How much should you be attached to your loved ones?

Some people are so important in our life that we talk about breaking even the moon and stars for them. Being blinded by the love of our loved ones, we ignore their evils. If someone says even a word to our loved ones, then we get ready to fight and die. To this extent, those who are attached to their own people keep on falling into the pit of injustice. By loving our children too much, we make ourselves so weak, when the children do not respect us when they grow up, then a mountain of sorrows breaks down on us. We need everything to have a limit. While raising children, we should not forget our future.

People who are very attached to children paralyze them. Those parents do not allow the confidence of the children to increase. They keep covering all their mistakes. Such children grow up to become criminals. Do not ignore even the smallest mistake of children. It is necessary to inform them about every mistake. Due to excessive attachment, we want to give every happiness of the world to our children, but it does not mean that you make them unworthy. Teach your children to be kind to others so that they can never do any wrong thing in life.

A man lived in a small hut with his wife and a son. There were fruit trees in front of his hut, where a nightingale used to come everyday. Nightingale used to sing very sweetly. One day that person saw that a nightingale had made a nest on the tree, in which her small children lived. The man used to watch the nightingale everyday with his son in his arms. After a few days, Nightingale’s children started growing up a bit, Nightingale taught its children to pluck grains, and taught them to fly. Seeing this, the man’s child started insisting on taking the nightingale’s child one day. He started crying loudly and said that I want the same nightingale’s child. The man loved his son beyond measure. He cleverly caught a baby nightingale and gave it to his son. That man’s son broke and twisted Nightingale’s child like a toy, Nightingale’s child was very small, it died. When the nightingale’s child was not doing any movements, the man’s child picked it up and threw it.

The man was watching all this action of his son, still he did not refuse him just out of fascination. Nightingale was very sad to see her children dying. But none of his buses were running in front of the man. After a few days, the rest of Nightingale’s children grew up and flew away. One day the man went to the market from work. Meanwhile, it rained heavily, the clouds in the sky burst, and the man’s hut was washed away. When the man returned, he was surprised to see that his wife and children were not known to anyone. The whole village was submerged in the flood. The man went away from the village and sat under a mango tree. He was very hungry but he had nothing to eat. Just then he saw the same nightingale plucking mangoes from the top of the tree with her beak. The man ate mangoes to his fill. Just then the children of the nightingale came. They had brought grains of rice in their beak, which they dropped in front of the man.

Seeing the children, the nightingale also came down. Now the nightingale started singing again. Seeing these actions of all of them, the man started crying loudly. The man was thinking that I took the life of his child for my son. How selfish of me and how kind of a bird it is. I have never taught my children that other people’s lives are as important as yours. But this bird has taught so much knowledge to its children. We nurture our children so that they will grow up to take care of us. Because of this selfishness, we keep on fulfilling every wish of his mind. But this bird left her children to struggle in the world. The lesson of humanity which I could not teach to my children, this dumb bird taught to its children.

Attachment creates inertia, which destroys our intelligence. We always have the fear that what will happen to our family if we are no more. But nothing like this happens, people will remember us for a few days. Then he will get involved in his routine. The happiness and facilities that you had given to them, now they will try themselves to get them. The one who used to keep both his hands tied while you were there. Life doesn’t stop for anyone. That’s why your intelligence should not be destroyed by attachment.


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