Wherever you look in today’s world, everyone is competing to prove themselves the best. The one who is left behind in this race suffers from frustration. To increase your value in the society, do good deeds like helping someone. Do work related to social service. Cooperate with the people around you. Participate in social programs and when you get a chance to talk, express your views. Live in harmony with people and do not hold grudges against anyone. Do whatever possible to help people in solving their problems. In this way you can create a new identity in the society. To increase your self-esteem, you have to first appreciate yourself. Because unless you understand your own importance, how can you expect from others. Therefore, understand yourself and learn to value yourself.

If you want to create a good image among people, then first of all you have to pay attention to your lifestyle. If you wear clean and good clothes, then the person in front will like you, due to which he will also be attracted towards you and if someone starts getting attracted towards you, then understand that your respect has started increasing. Because people first look at your outfit and then talk to you. If you have a habit of doing evil then end it. You know that doing evil is a bad thing. But you may not know what effect this has on your image. By doing evil your value starts decreasing. This shows what your thinking is and gradually people start understanding that there is no point in giving you much respect. Therefore, avoid doing evil. Thinking too much is not only dangerous for you, but it is also dangerous for your values. If you think too much then you will not be able to focus on the right thing. You will not be able to concentrate even on your work. Due to which your image among the people will reduce and you will not be able to make a place among the people. So don’t think too much.

Speak less and increase your self-esteem, because if you speak more, people will listen to you less. Will try to run away from you. Therefore, speak less and accurately so that people will listen to you and will be eager to hear it again. Sometimes speaking no can also be beneficial for you, because when someone says anything to you, then you act accordingly by saying yes or yes. If yes, then he does not give you the same importance as you give to him. With this they just get their work done through you. Therefore, it is important to say no when necessary. So that your image also remains intact. Leaving aside your work, you give value to the work of others. If someone calls you while doing your work, then you leave your work and join his work. Then people understand that it is always free. This reduces your self-esteem. Learn to be useful to your friends and relatives. Staying close to your friends in your free time and not being there when needed, reduces your self-esteem. Always update yourself. Keep it. If you talk on any topic with little knowledge, then your words are not valuable among the people.

If you are angry all the time and put others down, no one will give you any importance. No one remembers you, no one asks, then why are you wasting your time for others. Help yourself. Make yourself so capable that every difficulty in front of you seems small. Invest your time in some good work. In today’s time, if you stay with anyone, then keep in mind your own benefits. You should not have so much time that you waste it in unnecessary wandering. Give a turning point to your life, do something different, it is not necessary that you do the same job that you do to earn money, become your own boss, help people Make them think that they also want to be like you.

If you also have this question in your mind that people don’t love me because I don’t look beautiful. My complexion is dark, my height is short, my nose is big, I always underestimate myself with such things or all the time.Criticizing shows that you don’t love yourself. By criticizing like this, you are not only exposing your shortcomings, but also
They are weakening morale and promoting negativity in their thinking. Even experts agree The reason is that when we criticize ourselves or think negatively all the time, our body releases stress hormones and you become more stressed. But loving yourself does not mean that you become selfish.

If you want people to be attracted towards you or understand your existence, then first learn to love yourself. When the love you are giving to your family is not received in return, it is natural to feel sad. But if you are ignoring yourself then others will definitely do the same. Keep yourself happy. Beating the mind and doing things for others all the time leads to an inferiority complex. Only when you are happy will you be able to fill the color of happiness in every relationship.

Trust in yourself is also very important. Trusting yourself means increasing your self-confidence. If you have confidence then mistakes will also be less. Even if a mistake occurs, be patient and learn from those mistakes and try to do better next time. It is only through self-confidence that an ant moves towards its destination carrying ten times its weight. People who know how to love themselves stay away from physical and mental diseases. This is possible because they are able to concentrate more on their work with better health. This body is yours. It is also your responsibility to take care of it. Eating timely, correct and balanced food is as important for your family members as it is for you too. Eat leftovers, eat when you get time, while doing this with yourself, you should think that your body is not a dustbin in which anything can be put.

By keeping all these things in mind, you can increase your self-esteem. By not paying attention to what people say and giving priority to your work, you will develop self-confidence. Which will be reflected in your eyes. Then one day you will become what you want to become in the eyes of people.