Man is a purposeful creature who strives towards achieving goals and results.  After each goal comes another goal, and then another goal – until finally you arrive at the most fundamental power of human life.  This power is nothing else but the desire to be happy.  And you can be happy only when you practice self-discipline, self-victory and self-control.  Only when you feel that you have complete control over life, you get true satisfaction. You feel happy only to the extent that you have control over your life.  You feel unhappy only to the extent that you feel that you are not in control and that other elements or people are controlling you.

This curiosity arises again and again in the mind of every human being whether the thread of man’s life is in his hands?  If the string is not in his hand then in whose hand is it?  Will he keep dancing on the instructions of God all his life? In answer to these questions, it can only be said that man has come into this world of theater to act as his character.  It is his responsibility to play the role given to him by director Ishwar efficiently.  If he plays his role well, he keeps getting applause from the people.  His fame spreads everywhere.  People keep that seasoned actor in their hearts.  Its value increases on the stage of this world.  Everyone begs him to be on their side.  On the contrary, if he makes a mistake in playing his role, then he has to face humiliation at every step in his life.  The value of such an actor who has lost the battle of life reduces in the eyes of people.  He doesn’t get good roles to act on this stage.  In other words, he is declared useless.  Such an actor never gets a good role again. The reality is that this world is a theatre.  All of us living beings are sent here to play a special role.  Some are kings and some paupers, some rich and some poor, some police and some thieves, some judges and some criminals, some saints and some fraudsters, some leaders and some actors.  In this way the owner sends all kinds of characters, good and bad, on this stage.  He determines our role in this birth according to the deeds done in previous births.

We get only those co-actors i.e. our relatives and friends with whom we had transactional relations in our previous births. If we live up to his expectations, then the Lord will give us a better role in the next birth.  Resends.  In which we get happiness and prosperity.  We get fame, we get applause from all sides. But if for any reason we do not prove to be true to the expectations of that Lord, if we prove to be worthless, then He does not send us as good characters in the next birth.  Then He gives such roles to those who are going to live in sorrows and troubles all the time. It is He who decides when a person will be born or die, whether he will get happiness or prosperity or not, when happiness or sorrow will come in his life.  Even if a man wants to, he cannot sit somewhere hidden because he remains under the eyes of that master every moment.
Man is free to act.  If he makes good use of this freedom then his next birth will be full of virtuous deeds.  If humans misuse it, it sends them to the lower worlds as punishment.  But this does not mean that man should rely on luck.
Like we praise and reward our children for doing good work and punish them for doing wrong.  We always warn our children before doing any work, similarly they also keep warning us through their conscience.  If we agree then we do not commit any wrong act and if we ignore it after listening then we suffer.

If you are not able to do something in life, then do not put the responsibility for it on anyone else.  Don’t do things you don’t want to do, but don’t force them on others.  Do not hold your parents responsible for your failures.  Take responsibility for your life in your own hands. If you are not happy within yourself, you will never be able to keep the environment around you happy.  Earning more money or working more will do no good if you are not happy with yourself.  This happiness will come when you take the reins of your life into your own hands.  When you want to do in life, you will do it yourself. Where fate left us, we fell there and started asking what should we do, luck does not support us, everyone is against us, bent on rivalry, times have come very bad.  Is.  These are manless thoughts indicative of human ignorance, which have spoiled many lives.  Man is a puppet in the hands of fate, he is a toy, he is clay which can be crushed from time to time, these feelings are symbols of ignorance, attachment and cowardice.
Sow the seeds of life in your conscience and make the plants of courage, effort and good resolutions flourish by watering them with water.  Also, sort out and uproot the weeds of inaction.  Make waves in the air of enthusiasm and joy. The key to your happiness is with you, you just need to find it. If control is internal i.e. self-discipline, then life is happy.  If it is external, it is called coercion and makes life miserable. The thing is as simple as that if you want happiness and satisfaction, then keep the control of your actions and thoughts in your own hands. Your ability to achieve happiness is what determines your success in life.  It is the true measure of success.  There is nothing more important than this.  Nothing else can take its place.  If you achieve every material thing but are not happy, it means that you have truly failed to reach your full potential as a human being.

When you feel in control, you make your own decisions and you often decide most of the things that happen to you in life.  When the control center is internal, you realize that the reins of your life are in your hands and you are driving your own car.  You feel that you decide most of the things that happen to you, so you feel powerful, purposeful, and happy. On the other hand, your center of control is external to the extent that you feel that  You are not in control or have little ability to direct your life.  For example, if you feel that a biased or critical boss is controlling you, but you are afraid to quit your job, you experience stress and anxiety.  This causes you to do poor work, which also increases the likelihood that your boss will fire you and the same circumstances that you fear will be created.

Many people feel that they are controlled by their personality.  They are absolved of the responsibility of exercising the necessary discipline and willpower by saying, ‘That’s just the way I am.’  Will have to do.
So decide to take complete control of your life.  Realize and accept that you actually make your own decisions and are the reason you are where you are today.  If there is an aspect of your life where you are not happy, discipline yourself as necessary to do whatever is necessary to change that situation.  Only then will you be able to change your situation. You may feel that certain conditions must exist to be happy.  Often the difference between your desired circumstances and your current circumstances determines whether you are happy or unhappy.  It is largely a matter of your own evaluation and decision. Success means getting what you want, happiness means wanting what you get.  When your income and life are in line with your goals and expectations and you are satisfied with your situation, you are happy.  On the other hand, if for some reason your current situation differs from your desired situation, you remain dissatisfied and unhappy.
You are the creator of your own destiny, circumstances, opportunities in your life.  You yourself can elevate or degrade your life.  When you strive for happiness and satisfaction and live in the same mental state, then satisfaction and happiness overflow on your face.  When you remain sad and tired, your life withers and your strength diminishes. Think about power, love, strength and masculinity, create circumstances for yourself like the best brave men of the world.  You have the ability to overcome your poverty, deficiency and weakness.  Just ignite your inner strength.