When someone loves someone, he spends the whole universe on him. He hands over all his day’s peace and night’s sleep to that person. No matter how important a work may be, nothing is important because of it. He is not worried about his future. He lives only in the present. In such a situation, if a person cheats someone, then he does not live anywhere.
As long as you keep thinking about the person who betrayed you, it won’t matter. When you beg in front of him to ask for love, then you will have no value in his eyes. The one who values your love will never cheat you and the one who cheated doesn’t love you at all. You may have fallen in love with him but he only had a bond of attraction with you. Often the same people cheat more on whom we trust blindly. The same false love betrays us one day or the other. If someone has true love towards you then he can never cheat you.
If ever you have loved a person who repeatedly humiliated you. Still you were vying for his love. You are bound to be cheated in life. Because that person did not love you from the heart, you gave him so much value. That’s why he was making a false show of love by taking pity on you. You were so madly in love with her that you did not understand this false love. If you had ignored that human being at this time, you would not have been in this condition today. If you tried to forget him, you would probably feel sad for a few days. But there is no such big stumbling block in life. The person who values love also values the love of others.
The one whom a person loves, he settles in the heart and mind. Such a deep layer of love sits in his heart and mind that it becomes difficult to remove it. A person is immersed in his remembrance all the time while sleeping, waking up, laughing and playing. But is it okay to make yourself so vulnerable for the person who betrayed you? The one who has cheated must be making more new plans in his life. And must be playing with someone. Whatever happens happens for the good. It is better not to be with such a deceitful person. As the leaves of the tree fall according to the time, and then when the time comes, the tree becomes green again. Similarly, our life turns many pages. When the right time comes, everything goes back to the way it was. The wound of time does not always remain a wound. The more wisely you take less, the sooner your wound will heal.
Sorrow and happiness are two sides of our life. Those who are more weak, they have a lot of effect on them. The person who is strong with his feelings does not care about big or small sorrows. Everyone has trouble when they have come into this world. Some get scattered in trouble and some get sparkled. It is your own decision whether you have to shine by fighting such trouble, or you have to scatter in life by remembering the one who cheated you.
Love does not mean only between a boy or a girl. Brother’s love, sister’s love, friend’s love, and also love with family members is love. Where love is not true, there can be betrayal in any relationship. And when there is cheating in the relationship, we break ourselves. We must understand that the world does not stop for anyone. If we try to forget someone, we will remember him more. So put your mind somewhere else.
Was a very handsome scholar boy. He fell in love with a girl during college days. He didn’t understand that girl, the girl loved him to fulfill her needs. And when her needs were met, she left the boy. In this condition, the boy was not able to make himself comfortable. He thought what would I do by living in this world now. And he got up very early in the morning and left the house to commit suicide. Reached the bank of a pond, and sitting there started thinking for a while. Only then a saint came to bathe in the pond. When he saw that young boy there, he asked him son, what are you doing here so early in the morning? I come here everyday to take bath, I have never seen you. The boy did not say anything on the words of the saint, he was just looking towards the pond. The saint understood his condition. The saint put his hand on his forehead and asked, son, will you tell me your problem? After getting the love of the saint, the boy started crying loudly and narrated the whole story to the saint. Then the boy said to the saint, let me die because I cannot forget him.
The saint explained to the boy, our mind and mind is our slave. When you had kept him in love with that girl with love, till then he was supporting you with the same love. Now when you will scold them and say that leave me in my condition, I should not remember anyone. So he will definitely listen to you. God has filled us with so much strength that we can heal the wounds of our mind with the ointment of our own thoughts.
Will the mother who gave birth to you ever die, will you go with her? Whose father himself by facing difficulties and fulfilling your every need made you worthy that you can be his support in old age. Will you repay their favor like this? To commit suicide is a coward. With whom will you fight when you destroy yourself? You have to fight the situation and make yourself happy again. It is necessary to keep yourself alive for your family, for your society and for your country. You are not so cheap that you give your life for someone. Your life is priceless. You have a golden future in front of you. Don’t know how many pebbles and stones will come on the rocky path of life, how many times you will get thorn in your feet. So will you sit down with your feet together? When we get hurt by stones once, then only we walk carefully.
That’s why one should slowly try to remove the person who cheats from his thoughts. As many times as you remember that person, use the word cheater for him and calm your mind in your mind.