You are an angel sent by God in this world. You have every right to be happy. If someone wants to hurt you, then face him with great courage. The one who called you bad without any reason, or gossiped about you behind your back, then you should go straight to him and say, why did you say this about me? Don’t be afraid to expose the truth at all. When you fight for yourself, no one will have the courage to say anything to you again. You will tell the person in front of you that these actions of yours do not matter to me, I just wanted to tell your actions to everyone.
Never do to others what you don’t want to be done to you. Always keep your principles strong. So that no one can make false allegations against you. If people are making fun of you, then you also laugh with them. And tell them that it is okay if you laugh because of me. Tell them that you will be better than me, but I will remain as I am. I don’t see any flaw in myself. Due to this action of yours, one day the person in front will definitely get upset. If you learn to speak directly to everyone, people will fear you. Will not try to tamper with your happiness.
People never give respect to those who consider themselves less than others in their own eyes. Whether you have something or not, even a little bit of knowledge, but never consider yourself small. Otherwise people will dominate you. Will play with your mind. Never let this happen. Your happiness means a lot to you. Do not tell your sorrow to everyone. Whoever is your very own, who understands your feelings. Just tell him what’s on your mind. If you tell your sorrow to everyone, then people will not fail to make fun of you.
Keep your joys and sorrows to yourself. Because people will not tolerate your happiness. If any of your dreams are not coming true then change your path. But don’t let your failure affect your mind. When the path is not visible in life, then remember the fog. If you keep taking one step, then the path will be found automatically. Never hurt yourself to be good in the eyes of others. Never expect people to do good to you if you treat them well. If you are useful in their sorrow, they will be useful in your sorrow. Do whatever makes your mind happy. Nature will automatically perfect you.
If you have too much attachment with your family, relatives and friends, you will never be happy. People will depend on you for every little thing. You will remain serving them your whole life. You will never be able to find two moments of peace for yourself. And when their meaning is fulfilled, will they even remember you or not. No one will think for you that you have sacrificed all your happiness for them. That’s why try to keep yourself happy always. Try to do whatever you want.
In today’s time there is no need of human being. People have their own needs. Never be sad thinking that people remember you only in times of need. Because a candle is needed only in darkness. If a tree gives very sweet fruit, then its fruits are awaited in every season. Don’t do bad to anyone from your side. Make yourself like flowing water which can decide its own path. Not like a pond, which becomes small and big according to the wishes of the people. Your happiness should be in your hands. You don’t need any time to reveal it. No other people are needed. Let your happiness be revealed to you in solitude. Learn to celebrate alone with your happiness.
To be happy in life, stop paying attention to small things, things which leave their mark on your mind. The things you remember make you sad. Get them out of your mind. Remove those people who are the cause of disturbance in your life from your mind. Turn your back on everything that is hindering your happiness. Take care of your happiness in any situation.