What to do when someone hurts you?

Many times such a situation arises in life when we have to tolerate insult from someone. Many times, due to the mistakes made by oneself, one has to be insulted without any reason. However, a person tolerates insult for his mistakes, but sometimes it becomes difficult to bear if he has to be insulted in front of everyone without any mistake. In such a situation, many people immediately start responding to their insult in the same language. If there are, many people tolerate it silently. However, there are many people who do not understand what to do in this situation.

If someone’s words have hurt your heart, then have a frank conversation with the other person. Have a short discussion about what he said and how you took his words. If you have misinterpreted what the other person said, clarify that too. When someone insults you, you should not respond in his own language, because his job is to provoke you. Therefore, it is good that you remain silent in such a situation and smile a little while looking at him and do not say anything to him, because if you say anything, he will get even more angry and he will start feeling humiliated.

don’t worry about what others say
You think that you are complete in yourself. Stop worrying about what others think about you. Once you leave this worry, you will no longer care who said what wrong about you.

Never think that any of your relations can never hurt you. This can never happen. If someone hurts you and you keep waiting in the hope that the other person will come and apologize to you, then you are taking your own happiness away from yourself. In today’s times, there is sadness in every relationship. Any relationship can make our mind sad. Now we have to decide whether we should sit with our sorrow or understand the value of relationships. If someone has ever hurt you, then go to him and ask for an answer to his words directly. Instead of going around telling people that this person hurt me, go straight to the person and ask why you did this. Never hide your pain. Many people are like this, they keep burning inside. But doing so is absolutely wrong for your health. Whenever you feel sad about something, you start thinking of punishing the person in front of you. You understand that I am very intelligent and powerful, I will stop by punishing him. It is foolish of you to think like this. Because if you were intelligent and powerful, you would not mind anyone’s words. And the person in front doesn’t even have the courage to hurt you. Whenever you mention your sorrow to anyone, do not lie. And if you want to talk to someone about your sorrow, then never expect that the person in front of you will behave well with you.

And when someone has hurt you, then meet him face to face and solve your problem. It is not that you have to mention many past things at once. By doing this your real point will remain incomplete. Talk to the other person directly to the point. It is not that you go on blabbering. Put weight in your words. And never express your feelings in a dramatic manner. Never forgive someone who has hurt you without expressing your feelings. Because once you forgive thinking that let it go, then the courage of the other person will increase further. Then he will talk about hurting you. If your relationship with some person is normal then you can leave that person. But sometimes even our known relatives hurt us with their words. In such a situation, forgive them but maintain some decorum in your relationship with them. So that he doesn’t try to hurt you again.

Our life is made to do many things. We cannot waste it by worrying about others. We have our own desires and our own dreams. Let us not stress ourselves over all these small things. Always be positive in yourself. Spend more time with people who give you happiness. Patience, perseverance, patience, adopt this mantra in your life. Always be patient and patient in times of crisis and sorrow. Admittedly, it is not easy to be patient in times of crisis or when facing sorrow. There comes a time in everyone’s life when they find themselves alone in the crowd of this world and they do not feel good at all. In such a situation, bad thoughts come to his mind and he starts getting worried. Often people become victims of depression in such situations and start thinking about taking some steps which can put them in bigger trouble. Some people even start thinking wrong thoughts like suicide. But such thoughts are not going to make any difference to anyone. People in the family will also miss you for a few days and after that they will get busy in their daily lives. The simple solution is to calm your mind. Stay strong from within.


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