Every parent wants their child to be smart and talented.  Seeing the development of the child gives happiness to every parent.  Parents are worried about how their child will grow up.  They should know that it is the parents’ responsibility to decide what kind of nature the child will adopt when he grows up.  The lessons given by them help the child to progress. Not only bookish knowledge but also social knowledge is important in learning.  Knowing this, the child can understand his good and bad and stand firm even in challenging situations.  It is very important to make the child emotionally strong.  With this, children easily tackle every problem in life and move ahead. Explain to them that it is natural to experience different types of emotions.  And expressing them creatively is good for mental health.  When the child tells about his problems, give importance to his words and listen to him.  Then sit with the child and think about how to solve those problems. Emotional training is an important part of raising a child.  It is important for the child to be emotionally strong because through this the child learns to control his anger and greed.
As a parent, you should teach your child to be positive.  If you feel that your child is afraid of every small and big thing, then teach him how to remain positive.  Children can learn all this only from their parents.  Apart from this, also teach the child to give importance to family and relationships.  Encourage your children to develop better relationships with family, friends and peers.  Teach to be considerate of big and small.

To make your child a good person in life, it is important to teach him about many things since childhood.  You should make the child strong not only physically but also mentally and emotionally.  Mentally strong children can easily face the challenges of the world.  They face difficulties in life easily and are able to find solutions to problems.  When your child learns things from you and becomes mentally strong, then later on in life, they can easily come out of difficult and adverse situations. Failure and rejection are among the most frequent and unfortunate things in our life.  There is one.  But children must be taught ways to deal with it.  Teach him what he should do in this situation.  This will help your child deal with such situations in the future, and they will not get frustrated.

Do not scold the child for his mistakes.
Be it an adult or a child, until they make a mistake or gather bad experiences, they do not know what is good.  Whatever mistake the child has committed, instead of beating him, make him realize what mistake he has made and what harm has been caused by this mistake.  The realization of a mistake is more important than the punishment. When parents start scolding the child for everything, the child becomes emotionally weak instead of becoming strong.  Fear begins to develop inside him that he may get scolded again for any mistake.  His first emotion after being scolded is sadness and he does not understand when his tears start flowing.



Many parents want their child to be at the forefront in every race of life.  In such a situation, they teach him to win but do not listen to the child’s worries and hesitations related to defeat.  It is important that parents listen to the child’s fear, explain to him that victory lies in overcoming fear and teach him to overcome fear.
You have to develop confidence in your child that he can come to you and tell you everything that is on his mind.  When the child shares his worries and problems with you, you will be able to give him solutions.  This will remove the burden from his mind and he will understand how to deal with difficulties.  It is very important that you teach your child to express his feelings.  When children keep their emotions within themselves, then these emotions start affecting their child’s mind.  When he is sad, he keeps feeling sad within himself and when he gets irritable, he keeps suffocating inside.

Being emotionally and mentally strong is something that even the best of people cannot control.  But, it is very important to be emotionally and mentally strong in life.  If a person does not learn to control his emotions, sits defeated, is unable to remove negative thoughts from his mind and feels defeated by every small and big difficulty, then it will be difficult to push the car of life.  In such a situation, the future and success of the person is also affected.  If you feel that your child is afraid of moving forward, shy and does not know how to control emotions like anger or sadness, then you can help him by keeping some things in mind.  Many children cry over small things and there are many who are afraid of facing defeat.  In such a situation, parents can teach children to overcome these difficulties.

It is important to learn the lesson of self-respect since childhood.  If you do not want to see your child compromising his self-esteem even after growing up, then it is important to be trained not after he grows up, but from childhood itself. Respect the child’s feelings.  He will get respect only when he gets the same respect at his home.  Don’t be under the misconception that the child is small so he can be made fun of or there is no harm in making fun of him.  This behavior of yours can make the child angry and he can become a victim of the illusion that his feelings are not respected. Punctuality is very important to get anywhere in life.  Explain the importance of time to the child right from childhood, so that as he grows up, he remains responsible about time and avoids wasting it.



Give children a chance to express their views. If you want that the child does not grow up to be timid, then take special care that he gets a chance to express his views.  If from childhood he has the belief that he is free to express his views, then when he grows up, he will develop fearlessness and will be in a position to express his opinion.

We think that children do not have to face disappointments, difficulties and challenges but this is not true.  Children also doubt themselves and have negative thoughts.  These affect the child’s behavior and action.  Parents should explain to the child that they should not worry and should remain positive.  To instill self-confidence in children, teach them to live in reality. To make children mentally strong, you need to understand their emotions.  After knowing how their emotions affect their behaviour, you should control these things.  With this, the child will be able to handle situations where he feels emotionally weak. Before becoming successful, everyone makes many mistakes and reaches success only by learning from their mistakes.  You should also not scold your child for making a mistake, rather inculcate in him the feeling and tendency to learn from mistakes.  The child should know that it is okay to make mistakes. When you tell your child how you feel, then perhaps he too will be able to express his feelings to you.  Let your child speak his mind openly.  Do not treat feelings with anger and listen carefully to your child. This is a life skill that probably every child should know.  You should not stand by to help him but teach him to solve his problems on his own.  Gradually, the child will start understanding on his own what will happen by doing what and in this way he will start developing the skill of solving problems. If you are teaching the child something else and you are doing the opposite to it, then the child will also understand your  Don’t expect to follow the lessons given.  Children do what they see their parents doing, so you become a role model for them.