Every person has a favorite brand whose products they like to use. It is not necessary that the brand of your choice should be very expensive. Sometimes we also like a cheap thing from our favorite brand. My favorite brand is Cadbury because I like only dairy milk in chocolate.
I don’t have any particular favorite brand of clothes. Because I like to wear clothes of all companies. Yes, if the style is of my choice. But I like some clothes of Zara.
My favorite brand of shoes is Skechers. Because the shoes of these companies are very comfortable. I am a woman, and sometimes I like to wear stylish shoes and slippers. So I buy heels of any brand which are comfortable. If the brand is seen in the purse, then it does not matter much to me. I just use the purse which should look good. Because I do not like to show off expensive brands to people. The ghost of brand is haunting the youth of today. Women of today also give importance to brand in the pursuit of show-off. Rich families have made the life of the common class miserable. Due to all this show-off, children of common families are also seen getting into depression sometimes. In my opinion, instead of running after brands, create a brand of your personality. The whole world yearns to meet it.
List the people you admire and look to for advice…
I admire my mother in this world. I am married. But whenever I am upset, my mother understands that I am going through some problem just by hearing her voice on the phone. She tells me the state of my heart by looking at me and I am surprised every time. Mother may not be very educated but she is very intelligent. The lessons given by the world are on one side and the big lessons learned by watching my mother are on the other side. Mother’s words and the teachings given by her are useful throughout life. Mother is like that, who fights with father and gives wings to our dreams. She fights with the society for our dreams. She is always happy even after sacrificing everything for us. Whenever I get angry at my mother that why does she keep herself behind and family in front, she says smilingly that you are my world.
Whenever my boat gets caught in a flood, my mother comes in my dreams praying. We all know how true and pure these simple words are. The one who understands our problems, the one who doesn’t sleep in our pain, is only our mother. Someone has rightly said that God cannot reach everywhere, that is why he has created mother. In this world, if anyone loves you unconditionally, then it is only your mother. My mother has also taught me to love and also told me that you can win the world with love. You can win big games with the power of patience, humility and love. Anger, ego and pride only drown you. Mother cannot be called the goddess of compassion without any reason. Compassion and sympathy are found only in a mother and you cannot learn anything greater than this from her. If I am kind to even one person today, it is because I have learnt it from my mother. Showing kindness to someone makes you a human being and it has the power to change your life.
I have dreamt big dreams for myself since childhood. It is very difficult for a middle class family to dream big and try to fulfill them. But it is my mother who gives wings to my dreams, so I am able to try to fulfill my dreams. This lesson taught by my mother is shaping the direction of my life today. She told me that dreams are not just the product of imagination, but are powerful seeds of possibilities, which are waiting to be realized. I get panicky waiting for my dreams to be fulfilled as soon as possible. But my mother always advises me to be patient. Since childhood, my mother always tried to explain the value of patience. She taught that strength does not lie in the absence of obstacles, but in the ability to face them with patience. I have seen her being patient even in the biggest storms, and not as much as her, but yes, I have also learned to be patient a little. I lost my father a few days ago. But even in such times, my mother’s patience was worth seeing.
If you are happy, I am happy. No matter how much I argue with her, she always emphasizes the importance of family. She teaches me a thousand things while laughing. This is how I have learnt some of the most important lessons from her. I have learnt from her how to pause in this hustle-bustle world and appreciate the people and things around me. She taught me the art of gratitude. A lesson that has changed my perspective of looking at the world. She has taught me how having gratitude with all the ups and downs of life shapes the way we live. We see posts on self-love on social media every day. But I have learnt the most about self-love from my mother. When I do not take care of myself, I always remember one thing mother said – ‘Jaan hai, to jahaan hai. You will take care of yourself, only then will you be able to take care of others.’ She told me that there is no selfishness in self-love, but it is essential for our physical, emotional and mental well-being. I have always lived life on my own terms. Yes, whenever I am insecure about my appearance, I remember my mother’s words. Unless we accept ourselves, how will this society accept us. My shortcomings and flaws make me special. She has taught me that true beauty is not in perfection but in authenticity. My mother is most happy when I do or learn something new. I am fond of writing, which I got from my mother. Whenever I write something new, she is very happy. Mother always taught me that this world is so amazing, where I will get endless opportunities to learn and grow. It is my mother who inspires me to do something new every day with an open mind and curiosity.
One of the things that is available for free in this world is advice. If you are doing any business or job, then there will definitely be some people at the workplace who will give you advice without being asked. In a fast changing environment, one cannot have knowledge of everything. In such a situation, some people are needed who give advice. For example, well-educated and capable people will become restless if they earn more position, money and prestige. For this, they will have to take advice.
There is no harm in taking advice, but do not take advice from the wrong person. Whether the person giving advice is big or small, educated or ignorant, it does not matter how he is from within. If he is cunning, he will say something negative, if he is simple and easy-going, then he will say something that will be useful for you throughout your life.
Yes, I voted. Because voting is very important. It is through voting that we choose a good representative for our area. It is through voting that the government is formed in the state. This is the only way to choose your representative and the government of your choice in the country. This is the beauty of our democracy. Therefore, every voter must participate in voting. There should be no hesitation in voting at all. Many people do not go to vote thinking that what do we want from the election. This is a wrong thinking. If we vote and choose a good representative of our area, then he will solve our problems. He will participate in the happiness and sorrows of the people. But vote for the right candidate only, who is really serious about his area and people. Do not vote for a wrong candidate out of greed. Universal adult franchise means that all adult citizens of the country have the right to vote. The idea of consent is the starting point of democracy. Consent means the desire, acceptance and participation of the people. It is the decision of the people that forms a democratic government and decides about its functioning. The more citizens in a country have the right to vote, the more democratic the country is considered to be.
Direction in life helps us to live a high standard, happy and successful life. For this, man should always think positive. Positive thinking gives the right direction to life. Negative thinking all the time takes life towards darkness. Therefore, whatever you think, think positively. Thinking positively develops positive energy. If you always talk negatively, then you will not be able to think positively about any subject. This thinking leaves a thought in the mind and man feels helpless everywhere. Thinking about lifestyle, food habits, everything will become negative. Life will not be able to find the right path. Therefore, whatever you think, it should be positive.
People are becoming more negative and there is a need to overcome this. When hungry, family members sit together at a dining table and eat. But, if there is a quarrel among them at the same time, the hunger disappears. This is negative energy which affects others as well. If you do any work with determination, it will definitely be completed. Therefore, always talk positively with children as well.
Life is a long journey, filled with ups and downs like challenges and opportunities. It’s easy to get lost along the way, especially when you’re trying to figure out which direction to take and what things to pursue. However, finding the right direction and the right things to focus on in life is essential to living a meaningful life. Another important step to finding your right direction in life is to identify your strengths and weaknesses. Knowing what you’re good at and what you need to improve can help you determine areas where you can do better and where you may need help or guidance from someone. This self-awareness can also help you identify your interests and find ways to pursue them.
To identify your strengths and weaknesses, consider your skills, knowledge, and experience. Think about the things you enjoy doing and the things you do naturally. On the other hand, identify areas where you struggle or feel less confident. Don’t be afraid to ask for feedback from people who know you well, such as your friends, family, or co-workers. Once you have a clear understanding of your strengths and weaknesses, you can use this information to make informed decisions about your career, hobbies, and personal development. Finding your proper direction in life can be a challenging and sometimes overwhelming process. It’s okay to seek help and guidance from others who have gone through similar experiences or have expertise in the areas you’re interested in.
Opportunity is that possibility of life, by realizing which the direction of life can be changed, the condition of life can be changed. Opportunities are hidden behind the veil of time, they also come in front, but it depends on the person to recognize, accept and use them. Some opportunities are direct, some are indirect. Some opportunities come to us on their own, while some have to be discovered. Some people look for opportunities, while others look for opportunities. Opportunities can be normal as well as special. Normal opportunities can also be made special and special opportunities also become normal for some. It depends on the person how, what and how much he is able to use the opportunities. A normal looking and shining stone seems ordinary to normal people, but the same can be a precious diamond for a jeweler, for a connoisseur. Similarly, until a person does not understand opportunities, he keeps throwing away life considering it to be ordinary stones and a wise and connoisseur person knows the special use of every ordinary stone and explains its value. This life given by God is also like an opportunity for every human being. It depends on the person how he uses that life and how his future life will be? Every human being has time in the form of life, God has given it to him as a gift, some remain as ordinary people, while some become beggars and keep begging throughout their life.
Make use of the opportunity of time. Some earn so much that they can give it away with both hands, while some become so poor that they just keep begging with their hands outstretched. Some become so brave that no one can stand before them, while some become so weak that they are forced to kneel before everyone. Opportunity is always priceless, it cannot be compared with anything. By making better use of it, someone can reach the heights of the sky, someone can become a king from a pauper, while an opportunity that slips out of hand can turn a king into a pauper. It can bring a person who has reached heights down to the ground. Opportunity is like a ladder that can take a person up and losing an opportunity is sometimes like a ditch that pushes a person into the abyss. If seen, every moment of time is an opportunity, by making better use of which, one can become special from ordinary and opportunity is also that special time, which comes only occasionally and has the ability to change the direction of life.
Do you have a quote you live your life by or think of often?
Yes, I like to live my life believing in quotes. Many great people and writers of the world have given such thoughts that show us the right direction in life. One of them is William Shakespeare. The magic of Shakespeare’s creations still prevails in the world. On one hand, where we get to see every color of life in his plays, his creations and thoughts also show the way to live a successful life. His sayings make us see serious life. Shakespeare’s songs, plays and quotes really work for us like a friend’s advice. Such advice shows us the right path in life and helps in strengthening relationships.
I find his words very meaningful. That the stars do not have the courage to decide our fate, rather our fate is in our hands. I too keep the decision of my life in my hands. I do not follow anyone’s advice. I believe in doing my work. Even today, at many turns of life, such thoughts work like medicine for us. This fact cannot be denied that a better person can be made only by our good thoughts and actions. It is our thinking that has the ability to make us successful or unsuccessful. But there are many such occasions in life, when we get so entangled in our own problems that we cannot see a way out. In such a situation, only inspirational thoughts and good words can show us the right path.
I believe that if you cannot become a tree, then become a bush. Someone will get support from you. If you cannot become the sun, then become a star. Because you do not win by size. If you cannot fly, then run, if you cannot run, then walk, if you cannot walk, then crawl, but whatever you do, you have to keep moving forward. That is why I also thought many times that I will stop writing blogs. Because I do not get much remuneration from this. But then I remember the words of Shakespeare and I keep moving forward without giving up. We should not mourn by remembering the past again and again. Because this thing is like inviting a new trouble. It is useless to complain about what is not in our fate. Because the past has gone after giving us a great sorrow. And now thinking about it again and again will make us sad again and again. As Shakespeare said, more important than expensive gifts is the respect of the person to whom you are giving the gift. Gifts should be given only to those who are worthy of respecting the gift. That is why I also give gifts to someone after a lot of thought.
What is your favorite holiday? Why is it your favorite?
My favorite festival is Holi. Holi festival comes on the full moon day of March. Holika Dahan is done on the Chaturdashi date of Shukla Paksha in the month of Phalgun, while Holi is celebrated with colors on the full moon date. Holi is celebrated for two days in India. On the first day people do Holika Dahan, in which Holika is burnt by putting wood and cow dung cakes, while on the second day all the people apply colors to each other and eat many types of dishes. Holi festival is a festival of attractive and beautiful colors, it is a festival which goes beyond the limits of every religion, sect, caste and gives the message of brotherhood to the people. On this day all the people forget their old grievances and hug each other and apply gulal to each other and wish each other for the holy festival of Holi. At the time of Holi, spring season arrives, yellow mustard waves in the fields, colorful beautiful flowers bloom all around. It seems as if nature is also involved in this festival of Holi.
Live pictures of Holi can be seen in the paintings and figures of many ancient temples of India. The amazing history of Holi is found in many paintings, murals and miniatures of olden times. If seen, the history of Holi is very ancient. It is believed that the festival of Holi is being celebrated for thousands of years. It is a festival of sharing happiness, on this day everyone celebrates this festival happily by hugging each other and applying color. This festival has such power that even years old enmity turns into friendship on this day. That is why Holi is also called the festival of harmony. On this day, everyone from children to adults enjoy a lot. Holi festival is celebrated as a symbol of victory of good over evil. Holi brings people together and spreads happiness, love and brotherhood. That is why Holi is also called the festival of unity. That is why I like this festival very much.
No, But I love going camping. Because Camping is a good idea to explore a place.and When you’re camping, you get a chance to get in touch with nature, encounter wildlife, and see the stars away from the bright lights of the big city.
Productivity is one of the most powerful ideas in the world. The more productive you become, the better you are at managing your time. This allows you to make time for other important tasks. But expecting yourself to be productive 24/7 is completely unrealistic. I am more productive when I am short on time, effort and resources to achieve what I want. Working like a bullock in a mill constantly exhausts me. But by following some effective tips, I take my productivity to the next level. It is natural for my energy levels to go down by the end of a busy week. This keeps on decreasing over time and everything else starts getting affected. In the midst of all this, I also have to struggle to complete the scheduled tasks. There are times when I wake up in the morning and start my day healthy with exercise and a healthy breakfast. But by the end of the day, my energy tank runs out of energy. This becomes a frustrating situation for me. This does not mean that I am unhealthy or have low stamina. Rather, there is a need to make the right strategy and work on your weak aspects.
I try not to do too much work when I am not feeling productive because it demotivates me. To deal with this, I try to finish my work quickly and relax. I don’t sit on any task for long. When you are not in the right mindset to work, hours keep passing by and work just keeps getting done.
Disconnecting from the internet for just an hour or two helps me to avoid frustration, waste less time and be more productive. This increases my productivity. We have a lot of habits. In this way, we behave differently depending on the environment we are in. The same routine every day bores me. For a change of scenery, I prefer to get out of a track and work in a different way again.
Disconnecting from the internet is one of the most underrated ways to become more productive. Breaks help you recharge, and motivate you to do tasks you are resistant to completing. Taking a break from productivity from time to time will help you be more productive at the end of the day. When you are mindful of your energy levels, you can choose the right time to end your work. Take a break and start working again.
If you want to use most of your time properly, then you will have to make your priority list. Priority means that whatever work you are doing, ask yourself once whether this work is most important for me at this time? If your answer is yes, then of course continue that work. But if your answer is no, then immediately leave that work and do the work which is higher in your priority list. By doing this, you will be saved from such tasks which waste your time. And your important work will get done on time. Having a goal in your life is as important as a mother is for a small child. At that time, the child is not able to do anything on his own, his parents are his support. In the same way, if you do not have a goal in your life to do something, to achieve something, to show by doing something then your life is useless.
When you do some work and you yourself do not know why you are doing that work, then you will not feel any interest in your work. You will be walking on a dark road without light. At the same time, when you have the fire to do something inside you, then no matter what happens, you will complete that work. Because when you do something that is valuable to you, you will fall in love with your work.
The Tritiya Tithi of Shukla Paksha of Vaishakh month is considered very auspicious in Hinduism. This date is also called Akshaya Tritiya. On worshipping Lord Shri Hari Vishnu along with Goddess Lakshmi, the goddess of wealth, on Akshaya Tritiya, the devotee gets infinite fruits. And happiness and good fortune always remain in his house. It is believed that Akshaya Tritiya is also celebrated as the birthday of Parashuram, the sixth incarnation of Lord Vishnu. This festival is also celebrated as Parashuram Jayanti at different places in the country.
It is also said that on this day river Ganga descended on earth. King Bhagirath had meditated for years to bring Ganga on earth. It is said that the day of Akshaya Tritiya is so auspicious that any auspicious work can be done on this day without looking at the Muhurta. Any auspicious work like marriage, wedding, Mundan Sanskar, shop inauguration or griha pravesh of a house can be completed on the day of Akshaya Tritiya without thinking anything. Krishna had saved Draupadi from disrobing on this day.
Krishna and Sudama met on this day. Kubera found the treasure on this day. Satyayug and Treta Yug started on this day. Brahmaji’s son Akshay Kumar was also born on this day. The doors of the famous pilgrimage site Shri Badri Narayan Ji are opened on this day. In Vrindavan’s Banke Bihari temple, the Shri Vigraha Charan can be seen only on this day in the year, otherwise it remains covered with a cloth throughout the year. The Mahabharata war ended on this day. Sudama met his friend Lord Krishna on Akshaya Tritiya. Sudama gave Krishna only a handful of rice grains as a gift. He had nothing to give to Shri Krishna. The God who was hungry for devotion was pleased with his love and turned his hut into a palace. It is said about Akshaya Tritiya that there is no month like Vaishakh, no era like Satyayug, no scripture like Vedas and no pilgrimage like Gangaji and in the same way there is no date like Akshaya Tritiya.
According to religious beliefs, there are some such works on Akshaya Tritiya which bring happiness, prosperity and grandeur. Apart from this, there is also a law to buy gold and silver on this day. It is believed that buying gold on Akshaya Tritiya doubles the gold and wealth during the day and quadruples at night. Donation has a very special significance on the day of Akshaya Tritiya, so on this day, some poor person should be donated grains, clothes, money etc. On the day of Akshaya Tritiya, try not to sleep till late in the morning. Wake up in the morning in Brahma Muhurta and take a bath. While bathing, add a little Ganga water to the water. By doing this, you will get the benefit of bathing in the Ganges. Doing this remedy is considered auspicious. Akshaya Tritiya is considered very auspicious for any auspicious work. In such a situation, if you want to buy a new item like a vehicle, house etc., then it will prove auspicious. Apart from this, doing Griha Pravesh on this day is also considered auspicious. It is believed that any work done on Akshaya Tritiya brings blessings. The fruits of the good deeds done on this day are received by the person throughout the year. In such a situation, do not do any wrong deed on Akshaya Tritiya and do not harm anyone. To get the virtue of worshipping Lord Vishnu on Akshaya Tritiya, keep some basil leaves in his offering. By doing this remedy, Lord Vishnu is soon pleased.
In Hinduism, Shri Yantra is considered a symbol of Goddess Lakshmi, so worshipping this yantra on Akshaya Tritiya is considered auspicious. By doing this remedy related to worship, you will not have financial problems throughout the year. On Akshaya Tritiya, one should not consume non-vegetarian food and should not insult any elder person. According to religious belief, Shankh is considered as the brother of Goddess Lakshmi. In such a situation, if possible, buy a Shankh on Akshaya Tritiya and bring it home. It is believed that this remedy removes negative energies from the house. It is also believed on scientific basis that the source of energy on this day is very effective and positive as compared to other days of the year. On this day, the external energy of a person and the energy inside him awakens a different kind of brightness, which has a deep and intense effect on the person’s brain, which makes the intellect efficient.
In India, there is a tradition of eating Khichdi on the day of Akshaya Tritiya. This Khichdi is made by adding Saptadhan. And (Amlana) Tamarind water is also consumed with it. The heat is very intense during Akshaya Tritiya. And consuming Tamarind water cools the stomach. Our sages have set a unique example by associating food with festivals.
Akshaya means eternal, immortal and indestructible. Therefore, it is said that those who celebrate Akshaya Tritiya attain Akshaya.
My favorite emoji is 😶 because I like to stay silent. This emoji inspires me that sometimes it is a great wisdom to remain silent in life. When the web of words is laid in such a way that if anyone says anything, he gets trapped in it, at that time the one who remains silent wins and is saved from losing his peace unnecessarily.Keeping calm is a great art.
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