When it comes to ideal married life, Lord Shankar and Lord Ram are presented as the supreme examples. The entire life between Lord Shiva and Parvati will continue to inspire the human society that married life should be like that of Shiva and Parvati. It cannot be denied that the lessons taught by Mahadev to Mother Parvati play a very important role in life, family and married life. Not only is the couple’s dedication, love and respect clearly visible towards each other, but there is no problem of any kind in maintaining a relationship like this. There is no need of any reference for the pinnacle of love. Rather, the life of Lord Shiva and Mother Parvati is such that not only a lot of love, respect and dedication towards each other is seen but their married life is also a symbol of true love.
This is because Mother Parvati was not only the better half of Lord Shiva but was also his disciple. To satisfy her curiosities, she often asked Mahadev such questions, which can help couples in today’s time to learn the ways of marriage. One day Goddess Parvati asked Mahadev, the Lord of Gods – What is love? What is the secret of love? What is its real nature? How will it be viewed in the future? Answering this question, Mahadev said, ‘What is love, you are asking this, Parvati? The truth is that you have exposed the many forms of love. I have experienced many feelings of love because of you. Your answer lies in your question. Hearing the words of Lord Shiva, Mother Parvati said, ‘Is it possible to express these different experiences? So Lord Shiva said, ‘When you sacrificed your life and went away from me in the form of Sati, then my life, my world, my responsibilities all became baseless. Streams of tears started flowing from my eyes. This creation becoming incomplete due to my incompleteness in your absence is love. Love is the entire universe doing everything possible to reunite you and me. Your rebirth as Parvati is love for my loneliness and for forcing me to come out of my renunciation. Well, it is not hidden from anyone that Shiva and Parvati got married only after many years of penance and overcoming all kinds of obstacles.
Everyone should know about those love tips from the life of Lord Shiva and Mother Parvati. Which we can include in our relationship to make our marital life better. The sacred bond of Lord Shiva and Mother Parvati tells that once you are in a relationship with someone, always interact with each other while interacting with each other. One should try to understand the relationship. Not only dedicate yourself completely to that relationship but also focus on strengthening your relationship with mutual coordination. This is because in a good relationship, both the partners encourage each other to move forward and change, those between whom this does not happen, there is always a lack of love. This thing can be easily seen in the relationship of Lord Shiva and Mother Parvati. It can be seen that when two people are in a relationship, there is no one older and no one younger. In this relationship, there should be a feeling of spontaneity, which always binds two people together.
However, adopting inappropriate behavior in a married relationship is very wrong. This is also a reason why behavior done for love can be decent. Whereas where there is no love, a person does not delay in crossing his limits. There is no doubt that very few couples have mutual likes. From going to a favorite place to eating out, every couple has their own opinions. However, in the meantime, instead of a small compliment, mutual discord, bitterness, bitterness and resentment can spoil any relationship. Praise on small things not only strengthens relationships but also creates a special connection between couples. Lord Shiva had on many occasions told Mother Parvati many secrets related to human life. The lessons taught by Lord Shiva to Mother Parvati are very important for human life, family and married life. Lord Shiva has told 5 such miraculous secrets to Mother Parvati which if understood can change your life.
Shiva said, Shiva is neither light nor darkness. It is both void and matter. He is the entire universe. He is the source of power. He is a part of Shakti and is also Shakti himself. According to Shiv Purana, the combination of Shiva-Shakti is God. According to Shiv Purana, Parvati is the incarnation of Mother Sati. Parvati, daughter of King Himavat and Queen Maina, was a devotee of Shiva since childhood. On the birth of Parvati, Narada Muni had predicted that she would marry Lord Shiva only. As she grew up, Parvati’s devotion towards Shiva continued to increase. After many years of penance and overcoming many obstacles, Shiva and Parvati got married.
Once Mother Parvati asked Lord Shiva what is the greatest quality of a human being? What is the biggest sin that humans commit? Lord Shiva answered this. Earning respect in the world and always speaking the truth is the greatest virtue. Lord Shiva told Mother Parvati that the biggest sin in this world is dishonesty and cheating. Cheating is the biggest sin in this world that humans commit. Man should always remain honest in his life. Lord Shiva told Mother Parvati that man should keep evaluating himself along with working hard. Man should always keep an eye on his own actions and behaviour. No one should indulge in actions that are morally wrong. Never do these three things. Lord Shiva told Mother Parvati that no one should commit sins through speech, deeds and thoughts. . That is, one should not commit sinful acts and there should be no impurity in thoughts and speech. Man reaps what he sows. Therefore, everyone should be especially cautious about their actions in life. A mantra for success-
Attachment is the root of all problems. Attachment and illusion create obstacles in the path of success. When you are free from all kinds of illusions of the world, then nothing can stop you from achieving success in your life. But what is the solution to avoid this temptation? Lord Shiva also told this to Mother Parvati. The only way to escape from all kinds of illusion traps is to understand the transience of the human body and mold your mind accordingly. Lord Shiva told Mother Parvati that mirages are the solution to all the troubles. There is only one solution. Instead of running after one thing after another, human beings should concentrate on meditation. To free oneself from the cycle of karma and the bondage of the body, one should keep practicing meditation.
Lord Shiva was a great yogi and he was always engrossed in samadhi and meditation, but it was due to the penance and love of Mother Parvati that a yogi like Shiva became a householder. It is important for a householder to be a Yogi, only then he can lead a successful married life. There are many people who, after marriage, reach a certain stage of life and become recluses and leave their wives behind. But Lord Shiva was already a yogi, a monk and a recluse. It was due to the penance of Mother Parvati that Yogi became a householder. Lord Shankar had presented this biggest example. From the worldly point of view, Shiva-Parvati and Shiva family are the ideal of household life. By setting an excellent example of love, dedication and closeness in the relationship between husband and wife, he made his children an ideal and led a complete family life and its responsibilities.
When Lord Shiva attained Brahmajna, he also told his wife Mother Parvati the art of attaining this knowledge. In the cave of Amarnath, he had given immortal knowledge to Mother Parvati so that Mother Parvati could also be freed from the cycle of birth and death and remain his better half forever. Lord Shiva and Parvati never made anyone other than each other their life partner. Shiva’s first wife Sati was born as Parvati in the next life and she is called Uma, Urmi, Kali. Be it the creation and operation of the universe or driving the family car, it is necessary for man and nature to contribute equally.