In today’s times people say that it is very difficult to be happy. But if we do not think too much about this thing then it is very easy to be happy. Every person has some characteristics. Make your characteristics the beauty of your mind. Only some of our characteristics can give us strong beauty in our mind. Concentration fills the mind with energy. The coconut tree is taller than other trees because the coconut tree is more concentrated. It keeps moving in one direction, whereas other trees are ready to spread in any direction. Wherever they get an opportunity, they start moving there, whereas the coconut tree does not let its concentration get disturbed. Humility is the characteristic that enhances the beauty of the mind and protects us from ego. The poison of ego poisons the mind as well as the body.

There was a king He made a big beautiful garden. In it he planted the trees of truth, love, honesty and truthfulness, devotion, knowledge etc. The king himself took care of these plants. Would give them fertilizer and water. The plants started growing. Flowers bloomed on them. Those flowers had such a fragrance that the entire city and state were filled with fragrance. The king started being praised everywhere. He started cheering. Due to this the king started feeling arrogant. Within a few days, the king saw that a small plant had grown on its own. What could be the value of that plant among the big plants? The king did not pay attention to that. When that plant started growing rapidly, the king did not try to uproot it, thought, there is no problem. Let it lie there. A few days passed and it took the form of a tree. Flowers bloomed on it. The flowers were so beautiful that whoever saw them would keep looking at them, but they had such a terrible smell that it was difficult for people to tolerate. They would hold their nose. The king was surprised as to which tree is this whose flowers are so beautiful but whose smell is so unbearable. He asked many people, but no one could tell. One day a sage came to the king’s house. The king showed him that tree and asked what kind of tree was it? The sage looked at it, then laughed and said, ‘King, this is the poisonous tree of ego.’ There is no need to apply it. It sprouts on its own and grows rapidly. Its flowers are very attractive, but their smell is so strong that it makes other flowers mix with the soil. Whatever does not survive, its condition is similar to that of your garden. Ego is a small worm that eats even the biggest creatures.

Man keeps wandering here and there to find happiness, whereas happiness lies within him. To be happy, it is important that we remove dull colors from our life and fill it with bright colors. Success and failure are part of our life. Therefore, a person should neither be too proud when he gets success nor should he be disappointed when he gets failure. In both the situations man should remain normal. To be happy, it is most important that we should remove negative thoughts and keep positive thoughts with us. Positive thoughts give us energy and with this we can deal with our problems. When we don’t have problems we will always be happy. There is no direct relationship between our happiness and our achievements. That means it doesn’t matter what or where you are. Only through our thinking can we feel happiness. If the thinking is negative, then even a king living in the splendor of a palace will consider himself unhappy, whereas with positive thinking, even a laborer living in a hut will consider himself no less than a king. By making a little change in your behavior you can achieve many happiness.

There was a close friendship between a gardener and a goldsmith. The gardener used to work hard day and night to grow fragrant flowers in his garden and produce different types of fragrances. Was proud of his garden. It is human nature that we desire to show our venture to our relatives and friends and earn their praise and get happiness by satisfying our ego. So the gardener asked his friend the goldsmith, do you keep knocking while sitting in your shop? Come to my garden one day. If you experience different types of fragrances, your health will improve. everyone has their own qualities
The goldsmith said, “My friend, I will definitely come.” One day he reached the garden. He had a gold measuring stick in his hand. He would look at each flower carefully and then turn towards another plant with a frown. The goldsmith did not enjoy the garden. The gardener also did not like it. He wondered which madman I had invited. After this the goldsmith invited the gardener to come to his shop. The gardener accepted the feast. He reached his friend’s goldsmith’s shop. He would pick up each piece of jewelery and smell it and then put it away in disappointment. Probably he was searching for fragrance in gold also. He too was as disappointed as the goldsmith was in the garden.So try to be happy with whatever you have

Most people, despite knowing this, remain unaware of it. Our happiness is directly related to satisfaction and contentment and it is our inner attitude that makes us feel the true feeling of happiness. Some people keep thinking that if they get a particular thing, their life will be filled with happiness, but even when they get that thing, they are not happy.
In fact, such a person can never be happy, who is not satisfied with his present and always searches for his happiness in the future. At present they wish for one, in the future they wish for two-four. That’s why they are never able to feel happy. Who does not want progress or success, but only that person remains happy in his life, who is proud of his small successes. A person who finds his present success smaller than the success he has achieved in the past and wishes for greater success in the future. He is never satisfied with his work. Therefore he is always deprived of happiness.