirituality is considered to be more calm and thoughtful than a person who does not practice spirituality. It can help you understand your experiences in life. When you are unwell, it can help you feel inner strength. Spirituality is the only solution to our suffering, it is important for our well-being and peace. We are so caught up in this world of illusion that we do not reflect on the one thing we should do.
Before getting divorced, you must read this true incident

June 23rd, 2024

The husband and wife had copies of the divorce papers in their hands. Both were silent, both calm, both expressionless. The case had gone on for two years. In the end, what everyone wanted was going to happen divorce. It was just a coincidence that the relatives of both sides sat at the same tea stall and had cold drinks. It was also just a coincidence that the divorced husband and wife sat opposite each other at the same Wooden bench and both of them were sitting face to face. Congratulations, what you wanted has happened, said the woman. “Congratulations to you too, you have also achieved victory by giving divorce, said the man. “Is divorce a symbol of victory????” asked the woman. “You tell me?”

The woman did not answer the man’s question. She kept sitting quietly, then said, “You called me characterless, right? It is good that you are now free from this characterless woman. It was my mistake, I should not have done this’ the man said. I have suffered a lot of mental stress”, the woman’s voice was flat, neither sad, nor angry. I know that a man attacks a woman with this weapon, which bleeds the woman’s mind and soul, you are a very character full person. I should not have said such dirty things about you. I am very sorry, said the man. The woman kept quiet, she looked at the man once. After remaining silent for a few moments, the man took a deep breath and said, you also called me a greedy person for dowry. You were wrong, said the woman looking at the man. She remained quiet for some time, then said, I would have made some other allegation but I did not want to.

Tea arrived in a plastic cup. The woman picked up the tea, a little tea spilled. The hot tea fell on the woman’s hand. A painful sound came out. The man’s throat made an ‘Oh’ sound at that very moment. The woman looked at the man. The man kept looking at the woman. “How is your back pain? It is like this, sometimes Vovron, sometimes Combiflam,” the woman tried to end the conversation. “You don’t even exercise.” The man said this and the woman laughed faintly. “What is the condition of your asthma? Are you having an attack again????” the woman asked. Asthma? Doctor Suri has asked me to reduce mental stress, the man informed. The woman looked at the man and kept staring. As if she was reading the tension on the man’s face.

You keep taking the inhaler, don’t you?” the woman took her eyes off the man’s face and asked.Yes, I keep taking it. I forgot to bring it today, the man said.That is why your breathing seems short-lived today, the woman said in a sympathetic tone.Yes, partly because of this and partly… the man stopped while saying. Something?… partly because of stress,” the woman completed the sentence. The man kept thinking, then said, “You have to pay four lakh rupees and six thousand rupees per month also. Yes… then?” the woman asked. The price of your flat would be twenty lakh rupees??? I only need four lakh rupees, the woman clarified.

When the daughter grows up, there will be expenses, the man said. You will keep giving me six thousand rupees a month, the woman said. “Yes, I will definitely give it. If you don’t have four lakhs, then don’t give it to me,” the woman said. There was dust of old relations in her voice. The man kept looking at her face. How kind and beautiful was the woman sitting in front of him, who used to be his wife. The woman was looking at the man and thinking, “What a simple nature this man has, who used to be her husband. He loved her so much. Once in Haridwar, when she was taking a bath in the Ganga, the chain slipped from her hand. Then like a madman he came to save her. He himself did not know how to swim and he kept trying to save me, he is so good… I kept finding faults in him.

The man was staring at the woman and thinking, “She took so much care of him, she would boil water for steam and put it in a jug. She would always buy an inhaler for him. Seretide Accuhaler was very expensive. Every month she would be frugal, save money and buy an Accuhaler. Who cares about others’ illness? But she did care, never let it become public. She had so much compassion. I was intoxicated with my manhood. I wish I could understand her passion.”

Both were silent, very silent. Free from the sounds of the world, silent. Both kept looking at each other with moist eyes. “I want to tell you something,” there was hesitation in the voice. Say it,” the woman looked at him with moist eyes. “I am afraid,” said the man. “Don’t be afraid. It is possible that what you are saying is what I am thinking,” said the woman. “I have been missing you a lot,” said the man. “You too,” said the woman. I still love you. “Me too.” Said the woman. The eyes of both had become more moist. Both their voices were emotional and their faces were innocent. “Can’t we both give a new turn to our lives?” asked the man. “Which turn? We should start living together again, together… as husband and wife. As very good friends. This paper? The woman asked. “Should I tear it?” the man said and tore the divorce papers with his own hands. The woman did the same. Both stood up. They smiled holding each other’s hands. Relatives of both sides were shocked and confused. Both husband and wife walked towards the house holding hands. The house which belonged only to the husband and wife. Love and quarrel between husband and wife are two sides of the same coin. Don’t take any decision on a small matter that you have to regret for your entire life.

No person in this world is perfect. Even God has been found flawless by humans. If you have any complaint with your partner then sit down and solve it. There is no problem in the world which has no solution.
I always keep my inner storage neat and clean.

June 23rd, 2024

How do you practice self-care?

Self care is something that every person should do. Those who do not do this remain immersed in despair and sorrow. They get various diseases at a young age. Because of them, their family has to face a tragedy. It is not necessary that only a person who has a lot of resources takes self care. Even a poor person can improve his personality by taking such good self care. Self-care means taking time to do things that help you live well and improve both your physical health and mental health. This can help you manage stress, reduce your risk of illness, and increase your energy. Even small acts of self-care in your daily life can have a big impact.

I take better care of myself because taking care of ourselves allows us to better care for and connect with others. Proper nutrition, a healthy sleep and exercise routine, and making sure to make time for rest help me maintain the energy I need. Constant stress and not taking care of yourself can take a toll on your physical health. It can lead to problems like insomnia, cardiovascular issues, and a weakened immune system. Not taking care of yourself can also affect your mental health. Anxiety, depression, and feelings of being overwhelmed can become more prevalent. Taking care of myself gives me new energy. It improves my approach and gives me more resources to tackle my tasks. Consciously taking time for myself, even if it’s just 15-20 minutes of my day, helps me feel balanced. Additionally, I am less likely to feel tired.

Following normal routines and taking care of myself is as important to me as my work. Maintaining friendships, pursuing hobbies and interests, and doing things I enjoy. Eating regular, balanced meals, trying to make mealtimes family or social time, exercising regularly, sleeping at regular times, and avoiding alcohol and drugs are my habits.Taking time out for my spiritual or religious needs gives me great solace. Spending some time in a temple or engaging in some religious discussion has been taught to me since childhood.

Keeping yourself happy in all circumstances is such a medicine which can help you to live a long life. I never forget to take this medicine. Sometimes it happens with me too that I get hurt by something. But I take care of it immediately. If I have not made any mistake then I do not fear to say anything to anyone. Many of us keep suffocating inside, due to this their mental health gets affected. Due to which diseases surround us. I always keep my inner storage neat and clean. You should also try this trick. 😂
I waste the most time with my dog lio

June 22nd, 2024

How do you waste the most time every day?

Not everyone is busy all the time. If somebody has a hobby, he manages to find time for it. Like I spend most of my time with my pet dog Leo. Leo is a German shepherd dog. We have raised Leo since he was one month old. Now he is 18 months old. Whenever I am free from household chores, I play with him. He loves playing ball. Leo’s antics are a delight to watch. Whichever ball he likes the most, he does not let go of it easily after catching it. I like his cleverness very much.

In Hinduism, the dog is called the messenger of Yama. The dog is considered to be the servant of the Hindu god Bhairav . Bhairav is pleased by feeding the dog and he protects the devotee from all kinds of sudden crises. It is believed that by keeping the dog happy, it does not let even the messenger of Yama come near you. That is why I try to keep my Leo happy.
Ahh, childhood!!! Those were the days

June 21st, 2024

Which food, when you eat it, instantly transports you to childhood?

Childhood, ahh!!! Those were the days. No worries, no worries. I came back from school, threw my bag and went straight to play. Not only me, all my friends used to do the same. When water collects on the road, I feel like jumping into it or sailing a paper boat. When the old man with hair rings the bell, even today my feet move towards the balcony. Or even today if a child blows soapy bubbles around me, I burst them. Along with all these traditional dishes, I miss another dish very much, with which many memories come alive, a small bread sandwich. Spicy potato sandwich, green coriander chutney freshly ground on a stone grinder and hot tea. This used to be brunch almost every second Sunday at our house. At that time, we did not eat sitting on chairs and tables, but a sheet was spread and food was served on it. Sandwich and tea would be finished in 10 minutes but after that there would be useless licking of the bread crumbs from the plate to make it shine and gossip for two hours.When I put sandwiches in the children’s tiffin, I sometimes remember the sandwiches of our times.

The special vadas (made from ground moong dal with some spices) made at our home on Holi were very delicious. And the taste of sweet pakodas and papdis was just amazing. Even today, when I make these myself, I remember when mother used to make them, all of us children used to sit nearby and eat them hot. And moong dal halwa was so delicious that it is beyond words. When I remember the halwa made by my mother, even today its taste melts in my mouth.

When we used to go on the way from home to school, there used to be a competition to watch Ramu Halwai make hot Jalebi. And we used to keep on saying Round Round and Stop. Then sometimes we used to eat Jalebi from our pocket money. Today, when I eat Jalebi, I start laughing involuntarily. And there is one dish called Mirchi Bada. Which I used to eat with great fondness in my childhood. Thick chillies are made by filling them with potato stuffing and wrapping them in gram flour. I used to eat the gram flour stuffing on the top and my father used to eat the chilli. Even today, when I go to Rajasthan, I definitely eat Mirchi Bada. And I refresh my childhood memories.

Today when I go to buy vegetables, the sight of many vegetables reminds me of my childhood. Our house in the village had gourd, cucumber, brinjal, bitter gourd and many more green vegetables in its backyard. There used to be mango, litchi, banana, guava and pomegranate trees, which we used to buy from the market only sometimes. The taste of the vegetables grown at home was different. Today we eat fruits and vegetables bought from the market. God knows how much insecticides are mixed in them. The diseases occurring in today’s times are happening due to food habits only. Earlier we did not get much to eat, but whatever we got was pure. But where are those days now? They are confined only to memories.
Rani Laxmi bai

June 20th, 2024

Who is your favorite historical figure?

Rani Laxmibai of Jhansi, who made the Indian land proud, was an ideal heroine in the true sense. Laxmibai was known as Manubai in her childhood. Maharani Laxmibai was born in Kashi on 19 November 1835. Her father Moropant Tambe was dependent on Chiknaji Appa. Her mother’s name was Bhagirathi Bai.

The heroic and courageous personality of Rani Lakshmi Bai became very famous during the Indian freedom struggle. As the queen of Jhansi, she fought valiantly with her subjects and fought against the British Empire. During the 1857 freedom struggle, she took over the power of Jhansi after the death of her husband Gandhiji and played her role as a strong female fighter. She took strong steps to protect the people of Jhansi and fought against the British Empire. Lakshmi Bai died on 17 June 1858, when she sacrificed her life for her country while fighting with strength and courage in Gwalior. She set an example for the women fighters of the Indian freedom struggle with her bravery and dedication. The sacrifice of Rani Lakshmi Bai gives us important inspiration of courage, dedication and patriotism. Her unparalleled valor is a symbol of her unwavering dedication to freedom. The name of Rani Lakshmi Bai will always remain a proof of her great journey in indian national history.
Who is right? God Shani or Science?

June 19th, 2024

Shani is the most popular deity for his influence in Hindu spiritual tradition and astrology. There is a special kind of fear about his sight. There are references in mythology and lectures when even his Guru Mahadev Shiva could not escape from the sight of Shani. His characteristic of not discriminating against anyone makes him the ‘God of Justice’. However, to attain this position, Shani Dev also had to go through many tests. Shani’s wife was extremely brilliant. One night she went to him with the desire to have a son. Shani Dev was engrossed in the meditation of Lord Vishnu. Thus the wife got tired of waiting. The wife got angry and cursed Shani Dev. Shani Dev’s wife said that whoever he looks at will be destroyed. Therefore, it is advised to avoid the sight of Shani Dev.

Why do we offer oil to Shani?

Once, on the request of Sun God, Hanuman Ji went to convince Shani. Shani did not agree and agreed to fight. Hanuman Ji defeated Shani in the war. Shani was badly injured in this war. To reduce Shani’s wounds, Hanuman Ji gave him oil. On this, Shani said that whoever will offer me oil, I will not hurt him and will reduce his sufferings. Since then, the tradition of offering oil to Shani started.

Why do we light lamps on Saturdays?

Saturn is a symbol of darkness and becomes very powerful after sunset. If Saturn gets upset, darkness prevails in life. According to astrology, lighting a lamp on Saturday evening removes darkness from life. Light the lamp only on Saturday evening.

Why is Shani Dev’s color black?

A story has been told in the scriptures about the dark complexion of Shani Dev. According to this story, Surya Dev was married to Sandhya, the daughter of Daksha Prajapati. Sandhya and Surya Dev had children named Manu, Yamraj and Yamuna. It is said that Surya Dev was so bright that Sandhya could not bear that brightness, so one day she left her replica Chhaya there and went to her father’s house herself. Being similar to Sandhya in qualities and appearance, Surya Dev could not understand that Chhaya is actually a replica of Sandhya. After some time Chhaya became pregnant. Chhaya used to do rigorous penance of Lord Shiva from the time of conception. Due to this, she could not take proper care of her pregnancy. Due to this, when Shani Dev was born, he was extremely malnourished and dark in complexion. Seeing the dark complexion of his son, Surya Dev refused to accept him as his son. Shani Dev felt very bad about this. Since Chhaya had done penance of Mahadev during pregnancy, due to this Shani Dev had the blessings of Mahadev from birth and he was born with a lot of powers from birth. When Surya Dev rejected him, he got very angry and when he looked at Surya Dev with the same anger, Surya Dev’s complexion also turned black and he got afflicted with leprosy. After this, Surya Dev realized his mistake and he went to Lord Shiva to apologize for his mistake. After this, he gave Shani Dev the boon of being the most powerful among all the planets. Mahadev made him the giver of karma. After his birth, Shani Dev had to bear neglect due to being black in complexion. In such a situation, he realized how much the black color is neglected. This color does not get importance in any auspicious work like worship etc. Due to this, he made black color his favorite color.

Why are black things offered to Shanidev?

Since then, black coloured items started being offered to Shani Dev. This makes Shani Dev very happy. Apart from this, if you help a needy, helpless or neglected person, then Shani Dev is also very happy with this. Due to the blessings of Lord Shiva, Shani became a very powerful god. Then he expressed his wish and said that any devotee who offers him black coloured items, he will fulfill his every wish. Since then, the tradition of offering things made of iron, black sesame, black urad, black cloth, black gram, black effigy etc. to Shani Dev continues.

Why did the golden Lanka turn black instead of shining after burning?

Even Ravana, the king of Lanka who defeated the gods, was suspicious of Shani’s sight. Therefore, he caught Shani and hung him upside down in Lanka, so that he could not see him. When Hanuman burnt Lanka, he freed many gods from Ravana’s captivity. Shani was also among them. When Hanuman straightened him, his sight fell on Lanka. This is the reason why after burning the golden Lanka, instead of shining, it turned black.

How are you please Shani? How to avoid Shani’s anger?

If you want to avoid Shani’s anger, then stay away from people who speak ill of others and conspire against others. Do not keep bad thoughts about others in your mind. Don’t try to harm anyone. Do not try to snatch someone’s rights. Avoid being careless. Try to get up before sunrise. Do not sleep at all during sunset. Feed the poor and hungry as much as possible. Give food items. Donate leather shoes and slippers to the needy. Donate black blankets to the poor in winter. Donate mustard oil in an iron vessel on Saturday. Offer mustard oil to Shani Dev on Saturday evening, light a lamp of mustard oil. Wherever there is a statue or symbol of Shani in temples, his gaze is bowed. This is a symbol of the effect of Shani’s gaze.

Why is the idol of Shani Dev installed facing west?

According to astrology and Vastu Shastra, Lord Shani Dev is the lord of the west direction, therefore the idol of Lord Shani Dev has been installed here facing west. It is a religious belief that Shani Dev should not be seen from the front. Hence, here also, for darshan, the visitors walk clockwise from the south direction, come to the west direction, have darshan of Shani Dev and then come out in the west direction and then come out again from the north and east direction and come out again in the south direction. Some people may call this process of darshan of Shani Dev as superstition, but this process which has been followed for centuries for darshan of Shani Dev is to follow an important principle of Vastu. There is a principle of Chinese Vastu Shastra Feng Shui that the middle part in front of the main gate is of fame. Hence, fame increases if red colour is used here and fame fades if black colour is used. In India also, the auspicious symbols made on the main gate are made of red colour such as Om, Omkar, Swastik, Shubh-Labh etc.

In temples also, it is considered auspicious to dress the idol in front of the main gate in red colour. Shani Dev is dressed in black clothes and his idol is painted black. In such a situation, if the idol is installed in front of the main gate, then the above mentioned principles of Vastu and Feng Shui are ignored and the fame of the temple gets affected. That is why centuries ago, the learned sages and saints must have started the tradition of installing the idol of Shani Dev on the right side of the temple instead of installing it right in front of the main gate. This Vastu tradition has been followed in Shri Shanidham also.

Why is the idol of Shani not kept in the house?

Saturday is dedicated to Lord Shani. Shani Dev is worshipped on this day. It is believed that if Shani’s Sade Sati or Mahadasha is going on in a person’s horoscope, then worshipping on this day brings auspicious results. But despite this, there is a ban on keeping Shani Dev’s idol in the house. In the scriptures, putting pictures of some gods and goddesses is considered forbidden. Out of these, putting Shani Dev’s idol at home is considered forbidden. According to mythological beliefs, Shani Dev was cursed that whoever he looks at, will face misfortune. This is the reason that so that Shani Dev’s sight does not fall directly on our lives, it is not considered right to keep Shani Dev’s picture or idol in the home temple.