How to recognize a person who is self-obsessed?

One disease that seems to be spreading everywhere today is narcissism. This disease prevalent in different sections of the society is seen somewhere in the form of talents and somewhere in the form of war. This disease not only overwhelms the person who contracts it, it also causes great harm to other people on many levels. Simply put, it is a disease of thinking too highly of oneself and having little or no respect for others. There is a trend of. A narcissistic person is selfish, vain, and attention-seeking. But there is a limit. Just because you have certain symptoms doesn’t mean you are mentally unwell. Experts say this is when those traits start to damage your relationships. And distort your sense of self. Right from childhood, we teach our children to have confidence in themselves. But gradually it is not known when this confidence turns into narcissism. Excessive narcissism can turn into a mental illness called narcissistic personality disorder. Your life revolves around your need for approval. You don’t understand or care about other people’s feelings. You are convinced that you are special, and you need other people to accept this too.

If you are a victim of these habits, evaluate yourself from time to time. Keep an equal eye on your shortcomings and weaknesses. Make your true friends. The way to avoid frustration and overconfidence is to engage yourself in creative work. Always remain comfortable and balanced. Celebrate success but don’t let success go to your head. Never compare yourself with anyone. Remember that you are the only person of your kind but others have their own qualities. Start praising the good things in others so that your mind understands the meaning of generosity. Whenever jealousy rears its head, control yourself and start thinking about some other topic.

A narcissistic person’s inflated self-image often hides the fear that someone might let them down. Narcissistic people may lash out when someone hurts their ego or insults them. They belittle, humiliate and intimidate. Several studies have linked narcissism to higher levels of aggression and violence. They usually never have any empathy. They see you as an obstacle in their way to getting what they want. Sometimes, they don’t mean to be insensitive. They are simply unaware of how they affect you.

No one can ever be happy in love with a narcissist. You may not realize anything at first. Narcissists are often attractive and popular. But over time, they can become cold, manipulative, and cruel. And they are often unfaithful, always looking for a more impressive or better-looking partner. They make a good first impression and perform excellently in job interviews. But they may be lousy employees. Narcissists overestimate their own skills and underestimate your skills. They will do anything to impress. They will intrude on private conversations, offer unsolicited advice and shamelessly steal ideas. They are also rated worse by the employees they manage, except by those who are themselves narcissistic. Typical narcissists are often excellent speakers and visionaries. Maybe that’s why they earn higher salaries in the corporate world. It is said that learn to love yourself, it fills your life with excitement and enthusiasm. But this love should not increase to such an extent that you keep enjoying yourself. Keep taking advantage of yourself and keep wasting your life on yourself and by getting infatuated with yourself, you end up causing harm to yourself. Yes, after coming to this level it becomes very important for you to know whether this is self-love or not. Narcissism. Self-love means loving yourself is a great thing which makes you a strong and secure person. It helps you appreciate yourself and become your own best friend. When you love yourself, you don’t need anyone else to love you. So there is nothing wrong in loving yourself and being loved, but the problem arises when sometimes people get confused between this self-love and narcissism. Loving oneself to the extent of obsession is narcissism. .

Narcissism turns a person into an insecure, shallow and shallow personality. It leaves no stone unturned in making you selfish and worthless as a person. In narcissism, the feeling of being extremely important and valuing oneself is very strong. In this you start taking too much interest in yourself. This makes you jealous and also makes you feel insecure from others. You are not happy when others succeed and keep trying to humiliate others in any way. You always feel the need to be better than others. In a way, this becomes your insatiable thirst. For this, even if you have to manipulate, even if you have to walk on the wrong path. You don’t mind that either. You always crave for praise and compliments. Without these, you feel incomplete and worthless and are always looking to prove it. You always feel the need to keep things under control. You always desire to be the center of everyone’s attention and are ready to do anything for this.

This reaction is increasing very rapidly in children in the last few years. Let me tell you some interesting stories, which will help you know who is affected by this disease. What should I do if someone says I am very beautiful? So you understand that she is a victim of that disease. If a person thinks that there is no employee like me in this office, then that person is also a victim of this disease. If one of your lovers tries to show you excessive love, then be careful whether he is a victim of this disease. If any of your friends or relatives start blaming you for something, then understand that they have been captured by this disease. Because a person understands anything in one go. If a person says that God has entered into him. So that person is very ill. Stay away from such people in life. Such people can threaten you anytime.


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