do you talk too much?

You must have seen family friends around you, relatives, etc., that someone speaks so much, he himself does not even know what he is saying. Often the tongue of the person who talks more slips. Our words are like a trap, if we say anything after raising it, then we ourselves get caught in the web of our words. Similarly, we become multifaceted because of being introverted. Sometimes the words of our spoken word defeat even the big weapons and weapons. To make our point the best, we don’t know how many lies we have to lie. And then go on telling lies one after the other. When our lie is caught, nothing remains in us except being ashamed.

The habit of speaking less is a good in itself. Those who speak less can test everything well. A person who speaks less is more energetic than the person who speaks more. Because he does not spend his energy by not chattering in useless things.

There was a very learned saint. He had many students. A student was very  proudy. He used to try to prove himself better at the time. His behavior was getting worse day by day. That time would try to humiliate his friends. Everyone was upset by his action. One day a child went and told the saint about him. Then the saint said that I too have been watching all this for many days. Soon I will find it in my senses. One day the saint said to all the students, today you will go to all the cities and ask for alms. You guys will form a group of two people. The group who will come by earning more alms will get the higher position of this school.

All the students left for alms. The boy in the group who was talking more was absolutely less talkative and very calm. As told by the saint, everyone had to go alone to beg for alms. The arrogant boy, by whom he would go, would put forward the bowl of begging forward and start talking big things. People would close their door after listening to him. The boy who spoke less would go to the door and quietly put his bowl forward. His eyes kept rolling. Seeing his humility, people would silently give him alms. When the two boys met each other in the evening, the boy who remained silent had more alms. Seeing him, the arrogant boy got burnt. Immediately the devil’s wisdom came to his mind. He directly told the boy that why don’t we unite the begging of our two. The straight boy was absolutely straight, he mixed yes in his yes.

When all the children came to the saint, both of them had the maximum alms. He patted both of them in the saint. Then the saint said that now only one of you will get a high position of this school. So who both of you earned more alms to tell the truth? After listening to the saint, the arrogant boy said, I did. The saints had already understood, then he said that both of them should tell the truth. Then the boy who remained silent said, in fact I had earned more begging but it united both of them. The saint thought that now it is difficult to separate from it. Thoughts came to his mind. He asked the boy who spoke more, what do you see behind the hill? The girl said that the sun is looking very beautiful behind the hill. He is spreading a wonderful shade with his redness. Then asked the boy who spoke less. He did not answer, there were only tears in his eyes. The saint said that beauty does not need any definition. It expressed beauty with its own eyes. Beauty is just something to put in the heart. He doesn’t need a long haul. All the children had understood the words of the saint. The boy who spoke more was now splitting up.

Then the saint explained to him. People who talk more keep only reasoning and reasoning. Most of the people who speak more speak more to impress others. There was no merit in their words. Many people give advice without asking. Whether anyone follows their advice or not. There are many people who do not know anything themselves but definitely give knowledge to others. Slowly everyone keeps distance from such people. There is no person who has knowledge of everything. But a person who shares his knowledge in everything makes himself a point of joke in the eyes of others.

A person who speaks less always listens more to others. He tries to understand more than what others say. People like such a person more who listens to them calmly. Often people keep taking their opinion from such a person. People who speak less explain their point in one or two words. The one who talks more keeps on speaking all the time. That’s why people do not give importance to his words. A person who speaks less is more successful in life. Because he does not waste his time by talking nonsense. A man of few words rarely quarrels with people, so his peace of mind is never disturbed.

A person who speaks less talks more than himself. Can understand your mind more. Can make good plans for yourself. A person who speaks less is self-confident. I can improve my life as well as the lives of others.


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