If there is happiness and peace in the house, then this house is heaven. If there is a fight in the house, then this house is hell. In today’s era, it has become a very common thing. No house is untouched by this. There are some problems in every house. If there is peace in the house, then the family members become the cause of unrest. So what should we do?
First of all, let us make our mind void. No matter how good and bad someone tells us, we have to be absolutely zero. When we are silent, the person in front will automatically be silent.
A husband, wife and mother-in-law lived in a house. Wife and mother-in-law used to fight all day and fight. One day the wife went to her maternal home after losing. After going there, he told his father, Father, now I will not go back to the in-laws’ house. I have no respect there. My mother-in-law calls me good and bad all the time. Father asked his daughter when she keeps calling you good and bad, what do you do? The daughter said that I also get angry, I also answer them. The father said to the daughter, I will give you such a thing that there will never be a fight between the two of you. But don’t look at it by opening it for 1 year. And from now on your mother-in-law tells you anything, don’t give any answer. Do the same as you used to serve them earlier. The daughter said okay, and the next day the daughter came back to her in-laws’ house. After going to her in-laws’ house, she hid the thing given by her father. She went to her in-laws’ house and started doing all the work as before. Now her mother-in-law would say anything, she does not give any answer. After a few months, the mother-in-law stopped speaking. Now mother-in-law started feeling that how much I abuse it, yet it does not give me any answer. Slowly now mother-in-law’s mind started changing. She fell in love with her daughter-in-law. According to the father’s instructions, after 1 year when the daughter opened the thing given by the father. She saw that there is only a little bit of clay in a paper. She had no idea what her father had given this.she said to his father on the phone, what have you given me, father. Father asked her first tell me how is everything going? The daughter said to her father, father, everything has changed. Now my mother-in-law has started loving me. This magical soil of yours was very useful for me. Then the father said daughter, there is no magic in this. This is just a simple soil. When you stopped answering in front, magic has happened with that thing. The daughter was very surprised to hear this. The daughter thanked her father for how intelligent you are father.
In order to live in the family like this, we need to keep ourselves silent. But keeping silent does not mean that you tolerate injustice. You must have so much conscience as to whose fault it is. When you are very angry, you do not see your mistake. Then you feel that the person in front is wrong. But when your anger subsides and you feel that the fault is yours, then never hesitate to apologize to the person in front. Ego has the biggest role in the rift of relationships. Being ego in the relationship leads to the downfall of the relationship. If the person in front tells you that I have made a mistake, then forgive him. But if this happens again and again, it is not forgiven. In such a situation, both should sit and solve their problem.
Giving too much importance to each other in relationships is sometimes overwhelming. That is why it is said that have a normal attachment with everyone. Sometimes the person in front does not understand your value in having more attachment to each other. In such a situation, you should pay more attention to yourself. If you try to keep yourself happy for a few days, then the person in front will start understanding your value. You will start feeling the lack of happiness given by you.
To improve your home environment, try to improve it if you have any problems. But if you are absolutely right, then never be afraid of the other person. Never let your happiness be. Don’t think what I will do after separating from this house. God has sent man alone in the world. Every person is capable enough to do anything, to live his life.