One should not ask from God and if one has to ask, one should know how to ask. We should consider God as God. He knows what is in our hearts. We should pray only those prayers which are true and come from the heart. To achieve any goal in life, trust God that your hard work will not go waste. By the grace of God you will achieve everything that you desire and want to achieve. In the Bhagavad Gita, Lord Krishna explains to us that our value does not come from any external thing, reason or condition. We are precious to God just as we are. Therefore, we too should not value ourselves on the basis of any external object, situation or person. Think, how many times we concentrate our entire mind on a promotion at a job or on a relationship. Our desire becomes so strong that we start feeling that only when we get that thing, we will be successful. In this way, there is no difference between us and our desires or our goals. Lord Shri Krishna explains to us that this is wrong, because it is inevitable that many desires and goals come in the mind of a human being. But there is no human being whose all desires are fulfilled. Remember, even Lord Krishna could not fulfill all his desires in human life. He too had to leave Gokul and Yashoda Maiya and go to Mathura. If he does not differentiate between his desire and his existence in this spontaneous act, then he would not be able to take important decisions of life. The same thing applies equally to us humans. If the desire is not fulfilled or the goal is not achieved, it does not mean that we are unsuccessful or that we do not have the ability.

It just means that what we want may not be right for us at this time. When we lower our mind for any external thing and feel sad on not getting it, then we should understand that by doing so we are insulting God in a way, because we believe that getting that thing or achievement will We are valued. This idea itself is wrong, because God has created us all and whatever way He has created us, He must have created us after thinking something. Whatever we do has His will in it and by doing it well and with all our heart, we are fulfilling His thought. Always believe that if the wish is fulfilled then it is good and if it is not fulfilled then it is good. Also good, because there is God’s play in it somewhere. Therefore, we should not be sad leaving everything at the dignity of God’s play. He will never wish bad for you. This does not mean that you are not ambitious or do not wish to move forward in life. Not at all like that. What God has said means that we must make whatever efforts we can to move forward. But we should not blame ourselves when the results of our efforts do not turn out as we want. Whatever result comes, it is influenced by different people and circumstances. We have no control over them.

If we talk about relationships, the person we love does not necessarily have the same feelings for us. What can you do in this thing? Therefore, do whatever feels right to you and have the firm belief that whatever happens, will be for the good. There is no other way, when God himself is with you. Say to God, O Lord, I ask that my desire to ask should end. O Lord, give me trouble again and again so that I remember you. O Lord, I would like ten thousand Give me your ear so that I can enjoy your sacred praises as much as possible. Often people pray to God, O God, please give me wealth or happiness or I may have a child etc. I think God will fulfill our wish or He would be laughing at this demand, saying that even after giving the best thing in the world i.e. brain and hands, feet, body, resources etc. to do things, man still did not leave his habit of inaction. It is said that whatever we ask for after going to God’s temple gets fulfilled, then why is this demand not fulfilled. By creating man, God has not made him a toy but has given a mind which if used properly, man can do many great things, can find satisfaction and can achieve everything which is available to many people. But many people do not work honestly or even if they do, they keep doing something wrong knowingly or unknowingly. There is nothing impossible if you work with discretion, keep gaining proficiency in your hobby or work, and keep working honestly. In my opinion, I should ask this from God: O Lord, if I am on the right path, if my mind starts wandering, then I should have my companions with me to help me walk on the right path. If I start lacking patience, please give me the strength to be patient. If all this is possible, then believe me, your life will be a good life and if the spirit of charity is also attached to it, then it will be blessed.

I believe that living life is very simple. Difficulty is caused by our inaction, crookedness or doing work without thinking and understanding. Therefore, first of all learn to be simple and learn to have kindness in your heart. Keep improving yourself continuously and learn to live life normally in every situation. Even if there is any problem, then learn to live comfortably in that situation because even in that situation you cannot achieve anything by being sad or crying. But by living with simplicity and normality, we can definitely find God.