When a human being is born in this world, he is said to be ignorant i.e. one who has no worldly knowledge, gradually his childhood is spent looking at the worldly scenario, and now in his mind the feeling of own-stranger, yours-mine also develops. It starts sprouting, there is no one else to create it but you and I.
Now in such a situation, the question arises that, in reality, in the world in which we are born, according to the relationships, there are many other relationships apart from blood relations, parents, brothers-sisters, uncles-aunts, etc., which cannot be denied. It is possible, but a question definitely arises that who is ours in this world? This world is changeable. No one belongs to anyone else in this world. You were, are and will always be alone in yourself. Relationships in the world keep changing and deteriorating. While living in this world, coincidences keep happening and also keep getting worse. When the coincidence happened, you were still there and when the separation happened, you were still yourself, there was no change in that. You remained there right there. Your existence is not subject to the forming or ending of a relationship with anyone. Coincidences and separations are just worldly phenomena. While living in this world, relationships with people are definitely formed, but it is beyond doubt that in reality you were alone and will always remain alone.

Human family relations, which are called very close and blood relations, which are considered very important and strong from the worldly point of view, these relations are also not permanent. This truth can be revealed only when the closest loved one whom a person loves very much, whom his tongue never gets tired of calling his own, departs from this world. Then the human mind gets a strong shock and the truth becomes clear that no one belongs to anyone else in this world. Everyone is just a passenger traveling on the road. Only then does he wake up from sleep. The hidden truth becomes fully revealed. He stops and starts thinking that hey, I had thought that we would never break our relationship with the one who has departed from this world, it was only my false illusion. People change, society changes, the world changes, man’s time and age also change, but in reality you remain yourself. You are the embodiment of complete truth. This form of yours will never change. When you experience this truth deeply, you do not feel sad at any kind of separation.

Sometimes the mind is sad and it seems that we are standing in a desolate deep valley and big mountains of troubles are falling from all sides, and in that solitude we feel darkness all around, we feel that whether our world is If there is someone in me and then who is ours? First of all we think of the Mother who brought us into this material world and then we think of that power which has innumerable names and we have never even seen her with our eyes, yet we think of her. Comes. Parents are also a human form of God. But when we talk about human relationships, we think of those friends who have ever helped us without any selfishness. If we think about this very terrible Kaliyuga, then worldly relationships.
Those whom we consider our own, we support only to some extent. As long as we are living a life full of material pleasures, the world seems ours because everyone meets us with so much love or at least makes a pretense of friendship. We start understanding that look how many friends I have, how many loving relationships I have, how many loving and respectful people I have. Many times our close relatives and close friends, whom we considered “ours”, turn a blind eye when some crisis occurs. Adversity is going to come at every turn in every life. But who are those people who will always support us? After experience, we come to know that those whom we considered our own, showed their affinity not to us but because of our property or their personal interest. It is not that there are only such people in the world, many times, with whom we do not have any family relation and whom we do not even like or even revile at times, those “knowers from a distance” prove to be our well-wishers in times of sorrow. And many times, unknown strangers whom we have never met are ready to do everything for us while our own relatives make excuses and shy away from it. The one who does not support us in changing circumstances, when we are moneyless, who face hindrances in business and leaves us alone, cannot be our own. Those who do not stay together when circumstances change cannot be ours.

We should not forget that we were born for work, that is why we work day and night for our loved ones and serve others. There is no selfishness behind service. Where there is selfishness, it is not service but pretense which some people probably do for their work. Many times, people get trapped in the illusion of their own people and commit lies, deceit, dishonesty and even a little fraud, which sometimes makes them sad when they come to their senses. Those who are detached, who understand this changing world like the clouds and the weather, do not find it difficult to be free while leaving the world, but most of the people feel the separation from their relatives, relationships and those whom we ‘consider’ as our relatives or friends. I feel sad.
But the truth is that when the body is left, all the relationships automatically get severed. We remember the parents of this birth because they blessed us by giving us birth in this world. But in every birth, the parents will be someone else, who will be related to some of our previous births. Hence, all these worldly relations are based only on our beliefs.

Be it day, night, waking or sleeping mind, the one entity that always remains with us is ourselves and this form of self is also called the living soul. Whatever be the calamity, trouble or time of crisis, our spiritual power will always support us. This is our best, unbreakable and forever friend, so you should selflessly spend some time with this best friend of yours.

99% of the inhabitants of this world are not in touch with their soul. And this best friend is directly related to the divine powers who are our well-wishers and protectors. There is no such security, affection and love anywhere in this world as these powers have and who understand the purpose of our coming into this world.
Our soul and its conscience are not unaware of this unbreakable relationship. He knows the false relationships of our foolish beliefs which we remain attached to like a machine. And he also feels a little sad that how we forget him and get involved in the world. But during sleep, our relationship gets reconnected but we do not remember the messages sent by it, and forget everything as soon as we wake up. God has made everything in this world changeable. What is there today will not be there tomorrow and what is there tomorrow will not be there the day after tomorrow, therefore we should know and recognize the truth in the form of God and remember Him because it is He who creates, sustains and destroys us.