How strong is loneliness?

Weakness and strength are two sides of a coin for humans. Loneliness does not just mean that we are not surrounded by a crowd of people. Loneliness means behind the millions of questions arising in our mind, our sadness, the disturbance of our mind, the fear hidden inside us. When a person does not consider himself capable, then he feels that he is the only fool in the world. Loneliness is not just physical it is a cause of mental disturbance. Loneliness with mental disturbance makes a man’s mind like a blank paper. In which the victim goes on writing the feelings arising in his mind.

The problem of loneliness happens to a person when he gets too attached to something and that thing goes out of his hands. Or someone plays with our feelings. A person struggling with the problem of loneliness can turn his life in two directions. If he turns his life towards positive direction then he can make himself capable of achieving anything in the world. And if a person’s mind goes towards negativity, then he can also commit an act like suicide. A person struggling with loneliness remains full of strength. At this time, if that person finds someone to show him the right direction, then that person can do a lot.

Being alone, a person can weave the fabric of his future very well. A single person can change the whole world. All you need is courage. Anyway, no one belongs to anyone in this selfish world. We waste our time by falling in the trap of false relationships. When a person is alone then only he is able to take the right decision for something. Victory in life and everything becomes our thinking, the one who accepts that he will lose, he loses, the one who is determined that he will win, he wins. Being alone means you are not alone but with yourself. You can never be alone if you have that powerful mind with you.

Your mind is like a crazy child. You have to keep him under control either by intimidation or by love. Do not always weaken your state of mind by thinking that I have no one in this world. I have no friends, no one talks nice to me, etc. We did not bring all these people with us. We came into this world alone. And God has given us so much strength that we can single-handedly lift the whole world on our heads. Then why do we get disheartened about loneliness every now and then.

There was a sculptor. He used to make idols out of stones. One day he went to find a big stone in the forest to make an idol for the village temple. He saw a very big stone in the forest, he was happy that this stone is perfect for me. There were also many smaller stones lying there. He took out the tools from his bag. And as soon as I hit the stone, a sound came from the stone, I am feeling very pain. Leave me for God’s sake. The stones lying near him also started saying please leave it. Nothing like this had ever happened to him. He left that stone. Then when he started moving forward, he found another similar stone. That stone was all alone. This time again he took out his weapon, as soon as he hit the stone again there was a sound. This time he thought that maybe the same thing happens in this forest. He did not hear any sound from the stone, he continued to do his work. After a few hours he made a beautiful idol. And he brought that idol to the village. The villagers kept that idol in the temple. All the villagers used to worship him a lot. One day a person said that there is no stone in our temple to break coconut. So that sculptor said that I will bring the stone to break the coconut.

The sculptor went back to the forest and brought back the stone he had left behind while making the idol. He brought it and kept it in the temple. Whoever came to the temple used to hit the coconut with a stone. One night the idol stone and the coconut stone were talking to each other. The coconut stone said how lucky you are people worship you. I am so unlucky people break coconuts on my head all day it hurts me so much. After listening to his words, the idol stone spoke. When this sculptor came to pick me up I was in pain too

The work which the world always stops us from doing, you will not be able to do it, if we muster the courage to stay alone, we will definitely be able to do it. We have already heard that on whom the world laughs, he creates history. Don’t consider yourself less than anyone. The tour of loneliness is such a journey for you, by walking in which you can get new information. Even if there are difficulties in your journey, it will increase your courage. If someone blocks your way, then your courage will increase. If you surrender yourself in defeat, then at that time your value will further decrease.

People who live alone have knowledge of every field. Because they have to do every small and big work on their own. They do not care about the things of the world. They harden themselves by bearing the taunts of the world. He is not ashamed of doing any small or big work.


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