If someone constantly criticizes you or gives rude answers to your small things. Makes fun of your failure. Gets into trouble with you. Someone else gossips about you. Many times it may happen that you want to give a befitting reply to such people, but are unable to say anything. Many times you might remember his words after two days and think of a strong answer.
But by then it is too late. Only being able to give a suitable reply to anyone’s words at the right time can give you solace. As soon as you are surprised by someone’s words, it is important that you can respond to it immediately.

Experts say that in order to give a befitting reply to someone’s absurd statement or crude joke, it is important that you first listen to him/her carefully. One thing is that a befitting reply cannot be given by planning. That should come to your mind only then. For this, it is important that when someone speaks, you first listen to him carefully. People think faster than others speak. This gives the listener time to think about his response to what the other person is saying.
The moment the speaker thinks that the other person is listening to him, that is exactly when he is thinking of a reply in his mind. You should understand this thing like this. How many times do you start thinking of giving an idea while listening to others in a conference call? You become desperate to answer some questions, so much so that the other person doesn’t finish talking and you start speaking. The same habit also applies when you are listening to someone’s nonsense or ridiculous jokes.

Now the question is, how to use the time you have while listening to someone properly so that you can give a befitting reply to the person in front of you. We are often eager to respond without fully listening to others and lose the opportunity to give an accurate answer. The best way to give a befitting reply to someone is to listen carefully. One way could be to play a one-word volleyball game. In which two people try to weave a story by adding words one by one. In this game, players are forced to listen carefully to their partner. Only then will they be able to speak the right words quickly.
The purpose of this game is that we keep our ego aside and listen carefully to the other person and give him importance. Because listening carefully to anyone means that you are ready to change your opinion.

As far as sarcastic things are concerned, if one of your friends keeps doing such things, then make it a habit to listen carefully to what he says. Only if you listen to him carefully, you will be able to give him a befitting reply. By developing the habit of listening, you take control of the entire conversation. If someone makes fun of you by saying that you did a great job. So, you can give him a stinging reply by saying that I rarely get praise for such work. If someone asks, is that all you can do? So in response you can say, perhaps I have this much capability. Now you yourself suggest a better way to do it. Another way is to increase the emotion of the other person during the conversation. If someone repeatedly finds fault in your work, then you can increase his/her feelings by saying that can you give any better advice, can you suggest any new method?

With your help this work can be done in a better way. A lot will depend on the tone in which you say this. A sarcastic tone will completely change the meaning of your words. If you want to defeat someone knowledgeable about these matters, soften your tone. You will win half the game just like this. When banter or joking in the office turns into absurdity, the atmosphere gets spoiled. Due to this people’s relationships also get spoiled. Finding fault in someone’s work affects the work. It also affects the performance of the person whose work is repeatedly faulted. You can change the office environment by keeping conversations positive. This will improve your image among your colleagues, your juniors and your boss. With this, the bad intentions of the person who makes fun of people will also be revealed to the people.

Well, presence of mind has only one purpose, to make the atmosphere light-hearted. You say things in such a way that people smile or laugh. Then the matter ends automatically. Making others laugh is the sign of your victory. Last but not least, the people who make fun of you are the ones who are deeply wounded from within. They need love. Maybe they don’t get respect at home. Perhaps her husband and children despise her. Perhaps his family relations are bad. It is also possible that he had a very bad childhood. Due to all these actions, a layer of jealousy forms on their intellect and thoughts. He keeps thinking of taking revenge from others every moment. Where their revenge is to be taken, their force does not work. So they attack the straight person in front of them. Don’t let such people know at all. After speaking two-four times he will be fine on his own. Your reaction of ignoring them will make them feel as if it doesn’t matter to them. The more unhappy you are, the more he will think that his words are affecting you. He will try to make you even more unhappy. So always be happy with yourself and stay healthy.